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Weird situation-- stripper lol
breakdown of rambling above....
1.) I go to a strip club somehow luckbox getting a stripper to like me (w/ out giving her $$)
2.) hang out with her a decent amount (and still plan to see her a lot) but wondering if its okay that we havent got that physical/made out as I think dates 2-3 I got friendzoned and date 4 I made agressive moves
*** I feel as if logistics of not having my own place (w/ out buddies randomly crashing) has prevented the comfort factor of me inviting her over. She also has roomates so I think naturally logistics somewhat have prevented hanging out at home.
any tips appreciated lol
1.) I go to a strip club somehow luckbox getting a stripper to like me (w/ out giving her $$)
2.) hang out with her a decent amount (and still plan to see her a lot) but wondering if its okay that we havent got that physical/made out as I think dates 2-3 I got friendzoned and date 4 I made agressive moves
*** I feel as if logistics of not having my own place (w/ out buddies randomly crashing) has prevented the comfort factor of me inviting her over. She also has roomates so I think naturally logistics somewhat have prevented hanging out at home.
any tips appreciated lol
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My opinion is that your now her girl friend. She was looking for dick the night you met her. You failed to provide that dick. You're now a woman in her eyes.
More serious, you waited too late to make a move. I don't think you can save this.
More serious, you waited too late to make a move. I don't think you can save this.
next time don't let shit get cold
it's not necessarily over though iMO
it's not necessarily over though iMO
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Yes you can absolutely still dick her, though if you're meeting all her friends you might want to continue on that path as well. One girl can bring you 30 girls.
When she said stop doing it it was going to drive her wild and you stopped, you were an idiot. That's the bat signal to go.
When she said stop doing it it was going to drive her wild and you stopped, you were an idiot. That's the bat signal to go.
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How to sext !!
Look at manwhore. The guy is so ugly that I think he's face was on fire and they put out the fire using a baseball bet.
But he has the `energy`.
-rsdn
Get the Manwhore Text Displayer app from Google Play. And learn Text Game I know what you are.
Say it.
Manwhore.
Are you afraid?
No.
You shouldn’t of said that.
I'm the world's best predator, aren't I? Everything about me invites you in - my voice, my face, even my smell. As if I need any of that! As if you could outrun me. As if you could fight me off.
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Honestly this breaks my heart. You had two million chances to fuck her but didn't capitalize. The problem is that you probably haven't slept with a lot of women so you have a certain idea of how an fclose is supposed to look but your conception is probably 100% wrong.
First off, she left the stripclub with you and her co-workers (bouncers) not only saw that but were ok with it. Know what that means? She told them about you. That means she trusts you which is huge. Especially for a stripper. Unless youre one of those old perverts going to a stripclub at 2 pm it was probably pretty late too. And you met at a titty club think how much comfort and attraction the implies on her part. Not only that but you guys decided to go to your unfurnished apt cuz she wanted to see it? Are you shitting me? You think she's never seen an empty room before? After you get off a long days work is your idea of fun visiting the empty room of someone you just met? Dude she wanted to fuck your brains out. Dude shes a stripper she knew what she was doing. While you were worried about a lack of furniture she was wondering why you didnt caveman her to the floor and fucked her from behind like in last tango in Paris.
Even after you didn't close she still went out with you 3 more times. You even met her friends. She likes you but probably thinks you're not interested in her because you didn't make a move. Like manwhore said, putting your hand on her leg and then her saying stop it or she'll get too turned was on your cue to keep going. Honestly right now you've shown zero sexual interest in her. Nothing. She thinks you just want a friend cus you just moved there.
Take charge and make a sexual move on her already. Text her and tell her to wear her sexiest dress cus you're taking her on a crazy sexy adventure. Then chill with her a bit and fuck her. You don't need to be in a bedroom. You don't even need a bed. Do like ludacris and fuck in the library on top of books but you can't be too loud. Fuck her in a Starbucks bathroom. Fuck her in a park. Fuck her on top of a sleeping friend, who cares just fuck her. The only thing you need is a boner
First off, she left the stripclub with you and her co-workers (bouncers) not only saw that but were ok with it. Know what that means? She told them about you. That means she trusts you which is huge. Especially for a stripper. Unless youre one of those old perverts going to a stripclub at 2 pm it was probably pretty late too. And you met at a titty club think how much comfort and attraction the implies on her part. Not only that but you guys decided to go to your unfurnished apt cuz she wanted to see it? Are you shitting me? You think she's never seen an empty room before? After you get off a long days work is your idea of fun visiting the empty room of someone you just met? Dude she wanted to fuck your brains out. Dude shes a stripper she knew what she was doing. While you were worried about a lack of furniture she was wondering why you didnt caveman her to the floor and fucked her from behind like in last tango in Paris.
Even after you didn't close she still went out with you 3 more times. You even met her friends. She likes you but probably thinks you're not interested in her because you didn't make a move. Like manwhore said, putting your hand on her leg and then her saying stop it or she'll get too turned was on your cue to keep going. Honestly right now you've shown zero sexual interest in her. Nothing. She thinks you just want a friend cus you just moved there.
Take charge and make a sexual move on her already. Text her and tell her to wear her sexiest dress cus you're taking her on a crazy sexy adventure. Then chill with her a bit and fuck her. You don't need to be in a bedroom. You don't even need a bed. Do like ludacris and fuck in the library on top of books but you can't be too loud. Fuck her in a Starbucks bathroom. Fuck her in a park. Fuck her on top of a sleeping friend, who cares just fuck her. The only thing you need is a boner
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haha I can so relate to this thread. Up until I found RSD six months ago my belief with sex was that I had to wait for the girl to give me permission to do anything.
I even used to ask girls if it was ok if I touched them!
I totally get where you are coming from OP.
Knowing that girls love sex and that they only have to pretend that they don't to stop men not in the know from having their realities destroyed has literally changed my life.
You can totally get with this girl, you just need to be doing the leading and initiating. Don't wait for permission, just make the moves. You are waiting for her to show signs of attraction when actually leading and showing your intent is what will create the attraction. She is clearly interested in you.
I even used to ask girls if it was ok if I touched them!
I totally get where you are coming from OP.
Knowing that girls love sex and that they only have to pretend that they don't to stop men not in the know from having their realities destroyed has literally changed my life.
You can totally get with this girl, you just need to be doing the leading and initiating. Don't wait for permission, just make the moves. You are waiting for her to show signs of attraction when actually leading and showing your intent is what will create the attraction. She is clearly interested in you.
Thanks all for responses boys.
To those said that I should of fucked her first night --- I tried. My game is pretty good when I am drunk and I basically kept trying to kiss her to the point that she opened my apartment door and was like LETMELEAVE. Despite her resisting I still tried until she literally pried the door open with me in front of it saying STAY. What went wrong that I had her at my place and it didnt go down? Honestly -- logistics of not having a bed/mattress and her probably not wanting to feel like a slut. Why did she come to my place? Because she also talked about needing to find new living arrangements and I will have an open room soon.
Second date --- no alcohol involved oops. Third date --- what can i say I am a bitch. Fourth date --- beast mode but where I am suppose to go ...where I am living is practically a shelter til I kick some of these fools out and her place is some house where she lives with some random family so its def. a no. Getting a hotel is raunchy. Fifth date --- I think I can get this right and invite her back to my place which hopefully no one will reside at. She is comfortable with me, its been a long wait, been teetering on friend zone but I can do this right.
Whats my plan? I am gonna have her cook food for me and then make moves. I agree that I come off looking like a bitch, but logsitics honestly havent worked in my favor but I am going to make you guys proud or at least go out swinging. Maybe something like tennis, have her cook fajitas, make sure no one else is at my crib, and then BOOOM.
To those said that I should of fucked her first night --- I tried. My game is pretty good when I am drunk and I basically kept trying to kiss her to the point that she opened my apartment door and was like LETMELEAVE. Despite her resisting I still tried until she literally pried the door open with me in front of it saying STAY. What went wrong that I had her at my place and it didnt go down? Honestly -- logistics of not having a bed/mattress and her probably not wanting to feel like a slut. Why did she come to my place? Because she also talked about needing to find new living arrangements and I will have an open room soon.
Second date --- no alcohol involved oops. Third date --- what can i say I am a bitch. Fourth date --- beast mode but where I am suppose to go ...where I am living is practically a shelter til I kick some of these fools out and her place is some house where she lives with some random family so its def. a no. Getting a hotel is raunchy. Fifth date --- I think I can get this right and invite her back to my place which hopefully no one will reside at. She is comfortable with me, its been a long wait, been teetering on friend zone but I can do this right.
Whats my plan? I am gonna have her cook food for me and then make moves. I agree that I come off looking like a bitch, but logsitics honestly havent worked in my favor but I am going to make you guys proud or at least go out swinging. Maybe something like tennis, have her cook fajitas, make sure no one else is at my crib, and then BOOOM.
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Dono man, sounds like you messed this up. Seems like you were not man enough to take what you want, she picked up on that and has now put you in a different category (i.e. the not fuckable one).
I've hooked up with a couple of strippers and most of them actually didn't put out on the first date because they didn't want to be that easy, although they clearly indicated right from the start that they wanted to fuck and I teased them about it constantly. She and I both knew that the next time it would happen and it did.
4 dates and still no sex means you messed up somewhere, because she wouldnt see you 4 times if she didnt want it, but you didnt take the chance. Doubt it's still recoverable now, but maybe use her for her friends or whatever. You can still learn from this situation or get something out of it.
I've hooked up with a couple of strippers and most of them actually didn't put out on the first date because they didn't want to be that easy, although they clearly indicated right from the start that they wanted to fuck and I teased them about it constantly. She and I both knew that the next time it would happen and it did.
4 dates and still no sex means you messed up somewhere, because she wouldnt see you 4 times if she didnt want it, but you didnt take the chance. Doubt it's still recoverable now, but maybe use her for her friends or whatever. You can still learn from this situation or get something out of it.
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WHODAT55
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The logistics haven't worked with who/where she is currently living. And same applies to my living arrAngements. She is super attractive so I will continue to meet up with her (currently on vacation) but given the amount of times we have met up the situation is mirky on where we stand with each other. One of my friends said if you enjoy spending time with her then you need to start thinking with my other head and not my dick. Haha o shit kids.