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#31
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Haha, man wish I made it in time to head up to Drai's with you guys. Oh well, glad you have fun in LA, this place is fucking amazing. ;)
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 @Haze - ya dude, it was super awesome! Definitely check that place out...have fun in LA man, it's definitely an amazing place to get good at this!

Monday
Flew in on no sleep this afternoon, went to take a quick 20 minute nap...and well, we all know how that goes. Woke up around 11pm and posted up my adventures. Head out to the Monday night spot around 1am. This was super late for this, and I was still super groggy from my epic 8 hour nap.

One of my biggest sticking points tonight was that I'm back in my hometown, better not mess up. It was so cool being in LA because I could beastmode hard through the club and the streets and not worry about being judged. That just kind of wrote itself out...but ya, I think I really do care what people think here.

Also, I noticed I was chasing state. I could not find it. It was cool though, I opened a bunch of sets, just nothing really stuck. I am noticing that I will usually seen 2-3 girls from the previous week or whatever. If I go talk to them first it's a easy way to try and warm up gradually. I leave about 1:45 in a very weird mood...I left early because I didn't want to spook anyone. I did see that very cute short blond from last week and walked her home, arm in arm and tried to kiss her as I dropped her off. I could have pushed me coming up and hanging out, but didn't. She's here for a couple more weeks, she seems fun too. I went for the phone number but she doesn't have one because she's not from the US...damn. I'll see if I can figure something clever out.

I'm watching Brad's small town game video right now and taking notes:



-"Sniper" style - warmup with a couple early in the night, then chat with friends. Then around 1-1:30am when you're in state and the girls are receptive, go for it and get your few in
-Haha yes, he just had the same idea for warmup sets that I apparantely have been using
-Keep the frame good...if it fizzles don't walk away all bummed out, REFRAME it so you can see them later, even if she hates you hug her and peace out "Oh well, nice meeting you"
-Some nights there's only one place to go to with more than 10 girls, just make it happen
-You may try to use your skillset as a limited factor for making stuff happen tonight, etc. DONT
-Take a trip once a month to a huge city to get that anonymity and blow shit up (YES...this is that plan for the next 3 months :) )
-ABAR!!!

Cool that video answered a lot of my questions...no more excuses now haha
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 If you make it to SD, it would be sweet to meet you. Im going to be there with dave7. 

As for that small town game video....
Hawaii is pretty neat in that there is a dichotomy of scenes so to say. There is the whole small town deal with the local girls. 
On the otherhand, endless amounts of hot girls stream into waikiki daily. Its a notstop supply of new hot girls to meet. 
So Waikiki can be fun for SNL or SDL type stuff, then you can fall in love with a girl for about 4 days have an amazing time, then off they go before they start to get annoying lol.
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 Sweet write up! Look forward to raging it again soon! :)
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 @roadrally - Absolutely dude, I will for sure be in SD!! I definitely was "down" on Hawaii as a place for getting good at game after this weekend, simply because I love to be able to beastmode rampage...places like LA and NYC are great for that. But you're absolutely right - there are so many hot girls in bikinis in Waikiki that are new everyday. Thanks for reminding me how awesome this place is :)
@dave7 - Oh yes we will rage again!

A big point about last night I want to get in writing is that I was definitely out of state. But after watching Hotseat and the video where Owen is out of state and pulls the girl...I knew I had to stay in the bar and keep going. Which I did to a point, and was cool. In this way it's like Owen says...state is a tool and not a crutch. You are still going to approach when out of state. Having state just makes everything more fun and in my opinion much easier.

Tomorrow is the first day of the rest of my life where I force myself to approach at least 1 set during the day, it's time to get over my irrational fear of day game. Woo.
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 Went out Wednesday during the day and did my one approach...haha it took me like 20 minutes to work up the "courage" to go talk to one. I stopped her from walking towards me with earphones and asked what time it was...then told her she was cute (she was) and then she said she had a boyfriend and ran away...I giggled the rest of the way home. Why was I nervous again? I'm going to keep going for it...and at least approach a day.

Thursday just went and chilled at a super lowkey bar with my roomate and talked business life goals...and got my one approach in (by super lowkey I mean verrrry lowkey...barely anyone in there)

Friday
Beastmode reinitiated. Met up with a buddy and my roomate and play a little shuffle board at a bar before heading down the strip. We give up the table to three dudes and the extremely gorgeus girl next door wearing super conservative clothing. Remember her for later. There's definitely some very approachable sets while we are walking there that I let pass, I let it go though. Show up and pay the cover and get stamped early (10:45). It was for a bar that has two floors, and the 2nd floor gets wild. My buddies don't want to pay cover (??) and want to just chill downstairs with the old people smoking. Haha whatevs I go and do my "one set" upstairs and head back down. We all roll out to the next spot thats got a pretty sweet view and stuff and dance floor. I am feeling very stifled at this point. I talk to a cute girl, literally scare her because I leaned in very fast...I tried to save it but nope...gaaaaaan.

I start a dance circle and we got these awesome japanese group to dance with us. It was awesome...people be staring at my dance moves yo. It's a super cool vibe, I go and talk to a girl who was on the edge. She's like meh. I'm like okay. I see another girl sitting down, I walk up...point, say "Dance"..but she's guarding the drinks. She could have had love.

At this point I think I talk to these two smoking hot chicks...I want to say I come off super indifferent but who knows. It's cool, one is french and o la la she is foxy. I eject...I am writing this and have no idea why other than I was being a pussy. She was gorgeous lol. Walk around the bar, see 3 blonds. They are norwegian and the one I talk to is definitely a couple inches taller than me. I like that. Talk with the friends and then have my norwegian girl kind of turned away from the friends. Wow she is tall. We have a pretty lame conversation...but eventually I feel she becomes more real with me which is cool. We talk about ridiculous things like Harry Potter and Star Wars and she actually asks me if I've read the Game. HAHA..if you only knew.....Anyway I definitely try to pull back and put myself into the seller frame...don't think it worked haha. It was cool though, we had this super intense staredown...I should have gone for the makeout. She asked me if I was gay...nope...but I am fabulous. Eventually I ask for her number, she says only as friends. I say I can't do that and literally walk away. Felt super badass.

Back to the dance floor and start talking with my buddies, talk with some girl and dance real quick. Find the girl who was guarding drinks from earlier and dance with her and talk a bit. She's cool but her friend comes in real quick to 'save her friend', but then talks to me a bit and realizes I'm normal. I did try to pull them outside and that's where I lost them, they don't want to go with me. Okay no worries. My norwegian blond and her friends are now on the dance floor, I start talking and dancing with her. It was sweet I didn't need to worry about the friends...they just kind of did their own thing. I'm having fun talking to her, she says something as I'm slowdancing with her. I tell her there's no romance here...kind of a "okay I get it, there's no romantic stuff here"...and back off a bit. I realize that she would make a very good hot blond friend. However, she points out that another very attractive tall blond girl is walking by. This peaks my interest. She says to go talk to her...I say awesome and leave her.

I tell this new tall blond she looks like's she australian. Oh my goodness she's in a group of 3 other girls. They all laugh that I said she was australian, apparently she gets that a lot. They are all Swedish, I pump my fist. Meet the friends real quick and then semiturn my girl and talk with her. She's cool, I talk about surfing and stuff. I then start talking the entire group and am holding my own. Eventually I go with the super slick line to my girl "hey so I know your friends are here but give me your number and we'll hang out" as I kind of announce this to her and the group, then I pull her a few feet away and do it. She's into it. 

Back with my buddies then see two cuties seated. I come in...they are very low to the ground and don't speak very good english, from switzerland. I notice their vibe and energy and slow the fuck down and chill out. They both have boyfriends...I am very cordial about this and talk a bit more, then bounce.

Go outside and send a text to a couple girls. I see there's a group of 5 girls (4 hotties) and 3-4 dudes all seated at a table. Yuck my RAS says hell no. So I send my texts, but one of the girls says hi to me as she walks by, I talk to her a bit, she introduces me to the friends. Aha I go for the blond and pull up a chair. We talk about business and saving the world and stuff, I grab her number. Then it's this kind of strange I follow them out kind of manuever as two dudes try to lead them out. I just talk with the girls and am having fun...meet all of them. Definitely think I have a lot more chemistry with a brunette however I stick with the blond who is very attractive. I'm okay with this decision. Kind of just nonsense as we all walk, I head to the upstairs bar from earlier, they are walking with me. They call me back to the group as I'm in line, joke around a bit more with them and give my number to the kind of leader or whatever who was hilarious. I leave them, but I'm pretty sure all 5 of them want to have babies with me. 

Back in the upstairs bar and I chill out and don't want to approach. I finally do...I tell a girl I like that thing on her head (like a hankerchief or some wierd hipster thing) as she walks past. She's blond. Her friend was infront of her but I guess they both just met. I'm handling business with these two girls, they are cute and I slowly decide which one I would want to focus on. It's cool though...I can't explain it but I say some really specific things that make me seem so much more authentic...don't know how to describe this better. I guess like if you are really into a certain thing, say soccer, and you know a specific player from that country or something, and only people who know whats up would know about this.. Terrible example but it's stuff like that...kind of like "how did you know that??!". I'm left with the friend (brunette) who is cute...could/should have gone for the makeout but don't bah humbug. They ask if I want to go smoke, I say no. Brunette says to stay exactly right there. I say hell no. I walk around, talk to a cute twoset...doesn't really stick. Well kind of, they were walking past and I got them to stop and chat for a minute or so.

Talk to a few more girls, not super attractive. Eventually a girl that I stopped walking a couple minutes ago sitting alone. Go talk with her, she's got a lot of friend drama. I play it cool. I actually see the two girls I just met watching me...haha. I grab this girls number, really doubt it's going to be solid but who knows. Anyway I see those two girls leave, so I head down to see if I can grab the brunettes number, both are gone. Buuut, I see the first girl from the night (super sexy girl next door from the first bar). I say whats up she remembers me. I tell her she's really cute and I would like to hang out sometime. She's kind of into it. She is with three dudes, I say, those are probably all your boyfriends and stuff and she says no. YES. They're friends but extremely protective. I be cool with them, and get in line to go back into the club. She's into talking to me its cool. I grab her number on the stairs on the way up...as the friends keep trying to pull her into the bar. Eventually we get up there and they are getting drinks so I get to have "real chat" time with her. She's a very cool girl. I leave her so the dudes won't be too mad at me shades. I decide to go home around 230. Pretty cool stuff.

Lessons + Positives
-I put myself into state by dancing
-I wanted to leave the upstairs bar around 1:15 but I did my one approach and hooked it...and just kind of built momentum from there
-Went out with my civilian buddies and didn't allow their lack of approaching affect me, beasted
-I am very aware of buyer/seller dynamic when talking, and find myself purposely slowly down/chilling out and not leaning in as much. I'm not sure if this puts me in the seller frame but whatever
-I left a girl when she said she just wanted to be friends (girl was hot and tall and blond...and I talked with her for like 20 minutes)...normally I'd be groveling just for her number but felt real good to just "let this one go"
-Talked to a bunch of girls tonight without much/any outcome dependency...they were cute but I just wasn't super into them or didn't care if they went away
-Theres plenty of opportunities for makeouts...i'm just not taking them. I'm going to watch juliens permission boy video again.
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 Had a mellow night, head over to the same bar with the dancefloor as last night. I'm riding solo and get there a bit later (this bar closes at 12:30). Anyway I walk in and talk to some chick about her giant sunglasses. Keep moving and see two girls with fake mustaches. I like these. I try talking to the tall one, kind of blows out, but the short one is into it. Cool. Start just talking/dancing/being a little physical, it just feels really normal and fluid. This is how it's supposed to be. The friend melts away and I bring my girl deeper into the dance pit. I'm having a blast, she is too. Talk about normal chode stuff, and then she asks me who I'm here with. I tell her 'just myself'. She laughs and then asks if I really am here by myself. I tell her 'yep'. Not an issue, but we joke about it.

Eventually she says she wants a drink when its last call, she tries to lead me to the bar but I put her behind me and take her there. Line is no bueno, so she's like 'let's go dance' and tries to lead me. I say "wait". Then grab her hand and lead her. She laughs at this. Her friend comes back and I think they speak spanish or something but I'm winning so the friend leaves. We dance somemore...it's not super sexually charged, so I go for the makeout and get the cheek, but she's giggling. Eventually the lights go on and I say 'well this is normally the time when I would say I'm going to go find my friends, but since I don't have any, lets hang out sometime.' We do that number exchange and she's says 'I can't believe how shy you are, is this your first time talking with a girl'. I say 'yes' lol. I text her 'yo this is longboard, nerd ;)'

I decide to walk home and crash early, see her and the friend and walk them to their car which is on the way to my place. I'm just chilled out and bullshiting with both of them. Give her an awesome hug and cheek kiss as her friend watches near their car. And that's a wrap. Texting her, she seems fun.

Lessons + Positives:
-This felt so easy and smooth, the way it should be (also fun + a cool vibe)
-You can tell people you're solo and it's not wierd, it's just a talking point
-Always having fun...you really never can tell what's going to happen when talking to people
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Planned to meet up with the girl I had sex with a few weeks ago. I followed up with my phone numbers before I met her. This is where I think I need to try some stuff for my texting/phone calls. I think a good play is to start texting that night/next day (my typical intro text is "Yo this is longboard" when I get the #). Right now it's radio silence until I call. Things that make you go hmmmm...

Anyway call the cutie from last night and set up hanging out on Wednesday, call the tall blond Swede and set something up for Thursday. I need to follow up with some texts this week on the other girls...left vmails on the other few.

Met up with my girl and walked on the beach and caught up a bit (haven't seen her for a few weeks), then head to mine. Have sex...I realize I am not very good at it haha, but she's cool and the only way to get better is practice ;) I have always been really guarded with sex and nervous to open up to girls, but I felt that changed a bit tonight and will continue to change. Will be adding some supplements/green smoothies/etc. for added horniness. I want to be walking up to chicks and having a boner immediately because how sexy they are.

Went surfing a couple times this weekend with my buddies and one asked if I went out and got a new batch of numbers, I said yep and he just laughed. I know I'm just at less than 1% of what I can become with this stuff. I guess it's like right after watching Hotseat, and Tyler even says...'it's going to be wierd and you feel like you might suck and things aren't clicking after right after watching'...it's because you see what your potential is, and your current skillset does not quite match it. After having the earth shattering realization that Tyler + Julien were just normal guys like me before they started this makes me realize that they are my potential....if I bust my ass off and constantly work on this.

If I take a step back and look at where I was even just 5 or 6 weeks ago...it's insane how much more awesome my life is. So what a lot of these numbers haven't panned out yet (I think a lot of that is me not having this utter urge and desire to continuously follow up), this stuff is fun. I really do think that focusing on getting more horny will help me want to follow up a heck of a lot more. And maybe having a little bit more intent...right now I really don't give a fuck how these interactions with these girls end up...which is probably a very good thing though ;)
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 Been running around w/o pimping the last couple of days. Little things I'm stoked about:

-Girl I'm supposed to meet called tomorrow me tonight but I missed the call watching a movie
-Conservative cutie from Saturday sent me a cute text back after I left her a vmail Sunday, plans in the works to get together next week
-Watched an excellent surf movie with Kelly Slater about Tahiti...check it out, you might learn something

I don't know...in a way yes, it feels great to have this "validation" of girls getting back to me LOL. It's been definitely a weird thing to be meeting all these girls, getting their phone numbers, and things just not clicking, or responding, etc....my ego has taken a shot, but it's a good thing. As the interactions get better and I set the frame right, this will only happen more and more that they respond and want to meet up. Better yet they're hitting me up :)

Get stoked on the little things ;)

Also, I love that I'm calling these chicks. It's scary as hell, and I can easily understand why a girl won't pickup if the interaction isn't solid. Phone game is ballsy. Going to be hitting them up with some texts tomorrow too.
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 Pretty much summed up how I felt:

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