THE FORUMS

March 24th, 2017
Longboard Life
Your rating: None Average: 5 (1 vote)
Bookmark and Share
#21
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 Went out tonight in a much better headspace than I've been at the past few nights. Basically I'm realizing that holy fuck, if I don't get my business stuff done during the day, I am screwed. A big part of my success with any sort of task like that is waking up early and putting in a solid chunk of time before and after lunch. These late nights then sleeping into noon is no bueno for my "business state". So I'm not quite sure where I'm at in this journey. I have to treat my business as #1 right now...well, because it is. 

So right now I'm going to work on shifting my mindset that will enable me to have a 'successful day' of work even if I start in the afternoon.

---------------------------------
It's all about being positive. I think I get really serious when I'm out and get in my head a bit, and forget to have fun because I'm telling myself "You need to go approach, blah blah".

Head to the first bar with my roomie and we're cracking jokes the whole time having fun. Get there and my roomie and two friends hit the bar immediately for drinks while I go to the dance floor and goof off a bit. Eventually find them again. See these gorgeous blonds outside and hestitate and go back to the dance floor. Alright, I sack up and go sit in the chair outside and talk with them. A dude rolls in and is saying something, I think he's trying to tool me, so I say whats up and turn back to the girls. Apparently I'm in his seat. Ha, so I give him the seat and then walk around the table to keep talking with the girls. It's definitely a weird feeling to keep talking and going, but I do until the friend says nice meeting you and gives me the heebie jeebies so I bounce. Dance floor and having fun with my buds, jump into a two set and ask if they're fun, not much back and forth and I don't push. Then this kind of bullish bull dyke looking chick kind of comes and starts dancing with my aggressively - like trying to move me around and stuff. She's with a friend and what look like two dudes who are their husbands. After being manhandled by her, her friend comes over and they're grinding on me from both sides. At this point I am definitely not in state and I'm just confused as to how this is happening.

As soon as the whirlwind came in, it left. I'm pretty sure I was just some 'Boy Toy' at the dance floor for these chicks to warm up and be social. Some interesting takeaways - it was cool to have someone come in so aggressively and be so firm in what they wanted. I definitely was in her reality from the moment she came in.

Open some other two set and have the first one introduce me to the friend....then fizzle. I don't really try. Bar closes early so we are figuring out where to go next. Beautiful threeset are going to walk by me, I "hand of God" this gorgeous girl in a white dress. She looks at my hand then into my eyes as she's walking, and NOOOPE. Doesn't take the bait.

Head over to the next bar and head in. This is where I didn't rebuild any momentum, and just kind of expected I could go talk with that threeset which came to this bar too. KEY: build momentum in the new venue!!! My feet were basically glued.

Got real down on myself because I wasn't "having fun or approaching" and felt SO SOBER on the dance floor. I go back and approach the girl in the white dress, point to her and say "YOU", but she gives that "WTF" face and I don't have the balls to handle the social pressure and plow.

A little while later this huge group of dudes who are just having fun and being the party show up. They make their own dance circle and are goofing off. It looked really cool, and I became a spectator, watching them instead of donig my own thang. It's cool. Eventually leave with my buddy, see a girl from last week on the street and set up me calling her tomorrow to go for a D2, we'll see what happens. I wanted to makeout with her on the street but she said she had a fever regardless of whether this was an excuse or not...I didn't do it.

Then my buddy bounced, I go back into the club, don't have the balls to approach and head back out. I really wanted to go back in again but decided to just head home and learn from the experience.

Positives:
-BE POSITIVE ALL THE TIME
-Learn to be the party
-You can learn something from everyset (even one with bull dykes who man handle you)
__________________
Login or register to post.
#22
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 Putting the 30 day challenge on hiatus until I'm confident I got my business running smoothly - in the meantime I'm still going to go out Thurs, Fri, Sat, & Mon.

Saturday
Went out with some 3 buddies and seriously had a chode's night out. Ahhhh. Next time I need either break free and just approach some chicas or go out solo. I did get in the face of my chick friend's cute friends (call her Lily). She was with this guy who I was sooo sure was her boyfriend the whole night, then he peaces, and she tries to drag my chick friend to the dance floor. She won't go. So Lily says fuck it, I'll go dance by myself. She starts walking, then turns back and grabs me and then starts grinding on me on the dance floor. Cool! I'm having fun, but then the friend comes in and takes her to a different bar. I say screw it and head home. Might have been something there if I pursued it.

Monday
Head out suuper late, would have liked to get out around 11. Was working hard all day and didn't have very much social interaction haha. Right outside the bar I raise my hands at the two set walking towards me. They ask me the way. They are Italian and visiting. I catch their names. I already got my band so I run into the bar while they wait in line. Maybe would have been a good idea to keep going with these two for a little while longer. Get in the bar and I literally can't stop laughing. I just think of how ridiculous that I was literally just working from my laptop 5 minutes ago, and now here I am at the bar with a crazy crowd. I'm slow to get started, of course do my "customary" go to the restroom first. I get out and see the russians from two weeks ago. Say what's up to the black haired one and then it's on with blondy. Makeout, but she really initiates it. I think I wait a bit too long to get what I want...I wait for the girl to make the move. They go grab drinks, so I run around a bit dancing, opening but really softly and not sticking in.

Pretty sure I see them again and grab blondy and take her to a different part of the dance floor. It's so on...we're all up in each others faces but not making out...so fucking hot. Dancing gets hotter and I'm hard pretty quick. She can tell and puts her hand down my pants and starts giving me a handy on the dancefloor. That's fucking awesome. I'm honestly a little concerned about someone seeing and kicking me out...but no one does. No one really does care what you're doing in the club. I try and pull her out of the bar and to my place. Get stopped at the door because she can't leave her friend. It's about 1am. I know the pull is not going to happen now, so I ditch the blond and go into the dance pit. I see two blonds from two weeks ago that I met independently, but they're aparently BFFs. I'm having fun, in the grill with one of the blonds. It was really cool because of how ON I was with the russian, I just felt that it should be on with this one. Kind of was, but it was a good mindset to have. The other blond is kind of with a dude. I tried getting in with and meeting the 3rd girl friend, but she pulls them all away to get drinks or something. I just go maraude the dance floor, but don't really go hard.

I kind of forget what happens, but I think I go and see the Italians sitting at a table. One is in deep with the a guy. His friend looks like he's desparetely trying to talk with the friend. I just come in saying her name loud and in Italian. Chatting a bit, aparently she's 30. She asks me my age..I tell her. I joke guess her's. She really wants me to guess. I tell her old enough...looks like she melts a bit. She's 30, that's cool. That's when I realize the two russians are sitting right behind me. The blond looks pissed, I like this.

She goes to the dance floor, I follow. She's not having any of me, I bounce to the bathroom and then head back to them. She's trying to be all icey, but I can tell she just wants me to stay right there with her and fight for her. I'm giving her the eye. Some dude catches this and starts laughing with me, he's all like "YOU CAN'T GIVE UP!", as she's walking away. She tries to make it look like she's talking with this dude, but he's walking and walks right past her. Seriously the funniest thing I've ever seen...she was trying to make me jealous. I'm laughing like a madman, and she breaks her ice queen business and melts back in. She's ready for the pull. We go, buuuut her friend and a dude are outside. Okay, we head to the beach. Strip to my boxers and head into the water, blondy in her thong and bra. She's all crawling in the water towards me. It was hot. I keep moving her away from her friend and the dude. I'm hard, the water is cold. She's all over me, I'm just being chill. I finally wrap her legs around me and start walking around making out with her. I start bouncing her up and down in the water on my boner. She takes off her thong, I take off my boxers. I take off her bra. She wants me to fuck her right here. Sorry babe, not having unprotected sex in the ocean with you. Finally try pull her to my place to take a hot shower. Her friend I'm pretty sure loves me. 

We walk past the bar soaking wet, I see the two blonds from earlier and I wanted to run up and give them the finger with my own blond in tow but didn't. We're walking right outside my place...and she won't leave her friend. Here's were I could be a little bit more persuasive...just say anything to get her isolated with me. Anyway walk her back to hers with the friend + her dude. It's a bubble of love and we're having fun. She's saying she wants to fuck me in russian. She asks when I was born (she's a little younger) and then she's saying that's her boyfriends birthday...huh? Whatever, keep walking to theirs but she won't let me up. Faaaaaaack. She wants it, but I don't know.

I walk home soaking wet, a little frustrated but still realizing that two hours ago I was at home working. WTF. This shit is so cool!

Things I notice. I'm not following up with the numbers I got in the last two weeks. I NEED TO DO THIS. Even if they don't respond. Trying and failing is better than doing nothing at all.

Positives:
-I keep mentioning this, but I see the same girls usually at least two or three times over the course of a couple weeks...use this to your advantage
-Push the escalation, don't wait for the girl to do it
-Skinny dipping is fucking rad
-She leaves in 4 days...I'm going to keep pursuing, it's what dreams are made of
__________________
Login or register to post.
#23
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 
 
Be glad it's difficult, otherwise how would you set yourself apart?

Really loving this video from Todd. It absolutely hit the point I'm been writing about lately - failure to escalate. I understand that there are subsequent levels to my own comfort and entitlement, but these have to be constantly changing and evolving - that is escalation. From the way I see it, each of these steps takes time to sink in so that you feel entitled at each level.

-How to approach
-How to have interactions that hook + physically escalate
-How to get numbers
-How to call + text the numbers
-How to D2
-How to lead to sex

Obviously you'll be able to have success and go through all the steps, but it starts off being inconsistent. Right now I'm at stage one. Bootcamp kind of jumped me to get numbers, but I've been terrible at calling/texting because I've had these thoughts like..."I seriously only met her for like 3 minutes, why would she want to talk to me?". It's cool because I realize that this stuff is fun, and that success will come for those who are taking action.

Baby steps forward!
__________________
Login or register to post.
#24
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 LR: Okay so tonight was one of those immediately pass go and collect $200 experiences.

I had a D2 with a girl I met while waiting to go surfing with Dave7 and Mehdi two weeks ago. Like literally I was sitting on a curb with my surfboard and she walked by and I said "Hey" and gave her the laser eyes. I have no idea what we chatted about, I think a bit about her and a bit about me. I didn't have my phone so I make her add me on Facebook. I use Cat's patented "I suck at facebook, text me at xxx-xxx-xxxx", got her number and started texting her last week. Super mellow texts.

She actually initiated the text convo two weeks ago and again last week. We were supposed to meet up on Sunday but I flaked...got busy and tired. So today was the plan:

Hey when are you free? I'm done with work this afternoon
How about 7:30 or 8?
Let's do 8...meet at awesome and street?
Sounds good! See u later :)
Groovy, let me know when you're close :)
Ok :)
Yo bring your bikini!
Haha to do what?
Adventure :)
Haha ok :)
ill be there in 5!


She meets me at the corner, big hug and kiss on the cheek, and we head to my place right down the street so I can get my wallet, keep the door open and shoe her out quickly. We head to a bar and I just sip some water, she orders a couple drinks. It's a super chill vibe - I sit next to her. We're bumping knees and she's hitting me playfully when I make her laugh. Just vibing and having a cool conversation for about an hour. Adventure times and get her stoked on going swimming in the ocean. Grab her hand as we're close to the water. We jump in, it's dark, and I give her a piggy back ride. Just goof off in the water a bit then head back to mine for a jacuzzi. Have fun, it's all giggles and I slowly reel her in. Have her sit next to me and try to kiss her. She's hesitant...wants to know why her. I tell her because of everything I've seen from her so far. Makeout. Pull her on my lap, more makeout. It's cool.

Head to my room and have her sit on my lap as I show her some videos and pictures of stuff I do. I kept thinking in my head that I should send her home and then see her again. WHAT? I literally was rooting for myself to throw the towel in early. I catch this, start making out with her again. She asks if she can put her shirt on a hanger. Game over. I jump in bed, turn the light off and tell her to come nap with me. We spoon, start making out...then it starts to escalate. She runs to the bathroom to check something. She's back and says "those are reeeeally white sheets". Girl is just about to start her period. I just keep going, really dont' care. No blood, winning. And then from there I proceed to connect with her and have sex. I don't cum and she's really bummed about it...asking me why not? It's cool, whatevs. Eat a very late dinner and just kind of have fun talk. Jump in the shower and walk her home.

This stuff is not hard, it's FUN. Have experiences. Meet cool people. LIVE.
__________________
Login or register to post.
#25
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 Wednesday, Thursday, Friday
Focused hard on business and kicked some major ass - got a new schedule I'm using to get work done in blocks and it's SO EFFECTIVE. It's all about have long focus sessions that you don't check facebook, get texts, or phone calls. Then you break up the focus sessions with breaks where you go do something completely different for a bit. This has been working for me. And have been too exhausted to go out at night...or at least that's what my excuse was.

Saturday
Head out with my buddy to a pretty high end club. We stand out like a sore thumb, but it's awesome. Meet a friend inside, she's with a large group. We head to the dance floor, it's still pretty quiet there. Lot's of girls on the floor. AND THE ENTIRE NIGHT. It was amazing, I felt like everywhere I looked I would be soo stoked to start talking with girls. Basically, we both feel like crud and don't want to do any sort of talking to people, so we just start goofing off and dancing. And dancing, until we have made a little dance circle and are just having fun and high fiving. I can sense girls RAS' are on us...super cool. We didn't capitalize as much as we should have. It's weird, I start noticing girls that stand/dance by me who WANT to be talked to.

Rest of the night is a blur, I know my best set was me seeing a hot blond at the top of a staircase. I go right up and say "You are fucking gorgeous" and she melts, hand in hand, her friends and dying...they love me so much ('oh you're so cute', blah blah) and they peace out. I tell the blond 'who are you', 'I want to take you places you've never been...like over there' as I motion to the dance floor. Haha I'm dying but my iceyness has left the interaction and she peaces. But this was such a good set to show me what I can do if I roll in a speak what's really on my mind. I went back later and got her number as she was leaving...I think I've only spoken 5 sentences to her...so we'll see how this plays out.

Pull another girl at a table down off these steps with her friend....and my buddy and I proceed to hold our own dicks in our hands and not do anything at first. Those first moments are crititcal...as in 'Are these the awesome guys that approached me like a MAN'? NOPE...we try to reengage and then they are gaaaaahn. They left not because we were 'weirding them out', but because we were boring and didn't have balls in their eyes. Good lesson.

As we're leaving, two girls + one guy are outside. I go right for the cutie. She's got this amazing look to her, I intro my buddy, and then the mouthpiece starts flowing. I felt like pure gold was coming out...really icey stuff. Get her number, and trying to makeout with her...and find out she's into girls (for real, and only girls...no dudes). Pretty cool, we'll see if I can take her to the other side ;) I've been texting her...'I want to scissor the shit out of you'...haha we'll see what's going to happen

Positives
-Learned that dancing + goofing off is my favorite way to get into state
-This was a sick ass club...definitely need to hit this up again
-Realizing that girls just WANT that cool guy to come and talk to them...why else would they come to the sweaty club and pay $$$ for drinks? This is slowly sinking in everynight I go out
-From wed-fri, I absolutely realized I need to daygame...real simple
__________________
Login or register to post.
#26
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96



Intelligent persistence. It's not about burning it to the ground. It's about offering value.

Why do you get a phone number? The phone number IS NOT the trophy - it's a means to an end. The purpose is to get a meetup.

Call vs. text
-It's a more intimate form of communication (always want to be communicating in the most intimate way possible).
-Puts you on the line more

Text vs. call
-Girl will answer it quicker
-It's not as big of a risk for the girl

Don't ask a yes or no question as the first text...offer a bit of value.
Always get your name and number in their phone (text them your name)
Spike emotions for those numbers that are fucked

----------
Really loving these vids from Todd!

I did a bit of this on Friday when I texted the bulk of the numbers I've got in the last 3 weeks some, only got one reply back haha. Called 4 numbers last night to try and get meetups and 3 picked up which was great. All fairly quick convos, but was STOKED that I put myself out there.
__________________
Login or register to post.
#27
Mehdi

Mehdi

Member

Join Date: 09/26/2011 | Posts: 37

 BROOOOOOO

i read this shit but just too lazy to comment but man, big ups on the LR.... that fucking ocean and your place being TWO SECONDS away from it is SOOOO money... it's like the perfect place for a D2 lol.. the progression of a D2:  bar, tipsy, ocean (lots of touchy touchy), jackuzi (more touchy touchy), shower, bed and finally jiggy jiggy.... :)

good stuff man..
__________________



'we find only the world we look for.' henry david thoreau

مخلص هر چی ایرانی با مرام 
Login or register to post.
#28
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 Yee Mehdi logistics are ridiculous..loving it :) ------------------------ So I think I had a major crash last week (pain body flare for all you Tollers out there). I've been moving so much towards becoming what I want, that my ego needed to snapback. Well it happened, and it's weird, I let myself go into a strange kind of anti-social mindset. Who knows, maybe I needed that snap back to get the other side of the spectrum (I didn't go out at all and focused on work...NEED balance!!). Anywho went out tonight solo and had a fucking blast. I am slowly learning what I need to do to have fun out solo, and for me it seems I need to go right to the bathroom. Sounds funny but I think it really has something to do with "getting comfortable in my environment" or something to that extent a la Alexander. Anyway I'm for sure in my head, but I slowly get out of it. It's great, head to the dance floor and start dancing like a goof, see a brunette girl I met and got her number a few weeks ago and haven't talked to for a couple weeks. It's her last night in town...I remember this, she's kind of responsive but not so much. I peace because I want to build state. I am a state whore. Run around a bunch dancing very seductively and making faces. Yelling that I'm from Brisbane (I'm not). I don't know, it was just really fun, I felt unstiffled. See a blond girl and her friend from almost a month ago (never got her number, kind of maybe freaked her out a bit, but I think she liked it...like in a super conservative European way). Random - I saw her when I went surfing this weekend, but I didn't say anything. Her friend is crying and I let her tend to her friend. Run around a bit more, keep coming and going with this one chick whose average looking, but really fun to mess with. I feel that I can say no wrong, she loves it. I feel that I'm pushing the emotional spectrum. It's fun. (I come back to her and go for the makeout after some dancing and what I thought was smooth verbals and physical...then I dropped this line "I will ruin you for other guys"...aaaand she's gaaaan haha). I leave her for another girl whose friend I want to make a baby with. Her friend is not present at the club, so I remind this girl to tell her friend this fact. Then there's there really cute SUPER tiny girl...like 4'8"?? Maybe. I walk up and tell her "I love how small you are". She's cool, from a far away land. I have fun meeting her, meet her cute friend. They head to the dance floor, I mosey on over there eventually. The cute friend has been replaced with a warpig who literally hugs and engulfs my miniature foreign cutie when a dude tries to hit on her. I make friends with her, show her I'm normal, and snatch and grab the little one when warpig isn't looking. The little one eventually runs back - she's here for a while, I'll see her again :) I think there's a few more sets, I try with the brunette girl whose leaving tomorrow again, she's not really into it. So I go to the blond. HER FRIENDS LOVE ME. It was so cool. They were so stoked a dude was talking to their friend. Blondie's phone is done (she's leaving in two days), so the roomate has me text my number from her phone. Smart. The friends demand I come with them to the next bar...very cool. Have fun while walking back, blondies a cool chick - smart and conservative, but I like those. She decides to go home, I convince her that I'm walking her there. She can't get in (no key), so we sit outside and chat a bit. This whole time I've been slowly escalating the physical. Eventually we're found, her roomate comes. I tell blondie some intimate stuff...bahaha no really I just tell her our plans for tomorrow, she agrees and looks genuinely excited. We'll see. I try to kiss her, but nope...but we held nose to nose for a while and roomie breaks it up. We'll see what happens. Text brunette, she text back. I CALL HER immediately, she's at a McDonalds that I'm walking past. I go inside. Two dudes, brunette, and her friend...sitting down. Ahhh...I walk right up, ignore the dude and start spitting my shit to her. Not going to happen. I leave and yell in the streets FOREVER ALONE. I start texting her shit to try spark emotions and get a meetup. I thought it was hilarious - no meetup (as of right now writing this). Don't know how those text come out...makes me seem kind of like a dick, but I promise it's coming from a very uncaring and fun place. I love this stuff, it's so exciting and I'm happy to be back :) I love girls dude. I also think there's a very slim chance of LA hotseat this weekend, more likely LA the following weekend for inner circle. I still gotta sign up, but it looks awesome! 
__________________
Login or register to post.
#29
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

Reflecting on last night a bit more I had so much fun. One subtle thing I am noticing is that I do still get the FULL blowout deluxe...like turn away/run away/don't talk to me, but with the amount I was bouncing around, I'd pop in and out of sets really quickly. And if a girl tried to blow me out I was somewhat resilient to stay in...definitely don't have my "Stay in Set Until It Burns To The Ground" merit badge, but I'm working on it. Reingaging worked pretty well last night on a few sets.

I am noticing that a solidwingman is huge. I love going out solo because I don't feel stiffled from any buddies who aren't into this kind of stuff, that said though, a wingman would definitely help push me to a lot that I likely wouldn't try. Also, it's perfect for handling 2 sets. One set I found hilarious last night was me talking with this one girl, then her friend comes in. I have her introduce me to the friend, then I turn and see this tall chode and quickly say "Here, meet this random guy" quite loud to the friend. I thought this was very funny, my girl did too. He definitely got blown out VERY FAST though haha. Bottom line is though that having someone who is a) stoked to be going out + positive and b) can push your own boundaries, is a no brainer.
__________________
Login or register to post.
#30
longboard

longboard

Member

Join Date: 08/02/2012 | Posts: 96

 Pretty awesome weekend, flew up to LA for Hotseat because Dave7 is my pusher man and convinced me to do so. Thanks dude! I remember some/most of the detail of the sets that something happened, but there are a lot I don’t remember haha.

Finishing writing this up on the plane flight back home - exhausted and sleepless...but sooo worth it.

PS. Shooting for NYC + SD next month


Friday
Fly in and hope on a shuttle to head to Hollywood. There’s a cutie from Iceland on my shuttle and I chat with her the entire ride, she’s cool. Definitely a slight language barrier and a lot of my verbal humor is missed, but it’s good. I grab her number but she let’s me know she has a boyfriend. I tell her that’s cool.

Meet up with Dave7 and Haze~ and head to a swanky little bar off some street. I actually had no idea where I was going the entire weekend, it was great to meet up with some people who had an awesome plan of action and some good ideas on where to head to.

Walk in and Dave7 immediately starts talking to a girl. I see this and get super excited, so I do the same. That set goes nowhere, I look around a bit then talk to another one. Pretty sure that one fizzles as well...I may have tried to stop some girl but she keeps moving. Walk into a mixed set (two girls one guy) and start chatting with her. She’s from Chile and I have a hard time hearing her. I tell her friends I’m going to steal her for 5 minutes. She’s cool with it. I have no idea where I am going. So we end up about 10 feet away from where she was before. We talk about some fun stuff, I tell her I want to kiss her. She says she’s very conservative and will wait until marriage. I’m just having fun and keeping it light. I’m hugging her and locking hands. Eventually I eject because it doesn’t seem to be really moving anywhere.

Around this time we post up outside of the hallway to the bathroom. This was sweet because girls kept walking past and we would chat any girl that was cute that came out. This felt so much more natural than bursting into sets. Behind me is a 3 set with two dudes who are talking to them. I start talking with the unoccupied one who is cute. I tell her I am an ass model. She’s laughing, but her whole body language is saying she’s skeptical. I chill out and grab a bar stool and sit next to her (she’s leaning against some pillar). I think she eventually runs away. I grab her number as I’m leaving the bar though. I texted her over the weekend and no response, meh no worries.

I see a twoset and talk to the cute friend, and then she kind of keeps walking, and then I chat the other girl and she’s cute too. I’m just standing there and she’s kind of hooking, but she really wants to go outside with her friend. I want to chill there. I makeout with her...only to learn later that Dave7 had exercised his right to do so before me...Noooooooo haha. Unfortunately this becomes a trend for the weekend :P

I turn around and see a cutie who is booting up her OkCupid app on her phone. HA...this simply will not fly. “Are you seriously checking your OkCupid at the bar”. Bam I’m in, her two guy friends are gay and a couple (for reals) and are rooting for me. We’re having fun talking, then I go for the hug (move #2 in my arsenal). I have a trick left elbow and the drink in her hand, crash to the floor. I am a dick. I offer to buy her a new one because it really is my fault and it’s the right thing to do. Get the drink and take her outside. She’s going to smoke. I say “let me kiss you before you start smoking”. Makeout...very cool. Sit and chat with her for a while.

The lights come on and I go find the guys. Haze is awesome and drives us out to West Hollywood for some street game. Dude thanks for the ride man! This is where the night just gets started. It’s INSANE. We drive through and get close to park and my jaw is in my lap, these girls are GORGEOUS..their dress are so goddam tight I love it. Chat and try to pull some 20 year old outside a latin club, Dave7 wings the friend. I don’t know if I could be more stoked with how we were approaching. Either him or I would go in on a set (standing or moving on the street). And the other guy would come in if he thought he could help wing. Solid stuff. State keeps building, and building. I see a three set on the street outside a club and talk with the cute blond...call her Midwest. She’s cute, I have laser eyes, ask her some stuff including “what do you want to be when you grow up”. We both realize this is a serious subject to broach on a Friday night around 2am. Haha. I think I eventually bounce to mac more girls, but I grab her number. Didn’t really think anything of this set...it wasn’t special in how well it “hooked”. But...there was something called ‘chemistry’ between us. I text her throughout the weekend and meet up with her Sunday night.

Dude I don’t know how else to put what we were doing into words other than awesome. It was nonstop action on the streets. I ran after this gorgeous girl sticking her head out of the backseat of a car to try and makeout with her. Once the guy driver figured out my intentions (and the red light turned green), he gassed it and she was gone.

I noticed a lot of sets both nights were me seeing girl. And then a serious lag or delay until that was processed and whether or not I took action. But, I also did a lot of “redemption” sets where I saw them, walked past, looked at Dave7, said screw it, and ran back. I like this. I see a tall blond accross the street and run to her. She’s with a girlfriend and her girlfriends dude. She’s cool and is from my hometown...Small world. I walk with her to her car and get her number and try makeout, no go. Leave a fun voicemail with her on her phone.

Walked past a taco place see two blonds and one dude sitting down eating. Keep walking...then run back in and say...”there are two of you and one of him...I’m longboard” haha I was laughing pretty hard. They really didn’t want to be bothered but I was verbally accentuating their evening (or at least attempting to). Eventually Dave7 and I bounce.

There was another great two set walking towards us to their car, Dave7 goes right in, I walk around and introduce myself to the friend as his wingman. She’s a really cool chick and really into what’s going down. Her friend eventually gets into their car but I’m with mine on the sidewalk. We leave a ridiculous voicemail together on her phone (she texts me the next morning on how it made her day...that’s super awesome). I try kiss her but she’s real classy so she doesn’t.

There’s more sets...from a girl who was waaay to drunk, to german girls, to girls at 4am. By the time we stopped approaching...it wasn’t because we were ‘tired’...but rather because there simply weren’t anymore sets on the streets haha.

This night was beastmode crazy, learned A LOT. Dave7 the wingman is awesome.


Saturday
Hotseat with Owen and 60+ guys in LA, pretty cool. Check out my review here: REVIEW

Dave7 and I head back to West Hollywood on the metro. I’m excited and a little nervous because I FEEL the state already coursing through me...Uh oh... :)

I go get some food up the street...it’s late, like 12:30am. I see a three set of cute girls in the parking lot where I get food. It’s one’s birthday. I yell and pump them up and go to get my food. Ahhh Dave7 finds me and then we go romp the streets...opening some fun sets along the way to the W hotel and Drais. We get in line around 1am...it’s not moving. I recognize one of the bouncer guys but not his name, so I yell his friends name out. He comes over and gets us in (we still gotta pay cover).

OMG. This club was so sick. Dave7 is on top of everything the moment we get out of the elevator. I’m hitting up everything in sight. Like you don’t understand, I’ve never been in a room with this many girls that hot EVER. I had so much ADD...I wanted every girl that walked past me. Blowout on a few as I walk through, one kind of sticks (and I’m winging Dave7 too) but his fizzles and mine does too. I keep walking, see a cutie and open her by doing my ghetto booty dance on her. She likes it a lot. Turns out she’s from Hawaii too. I yell over the music, I try to bring her outside. She’s with her friend. Eventually she kind of weirds out and runs away. I don’t think I did anything other than say “let’s go outside to the pool”...meh. Anyway see a huge group of girls at a table with laser swords or whatever they’re called. I pretend it’s her dildo. I have fun with this...she finds me hilarious. Her friend has two swords. We have an uneven dildo fight. I lose. I bounce. See this lone girl in the middle of a room, I close the space, forget what I say...but I start making out with her. I’ve never really done this before (makeout within 20 seconds) so I was super stoked. I saw Dave7 and like gave him a high five...however, this was before I learned he made out with her right before me. Nooooooo. That’s two nights in a row hahaha.

Very cute two set holding hands. The one I want has a funky blouse thing on. I yell, nice frills. It kind of hooks, I grab both of them and try to spin in. It’s so smooth but their hands that were still locked together kind of blocks the move. We all laugh. It’s fun. Eventually they say the are leaving and one has a boyfriend...they will no separate for me. No worries.

Lone cutie by the pool, she’s Russian and has a boyfriend. But she really wants to talk to me. I am actively trying to leave her but she keeps talking to me. But she won’t let me hug or kiss her. So I go find new girls.

STUNNING twoset...asian girl (new zealand) blondie (england). Like the things I would do to this blond are unspeakable. I have both hooked hard. I am literally spewing nonsense from my mouth but it’s so awesome. Dave7 is on the couch with the girl we both made out with. I kind of try to pull him into this twoset but he’s locked in. My girls are asking me about him. I keep chatting both of them for a while. I want the blond but the asian girl is more receptive. So I pull her away, and leave the blond alone. This will bite me in the ass later. We are about 15 feet away, and I tell the asian girl some guy will definitely come talk with your friend. Yep they do. My girl doesn’t want to makeout but I hug her. I decide at this point I want the blond.

Sooo here’s the drama. One Italian stallion next to her. Some goofy chode whose giving her a business card in front of her. I yell ESSEX ESSEX ESSEX to her, grab the business card out of her hand and blow that guy out, but she’s into the stallion. I pick her up and move her away. The stallion is freaking out that I came in so hard, he thought he had her. He gets very physical with me. I stick with her. He pushes me and threatens to have me kicked out like a little bitch. Haha I laugh in his face and he does disappear...however, I am in that kind of guy rage while I was holding onto the blond...it was super intense for her...and she kind of needs some space. Whatevs, Dave7 comes out of his set and I put him on the asian girl...as I try to reengage the blond. Doesn’t really work, so I cool it. These girls apparently have two other not as attractive friends, so I go talk with them. The stallion comes back to the blond. I let this happen with the expectation that she will blow him out.

Dave7 sneakily takes his girl upstairs to makeout with her. I am chatting the two friends. I tell them to have balls and grab the blond away and bring her to me lol. They are pussies and don’t do it. Eventually blondie comes back in...but I really do think the damage was done. Anyway Dave7 is back with his and I try to awkwardly lead my girl with my clammy hands out of the club. We end up outside on the other side. Dave7 pulls his girl out of the club...I can’t separate mine. I am also not being super physically...I’m asking for a lot of permission. Whatever I talk with more of the friends...it’s like a group of 6 now. Hit it off with another girl. I’m texting Dave7 to try and pull them all outside, my girl reads his text where he mentioned “your girl” ie. her. It was not smart for me to let her read the text.

We all go in the elevator...we are trying so hard to separate them from the group. We could have tried to befriend the driver and game her a little bit more....for the future. Walk them to the valet and it’s not going to happen. We leave and I start singing that one Gotye song really loud. A lot of people started laughing, mostly myself. YOU DIDN’T HAVE TO CUT ME OFF, MAKE IT OUT LIKE WE NOTHING.

I think we just beasted on the streets after this. It was fun...nothing really stands out. Actually that’s not true. There was a 3 or 4 set of girls walking, then their dudes came out of this food place right as we got to them...shit got real weird but I stuck in there. One dude was tugging on my shirt and stuff from behind as I’m walking and talking with a chick...ignored it. I knew going physically was not smart so I kept it super chill. Eventually they leave to their car. Dave7 and I keep the momentum rolling. We walk past a late night food place and I see the backs of two blonds in white dresses. They are eating at a window, so I walk around and check if they’re cute. One is...I tap on the glass and make a funny face and head inside. My mouth is moving...I am on fire. I focus on the hotter one I want. She’s cool. I tell her I’m going to make a baby with her. We have a cool chat - the three of us. I grab her number (her friend rooted for this to happen)...was seeding the pull but no bueno. Anyway leave a voicemail with her and try for the makeout while I describe what I’m doing in the message...in front of her friend. I thought this was awesome. No makeout but it was cool. Don’t think there’s more I can do tonight other than beast different girls.

That was just about it  for the rest of the night...at some grass fed beef burgers and spinach with olive oil and lemon. Delightful.

One thing I forgot to mention is that Dave7 and I were sharing a room and did a quick debrief each night...you’re three best sets, three lessons, and three things you saw tonight that you liked. We did this for bootcamp...and I think it was really cool and helpful to do it with him.


Sunday
Meet up with some friends from high school and college and check out the Hollywood sign. Its a cool afternoon. Eventually hit up the 2nd day of hotseat. So much value in this.

One thing I didn’t mentioned is that Saturday/Sunday I had been texting all the girls I met to meet me Sunday night. Well, I get my phone at like 1:15am after hotseat ran late (a very good thing :)) and start hitting them up. Metros closed so we gotta take a bus into West Hollywood...get back around 2am. I had been calling/texting MidWest girl the whole time to meet up...she was the one who wanted it to happen, it was really cool. She leaves with her friends right before I can meet her...I guess that one is really drunk. I go back to the room with Dave7 and call her after she texts me. Her roomate picks up...I guess Midwest is dealing with the drunk friend. Instead of having her call me back...I talk with the roomate for a while and win her over so I can come over to their place. Talk with my girl. She says she doesn’t want a booty call. it’s cool, I just want to cuddle. Pack my bags and taxi over.

It was kind of weird at first to see her...but I quickly made it normal as we sat cross legged on the bed. I spend a couple hours just talking with her and showing her pictures and stuff on my laptop thinking I wasn’t going to get anything from her. I eventually realize what time I have to leave to make my flight...ie. 45 minutes from then. Faaaack. I start making out with her but don’t fully escalate. I think next time I could for sure just whip my dick out and see what happens. Anyway she was a really cool chick, I asked her why she wanted to see me so badly after meeting me. She said I just had this vibe about me. I thought that was very awesome. Who knows if I’ll see her again, but it was such a positive experience. I leave at 6:15 am and head to the airport. No sleep...I feel like Owen does when he records his videos at sunrise after bootcamp. I feel like a baller.

Big takeaway from hotseat is to enjoy every level you are at. I’ve never done anything like that before...it was SO AWESOME.

I can honestly say this was one of the coolest 2 day stretches of my life.

And wow, this was a lot of verbage about this weekend’s shenanigans.


Positives
-I hit state hard immediately Saturday night and later Friday...I felt I could open anything
-I handled business with the italian stallion who tried to tool me...jokes on you buddy ;)
-You will always get something positive out of travel and meeting up with cool dudes who are on a similar path you are
-Redemption sets...going back in after walking past...always worth it
-Just being me is enough
-These reports are probably never going to be this long...I’m pretty sure my memory will not allow another dump like this and I won’t be sitting on a plane without any sleep and wanting to type something up...haha I take that back. This will probably happen for NYC and SD. Hit me up if you live in those cities and want to go out hotseat weekends.
-I love this stuff...I was laughing so much the entire weekend from either my sets, situations, or just hotseat videos
-Dave7 has GREAT guy game, we all could learn a thing or two from him :)
__________________
Login or register to post.