THE FORUMS
For girls who've viewed my profile and not messaged me, I've had a lot of success with:
"So, is that it?
We done?
Okay then, you can have your divorce but I'm keeping the kittens and the castle in Scotland - you can have the hoover and those wretched Katie Perry CDs
Thanks for the ordinary sex
GOODBYE!
Your ex ;)"
Girls fall into this role-play all the time.
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"So, is that it?
We done?
Okay then, you can have your divorce but I'm keeping the kittens and the castle in Scotland - you can have the hoover and those wretched Katie Perry CDs
Thanks for the ordinary sex
GOODBYE!
Your ex ;)"
Girls fall into this role-play all the time.
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@Foxx -
I'm not so much referring to not being able to close when you get the meet up, I'm talking about what happens when you meet and that chemistry that you built up through messages/texts/phone calls just dissolves
A person's POF profile is like a CV - it's a smoke and mirrors job, you can choose photos that hide your physical blemishes and imperfections which initially might have prevented you from sending an opening message to the girl. However, in real life, these cannot be hidden.
Ive been experiencing these exact things as well. I don't think chemistry is something you can control, its either there or it isn't. That's the hurdle to online dating. All the virtual interactions online and through the phone make you build an image of that person and exactly what type of person they are. Once you meet in real life then that image may or may not change, most of the time it does. Do you drink during dates? I always meet up for drinks, it facilitates getting laid much easier than dinners. Chemistry is less important at that point. I'm not so much referring to not being able to close when you get the meet up, I'm talking about what happens when you meet and that chemistry that you built up through messages/texts/phone calls just dissolves
A person's POF profile is like a CV - it's a smoke and mirrors job, you can choose photos that hide your physical blemishes and imperfections which initially might have prevented you from sending an opening message to the girl. However, in real life, these cannot be hidden.
@Kidazia - At fucking last! Somebody understands! Thanks brother!
I'm so tired of this online bullshit that gives the impression that all you have to do is get the meet-up and the girl is slipping a condom on your dick.
Yes, this is a bit of a science, and Foxx's post is spot on as regards how to approach this stuff. However, once you get the meet-up, then it's a whole different game and, yes, even if you're exercising the programme, sexual chemistry HAS to come in to play.
Thanks, again, matey, x
I'm so tired of this online bullshit that gives the impression that all you have to do is get the meet-up and the girl is slipping a condom on your dick.
Yes, this is a bit of a science, and Foxx's post is spot on as regards how to approach this stuff. However, once you get the meet-up, then it's a whole different game and, yes, even if you're exercising the programme, sexual chemistry HAS to come in to play.
Thanks, again, matey, x
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Thanks for the feedback!
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- Foxx
Good post foxx. As far as pictures go, I would still definitely recommend using mybestface to choose your profile pic, but the rest of them should be pictures you like and of whatever you want. I know all I did was swap my profile pic with a picture that was already on my profile but tested higher and my replies increased about 20%.
I like sending out the same first message to a big batch at the same time, but I also have a response to copy and paste for the next two messages as well.
For me it typically looks like this
1st: Hey dork, what's up?
2nd: I just got done writing the craziest most awesome best song ever. What are you all about?
3rd: you seem like you could be cool. Send me your number and I'll text you sometime.
I'll send the second two pretty much no matter what they reply with, even if it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. That format works gives me a good success rate regardless of what is actually in the messages. Sometimes they'll reply to the third message but won't give their number, but with a fluff message or two I can usually get it.
@butterscotch
Are you having trouble on day2s with women you didn't meet online? For me personally there really isn't a difference between meeting up with a girl from online vs a girl I met in real life.
I like sending out the same first message to a big batch at the same time, but I also have a response to copy and paste for the next two messages as well.
For me it typically looks like this
1st: Hey dork, what's up?
2nd: I just got done writing the craziest most awesome best song ever. What are you all about?
3rd: you seem like you could be cool. Send me your number and I'll text you sometime.
I'll send the second two pretty much no matter what they reply with, even if it doesn't make a whole lot of sense. That format works gives me a good success rate regardless of what is actually in the messages. Sometimes they'll reply to the third message but won't give their number, but with a fluff message or two I can usually get it.
@butterscotch
Are you having trouble on day2s with women you didn't meet online? For me personally there really isn't a difference between meeting up with a girl from online vs a girl I met in real life.
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The mass of men lead lives of quiet desperation -Thoreau
@Crunch - no trouble, at all, thank you very much; all I'm trying to explain, if people actually read my posts like kidazia has, is that once the bitch turns up in person, any attraction that I'd built up for her thru her profile/pics and texts, just disappears like a breeze through the trees.
Have I got to repeat this thing again? EVERY SINGLE GIRL I'VE MET FROM POF HAVE NEVER LOOKED AS ATTRACTIVE IN THE FLESH AS THEY DID IN THEIR PICS.
Well, may be one - and that was the slutty little bitch that let me cum on her tits and she rubbed her clitoris because she was on the blob at the time.
Have I got to repeat this thing again? EVERY SINGLE GIRL I'VE MET FROM POF HAVE NEVER LOOKED AS ATTRACTIVE IN THE FLESH AS THEY DID IN THEIR PICS.
Well, may be one - and that was the slutty little bitch that let me cum on her tits and she rubbed her clitoris because she was on the blob at the time.
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By the way, Mr Foxx - you seem gto be very quiet on this particular issue.
Thoughts now.
Thoughts now.
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@Butterscotch
I didn't intend any disrespect. I've had girls send timestamped/spoon pics for me before, so you might want to try something like that. You can be a little mroe discreet about it by asking them to take a picture of something specific that was brought up in the convo. For example I was talking to a chick that was gonna be in a wedding, and I had her send me a picture of her in her bridesmade stuff. Get creative with it. But when it comes down to it some girls are masters at camera angles and you'll get fooled. Theres not much else you can do about it.
I didn't intend any disrespect. I've had girls send timestamped/spoon pics for me before, so you might want to try something like that. You can be a little mroe discreet about it by asking them to take a picture of something specific that was brought up in the convo. For example I was talking to a chick that was gonna be in a wedding, and I had her send me a picture of her in her bridesmade stuff. Get creative with it. But when it comes down to it some girls are masters at camera angles and you'll get fooled. Theres not much else you can do about it.
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@Crunch -
I know you didn't intend any disrespect, my friend. I was only joking - that's just the way I write, young man.
That's a top idea - will try that.
Will keep you in the loop.
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Thoreau quote: top one!
I know you didn't intend any disrespect, my friend. I was only joking - that's just the way I write, young man.
That's a top idea - will try that.
Will keep you in the loop.
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Thoreau quote: top one!
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Butterscotch
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Join Date: 07/07/2012 | Posts: 176
I'm not so much referring to not being able to close when you get the meet up, I'm talking about what happens when you meet and that chemistry that you built up through messages/texts/phone calls just dissolves
A person's POF profile is like a CV - it's a smoke and mirrors job, you can choose photos that hide your physical blemishes and imperfections which initially might have prevented you from sending an opening message to the girl. However, in real life, these cannot be hidden.
Of all the girls that I've met offline, NONE of them have looked as good and as hot as they've done in their POF profile pics - NONE of them (and I don't suppose, I do, too)
And another thing, son, don't be such a presumptious cheeky monkey in future. I'm nearly 50, if you don't mind - and I have got more life experiences and more social intelligence in my little finger than most of the guys on here. So, don't assume such things about me from a just a dozen lines on a pick-up forum. Ok, deal?
As for the question above that you asked Todd - this to me has been the easiest part of online game. I hardly ever phone; I text them and try to align our scedules until we have a window of opportunity. Sometimes, though, with so many women on the site having kids, this is not so easy to arrange quickly.
On a sidenote: had to cancel a meet-up with a girl today. Met her on POF two weeks ago and she seemed fun. However, in the last fortnight she must have sent me nearly 200 texts! Last night though, it was clear that she had already got me down for Husband Number 2.
Sorry girl, I'm not the marrying type...