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Damn dude, I can't relate to this at all you've banged so so many more girls than me, but I have to think that you will get back your mojo pretty fast if you keep hitting it up hard and consistently.
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from the scale of 1-10 how good looking are you?
before any other rsd nation members get insecure and start flaming, stfu and let the man reply
before any other rsd nation members get insecure and start flaming, stfu and let the man reply
Im pretty average looking man, if anything the epitome of why looks or a fashion sense doesnt matter cuz Im slightly overweight and balding.
When I started out I literally wore the same three t shirts and the same pair of jeans everyday for two years and still got crazy results so looks dont factor into this at all.
When I started out I literally wore the same three t shirts and the same pair of jeans everyday for two years and still got crazy results so looks dont factor into this at all.
Not doing something for 15 months is going to make you suck at it. I recently just picked up the guitar after not playing for over three years and it only took me about a week to get back to where I was with daily practice.
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chiffonade | CITY OF ANGELS | CALIFORNIA | USA
"Horsepower, firepower, willpower."
"Horsepower, firepower, willpower."
Im pretty average looking man, if anything the epitome of why looks or a fashion sense doesnt matter cuz Im slightly overweight and balding.
When I started out I literally wore the same three t shirts and the same pair of jeans everyday for two years and still got crazy results so looks dont factor into this at all.
thanks for the advice, despite constant reassurance from rsd the loks issue keeps crawling up everytime some I approach in clubs and some bitch looks at me and tells me to fuck off. I do get some success but it pisses me off because I know that i'm decent looking. My weakness is than i'm kinda skinny at the moment, however I have started going to the gym 4 times a week and eating more. When I started out I literally wore the same three t shirts and the same pair of jeans everyday for two years and still got crazy results so looks dont factor into this at all.
I wasnt not doing anything for 15 months, I was out beasting in day game and sometimes at night but always had a girl to come home to. Now when I have to eat only what I hunt, my results suck shit.
lol never heard of this. I would think you'll get it back within a few weeks if you start going out every night or at least a few nights a week
You are retarded. Stop getting in your head so much and just have fun. It'll come back to you.
This thread is like, "I have $500 million in my bank and I just lost $1 million playing poker, I'm so poor boohoo, please console me"
This thread is like, "I have $500 million in my bank and I just lost $1 million playing poker, I'm so poor boohoo, please console me"
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wwaaaa wwwwaaa i don't go out and my game sucks. wwwwwwwwaaaaa wwwwwaaa 
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"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself but to your own estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."
"A man must stand erect, not be kept erect by others."
-Marcus Aurelius
"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."
-Confucius
"A man must stand erect, not be kept erect by others."
-Marcus Aurelius
"By three methods we may learn wisdom: First, by reflection, which is noblest; Second, by imitation, which is easiest; and third by experience, which is the bitterest."
-Confucius
This is not meant to be a bragging thread by any means, it might get better but at this point I really do feel lost and what I did before regularly seems far from my reality. I dont need consolation I just want to know if this is normal and a path to getting back into my old mindset again.
PlayerTillIDie
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Join Date: 11/20/2009 | Posts: 38
Then got itnto a relationship which lasted 15 months.
All this while, I still went out quite often met other girls sober in the daytime and did crazy things in clubs while drunk.
Now that Ive decided to get back into this full on it is like Ive never done this before. Its out of my reality to approach girls at clubs, getting physical is actually scary to me! I have alot of anxiety while just holding a conversation and can feel the complete noob vibe that Im giving off, Im running out of things to say and SHIT SCARED TO APPROACH WTF?
Why is this happening? It's like the past two years I was slowly regressing and my foundations were getting weaker (even though I was getting intermittent reults) and now that Ive decided to put full pressure on myself it all just collapsed. Meanwhile the new guys I go out with are getting decent results and dates, Im getting flakes in the day and have to do mental jiu jitsu to approach just a two set. It all does come back to me quickly when I have good momentum but more often than not that quickly disappears leaving the new chode me as soon as I have a set go bad.
Anyone face something similar? I feel like Ive started back from scratch and forgotten most of my journey up in the past few years. Its sobering and disheartening at the same time.