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May 19th, 2013
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Watermel

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Why do you do all this stuff? Why do you train to hit on strangers and have sex with them? Is this even necessary?

From 18 to 21 I am getting older and just by the fact that I'm getting older girls react to me differently. I didn't try to pick up girls for the last 24 months.

In the evening, I can just walk on the street and some young girls will stop me trying to make out with me.

Or I had this secretary girl who called me from a company, and later texted me the next morning saying she "liked my voice"…

I just feel it, simply by walking on the street, I often notice girls glaring at me, and timidly looking away or sometimes holding eye contact as I notice them.

I am in a strange headpsace where I actually do not want to hang out with a girl, unless she's extraordinarely beautiful, which never happens.

I always end up telling myself that she's not good enough, but in reality I am just not familiar enough with my own intimacy.

I just don't really want to deal with it. I am not as social as most people are, mainly because I get bored in social situations.

In short, yes I would like to meet a girl and get to know her, but for some reason the moment I meet her I persuade myself that I actually don't want it bad enough.

I mean, people often make a big deal out of it, but I don't really care. "It is not worth my effort", often do I think.

So, what do you think about it? Good thing, bad thing, or just another way of living?

It doesn't really bother me. Today I would prefer to have a new car than a girlfriend…
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Watermel

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Looking at this forum is quite funny, guys seem to be obsessed with women, studying them, trying to learn magic powers… When in reality it is absolutely useless! You'll not meet women on rsdnation, kids… And if you want to meet women, and instead of it read how to meet women, you are massively wasting your time…
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It's like when you want to drive a car and instead of getting in the dman car and learning to drive it you watch youtube videos explaing how to drive a car… you'll never learn by watching youtube! it's as lame as trying to pick up girls by trolling rsdnation.
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Warhol

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WHY? Because this is probably one of the funnest things EVER.
When I have a good night I feel ALIVE.
Do you even go out bra? 
Do cold approaches and then see if you have really changed with age, if girls really see you differently.
Because how good you are with girls is sort of a reflection of how cool of a guy you are.

Dont you want to live knowing you are taking action and being a mutha fucking man!
YOU GET BORED? Arent you just bored of yourself man? 
I can never relate to people who cant just have fun being around other people. Its the biggest limiting belief ever.
Read the field reports, like distant lights. You dont want to live that? Really?

To answer your last question.
IMO its bad thing. It fucking disgusts me to see someone wasting their life. But then again the world needs losers.
Although it does not mean you cant cultivate a love for life. A love for yourself. A love for the WORLD,.. You have the power to change your life!

Thats my perspective anyway haha.
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Why do you do all this stuff? Why do you train to hit on strangers and have sex with them? Is this even necessary?

Yes.

From 18 to 21 I am getting older and just by the fact that I'm getting older girls react to me differently. I didn't try to pick up girls for the last 24 months.
In the evening, I can just walk on the street and some young girls will stop me trying to make out with me.


Yet you don't end up making out?

Or I had this secretary girl who called me from a company, and later texted me the next morning saying she "liked my voice"…

And?

I just feel it, simply by walking on the street, I often notice girls glaring at me, and timidly looking away or sometimes holding eye contact as I notice them.

Look, like Roger from the movie Roger Dodger "Anyone can get halfway". The magic is not in the fact some chick gives you an IOI (I got them at 18 when I was a total chode), but that you have the ability to make something happen with it!

I am in a strange headpsace where I actually do not want to hang out with a girl, unless she's extraordinarely beautiful, which never happens.

Ergo, you never hang out with a girl? Phew, good thing you're not a time waster like us who train to hit on girls and have sex with them!

I always end up telling myself that she's not good enough, but in reality I am just not familiar enough with my own intimacy.
I just don't really want to deal with it. I am not as social as most people are, mainly because I get bored in social situations.
In short, yes I would like to meet a girl and get to know her, but for some reason the moment I meet her I persuade myself that I actually don't want it bad enough.
I mean, people often make a big deal out of it, but I don't really care. "It is not worth my effort", often do I think.

Okay, I'll be straight with you, my observation and very personal experience is that the less likely you see yourself able to attract a girl, the higher requirement you set for a girls beauty. When I was 20 and total chode, before I got into this, my standards were ridiculous. Unless the girls was a SOLID 9 like 9½ I'd tell myself she's not "hot enough". I was socially awkward as fuck and always explained my lack of a girlfriend (and virginity) by saying I hadn't met a girl who was hot enough for me in a way where I had an opportunity to get to know her.

So, one of the main reason we study "hitting on strangers for sex" is to clean our head from such diseases as "insecurity" "neediness" and "excuses". The more adept I've become at pickup, the more chicks I find attractive. Also it has taught me to value a girl's personality a lot more.

It doesn't really bother me. Today I would prefer to have a new car than a girlfriend…

Cool, but what about tomorrow? A new girl is cheaper than a new car :P
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what a stupid post
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Watermel

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Warhol wrote:
WHY? Because this is probably one of the funnest things EVER.
When I have a good night I feel ALIVE.
Do you even go out bra? 
Do cold approaches and then see if you have really changed with age, if girls really see you differently.
Because how good you are with girls is sort of a reflection of how cool of a guy you are.

Dont you want to live knowing you are taking action and being a mutha fucking man!
YOU GET BORED? Arent you just bored of yourself man? 
I can never relate to people who cant just have fun being around other people. Its the biggest limiting belief ever.
Read the field reports, like distant lights. You dont want to live that? Really?

To answer your last question.
IMO its bad thing. It fucking disgusts me to see someone wasting their life. But then again the world needs losers.
Although it does not mean you cant cultivate a love for life. A love for yourself. A love for the WORLD,.. You have the power to change your life!

Thats my perspective anyway haha.
Because how good you are with girls is sort of a reflection of how cool of a guy you are.

I don't share this opinion.

Dont you want to live knowing you are taking action and being a mutha fucking man!

A "mutha fucking man"? What? I don't believe that being awesome means having sex with lots of different girls.

I can never relate to people who cant just have fun being around other people. Its the biggest limiting belief ever.

What limiting beliefs have to do with this? I also get bored watching football, and what?

IMO its bad thing. It fucking disgusts me to see someone wasting their life.

Lets say I build spaceshifts, but not fornicating every day. Am I wasting my life? Why do you think that anybody that doesn't go to a nightclub is wasting his life?

How can you say that a hardworking man that gives value to the world instead of partying is wasting his life???

But then again the world needs losers.

And here you are even insulting me by implicitly calling me a "loser". Is this also something you think is cool?

Thinking you're awesome because you go out a lot, having sex with girls, and calling other guys losers?

And, do you really belive that the world needs losers? Nobody needs them!

You have the power to change your life!

I don't doubt it, but I doubt the need to change my life and become a manwhore.
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jenlawillgetyou wrote:
what a stupid post
Thanks for free insults
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Warhol

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Ok wait so you dont go out?

1) taking action is the best feeling ever, becoming aligned with your goals and ambition. So on this forum we want sex. Im a virgin btw. But I enjoy the fact that I am taking action. The journey is the destination. I know one day I will be living MY DREAMS.
2) Its very easy for your ego to say “This is boring”. Instead of actually approaching. Limiting belief. That everything is too good for you.
3) Well you are on a pick up forum with over 200 posts. Its safe to say you are wasting your life. I don’t know you, are you contributing value to society? If so, good luck. If you really were fulfilled you wouldn’t need to even comment on this forum.
4) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqX3u12wTqw&feature=player_embedded
5) So you really dont want success with women. But your on a social dynamics forum with over 200 posts? Strong logic. Then leave and go be yourself.

“It doesn't really bother me.” … Why do you need to argue and win. If it doesnt bother you? You asked what our/my thoughts are. I gave them. If it didnt bother you, then you wouldnt even think anything of this.
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Warhol wrote:
Ok wait so you dont go out?

1) taking action is the best feeling ever, becoming aligned with your goals and ambition. So on this forum we want sex. Im a virgin btw. But I enjoy the fact that I am taking action. The journey is the destination. I know one day I will be living MY DREAMS.
2) Its very easy for your ego to say “This is boring”. Instead of actually approaching. Limiting belief. That everything is too good for you.
3) Well you are on a pick up forum with over 200 posts. Its safe to say you are wasting your life. I don’t know you, are you contributing value to society? If so, good luck. If you really were fulfilled you wouldn’t need to even comment on this forum.
4) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pqX3u12wTqw&feature=player_embedded
5) So you really dont want success with women. But your on a social dynamics forum with over 200 posts? Strong logic. Then leave and go be yourself.

“It doesn't really bother me.” … Why do you need to argue and win. If it doesnt bother you? You asked what our/my thoughts are. I gave them. If it didnt bother you, then you wouldnt even think anything of this.
I will be living MY DREAMS

If you are a virgin, depending on your age, chances are you are overrating sex. It is good, but I wouldn't say sex is the ultimate happiness, far from that. You're probably like a hungry guy who didn't eat for a week and thinks that if he eats a burger he will fullfill his ultimate dreams…

Well you are on a pick up forum with over 200 posts. Its safe to say you are wasting your life.

Yes, and only 3 posts in 2012 before this one. And again, it doesn't mean anything. Tyler, the one you seem to like, has almost 6000 posts, it doesn't mean he's wasting his time.

You asked what our/my thoughts are. I gave them. If it didnt bother you, then you wouldnt even think anything of this. 

I appreciated your opinion, and it doesn't bother me. I am just suggesting that you probably shouldn't insult people for free and judging them by their posts number or wordlview…

It also seems on this forum that if you want to be taken seriously, you have to prove that you can fuck a lot of girls.

I actually like it because it is a challenge. Warhol why don't we organize a competition or something? We keep a track of what we do, and the one who has the most intercourses in the next six months wins. This would be more interesting than talking shit. What do you say?
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Warhol

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All your points are valid man. Im in this because i love it!
This isnt an ego thing. I dont care if you have more sex than me rite now. Because i know in the future i will be dominating life.

Anyway im on my way out. I wont be posting in this thread again. Maybe post in my field reports in like a year to check in.
Peace man! Good Luck with watever you pursue.
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