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November 23rd, 2014
One boner a day...daygame + clubs FR
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Scandalo

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Join Date: 05/18/2011 | Posts: 31

 Eya,

I decided to write a journal starting today !

My routine consists of:

- at least 1 hour of daily streetgame
- clubs at least twice a week

My goal is to get at least one boner a day ( that was clear from the title ) lol

How will I do that:

-approaching the girls I would fuck ( and believe me, in the city where I live there's a lot )
-shift from indirect to direct: I don't know, but since I've lived here for a lot it feels weird to ask for directions, indirect is perfect for starting anyway...

Structure of the journal:

basically I will describe what happened, then I will write the realizations I got and the goals for the next time ( always in a positive way ).

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26/07/2012 - Daygame

Went out from the subway, sun was shining, I basically walked around for half an hour around the mall, kept eye contact with anyone and screened which girls i would approach__

-2 russian girls:
approached them while they were walking and asked where the nike shop was, they didn't know but one of the 2 girls stopped in front of me, I asked if they were from Prague, she said no but then her friend dragged her away

-cute girl:
stopped and asked the same thing, but I didn't square up to her, so she walked the fuck away :)

-blonde with earphones
squared up to her, gestured to take away earphones and asked how to get to the square near my place, she replied and I asked if she was a touristic guide, I introduced myself and she asked me where I live with a big smile on her face...I kinda felt weird to ask for directions while living here, anyway she gave me the directions, told me good luck and walked away, but still smiling to me...next time I will plow

REALIZATIONS:
-girls love to be approached by a guy, especially during the day
-after the first approach, anxiety disappears and you start to not give a fuck

GOALS FOR NEXT TIME:
-square up to each girl I talk with
-start to approach in a direct fashion: "I like your shoes/outfit/style" or "I wanted to say Hi"

Peace

L.
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CBAABC

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Join Date: 02/20/2009 | Posts: 1818

 Did a ton of direct approaching in Daygame...not I am switching to indirect, I find it better :)

For indirect click on no. 1

For direct click on no. 2

Until next time...
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Scandalo

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 27/07/2012 - Daygame

Just came back from my city center tour, unfortunately with no approaches...I think this direct/indirect thing got me stucked in my head, screening even more for girls and getting stifled.
Anyway I got my ass out there, and that counts;)

REALIZATIONS:
-at this stage it's all about getting momentum and unstifling myself, nothing else matters
-everyday I see walking in that area at least 10/15 girls that I would like to fuck

GOALS FOR NEXT TIME:
-get unstifled as soon as possible, ask for informations, random questions and then once warmed up, direct
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Scandalo

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 28/07/2012 - Daygame

Trip to the center after work...awesome !

I decided that momentum is my priority, so I started talking immediately after leaving the metro...

2 blondies
Asked for informations, the cutest one was very receptive, but the other one was angry biatch and complaining, so I left the set...

Blonde promoter in front of discotheque:
Asked her information about today's parties, but she was only working for the restaurant so she called her male colleague...damn it :)
Anyway befriended the pr guy and got discount on the cover...whatever

Randomly talking with promoters, to keep my state up...

Chubby restaurant pr with cute face:
Approached and asked discount on steaks, high fived her and introduced myself, then we talked for a few minutes about where I am from, healthy foods and blablabla. She was watching around for her boss, so I said her goodbye and left.

REALIZATIONS:
-all that counts is momentum and getting unstifled, then you become more and more connected to your core

GOALS FOR NEXT TIME:
-starting to hit hard on girls, enough of gay shit ;)

Till the next time, 

L.
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Scandalo

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 29/07/2012 - Daygame

Went out for my daily tour of the city center, although I was very tired from basketball and workout in the morning...

Walked for one hour, spoke with a cute shop assistant in a shop about basketball shoes, met a friend of mine who i didn't see for so long, not so much today...lazy me !

REALIZATIONS:
-girls, even hot ones are very shy, scared of keeping eye-contact...this gives me a lot of self-esteem
-I can go everywhere, on my own, nobody cares about me: first times I started daygame I was all the time self-conscious and thinking about what people would think of me, now..I feel completely comfortable, I keep eye-contact with anyone...and I am super-relaxed, going around with a smile on my face...

GOALS FOR NEXT TIME:
-APPROACH CHICKS ! :)

L.
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Scandalo

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 30/07/2012 - Daygame

Blonde in lunch time at the mall
Grabbed my food, saw her alone in a 4 seat table, joined her and asked how was her sushi. She offered me some, but I kindly declined. Asked her if she works at the mall, what do you do, she told me she was there for shopping, she studies and blablabla. During pauses, she would almost never reinitiate the conversation, so I interpreted it as a poor reaction and I was thinking about just let it fall and eat my lunch, but anyway I continued. Then as she was in a rush and about to leave, she stood up and told me goodbye with a big smile on her face.

Cute promoter outside mall 
Actually she approached me asking me to change my doctor for some private clinic. I told her I'm not interested but I asked her how was going, introduced myself, asked what she does and had a playful 5 minutes convo. Then I had to come back to work, kissed her on cheeks and said goodbye. Lots of signals of interest from her side, but I didn't want to ask her number. I was not inspired. Ok, I'm a lazy newbie and I didnt want to ask, that's the reason damn it :)

I had my daily tour in the afternoon as well but no approaches though.

REALIZATIONS:
- a girl who initially doesn't contribute so much to the conversation it's not to be interpreted as bad reaction, but means that she's not used to be approached during the day or she is a little shy/intimidated - Must plow until she becomes confortable.
- caught girls checking me out on the street, that's ridiculous :) Must approach immediately

GOALS FOR NEXT TIME:
-go for the girls you want, no excuses !
-plow until she gets comfortable in the conversation

Cheers,

L.
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Scandalo

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 01/08/2012 - Daygame

Went in the center after work; even though I had my meditation session in the morning I was feeling a little numb and out of rhythm...in fact I stayed around for one hour but didn't approach anyone.
I am not sure, but today I felt like there is something inside me which pulls me in the wrong direction, something that wants to prevent me from becoming the center of the attention, being vulnerable, or even risking to be rejected/humiliated in public. This fucking sucks, and I have to deal with it.
Anyway props to me that I showed up

'Tomorrow,

L.
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