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June 19th, 2013
Going out solo
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cmav25

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Join Date: 07/22/2012 | Posts: 26

Going to try to go out alone more often. Anyone try this or do this often? I feel like a creep even thinking about it, anyone have any suggestions about how to overcome this bullshit headspace I'm in?
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tyler1089

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 66

I tried it on friday and saturday straight. I did use some alcohol to calm me down but generally its not as bad as you would think is. If its a small club dont be an approaching machine, be careful because people will soon realize you are on your own. If anyone asks tell them you've lost your friends, never say you are waiting for them. Its a pretty good way to be independent and well grounded. However if you can get a wingman then i'd suggest you do that instead, even if he isnt into gaming.

if you are wondering how it went for me, all i can say is that I got so much success I got scared when i realized i was on my own so i failed to fully execute. Had this girl's arms around me and was about to go for the kiss but i got scared lool. Something which never happens.
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cmav25

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Join Date: 07/22/2012 | Posts: 26

lol good shit.  yea im from a smaller town so its kind of awkward to do it often. I always wanted to squash this issue but im like 45 minutes from a small city. The only true reason why i want to go out alone is because i thrive on club game, Ive even trained up a friend inadvertantly (he has no clue about game etc.) and hes actually become decent. Where you from man, have you taken a bootcamp or anything?
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Lurid~

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Join Date: 08/21/2007 | Posts: 483

ever been out with friends and walked away for a minute on your own? you were alone then, hows it any different? people dont know who youre with, dont care who youre with, dont care about you. if they ask just say my friends are around here somewhere. this is your issue, not theirs. as soon as youre ok with it, then it wont matter anymore.
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TheBigT

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Join Date: 06/17/2012 | Posts: 105

What's creepy is staying at home playing video games if no one is there to go out with you. Pretty soon, people are going to need to hold hands with someone to go to the bathroom. j/k.
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tyler1089

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 66

cmav25 wrote:
lol good shit.  yea im from a smaller town so its kind of awkward to do it often. I always wanted to squash this issue but im like 45 minutes from a small city. The only true reason why i want to go out alone is because i thrive on club game, Ive even trained up a friend inadvertantly (he has no clue about game etc.) and hes actually become decent. Where you from man, have you taken a bootcamp or anything?
I havent taken bootcamp bro. I've just learnt from experience over the course of one year. Brutal shit but i nearly got a gf lol. I went from a super noob to an intermediate thanks to the help of rsd and my friend who is a natural. I'm currently in Hull, Uk...you?
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Buddhagames

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Join Date: 07/25/2011 | Posts: 2703

I never go out solo. It's weird.
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gsaad

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Join Date: 01/08/2012 | Posts: 465

it's not weird. It's the best. 

Buddhagames wrote:
I never go out solo. It's weird.
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Buddhagames

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lol... look at my sig ; )
gsaad wrote:
it's not weird. It's the best. 

Buddhagames wrote:
I never go out solo. It's weird.

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 The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars

A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"

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#9

Alex_Mr_It

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Join Date: 10/06/2010 | Posts: 129

Dude, going out solo is the shit...
Last might my two friends (guy and girl) were arguing in the disco, they went to the quiet area to talk/fight, so I was practically on my own...

I was FORCED to take action, to open multiple sets of five girls, to harrass MILFs and to be a quick thinker, to create initiative.
At the end I was so icy, cold and grounded that it almost scared me.
(I was also sober, took a non-alcoholic drink with fresh fruit, so I kept my state and energy pretty well)

Try it.
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#10

HunterF

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Join Date: 07/17/2012 | Posts: 111

 I said YOLO and went SOLO last night. Was decent - the club was 1/4 full which sucked but I still got a bunch of approaches in, a makeout (she wasn't hot but whatever it was still fun), and talked to a chill MILF for about 30 minutes. Also met some other guys that were there solo as well, talked game a bit. I don't think they were doing approaches though. 

Probably don't go early unless you know the venue is going to be packed - I went at midnight and it was still pretty much empty. Makes it much harder IMO (limiting belief that I'm still going to cling on to).
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