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"Friend" can't take a joke - deletes me off facebook
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#11

Ykmwr

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Join Date: 06/19/2012 | Posts: 293

Yea man, noticed that too about wings from forums. 
No he's not a forum guy, I know him since childhood.
power_level_over9000 wrote:

Lec wrote:
Exactly...the guy still lives with his parents, he's 26, got no job and is crying about it.
His younger bro has a job, and is his dad's favourite kid so he's depressed off his ass.

I basically just went on his site, said "How are you - posted the pic"....before that he
sent me a massive message asking loads of personal stuff.

So when I went to reply to his message I found he had blocked me and I wondered why
until I remember the pic.  I guess he's too sensitive but he's a really cocky guy himself



Was he from the forums? I find a lot of the wings found on the forums can be sensitive and extremely reactive. I am not talking about this forum but, foruns in general. Not everyone is cool man. Guys clash sometimes yet, we at least are civil usually. Even after fights, guys shake hands usually unless, someone got knocked out. Then, who knows? Girls are haters for life afterward. You will get past it or you will move on. If he is depressed, he could use a friend. One of my buddies got testicular cancer and lost some his aunt. I was supportive of him despite, he wasn't his fun, and out going happy self. When I l had my break up, he responded by being supportive, taking me out, and approaching girls with me or even opening sets for me. Its priceless to find such a great friend and wing. If he is like that, support him, and apologize for offending him. If not, forget about him, and move on. Approach more girls too.
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Ha ha ha I don't care at all!!! *makes thread about how he doesn't care*
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high_maintenance wrote:
Ha ha ha I don't care at all!!! *makes thread about how he doesn't care*
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You have friends to delete? That must be nice...

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Obviously if it didn't matter to you, you would of just shrugged and got on with your life after he deleted you
Instead you made a thread completely irrelevant to this board

Time to reexamine your own "ego" bruh
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justgowithit wrote:
 you're clearly an annoying faggot.  the guy did the right thing.

Yea you're right. But I would still love to see you and your family rot in a concentration camp.

Other than that, yea you're probably wrong.
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#17
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inb4 OP turns into a gigantic a-hole IRL, loses friends, and blames it on "their ego"
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#19

Kjaye777

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I think you should see it from his point of view.

From what you have told us this the scenario as I see it.

You friend him on facebook after a long absence of contact.  He gets in touch, writes you a long personal message, telling you he is depressed and has personal problems.

You respond by putting up a picture of Moley on his wall to mock him.

On the surface this does look like a remarkably tactless and thoughtless thing to do in the circumstances, if not outright mean.

He probably is really upset that you kicked him when he was down, figures you are just an asshole who he cannot relate to at all and so deletes you.

You respond to this by creating a thread on an internet forum, moaning about HIS ego and reactiveness and then insult and disrespect him yet further by posting a picture of him alongside a picture of Moley, all because he couldn't take a 'joke'.


I think you have behaved appallingly childishly and meanly and showed zero empathy towards a person who was feeling shit about himself already.

He sounds well rid of you.

On the other hand, I'm sure you didn't really mean to do it to be nasty, you just reacted out of hurt and damaged pride, the same way he did when he deleted you.

I'd apologise to him if it was me, and admit I made a mistake. I'd also take down the picture of him immediatley, I don't think that is cool at all to treat a supposed firend like that.

I'm sure you are a nice guy really though, not having a go at you mate. We all do stupid things from time to time. But handle it right and don't try and turn it around and make it his fault.
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#20

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Join Date: 06/21/2012 | Posts: 12

OP how did you meet your friend and vice versa? Lol

www.rsdnation.com/node/234928
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