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May 21st, 2013
I´m tired of this shit, fuck em all. Going out SOLO
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Kapangus

Kapangus

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Join Date: 04/05/2012 | Posts: 111

Hello mothafuckers I realise that I m a fagg. I can´t deal with day game, can´t do my fucking first approach since I know this, 1month ago, and fuck no I didn´t get my first approach yet. 

So im tired of being a fucking dumb ass who goes to bed imagining what will happend if i have succes with women and not moving a dick to try to talk to some random girl  , and my fucking friends have a lot of problems to go out (or they go out when I dont go, and viseversa), and when I go out with them usually I dont do nothing either.

I was thinking of going out today solo I have 18 years old.

This maybe sound stupid but what the hell shall I say to my parents? hey dad Im going out alone to the club bye.. for him is going to be wierd as hell.  And probably he will say "no is dangerous to go out alone at night" 

And , I am going to be alone there, its a rule to approach very quiclky to get in state and gain social momentum?
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Orkidea

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 Why don't you just say that you are going to some girls house. Father will feel happy that you are stud, not some turd.
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Orkidea wrote:
 Why don't you just say that you are going to some girls house. Father will feel happy that you are stud, not some turd.
So going out solo makes you a turd?
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Orkidea

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 Well that's what his father think
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so you're saying you care what people think of you more than dong smashing hot girls?


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RockNRollPUA

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Tell your dad that you are going out to get some pussy.  Then leave.  You don't need permission.
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seductivetechnique

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Just go out on your own and start approaching. Your thinking too much rather than just going out there and doing it.

Put the excuses aside and just open your mouth.

Say "Hi" or "Hello"  or "Hey, that's a nice dress."

Compliment the girl and say something.

Don't try and get it perfect because there's no such thing as a perfect opener or perfect icebreaker.

Don't worry about if your opening is chodey or if you open like an AFC.

I know tons of guys that just want to get it all perfect in their mind and have it all planned out before they approach in an effort to somehow eliminate or avoid rejection.

Let me tell you that rarely does it ever go the way that you plan.

What matters is that you DO SOMETHING. You can always learn from your mistakes after taking action.

And don't be afraid of rejection. It's going to happen. Every time you approach, there's an opportunity for you to get the girl or get rejected.

If you get rejected or somehow can't get a connection with the girl, just accept it for what it is and move on to the next girl.

The worst thing you can do is just not say anything. The more you procrastinate, the more your missing all the opportunities out there.

The clock never stops ticking. Stop wasting time, get out there, and start talking to women.

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Kapangus

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 Thanks for the replies guys.. I tell what happend..

My friends wanted to go out, ok we accord to go to the club X, at the last fucking hour they told me "Hey kapangus we are not going out" I thought for a moment that these motherfuckers were going to partying with me tonight, fuck no. 

I tried to convince one budy but he didn't want to, he said "Going out the both of us?, to wierd" ok, fuck you. All my fucking friends are pussys.

I want to go out alone tonight but tomorrow I have to get up early 7 AM to  get my car repair.. need some couple of things.. so Ok today I won't go out.. fuck.

BUT TOMORROW YES!, if these assholes don't want to, fuck them I go out alone cause the Sunday I don't have nothing to do YO!.

Anyway I want to party tonight...
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Shark Teeth

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Join Date: 06/09/2012 | Posts: 16

Edit: didn't check dates lol, but the 'mindset', if you will, still applies :)

You could go out 'till midnight at least, and still get enough sleep.
Then go out tomorrow too! :D

You could also lie to your dad and say you're going out with your friends.
And yes, your friends are pussies ^^
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Ryan2

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Right on brother.  Go out solo, push yourself, and you'll be a cool fucking dude in no time.
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#10

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Join Date: 06/12/2012 | Posts: 13

Kapangus, I'm 16 almost 17 and have the same fucking problem. When you live in a small town, and have some good friends, it is hard to just say: fuck them, i'll go and have new, better, cooler friends... --"
When I do go out with them, ithey never even think about even aproaching a girl.. Even though some fun mates would make it so much easier to just aproach for all kinds of stupid reasons and have fun.
But they always are SO sirious... They never even think about hot girls I imagine? Like wtf?
And yes, they find it"weird" if you would go out with only one friend? Like wtf? how social condidioned are these people?

I really wish I had a cool wing mate or a friend who also wants to become pro in pickup...

Fuck these fuckers, I'm going to start daygame any TIME I see a hot girl, I'm just going to talk to her, like wtf? Shes gonne be pissed because I'm friendly? LOL
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