Kill the need of that emotion called "LOVE"

Posted July 20th, 2012 at 7:46 AM

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stolpioni wrote:

Do you wanna become a psychopath/sociopath?
In that case, what you can do is either do a lot of stimulants like methamphetamine, that's basicly how I became borderline sociopathic (I think).
This will fuck up your front side of your brain where your empathy and stuff can be found.
Or, you can fuck up peoples lives so much that you don't care anymore. Maybe murder someone, try it out and see what happens. From what I've heard the first times will be hard,
but after a few kills and a few years passes you'll become numb.

Go get em!

Seriously speaking: Be very careful of what you wish for. It's not nice feeling empty inside. That's what happens after a while, you'll rot on the inside.
And from what I've heard the thing called Love is a great thing, maybe the greatest feeling a human being can possess? So why try to remove it?

It just makes me weak and takes me to needyness, my centeredness starts falling apart. All I want is to have my core so strong without even a single emotional flinch of love. If I get it then I will keep it with great care. If I don't then it shall not matter to me, shall not stop me from what I want achieve things in life. "I want it but I don't need it"... this way.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 8:44 AM

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Feelings are for girls to worry about. Be icey! Being icey is essentially not being emotionally effected by the environment. Instead, you simply get turned on and aroused... by the sound of your own voice!

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 8:53 AM

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You put fingure on my weak point. Yes I am just so hungry to feel loved. Never never had enough. Like surviving in the desert dying for a glass of water. I am tired of this. I rather not have that thirst.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 8:56 AM

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Lol your looking externally to find love. You'll never find it. It comes from being the person you want to be. Much like that cool guy in the club who raises his voice and is doing wild things for his own amusement. Free from social constraints, completely comfortable in his own skin. That is love.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 9:15 AM

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So you want to be not human. People who have a core completely made up of rock as you put it, aren't the happy ones. They're usually the damaged, fucked up ones. People who don't feel emotions are usually depressed or have gone through really fucked up shit. You don't want to be that guy, trust me.

Learn to love yourself instead. If you got that down, the need from love from the outside will lessen to a level where it's not in your way anyomre. It will never go away completely, but that's a good thing. Don't you want your family and friends to love you? Of course you do, and it feels great if they do.

Don't buy into the whole idea of the cold hard player thing too much.

marked9 wrote:

Even if it might sound weird. I just wanna do it. I want the core completely made up of rock. Absolutely with no craving of that emotion "Love", no "softness", no neediness from lack of feeling loved.
Cold hearted deep down but still charming, handling people with care, aligning with THEIR emotion of love. Not in me.

Call me crazy. Or if it makes sense then show me some ways to get there.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 9:17 AM

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 9:33 AM

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I understand where you are coming from... but at some point you'll be happy to feel something. For me, when I actually experience approach anxiety, I know the set will probably go well. It actually helps to genuinely care in set.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 9:47 AM

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you want to become a terrorist?

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 10:05 AM

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Lol dude go approach. What a bunch of kj bullshit. You don't need to get rid of love. You need to get rid of neediness. I search for love. I crave it. I think it'd be awesome if i loved a girl. I don't fear love because I know at the end of the day I don't need any girl, no matter how much I love them. I want it, I don't need it.

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Posted July 20th, 2012 at 10:08 AM

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