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March 23rd, 2017
My name is Austin and I'd like to give back to the community
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AustinCC

AustinCC

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Join Date: 03/24/2011 | Posts: 566

Background:

I was introduced to The Game (Niel Strauss) late 2009 when my brother gave it to me for christmas. It was an eye opener and changed the way I thought about women. My buddy and one my best friends was really the only guy who i knew who was a true natural and decent at it. I guess I figured I could finally be like him and get all sorts of cute girls. HAHA. Really it was the same story that all guys in the community could tell- I was a bit wierd, uncomfortable handling myself, and not satisfied with my life. The only difference I had was that I had some super healthy sexual beliefs and 18 or so lays prior to the community. I have various posts and field reports written around here, but i wanted to do a new journal that looked back at old posts of mine (via 2010) how i can relate them to the new guys, and where I'm at today.

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 Sweet man.
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REPOST!
 
The past three weeks have been rough, and probably one of the longest slumps I've ever had. I'm still distilling why I had such a mad slump, but these three mindsets helped me push through it. I figured if they benefitted me, hopefully someone else could benefit from these mindsets as much as I did.

1. I'd rather die than not do what I love.
I know this seems extreme, but it follows a no excuse, no bullshit attitude much along the lines of juilien's permission boy video. For me, I love gaming and learning about social dynamics. If I'm not gaming on a regular basis, then I'm learning, hanging out with girls or fucking. It's a hard line to follow, but it's something I aspire to everyday.

2. I'm thankful I can do what I love every single day of the week.
Socializing and gaming is free, fun, and available everywhere. How sweet is that???

3. I am never above my body.
As I study more nutrition and health, I realize the body and mind are always connected. If I don't take care of my body it wont take care of my mind. Case in point, left hand pointed out that because I go out so much and not see nearly enough day, I should take extra vitamin d. Low and behold, for the past few weeks I had probably become vitamin d deficient, thus making me more anxious and less stable.

Edit: on paradigm no. 1, I want to get across the point that I will do ANYTHING, if I think it's going to help my game and health in the long run. It's almost a desperation that I try to put myself into, much like a newbie who's at the lowest point in their live scratching at anything they think will work.

I hope this helps,
luv,
Austin
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AustinCC

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I'm writing this on today, the 19th of july after taking the first break from game in three weeks and first 5 days of regular sleep in a long time lol. 

Here are some of the benefits of long term gaming:

1. Last friday was all fun. I was a bit like a wild monkey let go on his play ground. I got my swagga back! 
2. Pulled first set on saturday while rolling. I couldnt get it up so i went over to her place monday night and had fun. Besides, she's 40 ;)
3. Descerning sticking points. This is actually probably my favorite point. Learning how to analyze what you're good and suck at is so crucial in life. Everything else relies on your ability to accurately judge yourself.

LIIIIIKE  my last slump, I figured it came down to my ego- i was going out alot with my girls and not taking action like a should because i was scared of ruining their perception of me in front of them instead of taking action and dealing with the consquences later, not taking care of myself, and drinking too much. Ironically, If i had viewed each point individually, I would have seen that I was fixing each of my sticking points, but because I had compounded so many problems when i would fix one another sticking point would come up. 

4. Went to disneyland yesterday with one of my best buds (the natural) and was basically given a girl. After gaming for long periods of time, you learn, "not to fuck up" by simply not doing anything too dramatic and having fun (zero outcome dependence). Throw in a little sexual escalation and we hooked up later. 

5. Finding good wings. I, straight up, would not be where I'm at today without my main wing (jay protege/ace of spades). I think good wings are something everyone needs. Luckly, now I've got a good base of wings here in san diego and la... (thanks josh, robin, logan, beryl (when i see you haha), enthalpy (samsies), natural buddies) and connections to guys good communities dudes all over the place. 

I really connected with the latest brad video, which is all slumps and egos:
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first green smoothy!
baby greens mix (spinach, romaine, mustard greens, etc.)
a little organic strawberry, lemonade concentrate juice (just for blending purpouses only)
1 peach
1 apple
fozen blueberry and boysenberry blend 

Damn, it tastes pretty good :) 

it's missing a few ingredients, but w/e. next time. 
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 That 40 yr old looked amazingly sexy, fuck. 
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fuck yeah she is! :)
dave7- wrote:
 That 40 yr old looked amazingly sexy, fuck.
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She's hot.

Good job.
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