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May 29th, 2017
Why do girls say they will let you know and they never do?
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threefiddy

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Join Date: 05/29/2011 | Posts: 4

 Hi,

So I've been having this issue with girls lately in two different forms:

1) I say to a girl, "Hey, let's go have a drink at XYZ place on wednesday at 7:30" . The girl would reply back with something like "Yeah sounds good, I'll let you know"
2) I say to a girl, "Hey, let's go have a drink at XYZ place on wednesday at 7:30" . The girls would say "Yeah sounds good, let's do it"

Now in the first case the girl obviously never lets me know, ever.

And in the second case the girl doesn't flake on me until the minute I confirm whether or not we're hanging out. I have a feeling that if I didn't actually try confirm that the girl would't have let me know either.

Am I literally buthering these sets so badly that they don't have the heart to tell me that they don't wanna hang out with me?
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mikevick07

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threefiddy

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mikevick07 wrote:

Thanks bro!
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jlaix

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 Enough of this setting it up for days in the future... same day only... tell her where and when to meet... anything but a firm commitment is unacceptable. "I'll see" ... "no, fuck that, you are meeting me at 830, period" ... keeps giving the runaround, NEXT her ass
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Sexyasian

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Depends. For Day 2s, yes of course next that bitch. Or just add her to the pool of "bored spread out shotgun texts".

If you've hanged out with her before, then those maybes might be real. Sometimes they will take a raincheck afterwards and give you specific times they are free. Hot girls are busy, its a fact. Don't shoot yourself in the foot if you've had a good day 2.
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I'm gonna nexting girls in set. Starting tonight. Ty Jeffy!
jlaix wrote:
 Enough of this setting it up for days in the future... same day only... tell her where and when to meet... anything but a firm commitment is unacceptable. "I'll see" ... "no, fuck that, you are meeting me at 830, period" ... keeps giving the runaround, NEXT her ass
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dottywine

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 For the record, its not just women who do this to men.

EVERYONE does this to EVERYONE.

Think of a time you run into an old friend, he says "We should catch up!" and you say "Yah man, totally!" and then don't...

This is not a woman-thing.

To counteract this, SCHEDULE IT right then and there. Not just with women, with ANYONE you encounter this way. 
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