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December 3rd, 2016
Champion! FR from Austin, TX
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Good start bro. hit me up if you come to london
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For sure, I'd love to come to London. One reason I'm working on the cash :) Travel all over.

This is a fantastic video in so many ways. Everyone should push their limits, to know them. It's reference experiences. Not trying to force. Lots.


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I know in game there's the concept or it used to be said more by David D, the "it's always on," thing. I flipped that on it's head. Now it's more so about letting the girl know that it's on. That you are actually attracted to her and that doesn't waver. Like hard dong. Whether this is communicated in subtle, or non-subtle ways. You tell her, it's on. Her job is to recieve, literally and otherwise.
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 I feel this is pretty great. But there's also a time when you have to pull the trigger, when things are getting settled 1AM-2AM. If you don't have a solid interaction by the end there you just need to go for it. Twilight zone as Jeffy says, "Boom, I love you!" makeout. I feel this works better in larger bars where people might stay in one venue. But depends on the bar. There are a lot of places where people will be friendly, but that's it. Or that are too cliqueish. Read the situation always. And that only comes from lots of experience, good and bad.

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 Love this. 
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 Shait. Forgot how fucking awesome this was. Reinforces some great things. 

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 Hah, I'll have to start a new thread once I do get this. Just like the easy going light hearted from from this. Fun, never forget the fun. Or the dick. Woo + intent.

"She's gotta have sex with someone. Might as well be me. Be unapologetic, just a simple guy, be stupid socially and emotionally, life becomes fun, you dance around in the bar, kiss more chicks, and you never have to worry about brushing your hair again."

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How were your first couple of months hitting the field? Were you an approach machine that "burned some venues to the ground" and switched venues constantly? Or did u just do a couple sets a night? Your first 3 months or so did you go out more than 3 nights a week? Do you ever still "burn venues down to the ground"? Thanks hope you achieve your goals. Glad you're over that whole altercation thing.
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champ wrote:
How were your first couple of months hitting the field? Were you an approach machine that "burned some venues to the ground" and switched venues constantly? Or did u just do a couple sets a night? Your first 3 months or so did you go out more than 3 nights a week? Do you ever still "burn venues down to the ground"? Thanks hope you achieve your goals. Glad you're over that whole altercation thing.
First couple months I was afraid to even approach pretty much. I wouldn't say I burned shit to the ground. That came later. Then I learned pretty much don't be stupid and I learned when and how to approach wher pretty much every girl I talk to I open. It's not that I'm only going in on non-challening sets either, I'll go in with dudes or 3-8 girls or whatever the fuck. My first 3 months out I don't think I did. I was too scared.

Here's what I did know. I was going to do WHATEVER THE FUCK it took to get good at this. And not just get good at this, but TO GET BACK MY LIFE AND MY DREAMS. I had always been pretty awesome, just not confident with girls. Just like I did to lose weight. I was in love, I was in extreme fucking pain almost two years ago to date exactly (a week back actually).
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