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How to come back from "I know you are another guy that just want to fuck me once and then will be gone"?
You could probably simplify it even more by saying stuff like, "If you say so", and then if she says it again just say "I live in the moment", or "I don't make plans". Depends if it's congruent with you or not though.
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"not at all, I want to fuck you 3 times" - too cocky but may work if both are playful.
"durr, is this some kind of paranoia?" - neutral. can work if both are playful.
"off couse, that's how it works, you make it worthy and you stay more" - too logical and bravado. Can work if it's her wanting to fuck you.
"you have to take the risk, because we're both horny right now" - again too logical.
In your answers I feel the vibe of trying to explain the reasons for fucking her.
-Yeah, you know what, now I don't. I had no idea you are another girl with a standard cliche about men, I thought you are special.
-Once...and give that ass away?
-...I am a nomad...:)
"durr, is this some kind of paranoia?" - neutral. can work if both are playful.
"off couse, that's how it works, you make it worthy and you stay more" - too logical and bravado. Can work if it's her wanting to fuck you.
"you have to take the risk, because we're both horny right now" - again too logical.
In your answers I feel the vibe of trying to explain the reasons for fucking her.
-Yeah, you know what, now I don't. I had no idea you are another girl with a standard cliche about men, I thought you are special.
-Once...and give that ass away?
-...I am a nomad...:)
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Mice were crying and getting hurt but kept eating the cactus.
flip it around on her: "wow, i thought we were having a great time and had a connection and all you're thinking about is using me for sex? Is that all I am to you, a walking dildo?"
It only works if you sell it and pretend to get emotional. use the dildo part at your own discretion, it's definitely a more advanced line. Basically anytime a girl accuses you of something, you accuse her of the same thing. If a girl gets mad at you, get even madder at her. It's really the best, if not the only, way to really defuse the situation.
It only works if you sell it and pretend to get emotional. use the dildo part at your own discretion, it's definitely a more advanced line. Basically anytime a girl accuses you of something, you accuse her of the same thing. If a girl gets mad at you, get even madder at her. It's really the best, if not the only, way to really defuse the situation.
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flip it around on her: "wow, i thought we were having a great time and had a connection and all you're thinking about is using me for sex? Is that all I am to you, a walking dildo?"
It only works if you sell it and pretend to get emotional. use the dildo part at your own discretion, it's definitely a more advanced line. Basically anytime a girl accuses you of something, you accuse her of the same thing. If a girl gets mad at you, get even madder at her. It's really the best, if not the only, way to really defuse the situation.
It only works if you sell it and pretend to get emotional. use the dildo part at your own discretion, it's definitely a more advanced line. Basically anytime a girl accuses you of something, you accuse her of the same thing. If a girl gets mad at you, get even madder at her. It's really the best, if not the only, way to really defuse the situation.
much apreciated guys!
how to drop the logical mindset when quicky responses are needed?
how to drop the logical mindset when quicky responses are needed?
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I like absurdification. It works for coming up with quick responses to shit tests. What you do is take what she says and blow it up to the extreme.
Examples:
Her: "You just want to fuck me once, don't you?"
You: "Of course. You mean nothing to me. You're just a cum recepticle."
Her: "Did you hit on any other girls in this place?"
You: "Of course. I have no discrimination whatsoever. I hit on every girl I've ever laid my eyes on."
Her: "You have a bad haircut."
You: "I know. It's the worst haircut in the entire world."
Her: "You're creeping me out."
You: "Of course. I'm the creepiest guy in the entire world."
Totally disfuses any shit they throws at you.
Examples:
Her: "You just want to fuck me once, don't you?"
You: "Of course. You mean nothing to me. You're just a cum recepticle."
Her: "Did you hit on any other girls in this place?"
You: "Of course. I have no discrimination whatsoever. I hit on every girl I've ever laid my eyes on."
Her: "You have a bad haircut."
You: "I know. It's the worst haircut in the entire world."
Her: "You're creeping me out."
You: "Of course. I'm the creepiest guy in the entire world."
Totally disfuses any shit they throws at you.
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my response to these things is something like:
"i don't know. i take things as they come. you can't plan this. we might fuck once, and i find out you're a crazy bitch and i'll have to wash my dick 5 times the day after to try to process the same. or i find out you're the coolest person ever, and i fall in love. you don't plan emotions unless you're a psychopath. let's just take it one step at a time, you know?"
basically, i reply to every "you're a player" accusation with "i take things as they come, and whatever happens, happens."
"i don't know. i take things as they come. you can't plan this. we might fuck once, and i find out you're a crazy bitch and i'll have to wash my dick 5 times the day after to try to process the same. or i find out you're the coolest person ever, and i fall in love. you don't plan emotions unless you're a psychopath. let's just take it one step at a time, you know?"
basically, i reply to every "you're a player" accusation with "i take things as they come, and whatever happens, happens."
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wat.
Personally I am a bigger fan of "not at all, I want to fuck you 3 times" than the other ones.
I would probably say "no, I'd fuck you two times" or just simply "nah...twice."
I just love how she is making an assumption out of you already... Bitch you don't know who I am!
Could call her out on that.. nobody likes to be put into a box
I would probably say "no, I'd fuck you two times" or just simply "nah...twice."
I just love how she is making an assumption out of you already... Bitch you don't know who I am!
Could call her out on that.. nobody likes to be put into a box
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Classic shit test theory really. Don't qualify.
It's super simple, just agree with her. Whatever is most authentic in the moment works perfect.
A lot of these answers could work but again, game is derived from principles not lines. If you play it too over the top, you're going to come across try hard, which is qualification all over again.
A simple, "Yeah, your right. ;)" would suffice.
It's super simple, just agree with her. Whatever is most authentic in the moment works perfect.
A lot of these answers could work but again, game is derived from principles not lines. If you play it too over the top, you're going to come across try hard, which is qualification all over again.
A simple, "Yeah, your right. ;)" would suffice.
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"not at all, I want to fuck you 3 times"
"durr, is this some kind of paranoia?"
"off couse, that's how it works, you make it worthy and you stay more"
"you have to take the risk, because we're both horny right now"
little background, day 2 got halfway in her room, but I got the "Get out, my roommate will arrive any minute"
and know it is a recurring theme in talks over text and FB, and she is refusing the set the next date.
I have few girls as options, so I am not that deep in scarcity, but may not be expressing that abundance as well.
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