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A fake number isn't that bad man. I had way worse happen when I was a newbie.
Yea...you were trying to "Create drama" and you massively fucking failed. LOL. You should have done it in a more "safe/calibrated" way. And if she then said you're "ugly short, possessive" you could have said, well glad to see you're a really high class girl with clear intellect in people's persona. Have a nice bubble-tastic life.
It's that easy. Instead it looks like you were crying to her...and I mean I've done some way worse shit with girls...call them whores...used abortions with boring valley life...etc. What you did was just like..you were so hurt about it. Now if you weren't hurt about the fake number..it could have worked...but why on earth would you say "bitch...fake number...slut"
It's that easy. Instead it looks like you were crying to her...and I mean I've done some way worse shit with girls...call them whores...used abortions with boring valley life...etc. What you did was just like..you were so hurt about it. Now if you weren't hurt about the fake number..it could have worked...but why on earth would you say "bitch...fake number...slut"
A lot of the above is correct. Think about better ways to frame it.
Bad way to frame game: I'm doing this to get girls to like me.
Better way to frame game: I'm doing this so I can learn to be so grounded in my own reality that nothing that anyone else says or does to me affects me. It doesn't affect me if they hate me. It doesn't affect me if they like me. It doesn't matter to me if they beg me to fingerblast them 30 seconds after they met me. It doesn't matter if they give me the wrong number or yell and scream at me in the middle of the club.
The downside to the better frame is that, if you're a n00b chode, it's going mean that you're PLAYING LIFE ON HARD MODE. Your emotional muscles haven't been worked out, so you're weaker than a 5 year old with polio, and the only place to practice getting stronger is the olympics, where everyone else is the best in the world. Of course you're going to get butt hurt; your emotional muscles are flabby. The only way to get over it is to have this happen to you 1,000x more times. First time this happens, you blow up, you want revenge, you think the girl is a fucking bitch. 1000th time this happens to you, it won't bother you, you'll just refocus on the next one. 10,000th time it happens to you, you'll be so grounded that you won't even realize when someone does this to you; you just won't notice.
Welcome to life on hard mode, buddy. Getting fucking butt hurt as shit and then going out and doing it again is how you grow balls.
Bad way to frame game: I'm doing this to get girls to like me.
Better way to frame game: I'm doing this so I can learn to be so grounded in my own reality that nothing that anyone else says or does to me affects me. It doesn't affect me if they hate me. It doesn't affect me if they like me. It doesn't matter to me if they beg me to fingerblast them 30 seconds after they met me. It doesn't matter if they give me the wrong number or yell and scream at me in the middle of the club.
The downside to the better frame is that, if you're a n00b chode, it's going mean that you're PLAYING LIFE ON HARD MODE. Your emotional muscles haven't been worked out, so you're weaker than a 5 year old with polio, and the only place to practice getting stronger is the olympics, where everyone else is the best in the world. Of course you're going to get butt hurt; your emotional muscles are flabby. The only way to get over it is to have this happen to you 1,000x more times. First time this happens, you blow up, you want revenge, you think the girl is a fucking bitch. 1000th time this happens to you, it won't bother you, you'll just refocus on the next one. 10,000th time it happens to you, you'll be so grounded that you won't even realize when someone does this to you; you just won't notice.
Welcome to life on hard mode, buddy. Getting fucking butt hurt as shit and then going out and doing it again is how you grow balls.
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ignore it
[=Tahoma, Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, 'Bitstream Vera Sans', sans-serif]I accidently gave you my friend's number? lol[/]
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Dude try to see it as a shit test in her reply to you. So pass that test and hook up with her.
Julien drama style. Say some shit like "oh sorry baby, you just made me so emotionally vulnerable, no one ever does that to me".
Do it do it do it.
WRONG, dude! Right after Julien put out that video with creating drama, I thought how many guys will misinterpret it indeed this happens now.Julien drama style. Say some shit like "oh sorry baby, you just made me so emotionally vulnerable, no one ever does that to me".
Do it do it do it.
The OP is butt-hurt in the first place, took it too seriously.
Actually it was her who created drama for him by giving a phone number of her friend, it's in her power to bring him joy back in one second (though she wouldn't).
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Mice were crying and getting hurt but kept eating the cactus.
great analogy
A lot of the above is correct. Think about better ways to frame it.
Bad way to frame game: I'm doing this to get girls to like me.
Better way to frame game: I'm doing this so I can learn to be so grounded in my own reality that nothing that anyone else says or does to me affects me. It doesn't affect me if they hate me. It doesn't affect me if they like me. It doesn't matter to me if they beg me to fingerblast them 30 seconds after they met me. It doesn't matter if they give me the wrong number or yell and scream at me in the middle of the club.
The downside to the better frame is that, if you're a n00b chode, it's going mean that you're PLAYING LIFE ON HARD MODE. Your emotional muscles haven't been worked out, so you're weaker than a 5 year old with polio, and the only place to practice getting stronger is the olympics, where everyone else is the best in the world. Of course you're going to get butt hurt; your emotional muscles are flabby. The only way to get over it is to have this happen to you 1,000x more times. First time this happens, you blow up, you want revenge, you think the girl is a fucking bitch. 1000th time this happens to you, it won't bother you, you'll just refocus on the next one. 10,000th time it happens to you, you'll be so grounded that you won't even realize when someone does this to you; you just won't notice.
Welcome to life on hard mode, buddy. Getting fucking butt hurt as shit and then going out and doing it again is how you grow balls.
Bad way to frame game: I'm doing this to get girls to like me.
Better way to frame game: I'm doing this so I can learn to be so grounded in my own reality that nothing that anyone else says or does to me affects me. It doesn't affect me if they hate me. It doesn't affect me if they like me. It doesn't matter to me if they beg me to fingerblast them 30 seconds after they met me. It doesn't matter if they give me the wrong number or yell and scream at me in the middle of the club.
The downside to the better frame is that, if you're a n00b chode, it's going mean that you're PLAYING LIFE ON HARD MODE. Your emotional muscles haven't been worked out, so you're weaker than a 5 year old with polio, and the only place to practice getting stronger is the olympics, where everyone else is the best in the world. Of course you're going to get butt hurt; your emotional muscles are flabby. The only way to get over it is to have this happen to you 1,000x more times. First time this happens, you blow up, you want revenge, you think the girl is a fucking bitch. 1000th time this happens to you, it won't bother you, you'll just refocus on the next one. 10,000th time it happens to you, you'll be so grounded that you won't even realize when someone does this to you; you just won't notice.
Welcome to life on hard mode, buddy. Getting fucking butt hurt as shit and then going out and doing it again is how you grow balls.
Man the fuck up dude.
Welcome to pick up. This is the game you're playing now so EXPECT this shit. Get ready to get humiliated, embarassed, and your soul destroyed by little bullshit situations like these.
Approach 1000 girls and report back to us how you feel.
Welcome to pick up. This is the game you're playing now so EXPECT this shit. Get ready to get humiliated, embarassed, and your soul destroyed by little bullshit situations like these.
Approach 1000 girls and report back to us how you feel.
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Is it bad that I don't care if I get a fake number and I will just move on to the next like the fake number never happened? I've had that mentality since I started cold approach seven years ago.
Second part of my sig. Its the dam truth.
Second part of my sig. Its the dam truth.
I don't have time to dwell on fake numbers if I wanted to. I have other numbers I need to hit up.
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TheFinisher
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Join Date: 05/17/2011 | Posts: 837
Sounds like a test