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October 16th, 2017
My quest to plow girls like a field (FR)
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#91
Burton2

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 Very nice man.  Read through last couple of pages, sounds like your very motivated and have great people to learn from.
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#92
sunshine

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2/9: Saturday

Wow, what a crazy night, it was a roller coaster of emotions for me. Ill begin by summerizing my cold approaches of the night.

I had an amazing night approaching, I was close to hitting state as I hit up a storm! Started off struggling with the whole 30 seconds and out issue. The girls were very attracted at first, but my mentality switched from a buyer to a seller and I became despirate to impress them, which turned them off. I approached this absolutely beautiful girl (definitly a 10) and was killing it! A guy I know winged her friend for me, I was doing great until her friend started getting wierded out by my wing because he was trying to get too physical, which wasnt appropriate for the environment we were in at the time. The set crashed really quickly and I moved on. i stood my ground with a bunch of other sets, and had a great time with them even though they never amounted to anything. I opened this girl sitting at a booth, just had a normal conversation with her and ended up talking for 30 mins. I had a great time with her, got her number and have been texting today. I opened another girl and had an amazing set with her, talked for 15 mins before she invited me to come hangout with her and her friends. I joined the group and was owning it, they all loved me! I was telling great stories when this guy slipped through behind me and pulled my girl away and took her to buy her a drink! I couldnt believe it, he pulled a robery on me! It hit me for a few minutes, I got in my head but pulled myself out of it and hit up some more girls hard. Nothing amounted from the rest of my sets, but my night was far from over! 

Things I learned:
1) IDGAF, just have fun and be self amused
2) never let your guard down, roberies can occur at any time!



A little more background information before I proceed to talk about  the rest of my night. There are two girls responsible for my jaded ideas on relationships. One of the two is a girl (we'll call her XX) who I was really good friends with during freshman year of college( almost 5 years ago) but we started liking each other a lot, I was too much of a chode to do anything about it. I finally confessed I liked her, and we decided to date after winter break. But during the break she aparently got back with her ex. I was devastated and heartbroken because I really liked her a lot. I despised her greatly and stopped talking to her. Throughout the years we ran into each other and I became relaxed about it as I became more mature and more of a boss who meets tons of girls every week lol. I always had a soft spot for her because she was the first girl I really liked a lot, and connected with. Also, I always wanted to hook up with her because I just know it would be amazing since we have so much chemistry.

I ran into her a few weeks ago and decided to start texting her, we have been texting a lot lately. She lives about 4 hours away now, and came up to visit some friends in my city this weekend. I ran into her and her friends (who I know as well) at the end of the night on Saturday. Muzzi and I chatted with them for about 15 minutes when one of her friends we know said we should all go back to his place for an afterparty. 

He pulled me off to the side and told me, "bro, XX is obsessed with you, you dont understand shes been talking about you all night", he proceeded to tell me that not dating me freshman year was her BIGGEST regret. This hit me hard; that is some heavy shit! Anyways, this guy was cool and said if I wanted to hook up with her I should come to his place for the afterparty, so I was like HYFR! Muzzi and I went to his place to hang out for a while. On the way over, I started getting so nervous because this is something I have been wanting to do for so long, and this girl means so much to my development as a man. I started panicking, Muzzi  calmed me down as he reminded me of how much we have been through with gaming and how this is my chance to finally relate to her as a man instead of the chode I used to be. At the guy's house, I found a way to pull her to a dark room with a sofa, I started making out with her, we were going at it. We were both so turned on because of what we mean to each other, the tension has been building for years! I had her against a wall, making out, then I pulled her to the sofa. She was getting really into it and in disbelief that this was finally happening after so many years. We were getting into it and I played with her boobs, and started fingering her. Then all of a sudden she pulls back and says:

Her: No, this is not the way it is supposed to happen
Me: huh?
Her: I really like you a lot, and I want to be your girlfriend

So I couldnt go through with it in good conscious, even though I really wanted to for so long. We ended up falling asleep cuddling, and it felt right. It felt so surreal, I mean I used to dream about being able to hold her and show her such affection back when I was a freshman. I found myself relaxing my jaded ideas about relationships and actually wanting to be with her. The next morning I woke up and heard her talking to her friend,l joined the convo and had an epiphany, she hasn't changed one bit! She is the exact same immature girl she was as a freshman, i realized I deserve  a much better girl than this! I have put so much work into developing myself while she is the exact same person. Thus, I came to my senses and my pua mentality returned, I am ready and motivated to go out again.
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Matt281

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That's awesome man. Happy for you. And yeah man -- sometimes you don't noticed how much you've grown until you see someone you used to know who hasn't. Either way, sounds like you guys had a lot of fun :)

Oh, and this:

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Oooops.  My Bad.

Honestly, I thought I wasn't physical enough with that blonde.  The funny thing is, I thought that brunette was a bit too mannish looking and I wan't into her, so I didn't escalate on her at all.  And, she asked me to buy her a drink later on, and I asked her if she deserved it, she went off into how she deserved it, and I told her I'll see about that, then she got pissed off and stormed off.  The hilarity of girls, it's so funny.
sunshine wrote:

2/9: Saturday

I approached this absolutely beautiful girl (definitly a 10) and was killing it! A guy I know winged her friend for me, I was doing great until her friend started getting wierded out by my wing because he was trying to get too physical, which wasnt appropriate for the environment we were in at the time. The set crashed really quickly and I moved on.
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sunshine

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SexyMachine wrote:
Oooops.  My Bad.

Honestly, I thought I wasn't physical enough with that blonde.  The funny thing is, I thought that brunette was a bit too mannish looking and I wan't into her, so I didn't escalate on her at all.  And, she asked me to buy her a drink later on, and I asked her if she deserved it, she went off into how she deserved it, and I told her I'll see about that, then she got pissed off and stormed off.  The hilarity of girls, it's so funny.
sunshine wrote:

2/9: Saturday

I approached this absolutely beautiful girl (definitly a 10) and was killing it! A guy I know winged her friend for me, I was doing great until her friend started getting wierded out by my wing because he was trying to get too physical, which wasnt appropriate for the environment we were in at the time. The set crashed really quickly and I moved on.

no  worries man! I have the opposite problem, I dont get physical enough most of the time. Im actaully talking about a different set though, Im talking about the set with two brunettes, one of which was georgeous! We were  both doing great but her friend told me she was getting uncomfortable. Regardless, you should come out to the hill more often! 
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Matt281 wrote:
That's awesome man. Happy for you. And yeah man -- sometimes you don't noticed how much you've grown until you see someone you used to know who hasn't. Either way, sounds like you guys had a lot of fun :)

Oh, and this:

For sure!  It was a great experience and helped me get closure. As for the song, lol this is tight! His flow is great,  I dont remember this song from the movie though. 
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Haha I don't think it was in the movie. The song cracks me up though -- I mean just look at the picture of him in the fucking hunting gear lol.
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2/12: Tuesday

Went to a bar with Muzzi, it was busy at first but cleared up quickly. I approached this girl sitting down, and Muzzi winged her friend. At first I was in the seller's mindset, and it resulted in me spinning my wheels for a few minutes. Internally, I calmed myself down and regrouped, activating my buyer's mentality, and started kicking ass from that point forward. we were in that set for about an hour, and we both ended up doing great. My girl was laughing so hard, she said "wow, I havent laughed this hard in so long!", I could see her attraction building as I became more self amused, and icy. But after about 40 mins in set I found out she has a BF :( I continued to stay with her because Muzzi's set was going great so I thought Id wing for him. Eventually the girls had to go, and my girl said "give me your phone number! I have a boyfriend, but we need to keep in touch because you're awesome!", so I gave her my number and they left. We did about 3 more sets, all died within a minute or two, then we left for the night. 

Important lessons:
1) BUYERS FRAME all night every night!
2) just because you begin a set spinning your wheels, doesnt mean you cant come back from it. Tonight I began the set with chode talk and she was looking like she wanted to get rid of me, finally I calmed down and was just myself, then she grew very attracted.
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2/14: Thursday 

Went to the college bars with Muzzi. I had an incredible amount of approach anxiety tonight, significantly more than usual. I think I put too much pressure on myself during the day today, anticipating a great night, so when the night began i was afraid to fail. I finally developed the balls to approach, major blow out from this girl, and i feel amazing because I am relieved that I finally did it. Now it is time to do work. I winged these sorority girls with muzzi, I am totally chode talking, my girl looks miserable until I mention in passing that I just got off work and am trying to get pumped for the night out ( at that moment it clicked in my mind that I am badass for coming out sober and doing this after a long day of work, and I immediately developed the buyer's mentality), after this moment I owned it and she began to like me.Unfortunately these girls had a friend with them who was not going to let them be with any men because it was Valentines day and they were supposed to stick together. Our set eventually died so we left, knowing we could come back since our girls liked us, but we were never able to get back with them. Their friend won, and she took both of them home at the end of the night lol.

I beasted a couple other sets, and choded a few. My best set was with this blonde girl. I opened her hard, pulling her in and getting physical immediately, muzzi winged her friend. My girl was super drunk, after talking for 5 minutes in each other's arms, I made out with her, being the first to end it. I was killing it, but she was way too drunk, i could barely have a conversation with her and she could barely stand, very unattractive. She stepped away briefly to the bathroom, when she returned I tried talking to her but she was so drunk I couldnt comprehend what she was saying, so I left her.

Lessons:
1) stop putting so much pressure on myself, gaming is supposed to be fun!
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2/15: Friday

One of the best nights of approaching Ive ever had, hit state for most of the night! I started off with approach anxiety, Finally got myself to approach and kicked ass! I got phyisical immediately and was icy, the girl was totally into me but I wasnt really into her so I let her go after a while. I did a whole bunch of sets and just had an IDGAF attitude, I was icy in most of my sets.  Adjunkie and I winged a pair of stuck up girls who did not want us there, but we plowed through it and eventually they opened up a little before making it cllear that they really wanted to spend time together, to which I responded "well you came to the wrong place, if you wanted a nice conversation, you shouldve stayed at home!", they laughed and acknowledged it was the truth, but it ultimately fell apart. I simply did not care at all during the night, I even faked an indian accent as i  approached one girl for the Hell of it. I got a couple of numbers that I will follow up on. 

I opened this one girl who is a spitting image of a girl I really liked in college, so this particular set really meant a lot to me because I wanted this girl even more than usual. I remainined calm and carried that IDGAF attitude throughout the set, she loved me, I got her number and have texted her twice but no response :( I am despirate for this girl so Im going to keep texting for a few days to try to get a response! The night ended with little street game because I had to go help a friend out with something.    

Lessons:
1) IDGAF, no inhibitions, do whatever you want! (nothing stupid of course)
2) keep plowing through sets that start off rough, most of my sets tonight started off rough but then took off after 30 seconds (opposite of the problem I used to have!). girls want a man who will stand his ground and not be affected by her shit tests.
3) be self amused! I was having a blast while approaching because I was doing and saying whatever the Hell I wanted
4) Being tired is no excuse, I was very sleepy when I started tonight because I hadnt slept that long the night before. Once I stopped making excuses and jumped into approaching, I forgot all about that and felt more alive than ever.
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