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July 23rd, 2017
My quest to plow girls like a field (FR)
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#51
sunshine

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Join Date: 07/16/2012 | Posts: 148

 12/12:

I went out on Monday of this week and got drunk with some friends, we macked on some girls and danced with them but no success lol. 

On Wednesday Muzzi and I went out for an hour. We went to a bar next to a college and it was packed with hot college girls! At first it was difficult trying to vibe with the crowd since they were all so excited about being done with finals, and they were all in groups. We both got a couple blowouts. I finally hooked a girl walking by, I got physical immediately and talked for about 30 seconds, then she said "you have nice teeth!" (which is not true lol my teeth are average if anything!) and then she runs off into the crowd!  Muzzi openes a group of two girls, he owns the set for a couple minutes then pulls me in. One of the girls left the group so Muzzi and I just had fun joking around with the remaining girl. Muzzi notices her building attraction towards me so he leaves us alone (he's a good man!), I get physicial and talk a little more. Then her friends come and say they have to go. I tell her to stay with me and she wants to but it's me vs. her friends. Her friends won, I made out with her a little before I told her to give me her number. I texted her later that night trying to get her to meet up but it never panned out.
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#52
sunshine

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 12/13:
I went out for a little bit with Muzzi, I was paranoid because I knew I would see this girl that I have been dating there, and I did not want her to know that I do this stuff (I met her through a social circle). Anyways, Im going to end it with her soon since she seems to want something more serious and I dont. Regardless, I was in my head the whole time I was out, I got blown out by a few girls, then the girl Im dating showed up and I hung out with her but was getting so irritated. She is really nice and cute but she gets  a little nervous and she cannot be herself when I see her out lol this must be what hot girls feel like when we approach them and arent being congruent! Anyways, after a while I ditched her because she was being very wierd (acting like a 13 yr old who has a crush). One of Muzzi's ex's walked in with a friend, so he started talking to her and I spoke with her friend and killed it! We connected really well, and I knew she liked me but I didnt pursue it any further because I wasnt sure what the situation was between muzz and his ex.

12/14:
Went out with muzzi and matt. I cannot count the number of girls I opened, it was a lot of fun! We focused on being self-amused and it worked great. I spoke with one girl for 20 mins until she found out im super young and shes a lot older, then she lost interest immediately, but at least I got to warm up with her. I had some other good sets, but my favorite was this tall pretty girl who I walked right up to as I walked into a bar and said "hi whats your name". She was speaking to a friend so she looked at me like "WTF? get a way" and I stood my ground and acted like it was completely normal and she warmed up pretty quickly! Muzzi started talking to her friend. I stayed in the set for about 20 mins and noticed her interest fluctuating in and out. Eventually her friend went to the bathroom, (which was wierd to me because usually when one goes to the bathroom she ll take the other girl with her, but in this situation her friend just left us alone) so I kept talking to her and got her number. Her friend came back and I left the set because I wanted to leave on a higher note. I texted her and will continue to pursue it. 
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#53
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 12/15:

Really fun night, began by winging with Matt on a set of sisters. His girl wasnt really hot but mine was cute and so I just conversed for a while until she said they needed to meet with their friends at a different bar. However, she invited us to come along, but I wanted to get out of the set so I took her number and tried to hit her up later but it didnt work out. I did countless sets throughout the night, I was very pleased with that. However, I did not have much success. The main thing is that I had fun with every set, which went a long way. I didnt fear approaching, which I was happy about. I just needed to work on commiting 100 percent to each set, and of course, keeping girls hooked once in set. 
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#54
Matt281

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Hey man good seeing you last night.

I was gonna tell you this last night but didn't want to want to throw off your groove: When you see all of us out, it's clear that we all have a different personalities and different ways of going about things. Consequently, different things work better or worse for each of us. Knoxville does great doing one thing, Cat does great doing something completely different. I think that, in some ways, you're setting yourself back by replicating what works for us. You are a happy, fun, social dude. It's natural for you to talk to people. But your personality isn't super intense and direct. So a lot of times when I see you grab a girl and say "what's your name?" or "who are you?", I'm thinking "That's not what Sunshine would do", if that makes sense.

To really succeed at this consistently, you've gotta be congruent to who you are. Be you and expect girls to like you for you. If that manifests itself as "hey! what are you guys doing tonight!?" or "hey you guys look like fun!", then that's not a problem at all.

You've gotta develop your own style with this, not for the sake of being original, but because that's who you are.

Also:






Self expression? :)
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#55
sunshine

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 Haha I appreciate the words! I think you are right on the money. I think there is a disconnect between my opens and the rest of my sets because I open like you guys, then Im trying to be myself and the girl is thinking "what the hell is wrong with this guy". So tonight Im going to focus on just having fun and approaching girls naturally. And thanks for finally sending me these songs bro, lol they're great. His flow is rediculous! 
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#56
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 12/17:

Muzzi and I went to our friend's birthday celebration then out to a club afterwards for an hour of approaching. We had to get started fast since we only had an hour, I was pretty fearless today about opening and just focused on having  a good time and being myself. I had some moderate success, and danced with a few girls. I also had a few blowouts. I was pleased with the fact that I was opening and not caring about my "image". At one point, Muzzi mentioned that I need to commit more to sets and hold  a strong frame. I tried it immediately and hooked the set great! I stopped a girl walking by and got physical right away as I talked to her. I saw a window to makeout but I missed it. I held her in and talked with her as her friend (who was pissed about some other guy) tried dragging her away. Finally her friend got furious and yanked her away because apparently they were looking for a guy to yell at because he had done something offensive to the friend earlier. I lost this one, but the set was great and I knew my girl liked me. I tried approaching her again later, but her friend was still being a and not letting her have any fun. 
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#57

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@matt281 HAHAHA I love that you posted all those videos with lyrics... And dude your right about being congruent to yourself. ANd honestly I have not thought of it in that way. NOw that I think of it, as soon as I replicate Tyler game, its not being me and girls can see it immediately. Same is true for Sunshine being super aggressive, "who are you?" Type thing. Friendly cool would work really well with Sunshine because that's just who he is. 
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#58
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 12/18:

Went out with Muzzi (knoxville), it was pretty dead but we went to a bar and did as much work as we could. He ended up opening the first set of girls, we talked to them for a little bit, then he pushed me to open this hot girl. I stumbled in the beginning of the convo but she became invested and Muzzi joined too. The group convo was great but her friends came and pulled her away.  Muzzi opened another girl who was here for her friend's bday. Her friend was sitting down alone, so after we chatted with this girl, we went and said happy bday to her friend. We ended up staying with the girls for 30 mins having great convos. I was flirting heavily with my girl, she was shit testing me hella but I stood my ground and she started becoming pretty attracted to me. It went really well and I knew I had this girl not wanting to leave me but they both had work in the morning and it was pretty clear that we were not going to have sex with them tonight. I got my girl's number to follow up with her since it was such a solid set. We were getting pretty physical and I even saw some opportunities to makeout which I didnt take because I wanted to build up sexual tension. Anyways, it was a great experience and I had a lot of fun winging with Muzzi, i will try to meet up with this girl asap. The most important thing I did was stand my ground through her shit tests, she was trying to put me down but it didnt phase me, then her attraction slowly built up.
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#59
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 12/19:

Went out with Muzzi, relatively dead at the bar but I opened two girls and scared em off quickly lol but I also opened another girl walking by, it was a very weak opener but sometimes thats all it takes! I hooked her and started chatting. Eventually she became invested in the conversation and we were talking about some deep shit. We talked for about 45 minutes and the wierd thing is she was gaming me! During our convo she at one point said "you should text me sometime" and so I got her number and we continued chatting lol then later she said "lets get some water" and so she was moving me around the bar lol all the things that Ive learned from RSD were being used on me. It was interesting, a gay friend of hers came up and started chatting to her. I justs hung back and stayed cool because I knew I had the set. I told her lets go get food and that Id give her a ride home, she was down but got caught with her friends (who I befriended) so I told her I was going to find Muzzi so we could all leave (I drove Muzzi to the bar) I went to meet muzzi at a different bar and he was doing work so I opened two girls (one who was kinda cute while her friend was just nasty) by saying that I was the owner of the bar and theyre in trouble...I was just having fun with it. I saw they were interested, there was this chode at the bar who was buying them shots so I stepped away and let him do that and watched him strike out before muzzi and I came and picked up the pieces. But we werent really interested in these girls so we ditched.

We went back to the bar where the first girl was and grabbed her. We drove home, I dropped muzzi off, then we went to get food. We took it back to my place. We eat, then I say lets watch something on my laptop in my bedroom and she complies. We watch and I have my arm around her. But I had noticed she was developing  a cough that sounded like she was getting sick, so I never went through with making a move. I was not about to get sick for some girl lol. I dropped her off and here I am writing this report! This was my very first pull that I did completely on my own! I was very proud of that, just got to get the close next time! i was congruent throughout the whole set, and was able to just be relaxed and have a normal convo with her, which worked great. Ill try to follow up with her when shes over her sickness and hopefully get it in. 
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#60
Matt281

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Nice man. I gotta start coming out with you guys during the off nights. Definitely Thursday-Sat and Monday.
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