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So how many times have you had an snl with the first girl of the night you approached?
Haha dude, it's not that hard to approach one cute girl and bang her. It's more of a decision of "do I want to stay with this girl all night or keep sarging and practicing my skillet?"
500 approaches? Jesus christ, I guess thats what you need to do in the beginning.
Yeah, after a certain amount of talking, you'll get the hang of it. Just keep banging at it. It took me a while to get use to all the little clues girls point out. It comes with experience.
Bitch shields are usually up for a reason. Means you are a little off. Once you are decent and fun to talk to, there's no real shield.
When you start mastering the approach to number ratio is drastically cut. You will see that the QUALITY of the interaction is much more important then the quantity. Or they even open you. Cha ching.
The true goal of course is the elusive 1 approach 1 bang the girl you want, but that takes true mastery that I don't think even many of the main instructors could pull off.
Yeah, after a certain amount of talking, you'll get the hang of it. Just keep banging at it. It took me a while to get use to all the little clues girls point out. It comes with experience.
Bitch shields are usually up for a reason. Means you are a little off. Once you are decent and fun to talk to, there's no real shield.
When you start mastering the approach to number ratio is drastically cut. You will see that the QUALITY of the interaction is much more important then the quantity. Or they even open you. Cha ching.
The true goal of course is the elusive 1 approach 1 bang the girl you want, but that takes true mastery that I don't think even many of the main instructors could pull off.
Haha dude, it's not that hard to approach one cute girl and bang her. It's more of a decision of "do I want to stay with this girl all night or keep sarging and practicing my skillet?"
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Yea 160 approaches in a year is pretty lame. Unless you have crippling social anxiety where you can't even leave the house unless you have a bunch of anxiety reducing drugs in your system, you won't see any real results unless you do an approach per day. If you have good charisma you can probably get away with one approach every two days which is what you ran for that one year.
As far as the v card goes, IMO you gotta know your motives for having sex for the first time. If its to reduce the stigma of having "involuntary celebacy," thats a good reason cuz then you will feel free afterwards. If you are just bored of whacking off and curious to see what sex is like in general that is also a good reason. If you are trying to impress your guy friends or not look bad compared to them (which IMO is closet homosexuality) that is not a good reason. And then there is having sex with a chick for the first time to prove that you are not gay because you may have been taught that gay = evil or bad. That was my reason, and IMO it is the worst reason (but also the most common) cuz it is the most approval seeking.
Hell I've been running a dry spell for over five years and thats cuz I haven't been going for the lay cuz I have some nasty sexual experiences and the reason why I want to break the dry spell is to prove to myself that sex can be pleasurable for both ppl and not something that hurts one and helps another. Pretty much it will give me a positive reference experience about sex. I don't care what other ppl think of me I want to be successful with women for me and it would be best if that were your goal as well.
OK time for me to go out and get myself some ;)
As far as the v card goes, IMO you gotta know your motives for having sex for the first time. If its to reduce the stigma of having "involuntary celebacy," thats a good reason cuz then you will feel free afterwards. If you are just bored of whacking off and curious to see what sex is like in general that is also a good reason. If you are trying to impress your guy friends or not look bad compared to them (which IMO is closet homosexuality) that is not a good reason. And then there is having sex with a chick for the first time to prove that you are not gay because you may have been taught that gay = evil or bad. That was my reason, and IMO it is the worst reason (but also the most common) cuz it is the most approval seeking.
Hell I've been running a dry spell for over five years and thats cuz I haven't been going for the lay cuz I have some nasty sexual experiences and the reason why I want to break the dry spell is to prove to myself that sex can be pleasurable for both ppl and not something that hurts one and helps another. Pretty much it will give me a positive reference experience about sex. I don't care what other ppl think of me I want to be successful with women for me and it would be best if that were your goal as well.
OK time for me to go out and get myself some ;)
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I got mad knowledge of self. -Us3
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
I think you should fuck.
Dude it really is inevitable if you put the work in, and you're not retarded. You already know that 160 in a year is totally shitty, and yet you say you sometimes feel like the "lord of the club" and that you've gotten over your fear of approaching. Yeah right dude...
Just go out and do your approaches. Don't wait to finish Blueprint. Go out and fail and learn. And fucking LOWER your standards for awhile. Just get the monkey off your back. Cause losing your virgness to the drunkest girl in the bar is no problem at all looking back....
Just go out and do your approaches. Don't wait to finish Blueprint. Go out and fail and learn. And fucking LOWER your standards for awhile. Just get the monkey off your back. Cause losing your virgness to the drunkest girl in the bar is no problem at all looking back....
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Talk to more girls on a daily basis. You'll get laid in 2 weeks.
Hey guyz i am up to one year since i discoved all the pua stuff..i have done a little progress some make outs etv but no on what the level i want it.
I started with mm and now i am doing naturally.
ALL THIS TIME I HAVE ONLY APPROACHED 160 SETS With #closes some flakes.
Sometimes when i get very strong shit test or bad response i freeze out and my confidence level at the moment blown down.:S
I Need your suggestions on this.
I started with mm and now i am doing naturally.
ALL THIS TIME I HAVE ONLY APPROACHED 160 SETS With #closes some flakes.
Sometimes when i get very strong shit test or bad response i freeze out and my confidence level at the moment blown down.:S
I Need your suggestions on this.
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It seems like most guys here would blow me out of the water in terms of quantity on approaches and I`m sure it is possible to improve that way, but in my opinion social skills are overrated and it is a limiting belief that you need to approach X amount of girls and PRACTICE in order to be able to sleep with a girl. Where the hell did that belief come from?
You`re good enough as you are. You don`t need to approach 1000 girls, benchpress 300 pounds and have single digits of body fat percentage before you are worthy of sex. It is your birthright. Go over to that girl, let her know what`s going on and bring her home.
You need to work on the proper mindset and actually be a man. Continuing to approach for the sake of approaching and approaching like a blind chicken is NOT the solution.
:)
I 'm starting to notice the same in my game for the past month and a half. I'm approaching far less because I'm approaching better girls that are worth getting and doing better. I can get away some nights with only 7-8 approaches and have had a bomb time. Some nights I still hit it up haha but a little less than before. You`re good enough as you are. You don`t need to approach 1000 girls, benchpress 300 pounds and have single digits of body fat percentage before you are worthy of sex. It is your birthright. Go over to that girl, let her know what`s going on and bring her home.
You need to work on the proper mindset and actually be a man. Continuing to approach for the sake of approaching and approaching like a blind chicken is NOT the solution.
:)
Yea 160 approaches in a year is pretty lame. Unless you have crippling social anxiety where you can't even leave the house unless you have a bunch of anxiety reducing drugs in your system, you won't see any real results unless you do an approach per day. If you have good charisma you can probably get away with one approach every two days which is what you ran for that one year.
As far as the v card goes, IMO you gotta know your motives for having sex for the first time. If its to reduce the stigma of having "involuntary celebacy," thats a good reason cuz then you will feel free afterwards. If you are just bored of whacking off and curious to see what sex is like in general that is also a good reason. If you are trying to impress your guy friends or not look bad compared to them (which IMO is closet homosexuality) that is not a good reason. And then there is having sex with a chick for the first time to prove that you are not gay because you may have been taught that gay = evil or bad. That was my reason, and IMO it is the worst reason (but also the most common) cuz it is the most approval seeking.
Hell I've been running a dry spell for over five years and thats cuz I haven't been going for the lay cuz I have some nasty sexual experiences and the reason why I want to break the dry spell is to prove to myself that sex can be pleasurable for both ppl and not something that hurts one and helps another. Pretty much it will give me a positive reference experience about sex. I don't care what other ppl think of me I want to be successful with women for me and it would be best if that were your goal as well.
OK time for me to go out and get myself some ;)
Dude, I get the vibe that you are gay and you are struggling to come to terms with it. As far as the v card goes, IMO you gotta know your motives for having sex for the first time. If its to reduce the stigma of having "involuntary celebacy," thats a good reason cuz then you will feel free afterwards. If you are just bored of whacking off and curious to see what sex is like in general that is also a good reason. If you are trying to impress your guy friends or not look bad compared to them (which IMO is closet homosexuality) that is not a good reason. And then there is having sex with a chick for the first time to prove that you are not gay because you may have been taught that gay = evil or bad. That was my reason, and IMO it is the worst reason (but also the most common) cuz it is the most approval seeking.
Hell I've been running a dry spell for over five years and thats cuz I haven't been going for the lay cuz I have some nasty sexual experiences and the reason why I want to break the dry spell is to prove to myself that sex can be pleasurable for both ppl and not something that hurts one and helps another. Pretty much it will give me a positive reference experience about sex. I don't care what other ppl think of me I want to be successful with women for me and it would be best if that were your goal as well.
OK time for me to go out and get myself some ;)
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Stop looking to get laid and start looking to build some character.
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Yeah, after a certain amount of talking, you'll get the hang of it. Just keep banging at it. It took me a while to get use to all the little clues girls point out. It comes with experience.
Bitch shields are usually up for a reason. Means you are a little off. Once you are decent and fun to talk to, there's no real shield.
When you start mastering the approach to number ratio is drastically cut. You will see that the QUALITY of the interaction is much more important then the quantity. Or they even open you. Cha ching.
The true goal of course is the elusive 1 approach 1 bang the girl you want, but that takes true mastery that I don't think even many of the main instructors could pull off.
Haha dude, it's not that hard to approach one cute girl and bang her. It's more of a decision of "do I want to stay with this girl all night or keep sarging and practicing my skillet?"