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May 23rd, 2013
After 1 Year STILL VIRGIN :S
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#21

2inner

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Join Date: 06/18/2012 | Posts: 100

The number of approaches is very low,I know,at the beginning i had  bad AA,which i elminated,i started with Mystery method tactics and i think thats the reason  i only build a good  OUTER game but INNER  still sucks,I am studing blueprint at the moment,most of the things tyler says its true,sometimes i feel the lord of the club and sometimes the big chode,2 monthes ago i started more naturally game with being more sexually ,arousal,qualifing her with my standarts being more Direct and i saw good results with some makeouts.Most of SHIT TEST'S i enjoy makes me laugh and i responde well and the girl laugh too,but sometimes in very bad reactions or when i get weired face look of girl ,my inner game  get affected,and this i want to fix..BEING NON REACTIVE at all kind of reactions that i get....I Want to take massive action,after viewing the game with different aspect that i viewed.
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#22
Gravity

Gravity

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Join Date: 07/06/2011 | Posts: 1674

 dude i went through 650 approaches at least before i got laid, and about 350 more after that before the second one. 160 in a year is barely 3 per week. step your shit up to 3 per day
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#23
Mitizaro

Mitizaro

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Join Date: 09/14/2009 | Posts: 966

Hahaha... 160 approaches was my 4-5 days regularity in DAY-game at my SMALL city, bro (when i started pick-up for real).
Sooo... 160 for a year? That's like doing 5 workouts a year? (Actually it's more accurately like... 3 - to be honest) Hahhah... do you think you will get Really Ripped given you're skinny with 5 FUCKING WORKOUTS A YEAR, SON!? :)
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#24

h3jk5h

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Join Date: 08/30/2009 | Posts: 310

160 approaches per 365 days. So you approach once every two days.

Try doing two approaches per day, and work your way up
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#25

pullnow

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 478

I think you're not approaching enough, as everyone else. You have to continually approach a lot to maintain state. I've had a month or two where i'm a straight pimp and a month where i'm a piece of shit getting next to nothing, You have to become absolutely numb to rejection and that takes tonssssss of approaches continually. Go have fun with it, my buddies laugh or nuts off when we get rejected because we think of girls that are better who we've been with. You'll get there just hold your head high and sarge. My favorite thing to get into a good state is to walk up to the hottest girl at the beginning of the night and say to myself "ok, i don't even want this chick and I'm gonna say something absolutely ridiculous to this chick to get some momentum". So I'll ask my buddy something to say and immediately say it to her. 
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#26

2inner

Senior Member

Join Date: 06/18/2012 | Posts: 100

Thank you for your comments guyz,these comments make me really kick ass and make me to do 50 approaches a day..as i want to do  things correct this time,,which is better to finish all blueprint thing first before start sarging again or to start immedietly approaching and instantly watching the blueprint?
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#27

justgowithit

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Join Date: 07/12/2011 | Posts: 1877

 the key is not necessarily to do balls to the wall.  The key is to find what you can live with where you're still pushing yourself.  Doing 50 approaches a day, how long can you possibly keep that up for?  after a month you'll have done 1500 approaches.  That's not sustainable over the long run.  It's like dieting or lifting, the most effective workout is the one you can stick with for the long term.  
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#28

Tiger84

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Join Date: 10/01/2011 | Posts: 112

First become clear what it is you want from all of this. Then look what it is that is asked of you then.
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#29
Yoda

Yoda

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Join Date: 03/22/2008 | Posts: 923

It seems like most guys here would blow me out of the water in terms of quantity on approaches and I`m sure it is possible to improve that way, but in my opinion social skills are overrated and it is a limiting belief that you need to approach X amount of girls and PRACTICE in order to be able to sleep with a girl. Where the hell did that belief come from?

You`re good enough as you are. You don`t need to approach 1000 girls, benchpress 300 pounds and have single digits of body fat percentage before you are worthy of sex. It is your birthright. Go over to that girl, let her know what`s going on and bring her home.

You need to work on the proper mindset and actually be a man. Continuing to approach for the sake of approaching and approaching like a blind chicken is NOT the solution.

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#30

Hustla

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Join Date: 07/03/2012 | Posts: 83

 Lose the V card asap, go for fattie or pay a professional, you are like learning swimming by watching DVD only right now. I have been there done that.
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