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dude i went through 650 approaches at least before i got laid, and about 350 more after that before the second one. 160 in a year is barely 3 per week. step your shit up to 3 per day
Hahaha... 160 approaches was my 4-5 days regularity in DAY-game at my SMALL city, bro (when i started pick-up for real).
Sooo... 160 for a year? That's like doing 5 workouts a year? (Actually it's more accurately like... 3 - to be honest) Hahhah... do you think you will get Really Ripped given you're skinny with 5 FUCKING WORKOUTS A YEAR, SON!? :)
Sooo... 160 for a year? That's like doing 5 workouts a year? (Actually it's more accurately like... 3 - to be honest) Hahhah... do you think you will get Really Ripped given you're skinny with 5 FUCKING WORKOUTS A YEAR, SON!? :)
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160 approaches per 365 days. So you approach once every two days.
Try doing two approaches per day, and work your way up
Try doing two approaches per day, and work your way up
I think you're not approaching enough, as everyone else. You have to continually approach a lot to maintain state. I've had a month or two where i'm a straight pimp and a month where i'm a piece of shit getting next to nothing, You have to become absolutely numb to rejection and that takes tonssssss of approaches continually. Go have fun with it, my buddies laugh or nuts off when we get rejected because we think of girls that are better who we've been with. You'll get there just hold your head high and sarge. My favorite thing to get into a good state is to walk up to the hottest girl at the beginning of the night and say to myself "ok, i don't even want this chick and I'm gonna say something absolutely ridiculous to this chick to get some momentum". So I'll ask my buddy something to say and immediately say it to her.
the key is not necessarily to do balls to the wall. The key is to find what you can live with where you're still pushing yourself. Doing 50 approaches a day, how long can you possibly keep that up for? after a month you'll have done 1500 approaches. That's not sustainable over the long run. It's like dieting or lifting, the most effective workout is the one you can stick with for the long term.
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First become clear what it is you want from all of this. Then look what it is that is asked of you then.
It seems like most guys here would blow me out of the water in terms of quantity on approaches and I`m sure it is possible to improve that way, but in my opinion social skills are overrated and it is a limiting belief that you need to approach X amount of girls and PRACTICE in order to be able to sleep with a girl. Where the hell did that belief come from?
You`re good enough as you are. You don`t need to approach 1000 girls, benchpress 300 pounds and have single digits of body fat percentage before you are worthy of sex. It is your birthright. Go over to that girl, let her know what`s going on and bring her home.
You need to work on the proper mindset and actually be a man. Continuing to approach for the sake of approaching and approaching like a blind chicken is NOT the solution.
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You`re good enough as you are. You don`t need to approach 1000 girls, benchpress 300 pounds and have single digits of body fat percentage before you are worthy of sex. It is your birthright. Go over to that girl, let her know what`s going on and bring her home.
You need to work on the proper mindset and actually be a man. Continuing to approach for the sake of approaching and approaching like a blind chicken is NOT the solution.
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"How can I make this fun?"
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
"Let`s go over and see what this girl is like."
Lose the V card asap, go for fattie or pay a professional, you are like learning swimming by watching DVD only right now. I have been there done that.

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