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FR: Day 2 in the field
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Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others
One reason so few of us achieve what we truly want is that we never direct our focus; we never concentrate our power. Most people dabble their way through life, never deciding to master anything in partic
ular. Anthony Robbins
Most women are already there. You might think they're batty, emotional, ditzy. You're not supposed to worry about that. Why are you looking to her for emotional stability? That comes from you.
She is supposed to be able to play in your pla
yground. In the social context of you. Manwhore
I'm simply an unqualified social scientist using my own ego as a guinea pig for the value of others

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I went to bar one ready to impress my friends and hit up a few sets, there was nothing really happening and it was still day, I haven't tried any day game and with the bar having mainly couples I saw no openings. Nice day few beers to get the confidence flowing.
Call from wing he has decided to stay in chideville with a couple we know and get drunk and watch boxing, I wasn't hitting up a party of 8's alone so I went to meet friends in bar 2; This was going to be my main sarging venue for the night so I wanted to go in with an early approach, I sat down and the group were talking about 2 girls, a 5 and a 7. 3 seond rule, I shrugged and walked over and ran the 5 oceans opener, they were polish so we had a converation about the oceans but they could only name them in Polish, I felt the conversation dying a little after some early jokes and smiles, the 7 asks why I really came over, I said I aw you from the other side of the bar and thought you were cute but I did promise my friends I wouldn't be too long so I should go back, lets catch up later. High five and exit.
I went back to the guys and had a drink, they played a drinking game and saw a 5 set stood there watching, this was a first for me as I had only opened one large set on the first night which went ok but it was only to introduce some jealousy. I walked up to the group and isolated 2 to one side with a Jeremy Kyle opener and moved into the ring routine, I felt like I was being shut out and with no wing had no one to swoop so turned and opened another set directly behind. These girls were 3's at best, 50 year old ladies looking for a man to play with.
Back to the guys: Some banter and 2 girls walk in looking around as they come back from the bar I approach and try a more natural opener I ask the lesser chick to make sure no one steals my jacket while I get a drink, she complies I turn around after a few minutes see she isn't looking at jacket and pretend to tell her off and say I am watching you.
I move back into the set with my drink and open further then move into the ring finger routine, they are lapping it up, I run best friends and it turns out they are sisters both have boyfriends but I am getting lots of IOIs from the cuter one so as my friend steps in I isolate and move her round the corner to carry on, I run the cube, ESP test, little sister then go for some mad rapport and ask if she is thinking about kissing me, she says no but stares at my lips, I move on thinking this could happen! I ask her again later same repsonse. I know I should kiss her but I pussy out. She goes to the bar and buys me a drink, I open a 2 set by saying the girl has the best eyebrow arch I have seen all night, I look up and the sister is being dragged out by other sister and she waves and leaves. I am negged. There is very little else in here and the cougars from earlier ahve been hanging around like a bad smell. They inititate contact with me, I act like a dick getting all rowdy asking if she has ever had a one stand and whats the youngest guy she has been with this century. It's fun for everyone watching but there is no other action around and I am itching to open more. Kicking myself a little for not K closing blondie when it was so on, I open a set at the bar with Jeremy Kyle but my heart wasn't in it. We move on to another club, my friends have let the cougars attach themselves so I am now with 2 mates and 2 OAPs not great for the social proof. The next club is not leting in new customers and as we walk past the last bar I see no new chicks inside. I excuse myself and leave, on the way out I see the set I opened earlier and go straight in for the number, she looks at me not sure and her friend jumps in with 'Does that approach ever work, just walking up to girls and asking for numbers' I should bat her away but don't want to be seen to be defending myself, no need.
I put my phone out for the girl to take and she says you can take my name but that's all your getting. I might look her up on FB I might not.
I felt the night was more succesful from how I ran the crowd to how I had every set in there talking to me, I felt out each set and definitely isolated the one that had the most interest, I should have closed the sister and invested more before closing for the final number but as a first weekend I am pretty happy with the results.
Would love some feedback to help me when I recreate next week
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