THE FORUMS
Thursday 12 July
Me and my buddie Adawg went to the local auction spot to check out the cars up for auction (being superficial and silly I had a car that was GLORIOUS, but not so glorious on the wallet)
I'm after something that will get me to and from the clubs whilst running on next to nothing gas, and won't attract unnessecary attention from the 5-0
Shooting the shit or w/e cracking jokes at stuff.
I test drive this miniature RV/SUV thing.. this thing feels like it will float off and be gone with the wind at the slighest breeze, travelling at 100kms and hour. Which would suck because one of my favourite pursuits is snowboarding, and the nearest mountain is a 2 hour drive away. So no go =[ my search continues
After that it is pretty much time to get shit together and go out
Pick up another homie and head to the bottly, grab a 6 pack, My boy grabs v&j and some ronas
Drinking at Adawg's, him and my other homie are talking about conspiracy theories and their beliefs while having spots. I'm just chilling there listening, and interjecting at times to bring the state up... Get the good vibes going and not letting the bro's negativity spiral down and suck them, and myself into it.
So this went on for a while until I assert that we hit the clubs (It was about 1am? had 2 hours until the clubs/bars closed)
Got into town, first club, ask the bouncer how his night was "Pretty good, thanks for asking" sweet.
Walk in BOOM
I could feel the anxiety creep in, "Let's hit the d-floor guys" so we head there, pretty empty but I see some cute chicks around. At this point I am too anxious to do anything, but decide that my criteria for success tonight is to just be social.
So me and my boy bounce to the bar where we usually get our long islands... yeah I know I know lol
My buddie is bartending, we crack jokes and talk shit. He invites me to his birthday party at another bar in august, and tells me about the events happening next week since all the students are coming back from holidays, awesome!
I'm pretty slizzurd at this point, feeling it. We head back to the previous dance floor, the DJ is playing some SICK dubstep, and I start to cut shapes and get into a really good state.
[Set One]
I see two chicks dancing across from us, and my body just like moves by itself towards these girls, breaking away from the chode crystal and catapulting me into this momentum.
Without even thinking, I do Owen's pounce, and now here I am standing next to these girls going wtflol did I just do that?
I look at one girl, then her friend. I gaze at the friend, and like magic she takes off, and now it's me and this girl. So what do I do? Of course another one of Owen's funny nonverbal openers. This girl is like smiling and going "What? ..What?" as I'm pulling the hang-ten and rock/love hand gestures.
I'm laughing, pretty much amusing myself, and go back to my homies and cut more shapes.
[Set Two]
We leave the d-floor for "boy's wees, boy's wees" lol. I'm talking loud asking random questions while taking a piss, someone in another cubicle answers something and I crack up.
Head to a different bar in another room of this club. This is where the babes are serving drinks. Dayum. We buy tequila shots, one each. I'm asking the barmaids how their nights have been, subtly flirting, half smile stuff. My bro Adawg isn't much of a drinker so he makes me take his shot, I gladly oblige, and want to throw up after downing a second shot, meh. I keep it under control, as Adawg goes to me "fuck that redhead chick next to you is pretty hot" O RLY? I turn around and all I see is the back of her head, so I'm like HEY HEY HEY OY OY OY HEY, in a breaking rapport tone. She turns around and I'm like wow...
Me: "Yeah you, I think you're pretty cute and had to meet you. What's your name?"
Redhead: "blah blah my names Redhead" with a beaming smile, I see green eyes and I cherish her instantly :(
Me: "Wow, you actually are CUTE."
Redhead: "thanks :D"
Me: "So what are you drinking tonight?"
Redhead: "OH, are you buying me AND my girl a drink?"
Oh dear, what-the-fuck-just-happened-100-to-zero-in-0.5-seconds... yup I reacted and made buying her a drink a big deal.
Next time I will own what I say and not let HER own it, maybe guess what she was drinking that night instead. The hottie in a bar, her reality is that guys are always coming to give her their value, by buying her drinks etc.
So income the barrage of shit tests I manage blow a few off, challenge her back. Then when I felt like she wasn't trying to buy-me-a-shot shit test me is when I bought me and her a shot each. Tell the barmaids that me and her are married and ask them if they think we make a cute couple. Banter banter wink smirk. Introduce myself to her blonde friend who is also cute, and also giving me the eyes. Damn. Oh and notice that some dude who looked like Ari Gold from Entourage but with curly hair behind the blonde is looking at me " ARI GOLD! whatsup bro? how's your night going? are you with these girls? oh you met blondy last week?" oh yeah cool cool. Go back to Redhead and spit more shit, hug her and tell her I love her, she tries to make me buy her another shot by saying "Well you should buy me another shot, since you love me.." We have been at the bar for like ten minutes now (Just realised that I should've moved the set to another area of the club fuaaaaarrrk!) I decide to blow Redhead out LOL by saying "Just go, just go. We're divorcing. Go." I'm doing this while exchanging smiles with blondy. Remembered that Ari Gold is still there haha oops. Rock up to him and ask him if he wanted to be my wing, he tells me that he's keen on blondy. That was all good, I tell him that's cool and wish him goodluck.
Look to the tables across from the bar and see that my homies were watching the whole thing go down, epic. I also notice two girls a few tables over facing in my direction, show-time.
[Set Three]
Walk straight over to the two girls, both blondes. One has really boyish short hair that most hairdressers would sport and the other is a cutie in red, but was wearing too much clothes that didnt reveal much
Stupid weather.
Grab a seat next to the tomboy "OK, I'm talking to you guys now 'cause they we're boring" and point at the previous set who still were at the bar. lol. geez.
The set is warm to my approach, the cute blonde (CuteBlonde) is doing this funny, cute, peering over thing, becuase the short-haired blonde (ShortHair) is blocking her view of me as I am talking
So I'm like: "Yeah how's your night going blah blah chody chode questions...hey ShortHair!"
ShortHair: "Yes?"
Me: "Are you two together?"
ShortHair says something, and CuteBlonde is yelling over "No, we're not together. I'm single! :D"
I tell ShortHair that I thought she was a lesbian or bi, and she tells me that she is. I let her know that I think that's fucking sweet and that she's really hot for a lezbi. High Fives :)
And all the while CuteBlonde is still trying to talk to me, and ShortHair notices this is says that she'll be back. Winning!
...All the shots kick in
BOOM
All I can recall from my interaction with CuteBlonde is her awkwardly trying to leave and me laughing and getting up to talk to my boys...
In retrospect I realise that I was laughing because I was getting blown out for the first time after a good initial cold approach where I hooked... And was not attached to the outcome.
THAT SHIT DOESN'T HURT.
MIND=BLOWN
So then we head to the local pie shop, me and Adawg chat everyone there. I buy a pie for me and my other homie who was shouting most of the drinks for the night.
On the drive home they are giving me props, I tell them that it was nothing. That it was just the start of my journey, I have heaps to learn...
And learn I shall.
Lessons:
-It's all in your head, there's no reason not to approach
-People are friendly
-This is actually. really. really. fun
-Own my reality, dictate that shit. If someone takes what I say the wrong way, it's their own problem, not mine
-As soon as you show the slightest reaction, shit tests. Gotta love the indifference threshold being at a newbie level :)
-Don't drink so much!
-You can literally open with anything
-If you have INTENT and are owning that shit, the friends will literally gtfo of your way. That buzzed me out the most
-Getting blown out is funny, and you can still take experience from the interaction
Positives:
-Inspired my friends to get what they want out of life
-Met some new people, cool people.
-I got out there and was social
-Had a BLAST
-Lesbians in real life who are not porn stars can be hot LOL
Alright that be it, was a long-ass write up.
See you next time broskies. Lates
MS23
Me and my buddie Adawg went to the local auction spot to check out the cars up for auction (being superficial and silly I had a car that was GLORIOUS, but not so glorious on the wallet)
I'm after something that will get me to and from the clubs whilst running on next to nothing gas, and won't attract unnessecary attention from the 5-0
Shooting the shit or w/e cracking jokes at stuff.
I test drive this miniature RV/SUV thing.. this thing feels like it will float off and be gone with the wind at the slighest breeze, travelling at 100kms and hour. Which would suck because one of my favourite pursuits is snowboarding, and the nearest mountain is a 2 hour drive away. So no go =[ my search continues
After that it is pretty much time to get shit together and go out
Pick up another homie and head to the bottly, grab a 6 pack, My boy grabs v&j and some ronas
Drinking at Adawg's, him and my other homie are talking about conspiracy theories and their beliefs while having spots. I'm just chilling there listening, and interjecting at times to bring the state up... Get the good vibes going and not letting the bro's negativity spiral down and suck them, and myself into it.
So this went on for a while until I assert that we hit the clubs (It was about 1am? had 2 hours until the clubs/bars closed)
Got into town, first club, ask the bouncer how his night was "Pretty good, thanks for asking" sweet.
Walk in BOOM
I could feel the anxiety creep in, "Let's hit the d-floor guys" so we head there, pretty empty but I see some cute chicks around. At this point I am too anxious to do anything, but decide that my criteria for success tonight is to just be social.
So me and my boy bounce to the bar where we usually get our long islands... yeah I know I know lol
My buddie is bartending, we crack jokes and talk shit. He invites me to his birthday party at another bar in august, and tells me about the events happening next week since all the students are coming back from holidays, awesome!
I'm pretty slizzurd at this point, feeling it. We head back to the previous dance floor, the DJ is playing some SICK dubstep, and I start to cut shapes and get into a really good state.
[Set One]
I see two chicks dancing across from us, and my body just like moves by itself towards these girls, breaking away from the chode crystal and catapulting me into this momentum.
Without even thinking, I do Owen's pounce, and now here I am standing next to these girls going wtflol did I just do that?
I look at one girl, then her friend. I gaze at the friend, and like magic she takes off, and now it's me and this girl. So what do I do? Of course another one of Owen's funny nonverbal openers. This girl is like smiling and going "What? ..What?" as I'm pulling the hang-ten and rock/love hand gestures.
I'm laughing, pretty much amusing myself, and go back to my homies and cut more shapes.
[Set Two]
We leave the d-floor for "boy's wees, boy's wees" lol. I'm talking loud asking random questions while taking a piss, someone in another cubicle answers something and I crack up.
Head to a different bar in another room of this club. This is where the babes are serving drinks. Dayum. We buy tequila shots, one each. I'm asking the barmaids how their nights have been, subtly flirting, half smile stuff. My bro Adawg isn't much of a drinker so he makes me take his shot, I gladly oblige, and want to throw up after downing a second shot, meh. I keep it under control, as Adawg goes to me "fuck that redhead chick next to you is pretty hot" O RLY? I turn around and all I see is the back of her head, so I'm like HEY HEY HEY OY OY OY HEY, in a breaking rapport tone. She turns around and I'm like wow...
Me: "Yeah you, I think you're pretty cute and had to meet you. What's your name?"
Redhead: "blah blah my names Redhead" with a beaming smile, I see green eyes and I cherish her instantly :(
Me: "Wow, you actually are CUTE."
Redhead: "thanks :D"
Me: "So what are you drinking tonight?"
Redhead: "OH, are you buying me AND my girl a drink?"
Oh dear, what-the-fuck-just-happened-100-to-zero-in-0.5-seconds... yup I reacted and made buying her a drink a big deal.
Next time I will own what I say and not let HER own it, maybe guess what she was drinking that night instead. The hottie in a bar, her reality is that guys are always coming to give her their value, by buying her drinks etc.
So income the barrage of shit tests I manage blow a few off, challenge her back. Then when I felt like she wasn't trying to buy-me-a-shot shit test me is when I bought me and her a shot each. Tell the barmaids that me and her are married and ask them if they think we make a cute couple. Banter banter wink smirk. Introduce myself to her blonde friend who is also cute, and also giving me the eyes. Damn. Oh and notice that some dude who looked like Ari Gold from Entourage but with curly hair behind the blonde is looking at me " ARI GOLD! whatsup bro? how's your night going? are you with these girls? oh you met blondy last week?" oh yeah cool cool. Go back to Redhead and spit more shit, hug her and tell her I love her, she tries to make me buy her another shot by saying "Well you should buy me another shot, since you love me.." We have been at the bar for like ten minutes now (Just realised that I should've moved the set to another area of the club fuaaaaarrrk!) I decide to blow Redhead out LOL by saying "Just go, just go. We're divorcing. Go." I'm doing this while exchanging smiles with blondy. Remembered that Ari Gold is still there haha oops. Rock up to him and ask him if he wanted to be my wing, he tells me that he's keen on blondy. That was all good, I tell him that's cool and wish him goodluck.
Look to the tables across from the bar and see that my homies were watching the whole thing go down, epic. I also notice two girls a few tables over facing in my direction, show-time.
[Set Three]
Walk straight over to the two girls, both blondes. One has really boyish short hair that most hairdressers would sport and the other is a cutie in red, but was wearing too much clothes that didnt reveal much
Stupid weather.
Grab a seat next to the tomboy "OK, I'm talking to you guys now 'cause they we're boring" and point at the previous set who still were at the bar. lol. geez.
The set is warm to my approach, the cute blonde (CuteBlonde) is doing this funny, cute, peering over thing, becuase the short-haired blonde (ShortHair) is blocking her view of me as I am talking
So I'm like: "Yeah how's your night going blah blah chody chode questions...hey ShortHair!"
ShortHair: "Yes?"
Me: "Are you two together?"
ShortHair says something, and CuteBlonde is yelling over "No, we're not together. I'm single! :D"
I tell ShortHair that I thought she was a lesbian or bi, and she tells me that she is. I let her know that I think that's fucking sweet and that she's really hot for a lezbi. High Fives :)
And all the while CuteBlonde is still trying to talk to me, and ShortHair notices this is says that she'll be back. Winning!
...All the shots kick in
BOOM
All I can recall from my interaction with CuteBlonde is her awkwardly trying to leave and me laughing and getting up to talk to my boys...
In retrospect I realise that I was laughing because I was getting blown out for the first time after a good initial cold approach where I hooked... And was not attached to the outcome.
THAT SHIT DOESN'T HURT.
MIND=BLOWN
So then we head to the local pie shop, me and Adawg chat everyone there. I buy a pie for me and my other homie who was shouting most of the drinks for the night.
On the drive home they are giving me props, I tell them that it was nothing. That it was just the start of my journey, I have heaps to learn...
And learn I shall.
Lessons:
-It's all in your head, there's no reason not to approach
-People are friendly
-This is actually. really. really. fun
-Own my reality, dictate that shit. If someone takes what I say the wrong way, it's their own problem, not mine
-As soon as you show the slightest reaction, shit tests. Gotta love the indifference threshold being at a newbie level :)
-Don't drink so much!
-You can literally open with anything
-If you have INTENT and are owning that shit, the friends will literally gtfo of your way. That buzzed me out the most
-Getting blown out is funny, and you can still take experience from the interaction
Positives:
-Inspired my friends to get what they want out of life
-Met some new people, cool people.
-I got out there and was social
-Had a BLAST
-Lesbians in real life who are not porn stars can be hot LOL
Alright that be it, was a long-ass write up.
See you next time broskies. Lates
MS23
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Random update
Me: "Well Love. Next time we see each other, we can be BF / GF for 5 mins!
But then after the 5 mins we will have to break up =[
Haha
Happy Sunday"
Her: "it'll be the best 5 mins of my life !!! jokes ;) yeeaah happy sunday to you too hahaha ;D"
Pretty hairdresser girl who also has short hair? yup weird..
from another city though.
Anyway
Think my flirting is getting good again, might seed grownup stuff by mentioning "will we be the lovely cute couple vs. fighting but hot, HOT makeup sex couple, who knows.."
EDIT: Nvm I think those kinds of texts are more suited for AFTER you and a girl have banged it out
Me: "Well Love. Next time we see each other, we can be BF / GF for 5 mins!
But then after the 5 mins we will have to break up =[
Haha
Happy Sunday"
Her: "it'll be the best 5 mins of my life !!! jokes ;) yeeaah happy sunday to you too hahaha ;D"
Pretty hairdresser girl who also has short hair? yup weird..
from another city though.
Anyway
Think my flirting is getting good again, might seed grownup stuff by mentioning "will we be the lovely cute couple vs. fighting but hot, HOT makeup sex couple, who knows.."
EDIT: Nvm I think those kinds of texts are more suited for AFTER you and a girl have banged it out
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Wednesday
Didn't go out last night, damn. I should've watched Julien's new vid (which I've only just seen now)
Taking right action is definitely one thing I will keep working on. Gotta keep reminding myself that leaving my comfort zone is actually fun, that the anxiety and nervousness is just excitement turned on it's head.
Getting those reference experiences and leveling up is also pretty cool.
Been reading power of now for the first time, highly recommend it. If you over analyse things (which I know I do before leaving my house and going out), get this book
You'll learn how to find the 'OFF' switch of your mind and emotions. So I've started reading this as well as getting into meditation, will let whoever's reading know how this goes later on.
Anyway pretty chilled day
Definitely hitting up the singles night at this club tomorrow night! Wooooo!
Didn't go out last night, damn. I should've watched Julien's new vid (which I've only just seen now)
Taking right action is definitely one thing I will keep working on. Gotta keep reminding myself that leaving my comfort zone is actually fun, that the anxiety and nervousness is just excitement turned on it's head.
Getting those reference experiences and leveling up is also pretty cool.
Been reading power of now for the first time, highly recommend it. If you over analyse things (which I know I do before leaving my house and going out), get this book
You'll learn how to find the 'OFF' switch of your mind and emotions. So I've started reading this as well as getting into meditation, will let whoever's reading know how this goes later on.
Anyway pretty chilled day
Definitely hitting up the singles night at this club tomorrow night! Wooooo!
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Good stuff. I agree about the flirting...once you do that well without thinking too much it makes the entire process of aproaching women waaaaaaaaaay easier
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Cheers man, yeah definitely adds the fun masculine and feminine polarities into the interaction. It just has that naturalness to it, I love it.
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Thursday July 19
Awesome day where I was just shooting the shit with my friend Adawg, I'm beginning to feel that at ease-ness. Like I can talk to people I've barely know/have talken to and have a good conversation where I light up their day :)
Me and Adawg hit the auctions again, Adawg went quiet during this time. Like the good vibe just vanished into fat air? Reminds me of what I read in the The Power of Now; you learn about the 'pain-body' and depending on the person, a simple thought can drag them into this depressing, f****d up behaviour. As my social circle is kind of small at this moment I can either just go out solo and game or have to put up with the often negative outbursts from my friends, meh. Kind of sucks when you start to see the matrix and realise that your friends are getting left behind as you grow more and more..
Night rolls by, we don't rock into town til late (had like 2 hours til close)
Me, Adawg and another buddie head out to a bar to play some pool, some intellectual blonde opens me on my hat (its a tiger head beanie thing for the mad hatter/singles party which ended when we got there, peacocking yo) she wants to wear it because she loves animals, I tell her no but I also love animals and believe in animal rights blahblahblah she was eating it up. "Hey I'll catchup with you later" warmup done
Walk up the stairs, hit the bar, barmaid has this beaming smile the whole time i'm talking to her as we're getting tequila shots, she was like a 6.5 so whatever
pay for pool, we play. See some cats that we know, blahblah whatsup. Go hit the d-floor where these babes in nurse uniforms are, I feel awkward to approach.
FUCK
We bounce to the club where the singles party was. No one else had funny hats on? I was too late. Oh well. Go in, see another buddie that I know who is off his face lol
Did half ass approaches, the less awkward it is..the more awkward it actually is. I will remember this for tomorrow. Woo+Intent
On the d-floor
One approach I had the woo, the fun shit, and no Intent. Next approach soon after I had the Intent, but no woo.
See this small cute girl who I know but haven't been acquainted with yet so I decided that thats going to change hahaha
Pull her in
Me "Hey I know you"
Her "Really? blahblah"
Me "Yeah"
Me "Where she works" *OOOHHH STALKER GUY ALERT, nope*
Her "Blahblah" lol I honestly cant remember what she said
Me "You know my buddy CoolDude"
She looks at me.... "OMG you're (MySistersName)'s brother aren't you!" all smiling
Me "Yuuuup" :)
We fluff talk. She intros me to her indian friend, some random indian guy approaches her indian friend lol... and shes immediately telling him to fuck off and pushes him away
Me "HAHAHA you just broke his heart girl... you're evil" :)
Her "No no hes been hitting her up alllll night blahblah"
Me "Cool, fair enough"
More fluff talk, and some jacked rugby guy with dreadlocks rolls up and I ask him if he knew the girls, "Nope just a random" haha good shit, he seemed chilled. She takes out her phone and hands it to me "OK" so I just punch in my number, she gets my name. Boom, fuck yeah. I bounce off to find Adawg and that was pretty much the end of the night.
We get back to his and debrief.... and comes the long-ass rant about his internal problems (he's really good at rants, it sucks you in.. so you could imagine what it would be like when hes in a shit mindset)
So I'm not sure what I want to do, anyone reading care to give their opinion on these types of matters? cheers
and that concludes todays writeup
Lessons:
-Approach more sets that you feel entitled to, warm up son
-Woo with no intent=dancing monkey guy. Intent with no woo=creepy guy. Woo+Intent=Charlie Sheen
Positives:
-Winning
-Got out there again and made people feel good, and that makes me feel good
-I'm beginning to know my values
Side note: Chicky from the last set txtd me today, sweet.
Til later! Take care
Awesome day where I was just shooting the shit with my friend Adawg, I'm beginning to feel that at ease-ness. Like I can talk to people I've barely know/have talken to and have a good conversation where I light up their day :)
Me and Adawg hit the auctions again, Adawg went quiet during this time. Like the good vibe just vanished into fat air? Reminds me of what I read in the The Power of Now; you learn about the 'pain-body' and depending on the person, a simple thought can drag them into this depressing, f****d up behaviour. As my social circle is kind of small at this moment I can either just go out solo and game or have to put up with the often negative outbursts from my friends, meh. Kind of sucks when you start to see the matrix and realise that your friends are getting left behind as you grow more and more..
Night rolls by, we don't rock into town til late (had like 2 hours til close)
Me, Adawg and another buddie head out to a bar to play some pool, some intellectual blonde opens me on my hat (its a tiger head beanie thing for the mad hatter/singles party which ended when we got there, peacocking yo) she wants to wear it because she loves animals, I tell her no but I also love animals and believe in animal rights blahblahblah she was eating it up. "Hey I'll catchup with you later" warmup done
Walk up the stairs, hit the bar, barmaid has this beaming smile the whole time i'm talking to her as we're getting tequila shots, she was like a 6.5 so whatever
pay for pool, we play. See some cats that we know, blahblah whatsup. Go hit the d-floor where these babes in nurse uniforms are, I feel awkward to approach.
FUCK
We bounce to the club where the singles party was. No one else had funny hats on? I was too late. Oh well. Go in, see another buddie that I know who is off his face lol
Did half ass approaches, the less awkward it is..the more awkward it actually is. I will remember this for tomorrow. Woo+Intent
On the d-floor
One approach I had the woo, the fun shit, and no Intent. Next approach soon after I had the Intent, but no woo.
See this small cute girl who I know but haven't been acquainted with yet so I decided that thats going to change hahaha
Pull her in
Me "Hey I know you"
Her "Really? blahblah"
Me "Yeah"
Me "Where she works" *OOOHHH STALKER GUY ALERT, nope*
Her "Blahblah" lol I honestly cant remember what she said
Me "You know my buddy CoolDude"
She looks at me.... "OMG you're (MySistersName)'s brother aren't you!" all smiling
Me "Yuuuup" :)
We fluff talk. She intros me to her indian friend, some random indian guy approaches her indian friend lol... and shes immediately telling him to fuck off and pushes him away
Me "HAHAHA you just broke his heart girl... you're evil" :)
Her "No no hes been hitting her up alllll night blahblah"
Me "Cool, fair enough"
More fluff talk, and some jacked rugby guy with dreadlocks rolls up and I ask him if he knew the girls, "Nope just a random" haha good shit, he seemed chilled. She takes out her phone and hands it to me "OK" so I just punch in my number, she gets my name. Boom, fuck yeah. I bounce off to find Adawg and that was pretty much the end of the night.
We get back to his and debrief.... and comes the long-ass rant about his internal problems (he's really good at rants, it sucks you in.. so you could imagine what it would be like when hes in a shit mindset)
So I'm not sure what I want to do, anyone reading care to give their opinion on these types of matters? cheers
and that concludes todays writeup
Lessons:
-Approach more sets that you feel entitled to, warm up son
-Woo with no intent=dancing monkey guy. Intent with no woo=creepy guy. Woo+Intent=Charlie Sheen
Positives:
-Winning
-Got out there again and made people feel good, and that makes me feel good
-I'm beginning to know my values
Side note: Chicky from the last set txtd me today, sweet.
Til later! Take care
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What. a. night. got told to fuck off, got told I was hot, almost made out with this chick here
and met some cool people. This shit is bonkers
and met some cool people. This shit is bonkers
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Saturday 21 July
Chilled with civilian friends, went to town in a pub crawl kind of fashion lol, the first one was fun.. had to dance my way out of there because its a really small pub like when you're at the bar you are pretty much on the dancefloor at the same time. So that was a highlight.
Next interaction me and the bros are on the way to the dance spot.
I see my female friend, she's with a bunch of girls that I don't know (mix of ugs and hotties) "Hey wassup! Ay hold on" claw in the hot friend as my bros keep walking "Who are you?", intro and shit, find out she has a BF.. cool well I wanted to meet you anyway (next time I'll use the 'thats the one, would you like another?' w/e).. and then a cute girl in the group comes in "He's hot" and i'm immediately onto her. Just like BAM
We chit chat, I think I asked her if she was a good kisser or something, then all the girls are going do it do it do it... this chick is getting shy and going into her head I guess. In the moment I'm like 'fuck it', and grab her head and try to go in.. she flinches, and I lean back. Then my friend starts apologizing profusely, I stay chill and say it's cool and if I see them a bit later that I'll try it again lol.
Next time I'll isolate and then go for it
So I go find the bros, and they're halfway to the next spot. We get there, line up.. I try to get one of the bros to just say hi to a girl in front of us, nope. He absolutely doe's not want to put a scratch on his ego. So I do it..
Me: "Hey how's your night going?"
Her: "Good, HEY DID YOU JUST CUT THE LINE AND ARE USING US?" ...wow....
I react "Blahblah" just fully caught off guard by that, and she backturns me to never speak to me again. I try to reengage that shit, plowing, but no cigar. Oh well, can't feed all of Africa.
Get in there, get drinks, hit the d-floor. I should've opened some more at that venue but after that blowout in the line I didn't feel like it at the time (Which is stupid thinking about it now)
After that we head to another bar/club, on the way I try the cheesiest situational opener and get told to fuck off. How will my heart go on?
At the next bar I remember holding eye contact with this stunnah, and she looks away first, awesome :)
Just as I'm going to approach her, all these people just show up and block the path, as well as the bros distracting me -full chode crystal vacuum effect. fuaaaarrrrk! and I lose that spark of initiative to approach. sadface
So layter on when it's just me and one of the bros on the d-floor. Some chick grinds up on him, another is like hovering around while looking at him.. I look at him and look at her and she sees me do this, so I kinda gesture with my eyes for her to go get him lol. Notice some alright chick with a nice body dancing next to me(ExoticGirl), this chick literally wasn't there a second ago.. So I start talking about my bros situation to her, intro myself, she has a loose handshake so I call her on that shit. She's a little aloof, doesn't bother me. Intro myself to her fat friend, lol fat friend has this wtf face going on w/e. Dancing dancing, kinda not feeling the music. So I just move to the side of the d-floor for a bit.
As I'm chilling there, going through my head of what I should be doing. Chick from thursday shows up(Shorty), tap tap on her shoulder, she turns and looks..gets a big smile and hugs me. Fluff talk, she tells me that she's leaving to brisbane, now I'm in my head at this point and don't really care what she was saying +it was too loud to talk. So I just move her to her friends and go back to my bro. Grinding girl ended up continuing her grinding pilgrimage elsewhere, and that girl who is hovering around my bro is still hovering around. So I wait around and see if it's going to happen, ExoticGirl comes and intro's me to her guy friend. This dude just looks like the ultimate cool dude, we get into a dance battle, he's cool, might have to wing with him in the future. So while we're battling, lights come on, last dance.. hmm time to try the 'Hey, I need a date tonight' opener
So I go around, doesn't really land with any girl, and then the last song finishes.
Shorty pops up out of nowhere to tell me that she's going now... lol cool, I haven't really put much investment into our interaction and here she is. At this point I have regrouped with the bros, one of them is trying to tell me that he'll vouch for me to Shorty, lol I tell him it's all good, her older brother was the biggest drug dealer in my city. Drug dealer brother and giving off signs of clingyness... nope, not my cup of tea.
Ah well I still leave her with a little glimmer of hope and txtd her "Hey was great bumping heads with you last night. Be good. -MS" she replied with "Yeah you too :)" cool cool cool
Some other shit happened after the clubs closed but I can't be bothered typing all that up too, so I'll leave it at that!
Lessons:
-Lead the interaction, don't let others lead you to do things that you don't want to
-Direct approaches, cool approaches, and throw in some touch early on. Do not resort to gimmicky approaches, you will burn
-Break off from the chode crystal and do approach after approach
-You can get far just by being chill and having good physicality with a girl
-Holding eye-contact with your girl is SO powerful
-Isolate her "I want to show you something"
-Hold no emotional investment in the outcome
-Close
Positives:
-I do not give a damn about what anyone thinks of me
-I pushed my boundaries
-Learning, learning, learning
-I'm awesome
Alright, gonna kick back and read some Eckhart Tolle now, peace!
MojoSoul
Chilled with civilian friends, went to town in a pub crawl kind of fashion lol, the first one was fun.. had to dance my way out of there because its a really small pub like when you're at the bar you are pretty much on the dancefloor at the same time. So that was a highlight.
Next interaction me and the bros are on the way to the dance spot.
I see my female friend, she's with a bunch of girls that I don't know (mix of ugs and hotties) "Hey wassup! Ay hold on" claw in the hot friend as my bros keep walking "Who are you?", intro and shit, find out she has a BF.. cool well I wanted to meet you anyway (next time I'll use the 'thats the one, would you like another?' w/e).. and then a cute girl in the group comes in "He's hot" and i'm immediately onto her. Just like BAM
We chit chat, I think I asked her if she was a good kisser or something, then all the girls are going do it do it do it... this chick is getting shy and going into her head I guess. In the moment I'm like 'fuck it', and grab her head and try to go in.. she flinches, and I lean back. Then my friend starts apologizing profusely, I stay chill and say it's cool and if I see them a bit later that I'll try it again lol.
Next time I'll isolate and then go for it
So I go find the bros, and they're halfway to the next spot. We get there, line up.. I try to get one of the bros to just say hi to a girl in front of us, nope. He absolutely doe's not want to put a scratch on his ego. So I do it..
Me: "Hey how's your night going?"
Her: "Good, HEY DID YOU JUST CUT THE LINE AND ARE USING US?" ...wow....
I react "Blahblah" just fully caught off guard by that, and she backturns me to never speak to me again. I try to reengage that shit, plowing, but no cigar. Oh well, can't feed all of Africa.
Get in there, get drinks, hit the d-floor. I should've opened some more at that venue but after that blowout in the line I didn't feel like it at the time (Which is stupid thinking about it now)
After that we head to another bar/club, on the way I try the cheesiest situational opener and get told to fuck off. How will my heart go on?
At the next bar I remember holding eye contact with this stunnah, and she looks away first, awesome :)
Just as I'm going to approach her, all these people just show up and block the path, as well as the bros distracting me -full chode crystal vacuum effect. fuaaaarrrrk! and I lose that spark of initiative to approach. sadface
So layter on when it's just me and one of the bros on the d-floor. Some chick grinds up on him, another is like hovering around while looking at him.. I look at him and look at her and she sees me do this, so I kinda gesture with my eyes for her to go get him lol. Notice some alright chick with a nice body dancing next to me(ExoticGirl), this chick literally wasn't there a second ago.. So I start talking about my bros situation to her, intro myself, she has a loose handshake so I call her on that shit. She's a little aloof, doesn't bother me. Intro myself to her fat friend, lol fat friend has this wtf face going on w/e. Dancing dancing, kinda not feeling the music. So I just move to the side of the d-floor for a bit.
As I'm chilling there, going through my head of what I should be doing. Chick from thursday shows up(Shorty), tap tap on her shoulder, she turns and looks..gets a big smile and hugs me. Fluff talk, she tells me that she's leaving to brisbane, now I'm in my head at this point and don't really care what she was saying +it was too loud to talk. So I just move her to her friends and go back to my bro. Grinding girl ended up continuing her grinding pilgrimage elsewhere, and that girl who is hovering around my bro is still hovering around. So I wait around and see if it's going to happen, ExoticGirl comes and intro's me to her guy friend. This dude just looks like the ultimate cool dude, we get into a dance battle, he's cool, might have to wing with him in the future. So while we're battling, lights come on, last dance.. hmm time to try the 'Hey, I need a date tonight' opener
So I go around, doesn't really land with any girl, and then the last song finishes.
Shorty pops up out of nowhere to tell me that she's going now... lol cool, I haven't really put much investment into our interaction and here she is. At this point I have regrouped with the bros, one of them is trying to tell me that he'll vouch for me to Shorty, lol I tell him it's all good, her older brother was the biggest drug dealer in my city. Drug dealer brother and giving off signs of clingyness... nope, not my cup of tea.
Ah well I still leave her with a little glimmer of hope and txtd her "Hey was great bumping heads with you last night. Be good. -MS" she replied with "Yeah you too :)" cool cool cool
Some other shit happened after the clubs closed but I can't be bothered typing all that up too, so I'll leave it at that!
Lessons:
-Lead the interaction, don't let others lead you to do things that you don't want to
-Direct approaches, cool approaches, and throw in some touch early on. Do not resort to gimmicky approaches, you will burn
-Break off from the chode crystal and do approach after approach
-You can get far just by being chill and having good physicality with a girl
-Holding eye-contact with your girl is SO powerful
-Isolate her "I want to show you something"
-Hold no emotional investment in the outcome
-Close
Positives:
-I do not give a damn about what anyone thinks of me
-I pushed my boundaries
-Learning, learning, learning
-I'm awesome
Alright, gonna kick back and read some Eckhart Tolle now, peace!
MojoSoul
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I looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove women :)
I looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove women :)
Advvvveeeeeeenture!!
Hey doodz it's been a wee while, but hey here I am, right now.
Gonna keep this update short and sweet: been going out, sticking to the path.
Ups and downs keep happening, but I stay centred. Slowly getting to opening sets like BAM and then bringing the energy down. Being fun, doing it for me. I love this shit.
Next time I will be out with a bro who has the same beliefs, he's a natural so it's going to be interesting to see how far we can go.
Yeee boi!
hearts
-MS
Hey doodz it's been a wee while, but hey here I am, right now.
Gonna keep this update short and sweet: been going out, sticking to the path.
Ups and downs keep happening, but I stay centred. Slowly getting to opening sets like BAM and then bringing the energy down. Being fun, doing it for me. I love this shit.
Next time I will be out with a bro who has the same beliefs, he's a natural so it's going to be interesting to see how far we can go.
Yeee boi!
hearts
-MS
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I looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove women :)
I looooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooove women :)
MojoSoul
Junior Member
Join Date: 06/28/2012 | Posts: 16
So no more bullshit excuses. Burn down the old beliefs, time for some better ones.