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June 19th, 2013
Getting approached by women
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Gosu

Gosu

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Join Date: 03/26/2012 | Posts: 79

What are your insights on this? I get approached by girls at least a few times per week, and feel slightly uncomfortable with it. Not that I couldn´t handle it, sometimes it works out and it´s all good,  but I feel like I could do better. Sounds funny, I actually find it harder to seal the deal if a girl is into me initially. So help me out on this...
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champ

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Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 820

You have to take over and start leading "runing your game" whatever it is.  Watch this specifically at 7:09. Where was this vid all my life! nahh j/k! Good Luck!

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"Don't take this too serious or be serious out there. It can work against you.GO OUT TO CLUBS,PARTIES,ETC. Relax, have fun, have "sucess with women".Trust in the process.Trust in the time you put in. 'Be positive always'. Focus on "the positive" and you will learn faster. Obviously the more time you put in the better and faster the learning and result will be.Trust in the knowledge you're aplying because the 'RSD/PUA knowledge' is probably the 'best truth' we have today.The process is fun and everlasting teeth." I think this is true 
"A woman can feel a similar powerful emotional and physical response that's similar to the one we feel when we see an attractive woman.....A woman can feel that in response to something....Okay instead of trying to logically convince a woman to feel attracted.They must 'trigger it'...'Personality' is the primary way that attraction is 'triggered inside of women'  " David D! Best of wishes to you sir wherever U R.
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"Always have Abundance mentality. 1.Alot of girls will always like you. The more you meet the more will like you.Always have freedom from outcome 2. You can have the exact same great connection with many many girls. There is nothing special about any girl and connection you made with her. Fuck and forget "everything" about society,social conditioning,songs,media,movies that go against abundance mentality"  
"Never-attach-too-much-meaning to interactions with girls for example if you like a girl always go for her phone number"  ;   "MOVEMENT IS LIFE" RSDNathan
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Mista_Dontplay

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Join Date: 12/04/2007 | Posts: 41

 Just relax, let her game you, and don't say anything stupid. I had an experience a few weeks ago where I had just gotten into the club and was approached by this OK blonde. From there, just ran normal game: moved her, got her number, made out, and chilled with her for the rest of the night until we went back to her place. IMO it's not much different than if you had approached her. Let her game you and then escalate.
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Angry Dave

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Join Date: 09/09/2011 | Posts: 218

i got approached by hot mom daughter on the escalator and i totally flipped out and ran off like a S.A.P. 

well you live you learn. next time im closing them shades
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