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May 22nd, 2013
I get tooled a lot!
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J Dilla R.I.P.

J Dilla R.I.P.

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 Ha ha, I'm probably making it seem worse than it is but... When i'm out guys try to tool me, probably because I can freely express myself, don't take myself too seriously etc. And some guys seem to be threatened by this (cause the girls like it).

How do you pro's deal with this, do you tool them back and get caught up in the whole verbal sparring thing, or do you just playfully blow it off?

Usually I don't get caught up in it and just carry on doing my thing. As long as you don't get affected by it, it doesn't seem to matter from my experience, but sometimes I just wanna tool these insecure little fucks, thoughts...
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The Mack

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 youre weak
get stronger
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J Dilla R.I.P.

J Dilla R.I.P.

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The Mack wrote:
 youre weak
get stronger
Alright cool, you mean just keep going out and interacting with chicks right
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J Dilla R.I.P.

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What up jaythekiller, Dilla is my favorite beatmaker for sure, the dude had skills.

I was exagerating how much I get tooled i guess, it doesn't happen all the time or anything, it mostly happens when I'm in a group of guys and girls and I'm just havin a good time saying anything, it usually only happens when the girls are into me, people normally don't just randomly tool me lol.

I think dudes are trying to kill my state/good feelings or whatever, so I dont think it's a weakness or negative energy thing, I could be wrong and I'll keep an eye out, cheers guys
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Jake454

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 I dont hear other guys, unless I like them.. its simple

The hottie I pulled this week was with me in the smoking section and were all close and shit, it starts getting hot and were making out, then outa no where I get hit by an icecube lmao, then I hear people yelling "get a room" and shit... I jsut stayed unflinching because shes looking to me to see what I do. I just ignored because it doesnt matter, the only thing she is concious of is if I am kissing her or not.
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J Dilla R.I.P.

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Lesson from jake454, If I dont like what I hear, full ignore...

oh and thanks calbear, really sweet of you to say

P.S Icecube lol!
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Most often ignore but sometimes it's worth it to tool them back even harder and make them look like an idiot in front of their friends. For me it tends to build up over a long period then I let it all out on the next guy to try it. The red flag is if you start to feel like a bitch for taking some dude's shit. Few months ago I jammed a younger guy up against the jukebox after he said some shit to me while I was walking by.  Had him by his collar and told him to talk some shit to me now. He didnt say a word and his friends actually began to back away from us. The girls in his group didnt see him as so tough after that.  Felt great, well worth it.
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Sounds like you're the insecure one.  Only chodes worry about whether they're alpha all the time.  Do whatever the fuck you feel like.  Sounds like you're acting out of fear and insecurity when you should just do wahtever you feel like and realize that that's the right action.
J Dilla R.I.P. wrote:
 Ha ha, I'm probably making it seem worse than it is but... When i'm out guys try to tool me, probably because I can freely express myself, don't take myself too seriously etc. And some guys seem to be threatened by this (cause the girls like it).

How do you pro's deal with this, do you tool them back and get caught up in the whole verbal sparring thing, or do you just playfully blow it off?

Usually I don't get caught up in it and just carry on doing my thing. As long as you don't get affected by it, it doesn't seem to matter from my experience, but sometimes I just wanna tool these insecure little fucks, thoughts...
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I'm looked upon as an easy target due to being small relative to a lot of the guys in the hot clubs I go to.

Check how I handle with this guy who fronts like he's with this girl.



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Mind blowing. Thanks Tyler.
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I dont hear other guys, unless I like them.. its simple
THIS.
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