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December 5th, 2016
Entitlement Expression: When Was The Last Time You Openly Said "I did that", "That's mine" or "No, I'm not going to do that"
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The Duck ✘

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The above statements sounds like something a 6-year old would say. It also sounds like something his/her parents would counter with "Don't be selfish" or "How do you expect to make friends with that attitude".

Honest entitlement to me is the ability to express claims to what is mine and what I deserve. Things, actions, opinions and women. Answer this; How many times have you seen a woman that you genuinely felt entitled to, but some other guy beat you to the approach or was more of a "jerk" to OTHERS in his way of getting the womans attention...

To me, there's a step between knowing that you are entitled to something/someone, and actually expressing that entitlement. That step is what "jerks" consistently take. And although YOU may have been better for the girl in terms of who you are as a person, the healthy lifestyle that you lead etc. HE actually stepped up, metaphorically bitch-slapped all the chodes standing around leering, and "stole" the girls attention. That's a lot of negative words; bitch-slapping, stealing, jerking. But fact of the matter is, all those terms and the negative connotations were invented by society and the sore losers in it.

And the "jerks" are OK with doing all of those "bad" things. Why? Maybe their dicks are just hard enough for the risk/reward scenario to propel them to action either way. Or they lack the empathy crucical to a long-term relationship, but HIGHLY beneficial in ONS-scenarios, so they don't give a fuck about people. Now you may think "Shit, do I have to kill my empathy or purchase a strap-on because my dick JUST ISN'T that hard..?" No you manly piece of ass..

The way I view it is that I'm a cool dude who has a lot to offer, (I'm talking ions of social value, conversational creativity, positivity, a dick, functional index finger etc.) and it's my DUTY to express that to women. I help mankind by stating my opinions so as to give them a sparring partner to their own reality. I'm a smart dude, well-rounded, fun-loving guy who like weird shit. IMAGINE the stuff I can offer them. Imagine the stuff YOU can offer them. Literally. HOW can you deny them that dipshit.. You can't. I FORBID you!

Now, there's also a question about if our problem lies in entitlement expression or in actually feeling entitled enough internally. That issue can be determined by the internal chat we have once we see a a hot girl. If when we see her we're thinking "Shit, I'm not in a fun mood, my clothes are fucked, I should talk to some more girls to warm-up" etc. then it's a general lack of entitlement and not trusting that there's no reason for why you're not enough. If on the other hand the mental masturbation is "I'll do it when the guys leave, I'll do it outside when she's alone, I can't do it here, there's too many people" or anything external where you're worried about what people will THINK about your entitlement EXPRESSION, than you need to become comfortable being the "jerk" in other peoples eyes.

Or just delusionally believe that you're saving the world by claiming what you deserve. Potato, potato, go make french fries homie.
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tpt

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i have a problem with entitlement expression, didnt know how to describe it untill i read this thread. I can see a hot girl and KNOW FOR A FACT that she will be attracted to me but dont make moves because i dont want ppl thinking im an asshole (blowing out chodes to get the girl) or ppl getting jelous of me or feeling responsible for making others feel insecure (freinds watching me get the hottest girl everytime). Its a classic example of FEAR OF SUCCESS. As stated by many the greatest human fear isnt fear of failure but fear of success. Its funny cause i will be able to handle getting rejected in front of them but i wouldnt be able to handle having the hottest girl all on me while my freinds watched.
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Hey duck,

Your post was really pretty lame.

Thought I'd check it out as your stuff and headspace is normally quite good.

Anyway mate, get your shit together bro!

If you need any advice on how to do this give me a pm and I'll see if I can help you
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Not sure if you're joke trollin, but its actually good, sounds very basic, but newbs and most intermediates don't do this basic stuff consistently.  
detourxl~ wrote:
Hey duck,

Your post was really pretty lame.

Thought I'd check it out as your stuff and headspace is normally quite good.

Anyway mate, get your shit together bro!

If you need any advice on how to do this give me a pm and I'll see if I can help you
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 Love it. Reminds me..I need to step it up and quit being a
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To me, there's a step between knowing that you are entitled to something/someone, and actually expressing that entitlement. That step is what "jerks" consistently take.

I think the "classic" sense of entitlement that has gotten such a negative vibe is the delusional kind where ppl just take what they want cuz they feel like they need it and no one else deserves it. I actually used to have this delusional sense and I swear to god if I didn't have a strict father I would probably be in jail by now. We see this in criminals a lot. Want some money? Just rob a store or a bank. Want to get laid? Just a chick. Hate someone? Kill them. Its called Antisocial Personality Disorder and although I was never diagnosed with it, I definitely issued enough open death threats to ppl when I was growing up to probably get diagnosed with it. I just remember saying some CRAZY stuff back in the day; I'll never forget a few days after the Columbine Tragedy I was like "Now how come that couldn't happen in my high school? I could have done soo much more than they did!" Thank god I had such a strict dad or else it would have not ended well for me. ppl with these kind of motivations have a delusional sense of entitlement. But ppl also have now confused that with the healthy sense of entitlement where you just feel like you deserve good things. IMO I really do think that this is the type of "entitlement" we are talking about here, its just the fact that ppl in general deserve good things. I still get the temptation to have that delusional sense of entitlement, but my days of "getting my revenge on everyone for everything cuz I deserve to be happy while everyone else deserves to be miserable" (This was my original Senior Quote in High School but of course I was asked to replace it) are over.

I actually used to think (And made the mistake to write an English paper about it) that there shouldn't be any laws at all because it would just recreate natural selection, but its actually pretty scary to see what would happen if there were no laws. My dad would always think of what the world would be like if there was no advertising and I was like "to hell with that, I want to live for like one week without any laws at all. Cuz then I could literally take whatever I wanted without any consequense at all; it would be awesome."
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Came from a place with no laws. Trust me, you don't want that. It had nothing to do with natural selection and just came down to who had more bullets.

Entitlement expression does get fucked if it's so delusional that it comes out at the expense of emotional empathy and social intelligence. Two very key factors in this game.
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Ha ha. Was Just trolling.
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