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December 9th, 2016
The Phantom Approach
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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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Join Date: 04/02/2009 | Posts: 2948

Yesterday, I used the Phantom Approach on a girl, and ended up fucking her. 

What is the Phantom Approach ? 

It's this: you walk up to the girl, say nothing at all, stay confident in yourself and in your physicality, and let her do all the talking. After 30min-1h of her investing on you like this, you can't not fuck her. 

What is it not ? 

It's not the "stare and plant" opener badly done where you walk up to a girl, look at her in the eyes and try to make her fuck you by looking into her eyes. 

View it like this: you're so high value that you don't even spit a word to game her. You just take what's yours, in the limits of what's socially acceptable (ie you're socially aware of what's around you, of the fact she has friends, etc) (you can also finger her in the taxi later).

The key is to stay supremely confident and comfortable. What helped me was the few hours I spent approaching earlier. 

So you're a challenge, and she'll try to make you speak. 
Don't say shit. Say nothing. Smile. Maybe make gestures. But don't say anything. 

Primal behavior at its finest. Escalate on her ass hard, she'll get it. She'll understand "ok he's only here to fuck me hard, and he's smart enough to make it fun". 

Other people will try to speak to you. Ignore. 
Other guys will try to steal your girl. They'll speak to you - don't say shit, just smile, let them speak too much. Then you pick up your girl and carry her elsewhere. 
Her friends will try to speak to you. Ignore. You'll be so boring they won't do anything against you. 

After some time (it was 1 hour for me this time) you can say something. Never say anything longer than one word. You can say your name. 

Then play with it. Sometimes answer to a question of hers in a very boring / mundane way, she'll think it's awesome just because you're saying. 

Then finger her in the taxi. 
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Hotdog

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Join Date: 03/12/2011 | Posts: 966

Good idea I love it, I often have interactions where I say minimal stuff, but 30 minutes not talking I think is stretching it a bit. Ill try it tho :)
What about when she starts the innevitable barrage of questions?
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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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What I did was really not say anything apart from making out with her and trying to finger her for the first 30min / 1h. Asking questions was investment. I just looked at her deep in the eyes, smile and make out or something like that. 

Maybe I was lucky, maybe I was super hot, anyway it worked like that, I don't if it would work that way with a girl less into me right from the start. 


Hotdog wrote:
Good idea I love it, I often have interactions where I say minimal stuff, but 30 minutes not talking I think is stretching it a bit. Ill try it tho :)
What about when she starts the innevitable barrage of questions?
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alienantfarm

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lol what the fuck?

I would imagine there is a lot of silence because we all know girls having little to say.

FINGER DEM IN THE TAXAY!
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"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
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