Pursuing a 20 year old MILF...thoughts?

Posted July 9th, 2012 at 2:16 AM

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2 large red flags:

1. Pudgy chick? Really. To each his own but def not my style.

2. Single mom at that age isn't a good sign. This is a low quality chick.

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 3:37 AM

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Yeah in my home city there are all these 20 yr old baby mommas running around... definitely lower demographics and not something you'd really want to be involved with....

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 3:43 AM

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bigjew629 wrote:

So I met this chick at my job last night, really cute pudgy chick who was mad into me. She pretty much asked me out and begged for my number and in the last 24 hours we have already had a pretty nice text convo. She mentioned that she had a 10 month old kid, and then to qualify, she said that she wasn't looking for a replacement daddy. Chances are good that me and her will day 2 it up on Wednesday. What should I expect? I'm cool with goin out with a MILF but afraid that I'm gonna have to deal with an ex boyfriend/husband who just got out of jail or something (Thats my "stereotype" of single moms, that their angry, jealous chode of an ex is gonna bust out of jail and kick the current boyfriends ass lol).

I was in your same situation except I met the single mom at community college. She was needy just like the one you described which ultimately turned me off. I would say fuck her for experiance, and keep sarging. The thing with single mom's is that they may hold out on sex to get you whipped, thats what the one I met TRIED to do. The fact that she is fat and has a child should make you run to the hills lol.

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 4:02 AM

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coolio3221 wrote:

NewDude wrote:

2 large red flags:

1. Pudgy chick? Really. To each his own but def not my style.

2. Single mom at that age isn't a good sign. This is a low quality chick.

Kinda judgemental bro. I hate sounding like Tyler or a guru but
What makes her a low quality chick though, just being a single
Mom at 20?

I mean, sure, watch out for her trying to use you or any other
Drama but in reality that one reason aint enough to call
Her low quality in my book.

Just curious NewDude, what is high quality for you?

This is mostly personal experience. Most of the young single moms I've come across were low quality. I guess it's possible to meet a cool, gorgeous girl that's got her shit together and has a kid. But I've never come across a girl like that. Since you asked the girls I go for share 3 things in common: 1 - short and thin (and really cute faces), 2 - smart, 3 - great work ethic / has ambition. I def think it's hard for a girl to have a kid and still have time to have her shit together at that age.

One thing you need to know if you try things with this chick, don't expect to just be able to call her up and go out, you will always be the lowest of her priorities. This is the one thing I couldn't stand when I tried to date a single mom (and this is what ended it too).

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 5:45 AM

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instead of making judgments about something you've never experienced, why don't you like, you know, experience it first and then make judgments?

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 5:47 AM

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 6:02 AM

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The kids will always come first. Don't get played/trapped. I wouldn't worry too much about her babydaddy unless you have specific reason to... and I won't judge on quality, but I would say she'd be running the race uphill in my book based on demographics.

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 6:13 AM

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You are thinking too far ahead into the relationship. You hardly know her. Get to know her and you can make a reasonable decision about whether she's right for you. Take it day by day. This way you don't need to judge and make obnoxious assumptions.

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 7:15 AM

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you know you'll get it in at some point. and she wants the cock like crazy or she wouldn't be there. and she already said she ain't looking for no replacement daddy, meaning she's all about the cock.

i've fucked a girl similar to yours (cute, chubby, milf, 22) and she put up a huge front before the day 2 like "i don't fuck on the first date" and whatnot, but when we met up to hang (at her place), once we started fooling around, she got super horny and she was begging for the cock.

and there usually won't be a baby daddy in prison. mostly it's just some retarded kid who fucked her without a condom, who she hates because he takes no responsibility.

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Posted July 9th, 2012 at 11:17 AM

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Great responses everyone! Yea my intentions are to bang her and see what goes from there, I am def not one of those types who is like "ZOMG I haz found the one!!!!1!!" And this chick is no exception. So even after this day 2 I am still gonna go out and ask other chicks on day 2s and hook up with other chicks. She is just gonna have to deal with it. I can def understand her being a low quality chick but hell I'm running a dry spell so if this is what it takes then let it be. Its all a matter of taste on the looks, I honestly am turned off by any chick who's arms are as big as my legs, so I tend to go for the thicker chicks.

I will tell yas one thing, the first little "favor" she asks of me regarding her kid or not is gonna be her last. I don't have the time in between two jobs, going out, and bowling for favors. I'm aware that she is gonna put child first me second and I'm alright with that. Got about 7-8 chicks I want to day 2 it up with just as much anyways.

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