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 Herp derp...Had like 2 shots, I think alcohol is overrated...didn´t feel any difference. Just felt blood flowing in my brain and that was it :D :D

5.7.2012 Club times (Cien, Diva)


I wanted to stop those lengthy and analytical reports....buuuut this one needs a structure. I have not been in a club for like 3 months :/

Arrived at Cien before midnight with 3 rsd guys + one friend of them. Teh canadian crew :)

Went in and approached some chicks on dancefloor and strangely this was the best set of the night. I must have said some regular shit, and some really basic polish words, got physical (fuck that alcohol, i don´t remember details :D). I just remember that I am really out of this game shit...I didn´t know what to do so talked about some randon boring shit, while being physical....Herp derp it was just weird/uncalibrated. After hitting somr other girls CJ wanted to pull em with me but the friend dtopped it from happening.

After a few random 30 sec approaches, with nothing hooking and me just going back and forth I started to feel really shitty, nervous...very suprised that I was nervous, logically we all know it´s ridiculous to feel nervous in a club. There´s no reason to be anxious.

Went with CJ outside for some street, nothing hooked so we bounced to Diva which was a sausagte fest with some fatties, we left immediately and went back to Cien.

Well I don´t really remember the rest, Just that I went again from feeling relaxed to nervous again. Approached 2 chicks on very high stairs, only to have the friend drunkishly hug me, I had to work hard so we didn´t fell off like 15 stairs. Then I tried to lead them somewhere but they ran off. Kinda ADD girls.

Also remember that persistence pays off. 2 sets were the girls resistant andn ot wanting to talk to me. But managed to prolong it.

I felt shitty cuz I was going back and forth thru the club all the time, only to approach chicks that wouldn´t hook.

Towards the end of the night, my approaches were sloppy I did them just to approach. My voice has given out so those approaches would be me screaming something into their ear, only to have the girls not understand me, and after like 3th try I´d just leave.

Clever me to take notes infield as I´d forget everything. Alcohol really sucks in that regard, also it didn´t went helped me.

Positives:
-Went out of my comfort zone, live with some guys I have never met, going to the club after 3 month hiatus
-Approached kinda a lot, though a lot of them were sooo sloppy
-I am in Krakow bitch! Hot hot chicks, polish language

Lessons:
-I seriously need to take this shit seriously (horrible sentence I know)...Cuz TBH I suck shit at that. And if I don´t take it up a few notches the progress would be non existent or very slow.
-Go solo more, split up from the group and do your own thing more
-Go to the crowded areas more, you always approach all the girls near you, but when the club is "mined out" then you gotta dig deeper
-Alcohol is bullshit or I need more than 2 shots
-Persistence, up to 4 times max
-Voice always gives out towards the end of the night (maybe go out more so it gets used to it?)
-Loud clubs is not for NIM. You just cannot talk there verbally. Non verbals more. I tried to talk and it´s just like shooting yourself in the foot, trying to yell makes you all stressed and then it turn the girl off
-Ohhh well, towards the end of the night it´s Beastmode time. No more light physicality. Just hit up the dancefloor, don´t say anything and be physical
-Think of a tree deeply rooted and the girl as like a bird, moving around you while you are rooted

Main point: Focus on relaxation and the rest should come naturaly. Monopolising your emotions.

I think I got to know myself a lot recently and that I have been avoiding certain things because I suck at them.

Logically I know that meeting women and sex, etc. is no big deal and that it is easy...just my experience aren´t supporting this  "belief" :D

Enough of this nerdy shit.

Herp derp!

ChinaBoy

 I never drank alcohol in my life, I am asian, very skinny and was on empty stomach...I thought that might get me kinda drunk? I dunno.

Hahaha, I am addicted to water, tastes soooo good...mmmmmm

Shit still kinda in awe how tongue tied I was...Herp derp.

Oooooh I remember that Me and Oasis were talking to 2 girls, Me not even wanting to put in the effort and open my mouth. I chit chatted to the friend, tried to pull her outside for air, no go. I knew it wasn´t really good. Oasis went for the pull, wanna do this? He told me that mine has a BF and that he can handle it...so I did not join. Later told us the story. No fuck, they were boring and probably wanted to take advantage of them just to sleep over.