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Damn.
Sorry to hear that, man. I hope I'm not like you when I get older : /
Sorry to hear that, man. I hope I'm not like you when I get older : /
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90 Days Challenge (Currently in the Final Third): "It's Just Something You Have To Do If You Want To Be Great"
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/233192/forum
The only people for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, the ones who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn, like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars
A man may fall down many times, but he won't be a f ailure until he says someone pushed him"
Buddha
yes. i cum in my left hand all the time. i am very happy. i never get upset by stupid shit like the bus being late or something happening.
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wat.
No offense OP, but that's pretty gay. Shit isn't gonna get better all on its own. You need to put in effort. Don't like that it's a numbers game? Oh well, TOO FUCKING BAD!! Enjoy jerking off the rest of your life.
You just want to be in your comfort zone. Everyone does. That's why so many people live in mediocrity and have countless regrets when they're old. Your call at the end of the day.
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"First you have to give up, first you have to *know*... not fear... *know*... that someday you're gonna die."- Tyler Durden(Fight Club)
Hit me up by PM if you want to game in NYC. Don't care about your skill level just need the balls to approach and have a good time. Always looking for new people to game with.
Hit me up by PM if you want to game in NYC. Don't care about your skill level just need the balls to approach and have a good time. Always looking for new people to game with.
How old are you? I'm sure you're going to get clowned on here, but you wont get it from me. Grown man status. I understand what you're going through. Sure, alot of guys get girls the natural way, but i'd wager that the majority of them dont get a girl that meets their standards and end up settlling. That's why I hope you stay in the game a bit longer. I'd hate for you to go through that. Rolling over to a fatty with a nice personality every morning is not the business.
This shit is fucking difficult, I'm not going to lie to you. I dont think the act itself, approaching women, meeting women etc is really THAT difficult, I believe that the difficult thing is trying to gain control over your emotions and maintain the motivation after a long streak of rejection and disappointment. It's like why fuckin bother. You might not like the whole game, but if you want dimes, your lifestyle, behaviors and mindsets are going to have to change. Alot of guys cant handle that, and thats not chode or gay whatever, its just the way it is. If you really want to go down that route, then delete your account and get on with your life. There's nothing wrong with that. Dont stay here if you truly know that you dont want to be here. That's really chode behavior.
This shit is fucking difficult, I'm not going to lie to you. I dont think the act itself, approaching women, meeting women etc is really THAT difficult, I believe that the difficult thing is trying to gain control over your emotions and maintain the motivation after a long streak of rejection and disappointment. It's like why fuckin bother. You might not like the whole game, but if you want dimes, your lifestyle, behaviors and mindsets are going to have to change. Alot of guys cant handle that, and thats not chode or gay whatever, its just the way it is. If you really want to go down that route, then delete your account and get on with your life. There's nothing wrong with that. Dont stay here if you truly know that you dont want to be here. That's really chode behavior.
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"You think it's tough now? Come to Africa." - Olushola Ajose
"Game is NOT a skillset. Game is a state of being, which means that trying to learn game is an absolute waste of fucking time. Naw, go out, get fucked up and enjoy yourself cause life is just too fucking short. Fuck stressing out and trying to get better at game. U stress all your life trying to acquire skillsets at work and school etc. The party is the one place where you can escape learning skillsets and the stress that comes with it. The place where u can go, get fucked up, and enjoy some chaos to balance you out with all of the organized and repatative shit you go thorough every day." - Endgame
"Game is NOT a skillset. Game is a state of being, which means that trying to learn game is an absolute waste of fucking time. Naw, go out, get fucked up and enjoy yourself cause life is just too fucking short. Fuck stressing out and trying to get better at game. U stress all your life trying to acquire skillsets at work and school etc. The party is the one place where you can escape learning skillsets and the stress that comes with it. The place where u can go, get fucked up, and enjoy some chaos to balance you out with all of the organized and repatative shit you go thorough every day." - Endgame
Im thirty but the way i look at it is if it doesn't happen naturally then it's not my fault, i've learned a lot, state being the single biggest help to confidence etc but if an opportunity doesn't appear i can't make use of what i know, now i could accept things and be content with porn until something does appear but until then id like to stop unhelpful thoughts.
I think you can be successful if you truly decide to be.
Sometimes when I'm not moving forward with my life I think of this quotation from Theodore Roosevelt:
"Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though chequered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
Sometimes when I'm not moving forward with my life I think of this quotation from Theodore Roosevelt:
"Far better is it to dare mighty things, to win glorious triumphs, even though chequered by failure... than to rank with those poor spirits who neither enjoy nor suffer much, because they live in a gray twilight that knows not victory nor defeat."
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LOL! 30!!! HAHAHAHAHA!!!
Holy shit, I thought he was gonna say he's 50 years old or something.
Thanks OP. Fucking fag. Guess who's turning 30 in 2 days? Guess who's been in this game since 2007? And guess who has still not had the success he's wanted but doesn't sit around bitching and backwards rationalizing about giving up.
Oh yeah, and guess who's moving to Vegas at the end of the month and doing pickup everything fucking day for the next year.
Hmm...
You don't even fucking know the shit I've been through for the past 5 years. 5 fucking years. And people talk about giving up. People like this disgust me to no end.
Holy shit, I thought he was gonna say he's 50 years old or something.
Thanks OP. Fucking fag. Guess who's turning 30 in 2 days? Guess who's been in this game since 2007? And guess who has still not had the success he's wanted but doesn't sit around bitching and backwards rationalizing about giving up.
Oh yeah, and guess who's moving to Vegas at the end of the month and doing pickup everything fucking day for the next year.
Hmm...
You don't even fucking know the shit I've been through for the past 5 years. 5 fucking years. And people talk about giving up. People like this disgust me to no end.
Im thirty but the way i look at it is if it doesn't happen naturally then it's not my fault, i've learned a lot, state being the single biggest help to confidence etc but if an opportunity doesn't appear i can't make use of what i know, now i could accept things and be content with porn until something does appear but until then id like to stop unhelpful thoughts.
I'm a believer of everything that happens to you in your dating life is your fault. You cant put blame on other factors. You didnt learn anything. Confident men dont wait for things to happen. You cant give up when you didnt even begin. You probably keyboard jockeyed for years, realized that you're getting older, became overwhelmed with the material and went on a pity party. It's up to you, man. I just hope you dont take the easy road and fap for another decade. __________________
"You think it's tough now? Come to Africa." - Olushola Ajose
"Game is NOT a skillset. Game is a state of being, which means that trying to learn game is an absolute waste of fucking time. Naw, go out, get fucked up and enjoy yourself cause life is just too fucking short. Fuck stressing out and trying to get better at game. U stress all your life trying to acquire skillsets at work and school etc. The party is the one place where you can escape learning skillsets and the stress that comes with it. The place where u can go, get fucked up, and enjoy some chaos to balance you out with all of the organized and repatative shit you go thorough every day." - Endgame
"Game is NOT a skillset. Game is a state of being, which means that trying to learn game is an absolute waste of fucking time. Naw, go out, get fucked up and enjoy yourself cause life is just too fucking short. Fuck stressing out and trying to get better at game. U stress all your life trying to acquire skillsets at work and school etc. The party is the one place where you can escape learning skillsets and the stress that comes with it. The place where u can go, get fucked up, and enjoy some chaos to balance you out with all of the organized and repatative shit you go thorough every day." - Endgame
Im thirty but the way i look at it is if it doesn't happen naturally then it's not my fault.
That's a nice way to avoid all responsibility for your success (or lack thereof) however if you're ever going to be happy then you're going to have to take responsibility for your actions and results. __________________
Advocate of "Cool And Friendly" Game ... "Feel The Fear And Do It Anyway" - Bruce Lee
McKay
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Join Date: 01/17/2012 | Posts: 44
Now im getting older i think it may be time to forget about this stuff and just be content with life as it is, trouble is thoughts regularly pop up so im wondering how best to deal with them and preferably remove them altogether, i think i could be happy with porn if thats possible, anyone managed this?