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TropicalMan Journal of Pickup in Tropical&Non-Tropical Places
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October 27 - Day 16 FF Challenge - Drink 100% Organic Chocolate guys! Horniness and self-arousal guaranteed! Alright so I had a great day. I felt very centered and grounded in my core confidence. It was great. Plus I was highly aroused and horny in my interactions. One great lesson:The people surrounding the girl that you want to approach DO NOT EXIST! It helps a lot. Whenever you want to do something and feel intimidated by the people around you, just say that they DO NOT EXIST! Really helped me a lot today. So, I was highly horny just like the old times. AND I recognized a pattern or cause and effect: I drank a nice amount of hot dark 100% organic chocolate before going to approach. And damn it helps a lot! My first approach I winged my brother, he approached actually. The girl was a bit fatty but looked fine. She was 15 too haha. I talked to her and escalated physically, because I was really horny. So I hugged her, smelled her hair, was very close to her, and I had a boner! HOLY SHIT I AM HAVING BONERS IN THE SETS AGAIN! I love you chocolate. Number close. Texted a bit. She called me twice, two missed calls because I was doing other shit. But my brother ahs it handled with her friend, we might go on a double date. Then I approach a lone sitting old girl. She is waiting for her boyfriend, yet she is cool, a bit intimidated, but definitely loves my vibe. Oh my vibe was good! So I left her after feeling a bit of fear of the boyfriend. Hmmmm... probably not the best move. Lesson: I should've closed her and adressed the boyfriend situation. Always be closing! Then I approach a walking hot sexy woman omg. She was a bit old but still I loved her style, her sexy body, omg. So I go approach and tell her I love her style. Yet after listening to me for a while she says thank you and kept walking. And lesson from that right now:- When she is leaving say "Hey wait before you leave..." and keep talking about something. Make it easy for them to have sex with me. Lead them. Give them the opportunity to chase. Lessons:- The people surrounding the girl that you want to approach DO NOT EXIST!- Adress boyfriend situation (tell her to pretend we are friends from a long time or whatever), and keep moving until the CLOSE. Always be closing!- When she is leaving say "Hey wait before you leave..." and keep talking about something. Make it easy for them to have sex with me. Lead them. Give them the opportunity to chase. Peace!
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October 28 - Day 18 - Short time approaching - Intense I approached for a short time but it was pretty intense. The first set was a lone girl. I stopped her, told her I liked her style, she said thank you, kept walking. Then I told her, "No, wait before you go". But after that I blew it by asking her what her favorite color was. Not a good thing to ask. Instead I should employ a statement of empathy followed by a false time constraint. Something like "Wait. Before you go. I know you are busy and have to go, I also do, but I just wanted to take a minute out of my time and talk to you. What's your name?" lol something like that. Then I approached a two set from behind lol. It did not work and the girls got a bit scared. Maybe the approach was too sudden and a bit intimidating. It probably was. So I think it is better to do sasha style and get right in front of then like a dominant boss. Then I winged my brother in a set of two blonde tourists but it ended up being a rejection. After that I approached one girl but the approach was super lame. Really lame. Bad bad bad. It was like after pushing so damn hard I got tired or something. But fuck that. ALL OUT! So tomorrow I am pushing harder motherfucker. Gotta be thankful for such a hard taking action day. Thankful to myself and everyone. LessonsWhen girls are about to go, say "Wait, before you go", and throw some statement of empathy. Keep leading. Same with girls get a bit scared actually. Approaches can be intimidating so it is very important to show empathy.Flinch forward motherfucker! GO FOR IT! The people around you DO NOT EXIST. DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU WANT AND GO FOR IT WITH 100% COMMITMENT AND BELIEF IN YOUR ACTIONS. I feel much more confident. This is great. I am glad that, in a way, I am back. I don't know why I feel like this. Odd and great sensation that I used to have every day back in the day I was intense about this and continuously challenged my fears. I LOVE THIS!PEACE! 
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Tuesday October 29 - Day 19 Alright I did several approaches and some of them were good and some bad, but there were no closes and they were all really short interactions. The approaches that were good were two. The first one was a 25 year old girl. I had done some approaches before that. My vibe was great in that approach. There was someone siting near her but I did not give a fuck and just talked to her. Vibe was great. My sincerity was great as well. I actually went with the intention of making her feel good or making her day better. Then I walked away. I should've closed. So the other good approach was a cute girl who was about to enter a shoes store but I stopped her right at the door of the store which was a bit of a difficult position. Anyways, I let her go too. What I should've done was make her stay and LEAD with baby steps to a better position.  The lame approaches were lame as fuck. These were the initial approaches but I also did it here and there. At the end I was pussying out of a lot of approaches fuck. I think what I should do is embrace the imperfection of life and the approaches, and that like Julien says "There is no such thing as a rejection"... or at least rejection is a VERY vague concept so let's just say that it does not exist which will also be a helpful belief. LessonsApproach with the sincere intention of making her day much better and making the girl feel good.Always be closing.When approaching in difficult positions, lead her with baby steps to a much better position.Fully embrace the imperfection of life. There is no such thing as rejection. Like really, how do you define rejection? It is too vague. Instead, let go of the rejection, and embrace imperfection.It is okay that I am making my pickup sessions intense by approaching a lot. But MOST IMPORTANTLY, I should make them intense by ALSO flinching forward at LEADING, STAYING in set, and CLOSING the interaction like a man. Whatever happens man... let's do this. GROW OR DIE. In the end all of our decisions come down to GROW OR DIE. You can die a little bit, but only if you earn it with MASSIVE GROWTH. SO LET'S DO THIS. Peace
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October 30 - Day 20 FF Challenge Mothafuckas I did so much better today, after doing lame for so many days lol. What I like is that I am pushing hard and being intense in my approaches. First approach was kind of an old lady. I still told her she was true, she said thank you and walked away kinda undecisive, but I don't know why I did not go for more. Whatever. Next time I just gotta make her stay and close her. Oh and before that a woman passed by and grabbed my ass out of nowhere lol. It gave me a boner. Free boner haha. Okay so the second approach was a 29 year old girl. It went really good. I wrote down my number on her hand and signed it. Not sure if she'll send me a text message. Whatever. Usually for those things to really work out you need to give them a simple excuse. I did not really do that. However I had a boner in the approach. And did some gentle physicality with her. It was great and very arousing for me. Then the next approach was a two set. My brother winged me. I just sent the girls the friend request on facebook. I actually just sent it to the cuter girl, or the one I felt attracted to. So that's good. I have a date tomorrow with a girl I approached with a wing like 2 months ago. She is okay. Kinda cute and gets me horny. I think my only criteria for girls is that they get me horny. I think that is it lol. I love those look in their eyes, and feeling like I am fucking them eventually and having a big boner while talking to her. LOVE IT MOTHAFUCKA LessonsGreat leverage for approaching older women is to think "When I fuck her, I'll be like fuck yeah I just fucked a girl 10 years older than me. I rock mothafucka". Pretty much frame it as an epic adventure that I'll remember even when I am much older, remember how when I was 18 I approached, seduced, and fucked a much older woman. FUCK YEAH.Stay in set. Always be closing ;) Peace! 
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Good job!Keep on doing this!
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@LoverBoy23: thanks man :) October 31 - Day 21 - One more dick touching, hand job, no cumming on my part though wtf Oh maan so close to accomplishing my main goal ever in cold approach pickup that I've been going after consistently for like a year and half: getting laid.

Day two with girl today, make out at the bar, had a few drinks with her, pulled her home, made out with her on bed, she gets on top, switch to me on top, I suck her tits, lots of resistance and No's, saw a bit of her vagina, managed to make her fap my dick, I think I have some problems getting my dick hard and keeping it hard but whatever. I got completely naked lol, kept making out with her, every time I got close to her tits or vagina she would say a bunch of No's, I kept pushing to the point of seeing a bit of her and sucking her tits though.
Then it got really late, she had to go to a meeting with her friends. I put my clothes.... So, yeah, no cumming as well. LessonsSay "We are going too fast" or give the girl all the reasons why you can't have sex. It worked great for me today. And yeah. My escalation with the makeout has improved a lot actually. I think I really learned on the last party where I made out with 3 chicks on one night. And today I just perfected it. So yeah, after she was gone, I went to the balcony in the 15 floor apartment I am currently living at. It was great watching Lima at night. I really did not know what do think about. Some thoughts and feeling came to my mind. First, that I am fucking allowing this to happen, and I felt proud. And then I remembered the first vow I took that day, a year and a half ago, about getting laid. And after that remembrances came to my mind about all my small victories, big victories, and how good it felt in the moment. I just felt very thankful actually. And I still feel quite thankful. I think that when you get a bit worried, stressed, or inhibited, you just forgot how insignficant we and our little lives are. When I was contemplating the busy city from the apartment view, I felt like all of this is bullshit. I laughed at all the people, building tall builidings, going to one place to other, and then thought of the human race as a plague in this world. And then I did not care. Once again, I remembered that nothing matters, ever mattered, and will never matter. From one side, you can say it is all bullshit. I'd rather say it just is. So, go out there, do what the fuck you want to do at all times. Remember you are free. Fuck self-image. Let go. Put your best self on the front. Don't make it choice to act as a chode or not how you would like to act. In the end nothing matters, but make it matter. I wanna leave a legacy, even though I know nothing matters. Call me crazy. Love it all. 
 Peace And don't forget to make your life like a fucking move... 
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November 1 - Day 21


A YEAR has passed since my getting laid goal deadline lol.


I've definitely learned very important lessons on that whole year.


I've made out with 17 girls this year as well. And I still have to make out with 3  more girls to get to 20 makeouts, one of my 2013 year goals haha. I thought I was kidding when I put myself that goal. Seems like I'll have to take myself more seriously haha ;)


I have a date tomorrow with yesterday's girl. Hopefully this time I fuck her.


I fuck her tomorrow.


Fuck yeah!


I did some approaches today, including one number close.


I closed a 16 year old lol.


I had a lot of laziness to approach today. So I drank a beer and felt much better.


Idk if I should take a one day break when I finish this challenge. But naah, fuck that, no days off haha


Then the other approaches were okay. But no closing, just short interactions.


Then I also approached with a boner.


Lessons

Concentrate on breathing deeply and into your balls. When breathing into balls, feel your dick, that way it gets hard! And when it gets hard approaching is so much more fun haha


Love it love it.


Alright so cool.


Hopefully next time there are more lessons learned, since that's what I base the efficiency of my approaching sessions on.


Peace!

 
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November 1 - Day 21


A YEAR has passed since my getting laid goal deadline lol.


I've definitely learned very important lessons on that whole year.


I've made out with 17 girls this year as well. And I still have to make out with 3  more girls to get to 20 makeouts, one of my 2013 year goals haha. I thought I was kidding when I put myself that goal. Seems like I'll have to take myself more seriously haha ;)


I have a date tomorrow with yesterday's girl. Hopefully this time I fuck her.


I fuck her tomorrow.


Fuck yeah!


I did some approaches today, including one number close.


I closed a 16 year old lol.


I had a lot of laziness to approach today. So I drank a beer and felt much better.


Idk if I should take a one day break when I finish this challenge. But naah, fuck that, no days off haha


Then the other approaches were okay. But no closing, just short interactions.


Then I also approached with a boner.


Lessons

Concentrate on breathing deeply and into your balls. When breathing into balls, feel your dick, that way it gets hard! And when it gets hard approaching is so much more fun haha


Love it love it.


Alright so cool.


Hopefully next time there are more lessons learned, since that's what I base the efficiency of my approaching sessions on.


Peace!

 
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November 2 - Day 22 FF Challenge - Finger a bit


I fingered a bit the girl I dated two days ago. I rubbed her mostly.


She said it hurts as soon as I inserted my finger a little bit.


So yeah, we didn't have sex.


But she did make me cum with her hand. I actually fapped myself a lot she just helped a bit haha. But it was really really fun.

And yeah that is it. No approaches. Tomorrow I guess I'll do some approaches.


I'll keep dating this girl, maybe even become her boyfriend. I gotta be able to truly connect emotionally with a girl and be vulnerable. I am not saying be needy. I am saying be free with a girl. And I am also being polygamous on the long term. It is not like I am getting married. Plus, follow through is quite an important thing here.

Lessons
Breathe in sync with girls creates strong rapport. Yeah I did this, I guess it works lol. Girl kept telling me that she loses control with me haha

Nicee

Peace!
 
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Lol sweet past few days! It's amazing to finally have some sexual experiences...you realize that's it's just soo fun and awesome. And you think "why haven't I been doing way more of this??!
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