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TropicalMan Journal of Pickup in Tropical&Non-Tropical Places
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Sunday October 6, 2013 - Getting the ball rolling

Another day of approaches.

Big AA. My eyes were in painful allergy too, which always sucks.

I did some approaches. One was an older girl/woman with earphones. I didn't really catch her RAS and she kept walking, and crossed the road.

Then, I approached another kind of older girl. She did pay attention. I told her she was cute. My eyes were painful as fuck with the allergy. I felt so uncomfortable that I let her go haha.

Lesson

Go strong and committed. Re approach like a high value person. Make it happen.
Stay in set. Make it happen.

Goals for this year

- I get laid with at least 2 girls by December 31st.
- I am stronger, have more muscle, and less fat.
- I pass all of my college classes with excellent grades. This will be kind of a comeback though. I PASS them classes though!

I think those are the three things I should focus on.

Goals for tomorrow:
- Study Math like crazy, which includes going to this place where they teach me math. Then giving my heart and soul at the math mid term exam.
- Strenght training at the gym.
- Do cold approach pickup.
- Study before sleeping.

Alright so I am going to study hard until 3am. Then I am to sleep like 5 hours. Wake up get ready for math classes. Study hard again for exam. After exam do some heavy strenght training. Cold approach pickup. Study study study!!

WORK HARD PLAY HARD!
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Tuesday October 8 - Close to close

Alright I approached 3 sets.

First set went well. I stopped the girl. Got compliance. I flirted, self-amused, challenged, good set. Yet, I was about to close when her date came. She actually acted pretty nervous and uncomfortable when she saw him. And well I did not close. External factor was strong here. It is still not a reason to close though. I guess what I should do is actually say hi to her date (of course), and then pretend that I lost my cellphone and that I want her number again (pretending that I already know her from way before). The problem here was that as soon as she saw her date, she walked away, but I made her stay, but she was already very distanced. Tough situation. I guess the thing to do would be to call her name, get near her, and then close her as if it is no big deal.

Then I approached a hot girl. I did not make her stay. She was in a hurry. I forgot how to make them stay. I guess it would be to be commanding and breaking rapport. Commanding and challenging. Full asshole. I'll try that.

The next approach also the girl just walked away.

SO....

LESSONS!
- Be a full LOUD, commanding and challenging asshole.
- Take FAST AND DECISIVE ACTION.
- Close girl in front of their friends/date/boyfriend and pretend like I am a guy she already knows.

DONE.

Actually you know what? I'll focus for the next 21 days on implementing the first two lessons.

I'll call it the DECISIVE ASSHOLE/BADASS CHALLENGE. It will be a 21 day challenge. 21 days because that is the amount of time it takes to create a habit.

So, in every chance I get to take courageous, decisive action and in social interactions, I'll BE A DECISIVE ASSHOLE/BADASS.

Full self-amusing commanding and challenging, and loud of course. Even if it feels incongruent to do that, I'll do it. So I fucking create that habit. And every time I see a nice set, I'll fucking GO as well. Every time I feel like I am about to FLINCH, I'll flinch forward (this is already a habit I am working on btw).

So yeah that is it.

LOVE writing FRS.

So much fun.



Anyways, it is time to study A LOT.

Peace!
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 - Be a full LOUD, commanding and challenging asshole.

Not sure were this came from :D

How about a big smile on face, and a deep masculine voice, alpha body language...and very friendly verbals "sorry to stop you like this....bla bla".
Basicayll the "Yad Stop"...I am sure you have heard of it, if not youtube it :)
Works perfect for me.
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@BerlinCity: haha it is just random stuff I come up with to keep myself engaged and not bored. stop works great. I actually always do that haha. I think what I meant to say was to stop being a permission and put on the big boy pants!

Wednesday October 9 - First number close after a while

Got my first number close.

"Don't think! Feeeeel" - Bruce Lee

I am finally starting to understand this concept. Like finally, because I've heard that quote and watched the video, but I think that today it clicked in a much better way. But he pretty much is trying to say is that stop thinking how you are going to do something, or if it goes bad and you fail, or the multiple consequences that might arise out of your action. Instead, he proposes that you lean into your body awareness, your senses, and your gut, and from there you take action.

Very helpful advice. Simple and helpful as fuck.

So I approached like 3 sets.

First set was a cute girl. She was waiting for her boyfriend maybe and was very unreceptive. I walked away. Next time I'll make up a whole story about me being her gay friend so that way she can open up and talk.

Second girl I closed.

I don't remember the third one. Oh now I do, she walked away I think.

Then I saw a very cute bangable girl and I flinched god damn it! I did not approach her and she took her bus. Damn! Whatever, there is thousands of hot girls in this world, and in my city as well. But, this flinching and pussying out thing must be solved...

So tomorrow I am starting a new 30 day challenge called the Flinch Forward Challenge

What this is about:
- Forget about the outcome. Forget about if the girl is hot or not. Just forget about that for this challenge.
- Focus solely on doing what I feel in my gut. Every time I feel like I am about to flinch, I face and flinch forward with commitment!
- Fuck the consequences. Just fucking flinch forward. I am pretty sure I will survive anything that happens. I always have found my way out. Plus the worst thing that can happen is not near death. I will survive to whatever happens and will become the strongest version of myself as a result.
- STAY FOOLISH.

This is balls.

So I'll do that. If I see a fatty and I feel that gut feeling of approaching her, I'll go. If I see a mature woman and again get that gut feeling of approaching her, I'll go. If I see a two set that I like, same thing. And this applies to mixed sets, all kinds of sets really.

I am saying "FUCK YOU RESULTS", in a way that I will get out of my comfort zone of just approaching girls walking by themselves.

FLINCH FORWARD MOTHERFUCKER!!

And this could actually improve my results, that is what is funny. Or at least it will create that nice habit of courage, flinching forward, facing fears, and taking action that will help me in other areas of my life.

Everything will be fine. I know that for sure.

Lessons for today:

Seed a date while in the interaction.
For girls waiting for boyfriends or someone, make up a story that I am her gay friend, put future adventure projections in there, that way she can open up and I can close her.

Peace!
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Thursday October 10 - Day 1 FF Challenge - First Pull to My Place - Evening daygame

Close again to getting laid. Once again, so close yet so far.

Anyways, I had massive approach anxiety today for some reason lol, don't even know why.

After walking around daygame dojo for a while, I approach fatty not really cute girl, close her, let her go. She actually told me to call her. But I am not sure about that.

So, after walking for a long time pussying out of sets, I see a seated girl, kinda cute. After struggling with approach anxiety for like 5 minutes, I finally go approach. And I am actually relaxed when I approach her and no longer give a fuck.

Casual direct opener as usual. She answers back. I talk to her for a while. I sit next to her. I screen for logistics. Sounds good. She lives like 3 blocks away from my apartment. So, I just stay there talking to her. I seed a lot of future plans together as well, like playing guitar at my place or cooking at my place, etc. I also started using Juliens "What would you do if...?". Works good.

Anyways, after a moment she says, well I have to go home. So then I tell her "Oh me too, let's share the bus". So we get in the bus. Before my bus stop, I tell her "Hey come with me for a while". She smiles and comes with me.

When we are out of the bus she says she really has to go to a bathroom. I tell her "Oh that's okay you can use my bathroom".

We walk to my place. I show her the bathroom. She comes out. We have some beers. We sit on the bed. I play some guitar and chill with beer. I was actually nervous haha.

We talk. After a while I go for the makeout. She does not make out. After a while, I realize that I am actually doing all of this stuff without a boner, without heart, without even feeling horny. And then I remembered Jeffy's last video "Boners not kino".

And it was in that moment that I completely focused on being present and arousing myself.

It worked. We lay on bed, listened to music. I massaged her. All the time, arousing myself. Yet, I cannot get fully hard. I am doing things to self-arousal, and it definitely improves the situation compared to the beginning, yet I cannot get fully excited. And at moments, I feel like "I can't really let go of some stuff and get horny". What I can't let go I guess is "What will she think of me". Ridiculous. I progressively started to let go of that and self-arousal.

However, it got too late and she had to go. Maybe I should have turned her phone, which was hard given that there was music being played. Still, could've done that.

I entered the bathroom. Tried to masturbate but nothing lol. When I went out of the bathroom she was already leaving. And then she left.

I have her phone number. I don't really expect that much from this number though. I'll do my best at it though.

Anyways this is fucking great. I fucking love it.

Lessons
Let go of your fucking ego. You are with a girl, be present right there, connect with the heart, be grateful of the moment.
Just fucking approach! Just do it damn it!! And concentrate on doing it.

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Friday October 11 - Day 2 FF Challenge

Nice day once again.

Love it. I think I did like 3 approaches.

First approach the girl was waiting for somebody, so she did not answer much. She only smiled a bit when I ran my opener and then she just tried to ignore me lol. I was thinking that in order to make this girls react I could say stuff like"anyways I was doing this for the kids with cancer". Yeah sounds fucked up but whatever.

Then after walking for a while and maybe pussying out a bit, i decide to just fucking go to a not so good looking girl, below average in looks. So I just tell her that I like her style and then eject.

Then, I saw a cute girl, kinda hot actually. After struggling a bit with AA, I approached her.

She was looking for her grandma all over the place. So I told her to tell me how her grandma looks so I can tell her if I see her. Anyways, we talk for some time while she is looking for her grandmother.

And yeah, I close her with facebook.

She hasn't accepted my friend request yet.

Lessons
There is nothing so good as approaching. It doesn't really matter but ends up happening. What does matter is that you approach and just do it, that you push yourself and learn from yourself and life with first hand experiences. I just really love that, to be honest.
Say politically incorrect things to get the girl to react and RAS onto you. Be at the cause always.

What politically things I could say?
Cancer. Death. Racism.

Lol what the fuck... whatever haha

Peace!
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October 12 - Day 3 FF Challenge

I approach this girl on my way to the daygame dojo. She is like "no" but keeps talking. I think at a certain point she began to flirt a bit. But I was lazy, and because she was a bit ugly also, I just walked away.

Maybe, I should take advantage to build my flirting and landing the plane skills with girls like that.

Then in the daygame dojo I did some approaches.

I found the hot girl I approached yesterday, damn she is cute. I talked to her for a while

I noticed that I was chasing, and I was TRYING to get the girl. Terrible.

As soon as I changed that I had a slightly better reaction, but the girl still had to go to see her boyfriend.

Hot girl hasn't accepted me on facebook yet. Whatever.

Lessons
Do not chase. Do not TRY to get the girl, fuck that.

Peace!
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Monday October 14 - Some approaches - Day 4 FF Challenge

Damn that feeling when the title of the FR is "some approaches".

Anyways there are lessons today.

I did not approach yesterday because I went to a Nick Vujicic conference yesterday. i thought it was going to be like this guy's cool stuff on youtube but ended up being a lot about religion, God, Jesus, Devil, Bible and I did not really appreciate that.

However, he had some cool stuff to say:
1. "God has a plan for you. Your plan is may not be God's plan for you".
2. "God hates the sin not the sinner".

They were good reminders. Now I don't really believe in God, at least not in the way that the people there referred to God. For me it is a more about the Universe, Being, and Consciousness. I find that resonates more with me.

But anyways, the approaches today were a bit lame. I think I wasn't commiting enough to the approach.

SO,

Here is the lesson:

GO FULLY COMMITTED AND COMMANDING.

Why do this?

Because there is no reason why I am not enough. And I should remind myself that of course. Moreover, if there is no reason why I am not enough, then I should be able to go fully committed to the approach or be fully committed when talking to a girl.

So yeah!

Same things applies to college.

There is no reason why I am not enough. This means I can go talk to whatever girl I want to talk to at college, or approach any girl I want. This as well implies that there is no one above me, or even below me. We are all just organic living matter called humans.

That is it.

So just do it and have fun!

And, last but not least, the thing that you feel most like not doing, THAT IS THE THING YOU MUST DO. Yeah!

Peace!
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Tuesday October 15 - Pushing forward - Day 5 FF Challenge

3 approaches. One facebook close.

I approach this girl waiting for her boyfriend. So I just leave after giving her a compliment.

I was feeling a lot of anxiety.

But then I reminded myself "There is NO reason why I am not enough. You've done this several times before man". So I relaxed much more. My wing came, I gradually started to self-amuse.

Then I approached an average girl. I close her with facebook after a nice chat.

Right after that I approach an older woman. She had just come out of her work, and was going home. Right when I am about to close her, her bus came and she had to leave, and I could not close her.

Well, actually she saw her bus, but then ignored it. BUT, I told her "Is that your bus?", and then she said yes and started going there. SO,

Lessons!

Do not remind girls that they have to go somewhere else. OR, do it at your own risk if you feel that you can still close fast.
There is no reason why I am not enough! So just go strong, committed, and loud!

Peace!
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