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Saturday August 24 - Day 5 of Dreamland Lifestyle Project



What a nice tune. I used to hear it a lot a year ago in a mix. Good times one year ago!

Things are going great now as well. But I am kind of going through small ups and downs throughout my days, weeks, and months.

As a matter of fact, I think today I stopped caring about ups and downs in life. And not even label stuff going on in my life as an "up" or a "down. Right now, I seriously DON'T KNOW what the hell is going on, it is like I am suspended in mid air, in the midst of uncertainty. And in a way, I've learned to just accept that uncertainty, which was scary at first. It is good to feel like you are suspended in mid air. We try so hard to get a sense that we have control of our lives, we make it so hard for ourselves if we do this. Just let go :)

Once you are in midair, you can go where your imagination leads, you are free! And, it is good to be uncertain, because only then anything can happen.

I liked a lot a quote one friend told me which was "You can make a nice plan right now, but in less than a minute God might change it".

So yeah it is true, we gotta be like water and adapt to the circumstances that life puts us in, face them with fanatic discipline and a big smile.

We have no control of life. Just let it happen. Don't judge events. Enjoy them!

Today I talked to a girl. Just one girl. This set confirmed once again that my limitations are SELF-IMPOSED.

And we must be willing to break them!! Break the limits!! Tug that rope that could be holding me back. JUST DO IT! GO FOR IT! THE PLEASURE IS IN TAKING ACTION AND BREAKING THOSE LIMITS!

The girl was sitting. She was nice and receptive. It made more sense later when she told me she was still in high school. BUT you know what? FUCK THAT. Any girl can be receptive, even older girls. It's important to STAY FOOLISH in this shit, maybe in everything.

I facebook closed her. I just sent her a friend request. We'll see if she adds me. If she does, cool.

My brother filmed the approach, which is good. We'll release a nice video.

I feel like my game is improving. But I don't really know if I really want to improve my game, I just want to get laid!!

All my approaches so far, the THOUSANDS of approaches I've done, they are more like attempts to getting laid. You could say there are "failed" attempts, but that is not a very optimistic way of seeing it, instead I guess it is better to see them as STEPS to getting laid. So every single approach I make, I get a step closer to getting laid. And every day that passes by, I know that I am a day closer to having sex. It is very exciting when I see it that way. Even every FR that I write, gets me ONE step closer to my goal. I love to see it that way.

The girl with whom I had an instant date with yesterday is texting with me. It looks like we are going on a date on Monday. We'll see.

Lessons
- All limitations are SELF-IMPOSED. When faced with fear, take a deep breath, and TAKEN ACTION WITH THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITIES. Do your best and forget the rest.
- Again, DO YOUR BEST AND FORGET THE REST.
- Let go of trying to control life, ups and downs, expansions or contractions, don't label or judge events, just let them be, and BE, LIVE, LAUGH, CRY, TAKE ACTION, FEEL ALIVE!
- Every time I socialize, give value, offer love, and just talk and vibe with people, I get a step closer towards achieving the lifestyle of my dreams. Very simple :)

Life is good. Can't complain :)

Peace!
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Sunday August 25 - Day 6 of Dreamland Lifestyle Project

I did two approaches today.

First approach was a cute girl with her dog. She had a nice booty. She was a senior in high school, very receptive girl, and flirtatious. She looked horny.

I told her that I was from heaven and I had revived today to give her a hug, right after that I gave her a hug lol. Slow controlled, alpha hug. Nice stuff.

So I number closed her. It sucks having a limited amount of minutes calling in my fucking phone. I miss the days in which I used to have whatsapp, unlimited texts, calls and all that stuff.

Then I sarged another girl. I also number closed her. We'll see how it goes with this number. She hasn't answered my text.

Whatever.

I'll send her a text tomorrow telling her to meet up somewhere.

So that is it.

I'll go to sleep now, get some nice 8 hours and then go to college! Yeah!

Let's do this!!

This is the Time. This is the Place. I am the Person.

There is no right moment. The right moment is NOW. Let's do this.

Lessons
I gotta get a cellphone with whatsapp and unlimited calls.
All limitations are SELF-IMPOSED. When faced with fear, take a deep breath, and TAKEN ACTION WITH THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITIES. Do your best and forget the rest.
Do not be afraid the break limitations, they are false, an illusion. Tug on the rope a bit every day and break away into the skies.

Peace!
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Sunday August 25 - Day 6 of Dreamland Lifestyle Project

I did two approaches today.

First approach was a cute girl with her dog. She had a nice booty. She was a senior in high school, very receptive girl, and flirtatious. She looked horny.

I told her that I was from heaven and I had revived today to give her a hug, right after that I gave her a hug lol. Slow controlled, alpha hug. Nice stuff.

So I number closed her. It sucks having a limited amount of minutes calling in my fucking phone. I miss the days in which I used to have whatsapp, unlimited texts, calls and all that stuff.

Then I sarged another girl. I also number closed her. We'll see how it goes with this number. She hasn't answered my text.

Whatever.

I'll send her a text tomorrow telling her to meet up somewhere.

So that is it.

I'll go to sleep now, get some nice 8 hours and then go to college! Yeah!

Let's do this!!

This is the Time. This is the Place. I am the Person.

There is no right moment. The right moment is NOW. Let's do this.

Lessons
I gotta get a cellphone with whatsapp and unlimited calls.
All limitations are SELF-IMPOSED. When faced with fear, take a deep breath, and TAKEN ACTION WITH THE BEST OF YOUR ABILITIES. Do your best and forget the rest.
Do not be afraid the break limitations, they are false, an illusion. Tug on the rope a bit every day and break away into the skies.

Peace!
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Sunday August 25 - Day 7 of Dreamland Lifestyle Project - Day Two

Alright so today I went to the gym, chest day, chatted with people, good stuff. Then chatted in Facebok with more people of my college, offering love, I'll offer more love of course.

I had a day two today as well. It is the girl I had an instant date with on Friday.

Yeah. The girl that recently broke up with her boyfriend. I didn't even make out with her lol. I went for it a lot of times. She said that she has only made out with her boyfriend and she hasn't had random makeouts with random guys.

We drank some beers. Sang some karaoke. I got physical with her though, arm around her, close to her. She just did not want to make out. She gave a kiss on the cheek though. I guess that was her way of showing that she wants the D, which she actually does so I'll give her some time.

She is not that cute though, a little bit. She has a great personality and works hard and everything, but I am actually more interested in looks. HOT SEXY LOOKS. That is kind of what I am looking for these days, and of course a great personality would be great too.

But whatever, I guess I'll date her. I am not sure if I want to add her on facebook. I guess I will, but not today, I'll let her chase.

That is it.

I had some time without having a day two with no make out. I've made out with girls in all my day twos. I was quite near to make out with this girl actually, got very close. This is great for the learning process though, especially to develop that spidey sense of a pimp.

I want to date hotter girls though. I'll go for them. LET'S DO THIS.

I've realized that I was even chasing a bit, and that I did not like
it. There is a fine line between chasing and leading. I was a bit on
the chasing side today. I guess it mostly has to do with how I felt. I
felt like i wanted to have sex and get my goals done. It is important to
immerse myself in the present, assume that there is no reason why I am
not enough, be patient and apply the 10 hour rule.

Lessons
- Don't make it exclusive with any girl, imply more that I am a free spirit and let her chase from there. I feel like I was resorting into her making her feel exclusive just to make out with her, what the fuck.
- 10 hour rule. Be patient. Apply this with every girl.

I think I'll actually start to count the hours lol.

What I'll do now is get to spend 10 hours in total with girls, and escalate on the way there of course.

Peace!
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 You guys needa get to Germany and the US or wherever, I watched your video and Berlin (that's where you are going, right?) and colleges/cities in the US have waaay more hotties. Everybody loves South American booty but Germany will treat you well bro.
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@Waffler: yeah I know, I hope I can go to Germany, but there are some inconveniences with the whole visa thing taking time and I might not be able to go. Still, in my college, there are quite a lot of hotties. I am kinda losing buy in for cold approach pickup simply because there is not enough hot girls at the park where I go to. However, I am starting to get buy in for networking in my college, because there is where the gold is at. I am currently studying at a high end business school here in Peru, so I think it is a great shot to get the lifestyle that I want.

Tuesday August 27 - Day 8 of Dreamland Lifestyle Project

So like I just said, I am not liking that much the current situation that is going on at the daygame dojo, given that I am not satisfied by the quality of girls there.

And so I think that the real thing is at my current college. I am already being much more social, and plan to take it to the next level. Facebook chat is great too. I can't believe I did not do that simple thing. It is stupid.

Facebook chat, very simple and useful tool. I used to not use it because I thought it was a waste of time. But really, chilling in facebook and chatting with people is great. Good stuff. Self-amusement is great in there.

Anyways, I warm approached a nice girl today. I am planning to get to know her more.

A girl I cold approached last week is texting with me. She suddenly sent me a text lol. And I thought she was a flake... I guess you never know.

Adjusting College Plan


I finished reading a book by Robert Kiyosaki today. Great author. Seriously made me more aware of the current economic situation in the world. And in regards to increasing my own financial IQ, what I need to do is make more money, or actually just make money. Start there. I am planning to make a website. For what I will need to study a bit of html and other languages to get a good idea of the stuff. My brother knows a lot of digital marketin so he can help. Then my other plan which is more long term is to finish my studies at college as an excellent student, which will give me lots of lessons in business and important stuff. That also will help me get a job in some kind of high paying bureaucracy, where I'll get enough money to invest in assets.

So, this is done with reading books that I just want to give a read for pleasure.

Now, given that I am in my second semester in college and this requires a lot time, I will dedicate my days to learn my current subjects and I will leave reading about leadership and more specifically self-actualization for next vacations. What I will study will be:
Philosophy: which will develop both my right and left brains, improve my critical thinking, and acquire knowledge about certain life principles, important stuff.
Accounting: Very important. I need to know accounting to be the best entrepreneur that I can be. Of course, as an entrepreneur, I can hire an accountant but I MUST know the important and essential stuff in accounting, which is what I will learn in college.
Mathematics: It will help me massively to develop my left brain. Important shit.
Spanish writing: Develops my left brain again, right brain too. Highly important to do an excellent work as an entrepreneur and be a great communicator.
Economics: Of course, this is essential, highly important. In my college I can get an excellent preparation in economics, so I must take advantage of this and learn the most, which will help me to make decisions as an entrepreneur. Knowing and understanding how the economy works, that is very important in the Information Age.

So let's do this. I'll dedicate hours and hours to learning these five subjects. I'll get excellent grades as a byproduct of dedicating those hours and committing myself to learning what will improve myself as a person and give me a great training in the Information Age.

So yeah, I'll develop my subconscious brain by constantly facing fears and breaking out of my comfort zone, which can be done with cold approach pickup and warm approaching people as well. I kind of feel like going for the social lifestyle that I want will develop the subconscious brain as well.

That sounds like a nice plan.

I'll go to approach minimum three times a week to develop some sort of abundance and sharpen those social skills.

I still have a goal to get laid in cold approach pickup. I am afraid that the time I will give to this activity might not be enough. But it could also be, especially if I keep developing myself as a person, which I will do. However, I will meet people in college and develop a social life, which is a potential opportunity to getting laid, and pretty much just having fun and chilling :D

So that is okay. I CAN get laid in cold approach pickup by going out 2-4 days a week, especially if I am strategic about which days I go out. Right now I will focus a lot on my studies and developing a fun social life at college.

Moreover, cold approach pickup is a part of my lifestyle and quite programmed in my brain. I can do it when I want to and see a nice opportunity or just feel adventurous.

So, I'll dedicate much more time to college, in both the academic and social areas.

I'll focus on that, learn lessons, and gradually adjust my plan to get the kind of social lifestyle that I want.

Alright, so that is it.

I did no cold approach pickup today. That is great.

I feel like I still made a step towards my goals, and that is my criteria for success.

Let's do this.

Lessons
- Be yourself 100%. Behave as if this is the day you will be remembered.
- Offer love :)

Alright so I am going to sleep now.

Let's do this!

Peace!
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Wednesday August 28, 2013 - Day 9

No cold approaching.

Socializing at college which is great. Talking to some girls and guys.

I did not talk to girl in math class. She is no bid geal nor actually very cute but it would still be worth it to offer her value.

So I am realizing today the importance of using willpower.

I think Tyler's last video on the narrow road has just come in the perfect moment, or something.

I am constantly overstimulated and from time to time look for that unconsciousness.

It is time for me to go back to staying on that narrow road. It is time to fully enter consciousness.

And this time I really want to do it. A few hours ago, I would feel pain by thinking of going back to being disciplined and that kind of stuff, but in reality, it is all worth it. It is absolutely worth it and feels great.

So I'll fucking do it.

Follow my passions, heart, fears, and dreams. Live in the Journey.

And so, I will do this. I will smile, laugh, and trascend Resistance every hour of every single day to offer my best to the world.

Let's do this.

This was all a reflection. I can say they are like "lessons", so no need for putting a lessons section below.

Peace!
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Thursday August 29, 2013 - Day 10

I did some cold approach pickup today!

It was quite fun. And I also challenged myself in the approaches and took some nice action.

It is good to take a rest from this and then go back strong. Especially if in that rest I've been actively developing social skills and learning lessons about life in college and reading stuff.

I did like 4 or 5 approaches.

I had two closes. One number close and one facebook close.

The number close: I approach this girl. Open direct. At first it is a bit awkward, I just allowed it to be awkward (one of the biggest lessons ever I've just had), and then closed with number. That was it.

Facebook close: I approach girl in the midst of chaos, lots of people walking by and cars around. She is mindfucked the whole time. Maybe the way in which I went to approach her was a bit unreal, like a fully confident, ballsy guy who self-amuses and talks to her as if she were a wall. I'd rather 1000 times more to be like this than be a fucking nervous chode lol.

Anyways, the girl was really mindfucked about the whole thing, she could not believe it, she even thought there was a camera. I throwed my arsenal of game which included statements of empathy and keeping it up with my frame, etc. She was still mindfucked. At the end, it kinda worked what I did though because she gave me her email so I can add her on facebook. She hasn't accepted yet haha.

At college things go great. Love it.

And now, the BIGGEST LESSON EVER:

Allow being awkward, boring, nervous, or stutter to BE. Allow it to BE. Just let it be. And get in that flow. This shit works amazingly well. I read it in an article called "What you try to hide is amplified". It is very true. When you try to fight awkwarness, you end up being more awkward. It is a matter of saying "Fuck it" and just allow it to be. Resistance will make anything stronger. Just surrender to it. Let it be!

Great lesson.

And yeah that is it.

I'll go sarge hard tomorrow!

Peace
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Friday August 30, 2013 - Day 11

No approaches done. But, I winged my friend in his approach and we got in a nice instant date with the girls. That shit is good.

My friend approached the set. I stood there laughing. Then I told to the girl he wasn't talking to, "he is quite honest huh?", and we started chatting off that. High fives and hugs.

Then we went with them to get some ice cream. I did not eat though.

We might see them today again and go to some party.

Then I went to karaoke with my brother.

And that was it.

Lessons
I am developing a new way of winging, which is more casual and I just enter with some casual questions, and of course create initiative, engage physically, and endure whatever shit test is thrown at me. Good stuff.

Peace!
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Saturday August 31, 2013 - Day 12

Girls from fridays instant date could not go out so I just went out to daygame dojo at night to do some approaches.

I just did a couple of approaches, didn't get much. I loved approaching two cute girls. She told me "No", smiling. I loved doing the approach. I must keep approaching cute girls like that!

And so yeah, that was it. I also did some short approaches, but nothing really happened.

No closes.

Well, it happens from time to time. It mainly happened because there were not many girls around. But then again, I guess that means that I should go fast to the girls that ARE around and not just let them go because of laziness.

Lesson
Fuck laziness, take hard action.

The girl from the date on monday seems quite invested. She is not really good looking, neither does she have a great body, but fuck it, I'll fuck her and see what happens.

That is it. I don't think I am going out today. I am gonna study a lot and do some stuff. I also don't know if I'll go out and do approaching any day of this week, but I definitely will on the weekend. I am gonna study HARD and dedicate time to chat with people of my college and make plans with them for the weekend for once and for all.

Let's do this.

Peace!
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