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Tuesday July 23 - Day 13

Hi

My day was average. I planned a date with a girl for Friday. It was a girl with whom I had a short interaction on Friday and I number closed. I thought she was going to flake. It turns out she didn't. What's funny is that I call her like 4 days later and she remembers me. I sent her texts the same day which she did not answer. Non chase, leading frame ftw.Then I also planned a date for tomorrow with a cute girl. It does not seem very solid. I'll CALL her tomorrow. And then I sent a text to the girl I made out with on Saturday party and she is still answering so I'll keep her there, I am not going for day two with this one yet.

Lesson: CALL ALL your numbers. Even if you think she will flake, CALL.

Then I roamed solo around the dojo, approaching here and there.

I talked to some hot women. I had some short interactions, girls with boyfriends, girls that had to go away because they were in a hurry, and a combination of these three.

Yeah, that is the way it is.

Lesson
I managed to practice talking AT the girl. Pretty good stuff. It gets you in state quite fast. It got me present, positive, and happy. It is pure self-amusement. It is pinging off from yourself. Love it!
Doing this creates a particular feeling. And it is a feeling I'll try to create in myself in all of my social interactions. This is offering high quality value to the world!

Peace!
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Keep up the good work man. Keep taking action.

Love the music mix in the youtube video above.
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 @Sluggler: Thanks man! Sick mix huh? 

Wednesday July 24 - Day 14

Hey

I had a day of action. I got a number close. She answered to my text message which is great. I currently have seven leads, girls I am talking to that could go out with me. Some of those are turning into flakes. Others I could call and fuck now but due to their schedules I can only go out with them on certain days. Well that's actually one that is free on weekends. So I wanna go out with her and end this hunt for once and for all. Then I also have another girl I dated like two weeks ago and got her into the lobby room of the hotel but got LMR. She sent me a text message today apologizing for not being able to answer my calls because she did not have her phone and that she is truly sorry. Seemed legit. I guess I'll call her tomorrow and set up a date with her since it is more likely that I will have sex with her on the second date.

I don't know why but sometimes the going gets rough. It gets a little frustrating. Sometimes you ask yourself "Why?"

It is days like these in which I feel like I want to cry but hell I don't even find tears to drop. 

Haha

Whatever...

And today for some reason I feel extremely humbled by life and the reality of things in this journey. 

I don't know why but I am.

The approaches went like this:

A bunch of short interactions and rejections. I had a number close. I am also approaching hotter women lately which is great. I am going for those. Not getting much but still going for those.

Then, I found a very cute girl, approached her. She was the kind of girl that studies in my college, she says she was going to enter my university. It was great. Then her guy friend came. And I couldn't close. And it hurt.

And I guess that's why I've been talking about frustration, being humbled, or whatever.

I wanted that girl. It seemed not exactly easy to get her but at least like something I could do with some effort and concentration.

Whatever...

I'll keep strong with this.

Full on!

Give it all!

Lessons
When a guy comes in set, just say hi to him, then don't pay much attention to him, do your own thing. "People only have as much power as you give them". Do not give ANY power to the guys who come in set. Fuck befriending. NO POWER.

THIS TIME IS FOR REAL BABY! LET'S DO THIS WITH MORE INTENSITY!!



Peace!
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 Thursday  July 25 - Day 15 - Daygame going for the hot girls - Nightgame high end club HOT girls

I did some daygame first. I got nothing.

I took some nice action though.

I did some sets. I had some short interactions with american girl, then I approached some more hot girls.

I am finally going to those hot girls like I fully deserve them, like I mean it. I love that.

I don't know why but before for some reason I would find an excuse to not approach them or get very anxious about it. Now, I just go and give much less of a fuck.

Lesson
- To make the girls stay, say something like "Oh that's cool I won't be here all day, just want to know you fast before I go meet with my friends". I thought of that one today.
- Be very leading, dominant, and unapologetic. Strong eye contact, challenging flirty vibe. Something like "Yeah. I am approaching you right here in the middle of the street. What are you gonna do about it?" haha let's try that out.

Okay so nightgame...

We go to this club with hot girls and we don't get in. So then we go to another club with hotter girls and it's great.

Girls there are SO fucking hot. I found a lot of people of my college too.. boys and girls.

I managed to do one number close and felt extremely proud of it. I felt the "I did it" feeling. Epic.

I do claw on the arm, and open with "Hey you remind me of my Kangaroo", and then she was like "Why?", while I am holding her arm. I end up talking about the movie Kangaroo Jack and that she reminds me of the girl or whatever and she is cool about it. I think I kinda got her insecure with the opening line but then landed the plane when I changed the emotions of the interaction. So she gives me her number. I think she was a bit drunk, because I think I saw her later stumbling like a drunk girl lol.

But whatever... it is still great win. I sent her a text "Hey girl get home safe". No answer. I'll call her tomorrow and set up a date of course. I just found her on facebook too but won't add her until I talk to her on the phone.

I have 8 leads! I think some of them are fading away. But that's cool!

Lesson
- Self-amuse. Talk AT the girl. Kind of indirect opener and Alex's game works great!

Social Circle PLAN!

Okay so I think I'll befriend super nasty girls I know from college that can give me access to cool stuff.

The girls are cool and I like them, so I'll go for it.

So I'll talk to them on facebook. Offer massive value. Tell them that I have friends with whom they would get along really well. Keep offering value. Inquire about their whereabouts. Ask them out. Whatever. The thing here is that I'll stop being a chode, man up, and FIND OUT how the fuck to do this thing of befriending and bulding a nice social circle.

Let's do it!

Important mindset: Give love. Bring them into my life! Fun fun fun!

Peace!
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Friday July 26 - Day 16 - I keep getting numbers that need to be CLOSED

Alright so I had a good night. I didn't enter any club but I approached a lot at the streets.

I am feeling so tired. But anyways, here is how it went:

3 approaches. No rejections! First two approaches were short interactions were I did not close. Girls did not have enough buying temperature.

First girl I approached was pretty hot and much taller than me. Good vibe. But I wasn't feeling good enough to close. She was kind of leading as well and I don't know.... EXCUSES FUCK!

Lesson: Fuck how I feel or whether it is the first approach of the night. ALWAYS BE CLOSING. Be a closer.

Second girl was kinda cute and short. Nice vibe. I went for the closing. She says she has a boyfriend. I end up not closing.

Lesson: Be emphatetic. Maybe she has a boyfriend but her life could have some nice spice with me there! So bring those girls into my life too! Don't be too discriminating. Give love to everybody! When they say they have a boyfriend, then I'll say the usual thing that I am sure she can make friends and it'll be no problem, we'll just be friends,if you did not meet anyone outside your social circle you wouldn't meet anybody, we are in a safe place here anyway is no big deal plus I am from Costa Rica and want to get to know you Peruvian guys look pretty cool especially you. Stuff like that... lol :)

Third girl I number closed! I went like "Hey! I like your style. What are you doing around here". She was with her female friend. Then a group of a guy and girl comes. I talk to the girl I approached while her friends talk to each other as they normally would. I close her in front of her friends. GREAT! Looks solid to me. She invited me to go party with her but I told her I was going home already. I took advantage there to tell her that I'll invite her to parties and stuff so let's keep in contact. And bam! number close.

AWESOME!

Leads - Getting some new abundance :D

I currently have a list of 12 girls that I have their numbers, facebooks, I've gone out with and could take it to sex.

Some of those girls look pretty DTF but I can only see them certain days. I have one that I don't know what the hell is happening to her, apparently she is working super hard (I think she is like 24 lol). I called her today and someone answered saying she was in a meeting. And I found her yesterday at the park and she said that she was working but that yeah let's go out. She also sent me text some days ago apologizing for not answering my calls because she did not have her cellphone with herself. So apparently she is working. I have dated her, got her to the hotel lobby but got LMR. Our next date could be sex. So I have that one.

Then I have another girl that I baby stepped to bar and took some beers with her but I failed to pull her when I had to and the logistics were appropriate. She always answers the phone and looks pretty DTF too. She is only free on Sundays though. This Sunday I can't go out with her because it is Independence Day here in Peru and I'll probably do stuff with my family. So I called her and set up a date with her for next Friday and Saturday given that she told me that those days she has no work and rests. AWESOME!

Then I have a girl that is chasing me and wrote on my facebook wall yesterday. I did some drama to her like three weeks ago lol.

I called the girl I met yesterday at the club and she says she is going to travel this weekend. She is pretty receptive. She has accepted me on facebook as well. I'll call her on Sunday or Monday to set up a date.

Oh I also have this girl I made out with at the college party. I think maybe she could be DTF. I guess I'll call her when I wake up and arrange something for some day. I don't really want to do it because I am afraid I might lose money that I could use in paying for the hotel rooms of the girls that I could actually fuck. Anyways, I am seeing those girls next Friday and I guess that I should have more money by then. So whatever, I'll do that.

When I wake up, I'll also call the girl I number closed today and arrange something with her.

I think I've never had this kind of abundance before. I LOVE IT!

It's kind of ridiculous hahaha

Where did all of these girls come from? haha all of a sudden!

I love it! 

MAKING IT HAPPEN IN CHALLENGING & HARD ENVIRONMENTS

It's also great how I managed to close that girl yesterday at the club and have her answering facebook, texts, calls, etc. It's a huge win!

I love it how lately I've been put in challenging situations or environments like the recent epic college party and yesterday at the club, and I've SOMEHOW MADE IT HAPPEN there. I LOVE THAT!

I love to surpass challenges. And I love that FINALLY I am managing to get through those challenges. I LOVE IT!

I love how it is HARD, yet SOMEHOW I manage to PUSH THROUGH AND GET SOME SUCCESS.

I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!

LOOOOOOOVE IT!!!!!!!!

YEAAAAAAH!!

Things are going well. So let's keep PUSHING HARD! Let's double the effort and go super harder at this! LET'S DO THIS!

Peace!!
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Your dedication to posting journals so often is really impressive and will really help you ou ton the long run. Keep up the good work!
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 @Tawn: thank you man!

Saturday July 27 - Day 17

I just did one approach today. I did not spend much time at the dojo either.

The approach was a short interaction. I was smelling like shitty onions because I ate shawarma. I don't really think it was that much of a limiting factor. 

Anyways, short interaction. I let her go. I don't chase or give a fuck.

I am talking to the girls I currently have there just waiting to be taken out on dates.

I am trying to take one on a date by talking to her on facebook. I've just gone for the move of telling her to go out someday. No reply for now.

I called two chicks today, the girl I number closed yesterday and the girl I made out with at the party.

With the girl I number closed yesterday I will call her on Monday to set up a date.

The girl I made out with at the party who is in my college is a bit ugly. I've seen her pictures in facebook. Fuck. Even worse, she is in my college and I feel like I might fuck it up there.

Yet still, given that I am CRAZY, I will date this girl. I've set a date with this girl for Tuesday. Damn. Crazy crazy crazy. This is almost like doing social circle game is doesn't even feel that much of a success but who cares...

She is clearly into me and wants to get fucked. She told me she is not the kind of girl that makes out with guys she meets the same night and has never had sex before in her whole life. It might be true. But, if I have been able to make out with her as a cold approach at that college party, then it sounds to me that I'll also be able to pull her into a hotel and fuck her hard there. She might give resistance and what not but it seems like I'll do it succesfully.

Now, the "bad" part comes AFTER I fuck her. I seriously have no intentions to have this girl as my girlfriend. I certainly don't want her to tell her friends that we fucked because I think that there might be some social links with her friends and a guy that I know that goes to my same gym at college. But you know what? WHO CARES?! FUCK IT!

What I fear is that people will find out that I fuck her and broke her heart and look at me with contempt, especially white knights and maybe some girls. I am afraid to be called an asshole. But fuck that. That's nothing. I won't let other people's opinions interfere with my goals and dreams. I am a dream chaser and an achiever. I turn my dreams into realities. 

I'll do it. I don't give a fuck. Let's do it. I am going to Germany anyways.

LET'S DO IT MOTHERFUCKER!!

I'll approach hard today Sunday as well, compensate for the small action I took today.

Lessons
Fear is bullshit. Just do it. Fuck.
Not taking much action in cold approach pickup will make the lessons section of the field report be kind of crappy which sucks to my development in pickup.

Peace!
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What about trying mystery method for a while?
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 @sexuality: hmm you mean memorizing routines and opening sets with the who lies more opener?

Sunday July 28 - Day 18

I went out today and I think I did like 3 or 4 approaches. I got 2 number closes, and they look quite solid. 

The first number close I got was with a cute girl. I was very horny in this interaction. I got a bit physical with her, hugged her, fun physicality. I wanted to make out with her. At the end, she said goodbye, I hold her arm to kiss goodbye, she grabs the back of my head and kisses me on the cheek. Awesome.

The way I did this approach was particularly interesting. I've realized something new about being unapologetic. What I do is that I go in and tell the girl "Hi, can I tell you something very quickly. It will sound a bit silly. Well I just saw you walking by and loved your style/look/whatever". Lately, when I say this, I talk AT the girl. It is quite an amazing thing. It feels so good. Also, I am making strong eye contact yet I am not looking to her, I am looking AT her or something like that. It is like my eyes are looking at her eyes but also they are looking far into the horizon. Funny. I don't know if it is understandable. But that's how I've been having good sets lately.

This way of approaching really reminds me of that one time I got my first day two here in Peru. I was in state. I approached a girl and did a great execution. This was back in January. I think this was also the first time I talked AT the girl and did a strong eye contact that in fact is looking WAY beyond her eyes and into the infinite.

It is a great way to do this pickup thing, in my opinion. It feels great. It feels like EXECUTING the right way. It is as if I were playing tennis and I hit the ball with the right swing and the right angle. Not exactly that way. A bit like that mixed with a feeling of pure expression and just amusing myself. Great stuff. Love it.

Lessons:
- While hugging the girl, say "wait wait" and while holding her around the waist, look her in the eyes and build that nice physical tension and physical rapport. In that position, it seems easy to go for the makeout. So go for it!

New approach:
1. Talk AT the girl.
2. Laser Eye contact = Looking at her eyes but BEYOND her eyes, into the horizon and vast infinity.

I think this way of approaching makes you VERY unreactive and indifferent to the girl's reaction. It is like you are just focused on yourself and the awesome stuff that you say, while keeping a balance by looking at the girl and empathising with her. So I'll HAMMER into that style and keep discovering stuff about that.

Then in my second number close, I talked to a 15 year old girl. She was standing a few feet away from her grandma and some other people lol. And yeah, I closed her. Awesome!

Lesson: You can get away with some flinching. 51% game is okay sometimes. At other times the situation however demands your very very best. I say this because I caught myself flinching a bit in this set. I was a bit scared of the family and people beside her lol... Or maybe being ballsy as fuck is what lets you get away with a little bit of flinching...

So I'll call both these girls when I wake up and set up some meetings.

I'll also call the girl I met at the club last Thursday. And I'll also call some other numbers and girls I have there written down on my list. I'll chat on facebook with the girls on the list that I only have their facebooks.

And yeah! Love it! I have two more girls in the list lol. 

I think I have like 14 or 15 girls there. Funny. I've never had that kind of abundance before haha

Now the task is to date them and have sex with them.

Also I absolutely love this compilation of acoustic songs by Arctic Monkeys. Fucking LOVE it! Most of those songs reminds me of the good old times at Costa Rica a year and a half ago, when I started my high school senior year and when I graduated. Awesome days :') 

And I still remember my high school senior one-itis. Listening to those songs reminds me of her. A few days ago I dreamed with her, making love of course. The whole day after that I felt one itis for her. Weird. But I guess I still feel a bit of one itis for that single girl. I feel chode :(

Sometimes I wish I went back to Costa Rica and met with her. That would be cool. Or that she came here to Peru. Ah! I love life!



I am planning to learn all those songs in guitar, sing them, film myself performing, and upload the videos on youtube. That would be great.

I know a lot of those songs already on guitar. I used to sing them back in my high school senior year days. It was beautiful. I definitely want to get back to music and song writing as well.

Well that is it for today.

I'll keep going HARD at this. LET'S KEEP DOING THIS! LET'S AMP IT UP! MORE INTENSITY!!!

Peace!
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No,going in an 10 an running Attraction,Comfort seducation.
You can use routines or not mystery says its not requried
A1,A2,A3
C1,C2,C3
S1,S2,S3
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