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 Monday July 1st - Day 21

A YEAR GOING OUT EVERY FUCKING DAY! YEAH! A YEAR OF GOING OUT KIND OF CONSISTENTLY. YEAH!

And I am getting quite close to my eternal goal of losing my virginity. 

But well, I am getting there.

It's been a ride so far!

So today I approached only one girl, 24 year old.

Right off the bat she was a NO with a little bit of YES. But I ploughed and ploughed, endured tests, and got her attracted.

She wouldn't even tell me her name but she was attracted. When she was going away I did the hand of God and pulled her in. Then she talked on the phone and I played with her hair. She finished talking on her phone and started going away. She wouldn't even tell me her name lol. I persisted. But nothing. Fuck. Whatever.

That was it.

Lessons
- Endure tests.
- Don't lie too much. Be congruent. I lied a lot in that set lol.

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 Tuesday July 2 - Day 22

I am getting abundance!!! Hell yeah! I am getting girls that I can date!

My date for today... I haven't talked to her since... she added me on facebook but didn't answer her phone... she told me she had to reactivate her number... apparently she didn't.

It also looks like I have a date on Thursday with the girl I met last week.

FUCK YEAH.

I feel like I've finally reached the level I used to have back in February-March where I reached a nice spurt.

Good things are to come :) 

Eventually, they'll come, as long as I keep taking action like this, I don't know WHEN, but that is what most excites me: it is a matter of WHEN.

Alright so today was one of the MOST intense days in terms of action that I've had in a while.

And I must say that I LOVE sarging solo. It has its pros and cons really. But I really enjoyed the pros... which is to set my own pace. I was fucking running all around the dojo, chasing girls for blocks, sometimes I lost them, other times I approached them. But I PUSHED myself so damn hard. This shit was really getting as much reference experiences in the least amount of time possible. It was an intense session and it feels like I really made good use of my time.

I OVERCAME RESISTANCE OVER AND OVER AGAIN. FUCKING LOVE IT!

I got one number of a 15 year old and one email of an ugly girl with hot body that got me horny as hell.

I am quite horny lately. I think it's because of the dark chocolate. Love it!

My first approach was at Risso. The girl I approached was heavily socially conditioned about talking to strangers at streets haha. I loved it. I just stayed the hell in there. What was funny was how she wouldn't talk but I kept talking, and then she would answer quick and wanting me to go, but I kept talking bullshit, and then she would smile and get into the flow of the conversation, and as soon as she found out that she was getting in the flow and get in her logical mind, she would get like scared or something lol. Completely funny. I did my best with that woman. Statements of empathy, self-amusement, everything. I think I stayed there like 10 minutes lol, but couldn't really land the plane lol. What was interesting is that before I left she was standing with her legs crossed, but still with an attitude of rejection. I guess maybe I should've stayed. But staying required a strong reframe and talking more bullshit. I guess I gotta learn more about that if I want to get more girls. I'll keep an eye on that.

Then I got into the daygame dojo at Miraflores. I approach the 15 year old girl. Great interaction. Close with number. She is answering. Good.

Then I approached some other sets, got rejected or lost the girls in the walking chase, and then I approach the ugly girl with hot body. Email close. Don't really want to add her on facebook. I first want to see if she answers the email. She lives near Risso, the place where there are lots of hotels and bars, the place of great logistics! Awesome! I'd love to fuck her hard.

Then I did some more and got rejected here and there and lost the girls in the walking chase.

There was a hot foreign girl I chased for blocks and couldn't get to her lol. Whatever. She got into her hotel haha.

Lessons
Great mood. No excuses. Just do it and see what happens. You never know what could happen. STAY FOOLISH! STAY HUNGRY!

I am talking on Skype with the girl I have a date with on Thursday. I want to fuck her :)

Peace!
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 Wednesday July 3 - Day 23

Hey there!

What's going on?

I had a great session of infield self-amusemtn and enthusiasm today.

I approaches some sets, got rejected in a way or another. Cool :)

My last set was a nice girl. When I am about to close, one of my friends and should I say even pickup mentors comes into the set. And well, I couldn't handle well the situation and fucked it up completely lol.

Crazy! Cortisol spiked the hell up! woot woot!

And well, I think the main lesson to learn is here:


It is like all of a sudden I exploded! lol 

Being underslept, studying my ass off, going out and approaching, having an exam tomorrow and other tasks, and not taking action on the financial area of my life that I SO BADLY WANT TO EMBARK ON ITS JOURNEY AND BE A NETWORKER, LEADER, ETC... it all came together and exploded haha

But well who cares...

Things happen and we learn lessons from them! And even better, we know ourselves better.

Lesson
Billionaire's self comfort :) 

Peace!
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 Thursday July 4 - Day 24

Girl I was suppossed to date today flaked.

Anyways I am talking to another girl on Skype... we exchanged numbers today. She is the ugly girl with hot body from some days ago. Actually she is not that ugly lol. She makes me really horny.

I guess I'll set up a date with her on Sunday. Yep. Sounds good.

I may have a date tomorrow. We'll see how that goes.

Today I just did one set. I went to the mall with my family, got some ice cream, incredibly sexy haircut, and went to sarge solo.

Girl was cute. She was born and raised in Guatemala. She was like 16 years old.

Still, closed her with number. She suggested to see each other again lol. Funny.

I just sent her a text message, she hasn't answered yet. So I'll call her tomorrow and see what's up.

PEACE!

Lessons:
I am awesome. My sexy haircut is so sexy.
Surrender to EVERYTHING! Let go of it all :)
Realizing more about the quote that in 20 years we will think more about the stuff we didn't do and regret it. So live with no regrets.
Realizing more about how important it is to see my GOALS, my DREAMS, feel the LOVE for them and just go fucking straight there. Fear is what I feel once I take my eyes off my goals and dreams. So let's be guided by LOVE, not by fear. Being guided by LOVE is what ultimately gives us CONFIDENCE. And I am talking about CORE CONFIDENCE. 
DO YOUR OWN THING.
Always be in motion of taking action and do not accept any excuse or fear to hold you back from taking action. Taking action = Pure expression. Flow. Free self-expression. LIMITLESS! Go through the day being expressive.
POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL. Very important thing here!!

Follow up to do:
Call Ines (girl who flaked today).
lol chatting with Naomi (15 year old girl), turns out she has a boyfriend. I am not getting there. Don't find it worthy to go after a girl who is 15, not that cute, and has a boyfriend. Guy does not deserve to get cheated for such stupid crap. NEXT.
Chat with Cinthia and set up a day two with her on Sunday.
Call Guatemalan girl tomorrow and see what's up.
Yeah fuck it I am putting names in here nobody gives a fuck and I do it so I can remember and use this FR in a more practical way.

Peace!
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Friday July 5 - Day 25

Alright, it was an interesting day.

I baby stepped a girl a bit far but her logistics were fucked up. Apparently, we'll meet again of Sunday.

Before that I approached lots of sets and had short interactions and rejections.

I think I was going very soft.

So it is important to keep up the vocal projection, eye contact, and breaking rapport.

Alright so the girl that I baby stepped until a certain point. I approch her. She is sitting. I talk for a while. Then tell her to come with me to grab some coffe. Move her. No coffee. She has to see some friends because they have to give her a ticket for a party. She finds her friends. Gets the ticket. And then we hang out with her friends for like 20 minutes lol. This is the importance of STAYING IN SET.

Finally, they went away, and we were back alone. We walk towards the bus stop, I tell her that we should go get something to eat quickly to Risso (the place of great logistics), but she offers a number of reasons to not go.

And well, I stopped pushing and settled for a number. I persisted a bit though.

Reflecting on that topic, I am realizing that I should've LOOKED for more solutions and push even MORE. In other words, keep leading and find solutions to every excuse or problem that arises so I get laid right then and there. 

The thing is, I thought it would've been "mean" if I took the girl to that place because she had some stuff to do with her family and shit. But well, I don't know why I do believe that bullshit lol. It is like I don't want the girl to go back home late after having sex, and get asked by her parents what she did so late, and then get punished and cry lol.

I don't know why I picture it that way. But even then, maybe that would make the life of the girl way more interesting and have more emotions that will make her feel alive. So seeing it from that perspective, when I take a girl with me and fuck her hard, I am actually giving her a great experience, I am offering her value. And so it is one of the best things that I could for her and the Universe.

Ah shit, it still feels delusional as fuck. I don't know much about how I should see this. But anyways, I'll keep hammering it, finding more solutions. Maybe the girl really wants to be taken but puts some resistance, so my task is to endure tests and LEAD her to sex. I think it is better to see it that way. And only when logistics are very fucked, then close with number and date, make her invest, and HOPE that she doesn't flake.

Yeah, the last one sounds better.

Then I approached a cute girl with sexy body.

She had a boyfriend though. She was VERY attracted. I played the whole SEX ADDICT FRAME. I did it naturally though. I was feeling extremely horny and kept putting the blame on the girl for being so hot. What I realize now is that, with that frame, I could've escalated nicely into the makeout. Every physical move that I made could've been backed up by the fact that I feel extremely compelled by her beauty and sexiness. In that moment, I did not really realized that though. Now I know :)

Lately I am extremely horny. I get boners in most of my sets. I treat ugly girls like tens. My standards are low as fuck. I approach anything that could be fucked and get a boner when I get that nice eye contact and attention from the girl. 

It is amazing lol

Very funny too haha

Lessons
- When feeling horny, get right into that sex addict frame, play with it, FLOW into it. Escalation moves can be backed up by putting the blame on her for being so hot and framing myself as a guy that could not just control himself due to strong emotions of arousal. When escalating, do so with CONFIDENCE AND COMMITMENT. Every move I make has VALUE purely because I make it and it is a way of pure expression, of pouring out the heart and soul and BEING FREE :)
- Walking sets: Approach these with strong vocal projection, breaking rapport tonality, laser eye contact, and CUT THE CHASE. Give her the opportunity to chase. I caught myself chasing some sets today and its result was BAD.
- Try to fuck the girl right THEN AND THERE. Baby step her to Risso or a bar right there. (Bar right there in Miraflores daygame dojo sounds good actually, we get some beers then we head to hotel in Risso). Yeah that sounds much better!
- If the girl has fucked up logistics, then get number, set up a day two, make her invest A LOT, and HOPE to see her again.

Before I go, a problem I had today when trying to escalate was NTPs that she might freak out or something. So let's put a new rule when escalating:
- ESCALATE AS A FORM OF PURE EXPRESSION. FIRST FEEL IT INSIDE, THEN FRAME IT SEX ADDICT STYLE, THEN GO FOR THE MOVE.

Again, the new escalation as expression formula:
1. Feel desire to get more intimate and physical. FEEL IT!
2. Before going for it, sex addict frame: Put the blame on her by framing myself as a man who felt very compelled to her because of her hot looks and vibe.
3. GO FOR IT WITH A RELAXED, AROUSED SMILE.

Peace!
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 Saturday July 6 - Day 26

Well I went into the field got a kiss close.

Nice.

Then I drank alcohol, got drunk, spent a lot of money I could've spent on dates. And yeah, pretty much that. Still had a GREAT time.

Okay so the kiss close was like this. I had been approaching for some time, hitting it hard, approaching a lot, getting rejected, getting girls that were busy, short interactions, etc.

Then I approach the kiss close girl. She is receptive. We talk and talk. I bounce her. We move. I try to get her in a bar. It is closed. We walk to another one. She says she really has to go home. Fuck. Anyways, I decide it is better to let her go and then we see each other again since my pull and fuck will take much more time. So, we walk to the bus stop. Before we walk, while we are standing, I ask for her name to add her on facebook. She says her name. I say "What?". She says it again. I say what? I get closer. She says it. I get closer. BAM! Makeout. She had bad breath and I didn't like it but it was still funny. Then I made out with her again before she left but I think it was unnecessary and I should've left it wanting more with the first makeout. I think the last makeout was like... all tension just dropped, we got to like the "end of the movie" or maybe really near ir or something... don't know.

I might see her on Thursday and go on a date with her and hopefully fuck her. She can flake. It really seems like she might. I told her before she left that I wanted to make sweet love to her and have a romantic moment with her. She laughed and went away.

The good thing is I know where she works so I'll go there and pick her up. Yeah! Now she can't flake! haha

Then when I was drunk. I approach a cute 16 year old girl outside a bar. Yeah! I got her number. She hasn't answered my message but I'll call her later TODAY!

FUCK YEAH!

Lesson:
Make girls invest more for the date. Ask "Where are we meeting next time?" and "When?"
Leave girls wanting for more in terms of makeout so it is more probable to see them again.

Peace!
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 Sunday July 7 - Day 27

Hey there! I had a chill day.

I got one rejection. And one short interaction with a woman which finished when her date came.

That was it for me today.

Then I went to play some FIFA with my brother. That videogame is so good. It gives me STRONG emotions damn! I used to think I did not like games anymore because they do not give me the kind of emotions I get from cold approach pickup. But damn! FIFA is a good game!

Anyways, this is no videogames forum.

Also, something good happened today, I got an scholarship at Jacobs University in Bremen, Germany. And it seems like I might go there. I am a bit excited to be honest. I feel that bit of excitement that some people call "fear". But hell it is no fear! It is EXCITEMENT! ENERGY! LOVE IT!

It is LOVE!

<3

I think it is great. And I hope that I go there.

Also I've realized today that I've finally reached the level I used to be at back in February-March but FOR REAL. Like I got a makeout yesterday and I don't even feel like I've reached a high or a groove lol. 

LOVE IT ALL!

FUCK YEAAAAAAAAH!

Oh I also called the cute 16 year old girl I met yesterday. I've set up a date with her on Wednesday. So I have a date on Tuesday and on Wednesday. I don't know if I mentioned it in my FR yesterday, but yesterday the girl Cinthia I met a few days ago called me yesterday and hanged up, then I called her and set up a date with her for Tuesday.

So shit is going well.

Lessons
Follow your Heart :)
Live every day like you'll eventually die or leave the country. What this means is, TAKE RISKS AND DON'T GIVE A FUCK ABOUT THE RESULT. If you get it, good. If you don't get it, good. At least you tried. I'd rather die and have people say "That guy tried and tried and never gave up", than having people say "That guy tried once, he failed, and gave up". FUCK THAT SHIT! FUCK THAT! I AM GOING TO LIVE MY LIFE.

GO OUT AND LIVE LIFE FOR FUCKSAKES. TRY! DO IT!

Peace and LOVE! 
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 Monday July 8 - Day 28

Hey there

I feel very tired.

I didn't do much sarging today.

I walked around my uni for like half an hour looking for sets. I only talked to two foreign girls from Austria. They were cool. One of them was very friendly and receptive. And the other one, my target, blonde cute girl, was with a face and vibe of "Oh my god I want to fuck this guy but I do not know what to do or say :( " And neither did I know what to do or say. I felt extremely cold in terms of cold approaching or being social. Well, whatever.

Lesson: Pump positive emotions and say things for myself to naturally get into a more social state. Think "What can I say/do to have fun and feel good, pump my own positive emotions?"

Then I approached a girl at the bus while going to the daygame dojo. It was great that I did it.  She sat beside me. I opened with "Hey this will sound a bit silly, but I really like your style and I had to tell you that". She laughed haha

We chatted for a while. But then she said she had a boyfriend. And I was like "Uh well okay cool so you guys having a romantic date huh?", and then I cut the interaction.

I didn't really know how to close in that close environment.

Lesson: I think what I'll do is completely ignore the surroundings and focus completely on the girl, calming her down, and asking her for her number.

Then at the daygame dojo I just did one set.

She said she was going to meet her boyfriend and left.

Well, cool.

I guess I should've gone for the "Wait!"

Lesson: Make them stay and get the most out of the interaction.

Alright so it was a different day. It was a day in which I took action while being out of state, walking through my daily motions. I love it!

I gotta make a huge work for tomorrow now.

New Chapter of Life: Germany

Well, it really seems like I am going to Germany to study in September. Sounds great. I loved being here in Peru and studying at college here. It was a great experience. I LEARNED SO MUCH about myself, Peruvian culture, and social relationships.

It was great. I have finals next week and then vacations, and then I'll never go back. So I am planning to fucking burn it at college these last days that I have in it. I am planning to go all out. Get numbers. Meet girls. Find out what happens when I am who I am meant to be. And really FOCUS on being authentic at all times. Putting the time, effort, and energy to truly be WHO I AM MEANT TO BE.

This first semester as a freshman in college was crazy. Mostly, I remember myself sarging lol. I call this period the Alejandro - Gerardo era, because of those two friends that taught A LOT of shit and helped me improve a lot in game and life. We used to go out 4 nights a week nightweek, that shit was CRAZY lol.

Totally love life. And there's definitely more to discover and love. So let's go ALL OUT!

Find out what happens when I am who I am meant to be. Fear is just FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL. So let's see what happens! Let's take it as a DARE, DO IT, AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS :D
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 Tuesday July 9 - Day 29 - Day Two - Make out - Pulling girl to hotel lobby but got LMR - Blue Balls

Damn I had some bad blue balls some minutes ago. It really hurt lol.

Anyways what I am really happy about is knowing that I am getting CLOSE, VERY CLOSE to getting laid.

Very fucking close.

It is unbelievable.

CLOSE!

I am getting closer than I ever thought I might. And I am very happy about this progress.

So, I dated this girl, not so attractive face... kinda ugly really but her body is okay and I am a horny guy with strong goals so I just took the fucking date. We go to karaoke. Drink beers. Talk and talk. More beer. I go for the makeout. No resistance she just complies (this is happening a lot lately). Makeout makeout makeout. Makeout for like 10 minutes.Then more talking. Waiting for her to finish her beer. She finishes her beer. Makeout for like 10 minutes again, this time I grab tits and get more physical. This second time making out I really had to picture myself kissing my dream girl... just to get me aroused and horny lol. It took some willpower huh. So I touch tits and shit. She gets horny. I tell her "Let's go talk to a more intimate place". She is like "Okay". Then we get out of the place holding hands. I walk to the hotel. I told her "Let's get in here for a while". She is like "Uhm no". I am like "I just gotta tell something fast to my friend there".  We get in the lobby. And THIS PART, according to my natural buddy Alejandro is where I failed. This is the part where I needed MORE DECISIVENESS AND QUICK ACTION. And I've realized that in this moments of pulling, there can be a very small margin of error that makes the difference between winning or losing, and you have to TAKE ACTION FAST AND DECISIVELY so the girl does not have time to PROCESS what's happening and we end up having sex.

So the thing to do in this part is to quickly put my ID and money on the reception table, and get the keys to the room, and go up with the girl. If she keeps giving LMR, it is just about telling her that I've already paid so let's just go watch some TV or have a quick talk. So THAT is the thing to do.

But what I did was that I took too long at the lobby. I even waited for a guy to talk to the receptionist, which is cool, but then I was almost like asking about the price and shit... and there I LOST it. Damn!

I was only like a minute at max with the girl at the lobby.

Then I pushed to get her in the hotel. But nothing happened. I told her to watch my favorite TV show lol. Anyways, I walked with her to her bus stop. Before saying goodbye, we agreed on seeing each other again and I told her "Next time I see you, there'll be no TV show. I'll make love to you". She laughed. We said bye and kissed on the lips.

Then I approached one girl to sharpen the blade. She said she had a boyfriend. I still got a positive reaction from a girl in a kind of dark place at a late hour. Cool stuff. As I liberated myself from my fear, the girl was liberated from the social norm of not talking to strangers. Great.

Lessons:
- Take fast and decisive action.
- Have ID and money ready to pay for hotel room.

Peace!
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