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TropicalMan

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@Me-vs-Me: Yeah I am actually cool if I don't get laid but also very open to be like water so I get the girl... like I seriously don't give a fuck about my self-image or what the girl may think of me as long as I do everything that is in my power to get where I want to be or achieve my goals. And idk my brother told me that I should've done that... that apparently he read it from some guy's field reports or jeffy or idk... I guess you have a point though with the value leeching. But I don't think that is my case though. I was in a very positive state while persisting. It wasn't low value insisting... it was persisting till the bitter end.

Saturday Night May 25 - Work Hard Play Hard!

I love this mix. LOVE IT!! It puts me in state!



I got really super drunk yesterday at the college party. Made some friends as well. But in the end... I probably made an ass of myself... idk I don't remember but whatever....

That happens when I drink lol. Stupid shit. That's why I shouldn't drink much.

Anyways, at the party, I got some facebooks and numbers. 

I approached everything. I was like an approaching cyborg. Everything that came in my line of sight, I approached. Mixed sets, guys, girls, everything.

I remember everything until like 3 AM. Then I don't know what the hell happened. I woke up at a couch in the lobby of my university building. My brother waked me up. Damn. When I got home... like two blocks away from uni... I found out I had lost my wallet and cellphone.

Damn. That really sucks to be honest.

Then I went out to eat shitty Chinese food.

Oh well! It was fun. But that's enough play. LET'S WORK HARD NOW!!

Lesson:
- Play HARD but stay alive.
- Learn to self-generate positive emotions without alcohol. Master the art of it. Work out that muscle. Manage my own physiology to get in the best state and mood.

Daygame Sunday May 26 Day[/u][u]

I closed a hot chick. It was fun talking to her. I literally went with freedom from outcome and having a great time and giving no fuck about her being hot lol.

Found her on facebook yay! But she hasn't added me yet. Whatever happens... happens. I've done my best already. 

I just went very social. I feel proud of myself for approaching a cute girl like that and closing her... and having nice freedom from outcome while doing that.

Yet, I feel like I should incorporate a bit more of BUYER, pre screening game, which I think I actually did. Hmmm I guess it was fine like that then.

Lessons / To do tomorrow too:
- Be the buyer not the seller.
- Number close. No facebook close. Just number close. In this case it was hard because I don't have my phone. But still, I should've grabbed a pen and number close her right in front of her guy friend lol (her friend came after a while haha)
- Approach for MYSELF. Do not approach to become a better person or anything. Approach because I am walking around the street, maybe with a purpose or not, but walking around the street is so boring that I could actually make my walking in the street something fun by approaching. It kind of relates to Alex state of relaxation to boredom. I was so bored today... that my only option was to approach and have a great time. I actually WANTED to go approach a girl and feel good. It is a good way to offer value to someone and feel great. 

So the main lesson here is: APPROACH FOR MYSELF. Approach because it is the most exciting thing to do when going out... and not doing so is boring!

I feel like I am grasping some powerful concept here... like scratching the surface of something that can be quite good.

Alright I am going to WORK NOW. HUSTLE!!!

Love it. Time to get back on track!

Peace
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 Monday May 27 - Day 19

Today I went out to do some daygame and make sure that I would take advantage of every single second that I spent infield. 

Yeah.

And I think I did.

I closed a tall girl.

And then I had some approaches where I scared the girls lol.

Shitty.

I am having trouble with walking sets.

I guess I have to put myself in front but... I don't really feel like it. I guess I have to JUST DO IT, and be completely present while doing it... like completely focusing on the action itself. I'll do it three times tomorrow to get in the habit of it.

Oh yeah I closed a tall girl. Facebook close. She wrote down her name on a paper. I am just facebook closing lately lol. I lost my cellphone so that it is the best solution I think.

She was waiting alone for somebody outside the McDonalds. I go talk to her. I stay in set. And because I stayed in set and kept talking and expressing myself, I landed the plane. It feels so good to land the plane.

Notes on Landing The Plane:
- Square up.
- Decent eye contact with decent vocal projection... above average is good. Maybe I should go all out in terms of this but I've found out that girls will answer and not really flake if you do this. But anyways, maybe in order to FUCK them, I'll need to go strong with eye contact and vocal projection. Not sure about that. Still figuring things out.
- Stay in set. Very important!!
- Don't give a fuck about her reaction. Be willing to go over the edge. Test the limits in terms of staying there.
- Full self-expression. Fully express a wide range of emotions too. Let her experience you.

Yep. Those are my personal notes on landing the plane.

Love it.

So that is it.

I guess that counts as a lesson as well.

Peace!

For tomorrow:
- Approach by putting myself in front of the girl, kind of like approach. Do it 3 times! Just 3 times and see what happens!
- Relaxed, strong laser eye contact! Powerful vocal projection.
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 Have you tried doing somekind of missions for the day/night? You kinda seem to do the same thing every time. You and your brother could think out games for approaching every day. This way you can keep the approaching fun more than a zombie-like goal for each day. Think about the way Simple Pickup does it's videos. They try to do something different every time, with that they are training their core - the words do not matter, the self always shines through. 
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@Me-vs-Me: Well we tried out some funny stuff in our early beginnings. Even on Sunday I wanted to go around proposing marriage to women. But it is not that necessary because when we are approaching, or when I am approaching solo, I keep a fun vibe, smile, laugh, and if I've taken a bit of action or thrown myself into the cold pool, I feel like I don't give a fuck about anything and am immersed in the present moment. I saw the video below a couple of days ago, and it reminded me of those awesome days where I get in a really nice positive mood... and so now I try to emulate this vibe every day not only when I am out approaching but also while doing all sorts of tasks.



doesn't give a fuck! Legit guy!

May 28 - Day 20

I went out solo!

It was fun.

I got two facebooks.

One girl is a model and has already accepted my friend request.

The other girl was hot but hasn't added me yet.

I love the fact that I am approaching hotter girls lol.. and closing them!

Now it is just about dating them and fuck their precious pussies! Yay!

Both sets were walking sets. And I did not put myself in front. I approached by the side. Yet what I realized is that saying "Hi" works much better than saying "Excuse me". It is much friendlier and a bit more smooth sound in Spanish which does not really scare the girls off.

But yesterday I had a set where I said Hi and scared the shit out of the girl...

Whatever... it is in the vibe then... but at least that Hi can carry a better vibe with its motion.

Ah! Landing the plane feels so amazing!

What I am also realizing is that rejections and positive reactions are all the same!

Laugh at everything! 

I loved having rejections today. It was fun as hell!

Love it!

Lessons:
- Rejections and positive reactions are all the same! Laugh at everything!
- Saying Hi can carry a much better vibe with it as well as alter the present vibe with its motion.
- It is not really necessary to get yourself in front in the approach. But just to get maybe slightly ahead and capture her attention with eye contact and a nice paused talking.

For tomorrow:
- Apply the lessons. I think this should be understood and not really written here right?

Peace!
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 great attitude my friend....you should use rejections to pump your state....it is weird, but this is what is happening to me.
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 @BerlinCity: yeah it feels great to do that... not giving a fuck... it really puts you in state right? But I had to reaaaally lower my ego to get to this point where I can just laugh at it. A month and a half ago I would've been hurt with a rejection. Ah! The cycles of giving a fuck and not giving a fuck!

May 29 - Day 21

Day 21 of my 30 day challenge!

Only 9 days to go.

Alright it was a fun day. I was feeling great all throughout the approaching session.

I approached like 3 sets I think.

All of them were rejections.

Lessons:
- Capture the RAS. Don't go half assed. Whatever I do, do it with 100% belief that it will work and fully immerse into the action and labor itself.
- Good vibe is great but get the most out of that vibe by following up with decent technique.

Peace
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 May 30 - Day 22

I had a day two. 

Nothing really happened. The girl had to do some shit so I just walked with her for like 20 minutes and then left. We'll probably see each other one and these days and fuck. I'll fuck her, yes.

Then, I went wit my brother and a friend to daygame dojo... very late at night.

I only approached one girl and got rejected. Then we went to a club... but it was pretty much empty.

Anyways, I had a great time dancing and enjoying myself.

Lessons:
- Get on with sexual topics at the date. Sounds fun. Should I even do that? I don't know. At least, adopt a sexual vibe and focus on the sexuality of the interaction.
- Fuck girls! Just have a nice time at the club and dance!!! Then approach girls but don't really think it is "approaching, just see it as more dancing and fun.

Peace
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 May 31 - Day 23

I went to a college party and got drunk with some beers.

It was fun as hell.

I did some approaches here and there and basically had a great time.

I went for the pull with some girls. Just throwing out the words "After Party". I think it's a great line lol. And I guess I'll use that line to bounce girls in cold approach at bars and clubs. Sounds great.

There was one girl that I walked with to her bus stop... and failed to pull her home lol. But yeah she was super sober and logical thinking about that her parents would kill her for getting home late and smelling like tobacco.

And yeah that was it.

It was fun as hell!

Lessons
Say "After Party". Just throw it in there and be present at the end of the night with the girl so I bounce with her to the after party.
Social Circle Game is great. At least is great to have a group of girls that you are with, and then walk around do some approaches, then go back to the group of girls, and then walk around and do some approaches, and then go back to the same group of girls again lol.

Work hard play hard!! Fuck yeaah!

Love it.

Peace!
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June 1 - Day 24

I am nearing the end of my 30 day challenge.

Yesterday it was a tough day. I gave in to my fears.

Stupid shit.

I did like 2 or 3 approaches I think. Very shitty approaches.

Fear.

Fuck fear.

Let's live with LOVE, not with fear.

Love for pickup, girls, humans, relationships, money, nature, world, Universe.

Love for the Universe. Love for Everything that's around us and EVERY LITTLE THING THAT WE DO.

I am starting to understand this concept that we EVERY LITTLE THING THAT WE DO, WE MUST DO IT RIGHT. That's it. Every single action that we take, we must take it fully committed and do it RIGHT and THAT IS IT. 

And I think that is also how we take our power back. Because when we do that, we remember that we are the masters of our own destinies and lives and there is no victim mentality anymore. We stop doing things because they were thrown at us. We start doing the things that we CHOOSE to do.

My first approach was shitty. I was in fear of the girl rejecting me and I acted like a weird fuck because of that.

Let myself be guided by LOVE, by my HEART, by my INTUITION!

My second approach I think it was a rejection. Oh, I remember she told me her name and then walked away. Yeah, that happens. I was in a better state in that one though.

Lessons:
- Let my Heart guide me.
- EVERY LITTLE THING THAT I DO, DO IT RIGHT.
- And those lessons should be enough to break out of my comfort zone, face my fears, and GO FOR MY DREAMS!

LET'S DO THIS!!

"What is the RIGHT thing to do?"

Peace
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Burton2

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move to usa
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