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Me-vs-Me

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 I strongly recommend you to be more social in college also. It's supposed to be the easiest place to meet women.. so I have heard.
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Van wilder

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Decide what you want to do and when to invest time.

1.If you want to be legend on college you have to invest time there,going on all the classes,meeting everyday new people,inviting people for drinks etc etc.You can fuck many girls if you will be the cool alpha game.But it will take maybe 1-2 year of socializing in college to becoming this king.The disadvantage is only for short term period and its situaltional confidence

2.If you decide to get good at good at cold approach like tyler did when it was in the college,you have to invest time on cold approach,going out 5x6 days a week out.etc etc.This has benefits on short and long term also change your cores.
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@Mevsme: yeah I am pushing myself to be social, value offering,and lighthearted to generate positive emotions all around me and meet all kinds of people.

@Van Wilder: well I want to be both! I definitely want to be a legend in college, but also do cold approach pikup consistently simply because I LOVE it.

I have a day without cold approaching and I am gettig a bit sad. When I did pikup I felt great. It is making me realize how much I love to do it. I am readind the war of art and dedicating a lot of time to being introspective and knowing myself more. After that I'll watch Ls Social Circle Mastery. Do you guys have some books, webpages, or articles on ColleGe game tat I could Use? I remember seeing a webpage on the rsdn forum that wqs about college game and there were a lot of articles there.

Well I am going to classes now.

See ya later.
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Pictures time!

These are from the April 20 party and field report about Shawarma, and having a good drunk time.

Below I am making out with that girl. After making out with her for 10 minutes and trying to pull her to the bathroom, her friend took her away. I spent the next hour spitting on the floor lol.

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And there I am below with my brother. We look happy too.

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I am going out tonight to have some fun again.

Much love :)
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 So this rest week is really going well for me. I had a great diet, sleep schedule, didn't study shit for college but still went to classes and payed some attention, read some self-actualization books and watched some material.

I watched Social Circle Mastery, pretty cool stuff. I also finished reading Robert Kiyosaki's Rich Dad Poor Dad. And I read Steven Pressfield's The War of Art.

This week I am going to dedicate a lot of time to studying and getting back in track in terms of my studies to be the very best at it!

Also, I've decided to only go out 3 times a week.

This coming week I'll go out on Tuesday for nightgame since Wednesday there is no classes, then I'll go out of Friday for nightgame, and Saturday again for nightgame. Pretty much... I'll just do nightgame now... since there are more sets and I don't have to walk around for a long time to find girls like in daygame. Nightgame is lots of fun as well!

And I don't know why but I am kind of turning into a wreck... and I haven't watched Alex's videos yet. But in reality, from my perspective I am turning into a wreck, but maybe what's really happening is that I am chilling a little bit with my habits... probably bending them a bit.

Yesterday I had a burger, then some beers.

I guess it's fine to have a cheat day once a week and then get back on track really hard.

I want to cheat today as well. So that'll be two cheat days but that's cool as well. I'll get back on track. I know that for sure. I wanna get some tacos today... and coke :)

I already bought the green tea today... so after that I'll be fine. 

Establishing some rules on lifestyle: FUCK PERFECTION!

Perfection is bullshit lol. It is the same shit that society puts in our head everyday with ads and shit. Like Mark Sisson says, it is fine to pursue our peak performance, but perfectionism is bullshit (that's kind of what he says)

Cold Approach Pickup: 3 days a week. Go out to have fun. Just keeping the fun going on in life! I think 3 days a week is enough for me to keep up with this activity in my life while improving slowly on it and getting reference experiences. The good thing is that while I do this cold approach pickup, I have to constantly be social, lighthearted, and charismatic in college to develop my ideal social life. So in that sense, I'll not lose my swag but it will keep getting better and better.

Diet: Paleo Diet of course. My favorite diet ever. And like Mark Sisson says, whenever I really feel that deep desire to indulge, then partake sensibly. 

Alcohol: Just have some drinks in moderation. Don't get overly drunk or hammered. Just in moderation. Seriously bro, let's do this. It sucks the day after getting hammered, and the day after that day, and sometimes in the worst cases the day after that fucking day. 

Whenever I really feel the need to indulge, PARTAKE SENSIBLY.

April 27

Yesterday I went to a rock concert at night.

I ate a cheap big burger. I even smoked a bit of a cigarette but then threw it away in disgust. And then I tried to smoke some weed. We got some bad quality weed on the street. I got half a joint and didn't even get a bit high. Shitty weed.

So anyways, I did some approaches. Fun.

Lessons of the night:
1. Have massive fun. Always approach no matter what. Face fears and have fun. Have fun without approaching or before approaching. And while approaching also have massive fun.
2. Enjoy life.
3. I was persistent as hell in some of my approaches. So that was fine. I was having fun while being persistent also, so that's cool.

I am going out now.

Peace 
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@Burton2: yeah bro... that's what it's all about

April 27 - Finally letting go and DOING THE RIGHT THING MOTHERFUCKER! GETTING CLOSER TO GETTING LAID!

My resolve to get laid is strong and clear. I am IN the game for pussy. I am IN the game for success with women. I am IN the game for abundance. 

I am IN this thing because I LOVE improving myself, letting go, and becoming closer to being who I AM.

And you know, in a way, you also have to LET GO of improving yourself, enjoy the present, BE who you currently are 100%, and take things lightheartedly, and. It's a paradox. It's so paradoxical. 

The Paradox of Perfection: Finally Breaking Through a Sticking Point and Plateau

I've realized that seriousness is a DISEASE. It's madness. It's us enclosing ourselves inside a cage. We're meant to be FUCKING FREE and BE OURSELVES 100%.

What I think is the paradox of perfection, is that aiming for perfection actually worsens performance and produces anxiety. Yet, when you say "FUCK PERFECTION", you do much better and enjoy life... kind of almost nearing perfection. But perfection?? What the hell is wrong with that word? There is something "fishy" about it. It's like our light shines through our cracks... embracing our imperfections like Brene Brown says.

The last month and a half I've been in a serious, paralyzing plateau. What I find funny is that it was actually a pretty "newbie" or "simple" plateau. At least now that I know what was hindering my development and how to solve it, it seems like it was a silly plateau.

The plateau is taking things too damn serious, not being lighthearted, and having a dick in the butt. Pretty much just taking self-actualization so seriously that you are not you anymore... you are just trying to become something else all the time that maybe there is no real authenticity shining through anymore. There's just an ego trying to protect itself, and falling deeper into the egoic identity of "improving" and self actualizing. And it also looks like a paradox, an ego that wants to improve is not really an ego because ego does not want to change. So it is just like a mental masturbation... an ego living with fear all day and passing through anxiety all day long, stressing about bullshit and not letting go. 

I got deeper and deeper into this ego shit. For weeks, I questioned myself on what I was doing wrong, and slowly I unpeeled layer by layer of limiting beliefs to get to the core of the issue.

It started some weeks ago when I started to think that lightheartedness was important. Since the beginning, I think I knew that I had to let go. And I wanted to let go, but it was really hard. So I had to go through a gradual process of changing beliefs and acquiring new beliefs. So one of those beliefs was “okay fuck it, this is all about being positive and happy, lighthearted!”. And I tried to incorporate that as much as possible.

So then I realized, “damn my game is sucking shit because I do not even FLIRT when I am in set. I am not even TEASING the girl. I am just asking chode question after chode question expecting her to jump on my dick”. Now, this has happened to me before. In my last high in the game, I had some sets where I just went, asked some chode questions, got the number, and then dated the girl. But for that reason, that stopped giving results. Maybe my vibe changed. I don’t know. Maybe I did it differently. But the thing is IT STOPPED GIVING RESULTS.

I realized that my game needed flirtatiousness. I realized that three days ago. So I said “Okay I am going out. Have massive fun. Focus on flirting. Each approach, rejection, or any action is a step closer to getting laid”.

And all things just clicked yesterday when I said “FUCK PERFECTION”. I could finally LET GO.

The Night of Approaches: Just enjoying the Present, Massive Action, Fun, Enough is Enough, and the BEST STATE EVER IS A CLEAN SOBER HIGH STATE

I think I’ve had a turning point in my going wreck and achieving peak performance massive confusion. The rules I settled yesterday definitely helped a lot. It’s like having cushions so I don’t fall that hard when I eventually lose balance and fall.

After nastily breaking my diet with a kilo of rice and chinese food (I’ll talk a bit more about this later), I went with my brother and friends to one of my friend’s family party. It was like a close, family environment. And I thought it was fun. I was just enjoying the present moment. There was a good vibe. And I love remembering about it. Yet I was really SUPER TIRED. I was tired as hell. Yesterday, I moved to a room in my friend’s house which is close to my university, so I was very tired at night. I even passed out at instances at the family party. But I was happy. I knew it was still going to be a great night. And there was a great feeling in me that said “I am going to get laid tonight and every action that I take, right action, will get one step closer to getting laid”. So I fully assumed that frame. There was no worries.

Finally we left the party, the weather was like shit. Cold as fuck. Strong temperature change at 1 AM. We still went to Barranco which is a place with lots of bars and clubs.

When we got there, I just started approaching and having fun.

In my approaches, I could finally let go and take right action without being afraid of rejections, or success, or anything. There was really nothing holding me back. And my whole actions were playing to win. I was also successful at flirting and teasing, finally!

So it was very fun in that way. I just got the facebook of a girl with a boyfriend… but it did not seem very solid. She was a cute girl. So when I landed the plane through flirting and teasing, I felt like “Oh shit!” yet I still tried to keep my frame. I must remember the power of IF, “How would I act if I was fully entitled to this girl?” When she told me about her boyfriend (she did casually by the way… it wasn’t like a way to say fuck off or anything), that got me a bit in my head. So yeah… the power of honest signals huh?

But that’s fine. I kept a positive, lighthearted frame about it, closed with her name to look for her in facebook, but I was still very positive that I would get laid and get close to that goal.

I did mixed sets. I did seated sets at bars. The girl who had a boyfriend waiting outside the bathroom. I did street game, bar game, club game, and dance floor game. I took massive action 

Lessons and Things I Succeeded At:
- Playing to Win.
- Ignoring Negative Energy and Keeping up with the Lightheartedness.
- Not Taking Anything Personally.
- Just letting go of self-consciousness, ego, and having a BLAST!

Thing to improve on suggested by Chode Campos:
- Just going with the flow and playing the game with the wing while in set. No disharmony between wings. And it is so true, and links back to being lighthearted and embracing life.
- Keeping it up with the overwhelmed emotions created by the strong approach and capturing of RAS. If girl is too overwhelmed, back down a bit, then go right in again. Very important outer game there!

I had such a great time at the dance floor of one club. They were playing this song “Good Feeling” by Flo Rida. I almost cried. My soul was smiling. And I was dancing, pouring out the heart and soul, just purely expressing myself. It was a mix of the memories that song brings me of a family trip to Orlando a year and a half ago… and all the great positive emotions and clean state I was feeling at that moment dancing around.

Enough is Enough: Let’s get BACK ON TRACK!

Well I think I’ve had enough of breaking my diet, pussying out, or resisting the Now as well as other beautiful human beings. I want to TAKE ACTION NOW! I WANT TO BREAK OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE!

You know why?! BECAUSE WHEN I BREAK OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE, I FEEL FREE. WHEN I AM WHO I AM MEANT TO BE, MY SOUL SMILES BLITHELY.

And I love to feel free. It is the best state ever. There is no such feeling as feeling free and taking action. It is a CLEAN HIGH STATE that cannot be matched by alcohol, drugs, or any sort of immediate physical gratification. It goes deeper than the physical realm of consciousness. It is higher consciousness, baby. And higher consciousness feels GOOD!

The moment I said “Enough is Enough” came right after I nastily broke my diet. It was a similar moment to that one I had in December of last year after having twelve delicious pizzas. I said to myself “Well… I think that is enough”. And right after that I go in a romp of action. It is like you deeply realize that that kind of physical immediate gratification is no big deal, and it is so temporary that when you think about it… it is not really worth it.

I woke up today feeling great about life. I had some bananas, scrambled eggs, protein shake, and green tea. It was an amazing breakfast. After that I cleaned up the mess in my room. I love the feeling you get after you clean up chaos. LOVE IT!!

And well, I’d like to take as much action as I can in my life right now, because, in reality, there is nothing to be afraid of. What really make us afraid is success, greatness, and the light of our own Being. And it is a very beautiful thing that we are afraid of something that’s so pure and ethereal like the full expression of the light of our Being and actual manifestation of our destinies and life purpose being executed right now, right here on Earth.

So, let’s play to win! Let’s go get it! We only live once. And the whole World wants us to go get it and give back!

We were given this human form!! And the Universe smiles when we follow our path and contribute to ourselves and the Universe. We give to the Universe and it gives back to us! HOW WONDERFUL!

So that’s it.

I’ve been reflecting a lot. I am really resonating with this guy in Youtube, KemetPrince1.



He has a lot of videos and provides great value.

I am leaving now. I'll get some lunch.

I'll keep it up!

I'll keep and act through my life values. Lightheartedness! Peace! Balance! LOVE! Offering love to everybody. Loving myself and loving others :)

It's all about the LOVE!

So yeah, that is it.

My schedule of night game for this coming week will be: Tuesday Salsa Nightgame, Friday Nightgame, and finally Saturday Nightgame! NICEEEEEEEE! LOVE IT MATE!

AWESOME!

LET'S DO THIS! 

PEACE!
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it is a paradox.  your posts blow my mind
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Tuesday April 30 Report

This report is from last tuesday.

We went to Barranco, which is a nice place to get drinks and party.

We get into a bar, and start approaching and having fun.

I feel sick as fuck and my allergies are literally killing me.

But I also wanted to let go so I kept moving crazily, dancing, moving in ways that would generate fun.

Nothing really happened.

Lessons?
Go ALL out. Infinite energy.

Friday May 3

I went to a club.

I approached a lot of sets and got all rejected and shit.

Girls were bitches.

There was only one girl who was attracted but she was moving all around and I couldn't stop her.

Then, outside the club, I went to the bar area.

Girls were bitches.

Something I did yesterday was BURNING SETS TO THE GROUND. Just fucking staying there until the girls fucking leave, being persistent and pushy as fuck.

There are some techniques I gotta work on like:
Strong Laser Eye Contact
Vocal Projection

So that is it. My brother got laid. He is a PIMP.

I feel inspired by that. It means I can get laid too with cold approach pickup.

I FEEL LIKE SHIT. BUT I FEEL GREAT TOO.

LET'S FUCKING DO THIS!

Peace
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May 4 - Huge Epic College Party


Well yesterday was a day of massive action and having lots of fun.

I got a phone number from a cute girls and a facebook from another cute girl which I have not added yet.

As soon as I got into the party, I was in a happy, positive state.

I talked with some friends and had a good time with them.

Then I told two guys to start approaching girls.

And so I did.

The bad thing was that they were bad wings. So I had to train them a bit. They were still bad wings. So at some moment, I lost myself in the crowd and found some other friends.

And I danced, and danced. I was in motion throughout the whole night. I am awesome. I maintained the motion!

Sober game is pretty hard though.

Sticking points in sober game:
So far I have successfully trained myself to be in a positive, fun, party state, in constant motion and approaching.

I can approach when I am stone sober. BUT, the big sticking point comes in LETTING GO. I tend to go more into a external validation seeking kind of thing... it is slightly but the end result in the interaction is the same. 

What to Improve:
- Give her the opportunity to CHASE THE PRIZE.
- Increase self-arousal. Always push a bit further. Pump up sexual emotions.
- Focus solely on expression. Realize this is an art and the beauty is in its imperfections. There is no such thing as a perfect pickup. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL.
- Don't try to please anybody. Don't be the artist that sells himself to the public for money and develops stuff that will only appeal to the public. BE THE ARTIST THAT TAKES ACTION AS A MEAN TO BE 100% AUTHENTIC AND PURE OUT THE HEART AND SOUL.
- And so, with the above inner game concepts, I should be more able to improve the vibe in my flirting... and actually have TRUE FLIRTING.

So yeah, interesting how this time instead of thinking of what to do on the outer level, I've realized things to improve on in the inside, which I think is also very important.


I noticed this stuff to improve on when I got the chance to drink alcohol offered by my friends with access to free drinks. 

As soon as I drank I improved those aspects and noticed the difference. Now the thing is to do it sober.

Highlights: Before and After A Cup of Rum
- When I was sober, I approached a girl, isolated her quickly outside the dancefloor. And then I was like "So now what?". I did not know what to do or say. And on the other hand I was chasing. And also I was a bit focused on the outcome and at the moment I did not feel quite entitled to her... weird... well she was cute. But I guess the reason I felt I was not entitled was because I was not that present and was thinking about the outcome. So it really wasn't that I did not feel entitled, it was more that I was in my head. Anyways, I got her name to find her on facebook, but naaah. Shitty bullshit. I found her several times later and spent some more time with her. But I was still in my head with this girl. I couldn't really let go and enjoy the present which is so fucking important.
- After drinking a glass of rum and without eating in the past 8 hours, I got a bit drunk pretty fast. I approached a girl I had met like a month and a half ago in a college activity. Cute girl. And in that approach I managed to do successfully what I wrote in the what to improve on section. And so I got her number. Then I sent her a text message on whatsapp and she answered back. It would seem solid. Like half hour later I found her again, I was stone sober, I did not want to fuck it up and was in my head. Well who cares. There are so many lessons and I LOVE that. I'll add her on facebook now.

What can I do in order to improve myself?
- Give her the opportunity to CHASE THE PRIZE.
- Increase self-arousal. Always push a bit further. Pump up sexual emotions.
- Focus solely on expression. Realize this is an art and the beauty is in its imperfections. There is no such thing as a perfect pickup. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL.
- Don't try to please anybody. Don't be the artist that sells himself to the public for money and develops stuff that will only appeal to the public. BE THE ARTIST THAT TAKES ACTION AS A MEAN TO BE 100% AUTHENTIC AND PURE OUT THE HEART AND SOUL.
- And so, with the above inner game concepts, I should be more able to improve the vibe in my flirting... and actually have TRUE FLIRTING.


Peace!
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