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TropicalMan

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Join Date: 04/15/2012 | Posts: 1279

 April 9

I did many approaches today. Like 7 approaches. My second approach was pretty bad lol. It was a two set, the girl said "Oh you again. Fuck off dude. I am going to beat the shit out of you". I said "What? So you are mad that someone told you you are cute. Damn." She laughed a bit, and then kept repeating her shit so I just left. I left a bit hurt though. At that moment, I realized that the worst thing that could happen wasn't that bad at all, so I might as well just fucking go on a rampage and take massive action.

And so I did.

3 interactions with lessons
1. I see this girl alone. I go approach her. I stay there for a while. I think she was always a "Yes but no" though. But I did well in buying time and staying in there. My mistake was not escalating at a high note. I moved at her side at probably not the best moment. Lesson: Escalate in high notes.

2. Girl walking by herself. I approach her direct. I do some cold reads and blah blah. I talk to her for a while. I also make this one stay. Cool. I number close. Lesson: Cold reads, talking about the girl, future adventure projections... they are all great to make the girl shift her focus of what she has to do right then and there to just talking to me and having a nice interaction.

3. Girls that did not open because I did not put myself in front or a bit ahead of them. Lesson: Put myself in front or a bit ahead of them.

Today's terrible and great approaches showed me one thing again. The girls reactions DO NOT CHANGE WHO YOU ARE. You'll always remain the same. That essence of who you are or Being will remain the same no matter what. So let's just fucking approach and take massive action!

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach when girl is attracted or if it is one of my last approaches of the day.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Take right action. Just get reference experiences so I can do even better the next time. It doesn't matter if I fail. What matters is that I GET THE REFERENCE.
When persisting, instead of just asking her a question so she doesn't leave... say something like "Hey, before you go..." and BAM!
Address the situations in set. Make it click in the reality of the people involved in set.

Peace
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BerlinCity

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 your journal is always an inspiring good read.
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 @BerlinCity: Thanks man! I am really super glad you like it... it inspires me to keep moving forward :)

April 10

Super tired.

Second time I write FR because I lost the first one.

Anyways, three approaches today. I couldn't go the gym. Ah! I had to choose pickup over the gym. It was kind of a tough decision. But pickup won by far. This is my journey to mastery. I'll fucking do this.

1st set: Two set. I did not put myself in front. Very half assed approach. Lesson: Fully commit. Act with 100% belief in my actions. Punch through the wall. Put myself slightly ahead of the girl, or in front.

2nd set: I did put myself in front of the girl this time. She was talking on her phone though. And that put me a bit in my head. I told her she was cute. She smiled and kept walking. Lesson: Be CALM myself, and bring the girl into that state of calmness. 

3rd set: A girl waiting on her own. I go direct. I never really land the plane. She is a " haha yes but no". I end up ejecting at a point where I don't really know what the fuck to do. Lesson: Break her wall of politeness. Say "Are you racist?" and PUMMEL.


What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach when girl is attracted or if it is one of my last approaches of the day.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Take right action. Just get reference experiences so I can do even better the next time. It doesn't matter if I fail. What matters is that I GET THE REFERENCE.
When persisting, instead of just asking her a question so she doesn't leave... say something like "Hey, before you go..." and BAM!
Address the situations in set. Make it click in the reality of the people involved in set.

Peace!
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 April 11

My brother's birthday!! yay!!!

Anyways today I first went to a bar where there was a party and tried to get in there. I was thrown out of there later because I wasn't in the list. But I drank a Cuba Libre... woops dranks alcohol and again realize that it is not really worth it... same goes with breaking your diet or not taking action. Is it worth it? Fuck no.

After that I went to the daygame dojo and did 3 approaches.

1st set: Girl sitting. Not the best set ever. She was like "Haha but NO!!" and at some moment she did not even look at me. Damn! I even tried to break her wall of politeness but nothing. Lesson: Make it click in her reality. But be unapologetic.

2nd set: A woman in a two set. She did not even answer. Lesson: Go fully committed and have 100% in my actions.

3rd set: Two girls. I go to one of them. I get in front. She gets quite close. I flinch though. I keep forgetting that in this there should be NO FLINCHING, and I should go STRONG with a STRONG FRAME and relaxed. Lesson: Go with a STRONG FRAME and suck her into my reality.

Also, today I got really motivated to go to college and CRUSH IT without apology and IMPOSE MY WILL. Like literally, just do not care about what people think, and fucking PLAY TO WIN. JUST FULLY ASSUME WHO I AM AND LIVE THE LIFE THAT I WANT WITH ALL THE SEX THAT I COULD POSSIBLY WANT.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Just be who the fuck I want to be. Fully assume who I am. There is no reason why I am not enough. So I'll just be MYSELF.
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach when girl is attracted or if it is one of my last approaches of the day.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Take right action. Just get reference experiences so I can do even better the next time. It doesn't matter if I fail. What matters is that I GET THE REFERENCE.
When persisting, instead of just asking her a question so she doesn't leave... say something like "Hey, before you go..." and BAM!
Address the situations in set. Make it click in the reality of the people involved in set.

Oh and for tomorrow I'll make it a goal to have massive fun throughout the whole day, pump up my emotions all the time, just be happy, enthusiastic, loving it all, and really incorporate that "WOO" into my life. I'll make this a goal for several days until I have it quite handled.

Peace!
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 April 12

Well I had a Day Two in which I though I was going to have sex but there was not even a makeout but it was a cool reference experience.

I took the girl to this place where there are lots of hotels around to use for sex and bars and karaokes. So I took her to a karaoke, bought some beers, and got a bit of kino going there... but nothing really happened. I pushed as far as I could though.

Lesson: just be comfortable in her space. Break out of my comfort zone to get physical and get used to being physical with girls. In that way, with law of state transfer and being super comfortable with her space, let her be comfortable in my space. Physical rapport.

It was definitely a cool reference experience of taking a girl to that place and having some drinks. Pretty cool.

Then I went to a bar with my brother and some friends. I had such a great fun time... and was pretty much sober as well.

In the bar I did several approaches to mixed sets. 

Lessons:
- Mixed sets are cool. They can open well. It is no big deal. 
- Having fun is VERY IMPORTANT. Motion creates emotion. Yesterday, I just let go and had a lot of fun. It was great!
- Learn the names of the people I approach, and then reapproach!! Or at least reapproach with some callback humor from the first interaction, that could work as well.

What can I do today April 13 in order to improve myself?
Just be who the fuck I want to be. Fully assume who I am. There is no reason why I am not enough. So I'll just be MYSELF.
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Man in her life frame.

Peace
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 April 13 - Karaoke, beers, fast food, low to mid quality girl venues...

It was an unusual day.

We went to do some karaoke. I had such a nice time there. I drank some beers. Shit. Beer is shit. I don't really like that stuff to be honest. I think I'd rather drink some nice water. Well, after that we went outside to the streets. No approaches. I was a bit drunk. And then I went to a hamburger restaurant and ordered a big heavy hamburger I've been wanting to get since a long time ago. And damn, I ate that with coke and fries. Shit. Then, after I was done with that, I ate a burrito. Fuck. What the hell happened with the paleo?

And that's how I say once again that I don't really think alcohol is worth it after all. I know I am awesome and everything. But I could've sticked to my diet. Well anyways, I am going to stay on it now for a long time.

Then I did a couple of approaches at some new venues that we went to where the quality of girls was much lower to the pretty exclusive clubs that we usually get in to do nightgame. I don't know if I actually learned some lessons in my approaches. I was just warming up and getting into the zone and it ended there.

But what I actually can say is that alcohol is definitely not worth it, and the same with inaction and eating shit.

So, I am starting a new challenge. 

It is called the PERFECTION CHALLENGE. I think probably Julien did something like that as well. And so I am doing it also.

The PERFECTION CHALLENGE consists in this:
- Perfect Paleo/Primal Diet.
- Gym 3 days a week.
- NO ALCOHOL.
- Strong boundaries of a true man. If other people don't like my boundaries, they can FUCK OFF. If they respect my boundaries, then great, we can be friends. Simple as that. No shit here.
- Take massive action in pickup. 7 days a week.
- Study hard. Get some nice grades.
- Sleep 8 hours a day every single day.
- Make no excuses for my desires as a man. 
- Move through the world without apology.
- Always be enthusiastic, and develop more of a true passion for life and just breathing or living. Always POSITIVE, PRESENT, LIGHTHEARTED, AND HAPPY. Motion creates emotion. 
- Overcome resistance and ALWAYS DO THE RIGHT THING.

The challenge starts oficially on Monday. Tomorrow I'll do my best with this stuff as well.

PERFECTION MOTHERFUCKER!

SO FUCK THE PAST. IT IS A NEW DAY BRO. IT'S MY DAY. IT IS MY TIME MOTHERFUCKER. I'LL LIVE THE LIFE THAT I WANT FOR MYSELF. I'LL BE WHO I AM MEANT TO BE.



What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Just be who the fuck I want to be. Fully assume who I am. There is no reason why I am not enough. So I'll just be MYSELF.
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach.
Fully commit to my actions. 100% belief in what I do.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Man in her life frame.

Peace!
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 April 14

It was nice day... and a great Sunday!

Usually sundays are shitty and there are no girls. But today there were a lot of girls and it was great.

I did like 3 sets.

First set it was a blowout but more like unfulfilled potential in the sense that the girl was smiling. I even reapproached but she kept walking away with her friend. I guess I had to really stop in front of her and talk to her from there. Lesson: Get in front. Do not get in front and move to the side giving her space. Get in front unapologetically :)

Then the second set I winged my brother. He went to a two set. The girls were sitting. I go talk to a cute one. I talk and talk to her. I like her tits and legs. Then I sit besides her. We have a nice conversation. I number close her... whatsapp. She was 15. Oh I talked about stuff that was really interesting to me and that was super cool. Lesson: Talk about stuff that is really interesting to me.

Then in the third set, I approached a girl. She was 14 lol. Anyways, she was very attracted and stayed there the whole time. I was pretty lazy and did not want to game much too. I just wanted to make out with her, which I actually kinda tried with the "Do you want to do something crazy line?", but I also realize that I did not have that much of social capital or buying temperature to actually get there. After some hugs and a kiss on the cheek,  I just left. Pretty cool girl. Lesson: Fuck laziness. Talk and talk. Self-amuse. Fuck the outcome. Just pump up emotions and arousal! Also, every word that comes out of my mouth is gold purely because it comes out of my mouth. It offers a lot of value. 

So that was it for today. A cool day. 

Tomorrow I formally start the PERFECTION CHALLENGE - The Ultimate Challenge For The True Self-Actualized Man!

So that is it.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Just be who the fuck I want to be. Fully assume who I am. There is no reason why I am not enough. So I'll just be MYSELF.
WOO + Intent. Have fun! Clear intent of either socializing or getting the girl.
Come from the frame of awesomeness of "I am having such a great day. I am awesome and it's always a good time. Oh look! a cute girl. I'll go talk to her".
Reapproach.
Fully commit to my actions. 100% belief in what I do.
Get in front of the girl completely, smoothly, run patiently and relaxed. Square up.
Don't chase. Don't try to not try. Lead. Give her the opportunity to chase. Just relax and take action.
Man in her life frame.

Peace!
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 I do not want to spoil your party but.. it's not likely going to happen, the perfection challenge. You see, you are trying to change SOO many things in your life that you will probably break down. People usually take max 3 areas in their life to change and that is already pretty hardcore. You are just.. 18? It should be more of a time to have fun with your friends and experience life - not to make strict rules what you can and can't do cause.. in the end you are probably going to break them anyways and then you are just pissed on yourself. 

There is no such thing as perfection, there is giving your best though :) Best of luck!
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 Agree...take things easy and enjoy the journey :)
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 haha thanks so much guys!! Sure I'll do my best and enjoy this crazy ride!

April 15

One approach.

Half hour infield and one approach. I could've done a couple more but I pussied out.

MEDIOCRITY IS NOT GOOD. IT IS BAD.

I MUST BREAK THROUGH MY COMFORT ZONE, OVERCOME RESISTANCE, AND TAKE ACTION.

And well, yeah that was it.

What lessons can I draw from today?
I guess I learned that it is really not worth it to go to the daygame dojo and walk like an idiot if I am going to out, especially when I must study hardcore at home and sleep 8 hours to feel great the next day. So, WHAT THE FUCK?! 

COME ON! Tomorrow will be another day though. In fact, RIGHT NOW it is another moment and I make the decision that I will ALWAYS, ALWAYS put my best self in front and PUSH TO BE THE BEST. 

'CAUSE I AM THE BEST AROUND MOTHAFUCKAAAAA!

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Be who I am meant to BE.
Take MASSIVE action!
Get the girls!
Have MASSIVE fun and add a clear intent to it.

I guess I'll do some nightgame tomorrow. It is getting laid or die trying. There is really not much to lose at this point. Like really? Nothing to lose.

Let's do this!

Peace.
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