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March 12 - Some loss of faith and hope - A little bit of frustration... or should I say fascination!

Well, the girl I was going to see today cancelled the plans at the last hour. So, I was like "Ok cool. Bullshit in the game" and had a smile in my face and was actually happy that I did my best. But I think that it affected me on the inside.

When I got to the daygame dojo, I had massive success barriers, and limiting beliefs. And the limiting belief that I've been getting lately is the CHODIEST, MOST DISGUSTING LIMITING BELIEF that someone could ever think of. It goes pretty much like this: "I don't know if I should approach her... if I am not gonna her anyways... or if I am going to get rejected... or her friend will cockblock me". What the fuck is that shit?

Right now I am not even feeling like I felt today when I thought like that. Right now I am like "It is all possible!". But I felt really bad today. I felt without hope and faith in the journey. And I felt like a disgusting victim. I was saying shit like "WHY?!". For a moment, I was mad at the Universe because I felt like it took sex away from me at the last minute. Very victim mindset I know. 

And then, I WANTED to get laid as much as I want to breathe.

The thing is, I WANT to get laid as bad as I want to breathe. I don't think I've ever wanted something so bad in my life... seriously.

Geez.

Then I approached a girl and had an instant date. But, I went for the makeout, nothing happened, and I don't even want to see her again... kind of a chode girl I guess, she was nice though.

And it is weird that I am even seeing cold approach pickup as a weird thing... I don't know what the hell is happening to me.


3 interactions that stood out the most with Lessons
1. I approached a girl. Shitt approach. Lesson: FULLY COMMIT. LOSE EGO.
2. Another SHITTY approach. Lesson: FULLY COMMIT. JUST LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. LET GO.
3. Instant date. After whining like a bitch. I see a girl, and tell myself to stop feeling sorry about myself and focus on making others feel good. So I approach this girl in a really really congruent way. She is just walking around doing nothing and relaxing. So we walk. I go sit with her. Then we stand up and walk some more. Then we sit in another place. The whole time she was "A Yes but No". It is funny how I had to build the tension. At the end, she was quite comfortable with me. She didn't even make much eye contact though, pretty much no eye contact. After that interaction, I felt like I wasted my time lol. Whatever, it is a reference experience. And I actually went for the physical escalation / seduction. So my criteria for success is done there. That'll be my new criteria for success from now on. SEDUCE! Lesson: Seduce. Well done. 

What can I do today in order March 13 to improve myself? It's my birthday! 18 years old :D
SEDUCEEEEEEE!
SEDUCE ALL THAT I CAN, EVERY MOMENT THAT I CAN, THE BEST THAT I CAN, FOR AS LONG AS I CAN!
Strong Laser Eye Contact. Square Up. Breaking Rapport. Vocal Projection.
Be 100% Relaxed. Be present. Non-resistance. Surrender to what is and TAKE ACTION.
Make it CLICK in her reality.
BREAK THROUGH LIMITING BELIEFS AND SUCCESS BARRIERS! TAKE MASSIVE ACTION!

Peace
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Thanks bro

March 13

Well, birthday, nice day.

I am kind of sick though, which sucks a bit, and even feels a bit miserable at times. But I still went out to do some approaches.

I just did two. Really shitty ones. I've been taking little action in the last couple of weeks. I am kind of falling in limiting beliefs and stupid shit. 

So, what I am going to do now, is to always use the following line "What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?". And the thing is, I would do the right thing.

When I am in the field, I have a strong dependence from outcome. I think that solution to this is to lower my criteria for success to "Just approach", with the underlying purpose of "SEDUCE", or "Escalate", or "Go the distance".

Those are the lessons that I learned today from the shitty approaches... and also all of the shitty approaches I've doing the last couple of days.

What can I do today March 14 in order to improve myself?
What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?
Just approach. Take it as far as I can. Criteria for success is female energy and positive emotions.
DO IT!

Peace
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Insta dates, baby....gotta love em.
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yeaah... I still wanna get laid though!

March 14 

Lately, I feel like it is ALL OR NOTHING. And it is a bit tough this way since I am not really appreciating that much getting smiles or positive reactions, or even makeouts. I just want to get laid. 

Tyler's video of the motivational see saw helped me A LOT. The last couple of days I've been lacking a lot of motivation to even approach. And the thing is, so far I do not have the reference experience that doing this will get me laid. So, as a result of not getting laid (which is the whole purpose of this), I started to lose motivation and not even see the point to approaching a girl. Before, I would get numbers, then they flaked, but then I would run into investment dynamics and that kind of stuff to make the interaction solid. But for a long time now, I've felt like there is not really much to do anymore. Yet, the answer was always there in my face and it was something that scares me... a lot. And that is BURNING THE NUMBERS. Or not really burning them in an uncalibrated way in which I insult the girls, but at least persisting like a motherfucker with the numbers and not just giving up at the first time that she does not answer. And I think this COULD actually get me laid. Well, a friend of mine in pickup starting getting laid because he did this. And yeah I think this is actually the way to go. There is not much to do in my initial interaction. Of course there are many things to improve, but maybe nothing that can be improved in the very short term that could give me results. With burning the numbers, however, it is like I can get a date right now if I want to. It is all up to me. And in that day two, I can get SEX. Simple as that. It is so fucking simple. It was in front of my face the whole time and I did not even SEE it right there. What the fuck? Anyways, yep, that is the way to go. And I'll DO THAT!

I actually did that today (March 15) with a girl I number closed yesterday. IT WORKED. Except that I did not got any day two since I don't even know when I am going to be free. But I'll call her again next week. Like really, it surprises me to discover how I have so many things in my control that I had not seen before. It feels great to know that I HAVE MORE POWER THAN I THOUGHT I HAD.

I think I did like 3 approaches yesterday in daygame.

The first two approaches were SHIT! I got rejected right away lol.

The third approach was really good lol. And it happened just after I bought my first condoms. It was like the condoms helped me approach with the end in mind... while having fun :D

So in that approach there was WOO + INTENT. Really great.

Then I did some nightgame and got my ass rejected a bunch of times.

I learned that Nightgame is about HAVING FUN LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER. And really FORCING THE FUN, and letting go of self-consciousness. And build it in small chunks too. So next time I go to the nightclub, I'll take that into account.

I'll also relisten to Tyler's six steps to a great night... his free tour video.

Alright that is it for today.

Gotta go now to do some seductiooon!

What can I do today March 15 in order to improve myself?
What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?
Just approach. Go the distance. Criteria for success is female energy and positive emotions.
DO IT!

Last Realization

Oh it was funny that I almost did not go out yesterday because I felt sick and miserable, and on top of that I had to wake up early today. Well, I was about to not go. But THEN, I was left with TWO OPTIONS, Going out or not going out. And shit, not going out sounded like the worst possible option. I no longer said to myself "I HAVE to go out" because I did not have to. I had all the right reasons to not go out and interact with women. Yet, I CHOSE to go. I PREFERRED to go. And it was so fucking nice to do it that way. It felt so fucking good... like I had much more control of myself and my actions. 

And it helped to realize to a deeper level that we do not HAVE to do anything. We can always CHOOSE. And we should always DO things because we CHOOSE to do them, or we PREFER to do them. It was so satisfying to go out having made that personal decision and with that last realization.

So, at the end I took a lot of action, BROKE THROUGH MY COMFORT ZONE, SUCCESS BARRIERS, AND LIMITING BELIEFS. And of course, I felt MORE AWESOME for being such a man of action.

I put myself a light jacket, and headed out to the dojo! I got back home at 3 AM. I worked on some stuff. And I went to sleep at 4AM. I just slept like 2 hours. And I did it because I LOVE THE GAME. I LOVE IMPROVING MYSELF. I LOVE SEEING HOW FAR I CAN PUSH IT. I LOVE TO BE A GO GETTER. I LOVE TO GO OUT AND GET WHAT I KNOW I AM WORTH.

It looks like I am not leaving this pickup thing in a long time.

Love it.

Peace!
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If you haven't yet, I bet you'd like books on success such as "mastery" and "talent code" and "the war of art".
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 @dave7- : Great books. So far I've only read Mastery by George Leonard. I've heard that Robert Greene's Mastery is good also. I'll start reading The War of Art on Monday then!

March 16

I did some approaches - street game at night. Nothing cool happened. Just some short interactions here and there. I did like 2 approaches or something.

I think I also got rejected... 

Then I went to a house party of international people. I just took some alcohol, had fun and a great time. The highlights were talking to a girl from Singapore, but then her chode friend took her away from me. And then well talking to a pretty hot Russian girl. Almost making out with a fucking ugly girl... probably like a 2 lol. Thanks God I did not make out with her... I am a horny bastard. I did kiss her neck though... ugh.

Then, at the end of the night, I talked to a 27 year old woman. It was quite funny lol. We danced and everything. I was about to isolate her and physically escalate on her like a bastard, but then the party ended and the hosts throwed us away like garbage... yeah lol.

Lessons
At parties, be social guy. Talk to everyone. Just talk to everybody and make friends. Just go around and talk. Laugh. Have massive fun. Dance and have fun.
Isolate them and escalate like a motherfucker!! But apparently with the 27 year old woman I had to escalte right then and there since it was the end of the night already and had to resort to beasting. She was sober and had just gotten to the party though. But whatever... I number closed her.

What can I do today in order to improve myself?
What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?
Just approach. Go the distance. Criteria for success is female energy and positive emotions.
DO IT!

I've got a nice seminar where a friend is inviting to talk. That's greaat!

So let's go self-actualize!

Peace!

I love my YOUTH!
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 March 17

Well I did some approaches... like 2 actually.

There weren't many girls.

But yeah that was it. 

3 Interactions with Lessons
1. I go wing my brother. When I start talking girl gets attracted to me. I speak loud, make eye contact, and lead. Girl was ugly and my brother was already leaving the set. So I left too. Lesson: Vocal projection, eye contact, lead. 
2. I approach a two set. It seems like it goes well. Yet my brother came in the wrong time. It really doesn't matter. I should've reapproached. Lesson: REAPPROACH.
3. I approach a lone girl. I tell her "Can I tell you something really quickly?". She says No. She stays there a little bit like waiting for me to say something. I get in my head though... and don't know what to say. Lost the opportunity like an idiot. She walks away. I guess I could've reapproached and actually LEAD the fucking interaction like a man. I could've also tell her "It's okay. The thing is I think you are cute so I had to come meet you". Lesson: Just pass the shit tests by saying "It's fine / It's cool". ENDURE the shit tests. REAPPROACH AND LEAD LIKE A MAN. FUN VIBE COULD HELP.

What can I do today March 17 in order to improve myself?
What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?
Just approach. Go the distance. Criteria for success is female energy and positive emotions.
DO IT!
ENDURE the shit tests. REAPPROACH AND LEAD LIKE A MAN. 
WOO + INTENT.

Peace
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March 17

Yeah so much pain that I am feeling!

I feel like I am just hanging in there! Last time this happened was back in December. Tough times!

But now I feel very positive. I guess that is because I listen to party music to pump up my state and feel awesome.

I think I am kind of disappointed or frustrated that I am not getting the results that I WANT! And I am also VERY outcome dependent in the field. I am ridiculously outcome dependent lol. So I guess I am going to lower my criteria for success to just approaching and that is it. And taking action as well. Plus a frame of getting the girl of course.

I did a couple of approaches today. 

Interactions with Lessons
1. I opened a 2 sitting set of ugly girls with my wing. I was free from outcome in this one. I went with my wing and told the girls "Do we look like a nice couple? We are looking for a foursome. Do you want to participate". She laughed and said no. I think it was a "yes but let's meet each other for a while first". I guess it was my mistake to walk away after a little bit of talking. Lesson: Flirt to flirt. And then fuck... lol.

2. I open a CUTE GIRL in a 2 set. DAMN SHE WAS CUTE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! WHYYYYYYYY?!?!?!?! haha what a little bitch. Anyways, I opened her, it kind of went well. But I could not handle the entrance of my wingman and its effect in the set. So yeah... I kinda lost it there. I guess I should've made it click in her reality. Kind of tough situation still. Hmm what could be the lesson in this one? Lesson: Handle the wingman entrance appropiately. Get back the girl's RAS. Make it CLICK in her reality. Endure tests.

That was it.

Yeah cool.

What can I do today March 18 in order to improve myself?
What would I do if I had a GUN to my head?
Criteria for success: just approach. Feel some feminine energy and positive emotions :)
ENDURE the shit tests. REAPPROACH AND LEAD LIKE A MAN.
WOO + INTENT.

Until next time.
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