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February 20 
Location:
 Jockey Plaza Mall
(5 approaches)

[u]3 approaches that stood out the most with Lessons


1. I approached a girl, touched her lightly in her arm, but it was a very half-assed touch. Girl got scared lol. Lesson: Half-assed opener is SHIT, especially when it involves some degree of physicality. It is way better to go OVERDO it, than going too soft. SO GO STRONG!

2. I approached a girl, this time I went strong and hit her on the arm. Got a better reaction. She was pretty old though haha. I chose to let her go... Lesson: Same as above. GO STRONG! FULLY COMMITED!

3. Cute girl. I also approached her by her side, touching her arm. I did very half assed though. She kind of freaked out a bit and was defensive. But she laughed and smiled when I told her she is cute. I was HIGHLY congruent and authentic as well. It seems like I've reached a high in this or something haha. Lesson: Being congruent HELPS  a lot. REAPPROACH! JUST DO IT! REAPPROACH! SEE WHAT HAPPENS.

Lately, my sticking point is that I let go girls that are attracted and that would stay if I reapproached them. I am losing many girls in this way... NOT GOOD!

So I MUST REAPPROACH! REAPPROCHING IS THE WAY TO GO!  LET'S DO IT!

Actually, I've had this sticking point for a long time, I guess now I am just really conscious about it.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- Ease the girls into staying with me. Address their needs, and bring her into my reality where it is all cool and we can all be social and lighthearted for a while. Tell them something like "Oh I know you have to go, I just want to get to know you a bit for a minute, you seem very positive". Make it easy and comfortable for them!
- REAPPROACH when I see a bit of signs of attraction. JUST DO IT!
- Take a look at the girl. Be very present and in the moment. And verbalize what I can assume about her based on her looks, vibe, etc. In other words, cold reads... :)
- GET REFERENCE EXPERIENCES. FEED MY BRAIN WITH A SHIT LOAD OF EXPERIENCES SO I CAN DISCOVER/RECOGNIZE PATTERNS AND REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE.
- ALWAYS BE CLOSING.
- LEAD. DARE TO LEAD PHYSICALLY. Especially when the situation demands it.
- MAN IN HER LIFE FRAME.
- Relax. Chill. STRONG LASER EYE CONTACT. Vocal Projection. Awesome body language. Let her talk. Friendly and Cool Breaking Rapport.
- Always ASSUME THE FRAME THAT I AM AWESOME, HAVING AN AWESOME DAY IN MY AWESOME LIFE, AND WANT TO SHARE THOSE POSITIVE EMOTIONS WITH A CUTE GIRL THAT I JUST SAW.
- STAY IN SET. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL. Have no filters. Express it all.

Weekly Goals
Going for the kiss: 0/5
Going for the isolation in sex location: 0/5


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February 21 - REDEMPTION

(8 approaches)

I FELT LIKE SHIT TODAY.

I approaches some sets at the mall. Then I went to the college campus near the mall... and then it was REDEMPTION.

I am kinda drunk right now and it is ALL a BIG BLUR!!! DAMN!!

3 sets that stood out the most with lessons

1. Girl at college campus. She was very attracted. Finally, I REMEMBERED how pickup is done. It went awesomely well. I got her number. I think I did everything well... Lesson: In order to remember how pickup is done, it is like you have to HOOK again. I had some time without hooking. Once you hook it is like you remember again how everything worked.
2. Blonde girl at college campus. Attracted but walked away. Lesson: REAPRROACH.
3. Girl at college campus. SUPER ATTRACTED. Yet, she had to go away, very hurried, I do not have her facebook now. Lesson: I guess I could have walked with her to where she went, given that I talked to her for a while. Then, MAKE HER INVEST HARD!

I am proud of myself for putting my brain to work even with some red wine... awesome. I am proud that I managed to remember some sets and even grab some lessons lol.

Really GREAT day today.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
REAPPROACH!
GO ALL OUT! INFINITE ENERGY MOTHAFUCKAS!
MAN TO WOMAN. MAN IN HER LIFE FRAME. I AM AWESOME FRAME AS WELL.
FUCKING LOVE IT ALL FUCK YEAH.

I FUCKING LOVE IT ALL. I LOVE THIS MOMENT.

WE SHOULD SAVE THIS MOMENT. 



I love Tyler's video on Dominating Yourself as well. AWESOME VIDEO.

Tomorrow I am also doing a MISSION with my brother. And it is called "BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THE EGO MISSION". OH FUCK YEAH. LET'S DO THIS.

That means... MASSIVE ACTION, A SHIT TON OF APPROACHES, AND ALWAYS GOING FURTHER IN THE INTERACTION, GOING FOR SEX!

NIHILISM! I WILL DIE ONE DAY. I WILL FUCKING DAY. IT DOESN'T MATTER WHAT I DO. SO I BETTER PUSH INTO SUCCESS AND LIVE A LIFE OF JOY AND PERSONAL FULFILLMENT. I BETTER TAKE HARD CORE ACTION THEN.

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February 22 - Winging and Fun

(Like 12 approaches)

I felt like shit again today lol. I didn't even want to approach at the beginning, but then it all changed :)

3 interactions that stood out the most with Lessons

1. One interaction in which I winged my brother. We went with a Canadian girl and her Peruvian female friend to get some drinks. My brother was with the Canadian girl. I was with the Peruvian girl who I ended up thinking that she was a pain in the ass lol. What I did is take her the fuck away from my brother and his girl and let the both of them be together without a cockblock. So it was funny because I had to distract the cockblock a lot, and then take her to the McDonalds, text my brother to take his girl away. I then told the Peruvian girl that I was going to the bathroom, but I went running to see my brother and the Canadian girl and tell them that the Peruvian girl went away lol. And yeah... pretty fun experience. Lesson: Think out of the box to put logistics in favor of wing.

The winging reminded me of this video lol:


2. 14 year old girl. Cute girl. I approached her. I stopped her really nice. I can't find her on facebook. Whatever... Lesson: When interacting with a wing, it is better if you really move the girl away from the wing so she is not hearing what the other guy says. In this set, however, she was holding her friends arm, so it was a bit hard to do it there. Anyways, in other cases, LEAD PHYSICALLY, grab her by the wrist or hand and pull her away a bit.

3. Japanese woman. I stopped her nicely. I should've fucked her at her hotel. She was going there. I should've gone with her and fuck her. Lesson: Fuck women. Just fucking walk with her or something, and somehow get in the hotel room. The worst thing that can happen is that I get rejected. The best thing that can happen is SEX PLUS FEELING LIKE I AM TRULY AWESOME BECAUSE I DECIDED TO TAKE ACTION AND BREAK THROUGH.

ALWAYS BE CLOSING! BIG FUCKING LESSON. BREAK THROUGH AND CLOSE! I learned that again today by letting a 22 year old girl that was pretty attracted to me walk away.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Always be closing.
Reapproach.
Have fun :)
Go ALL OUT! Infinite energy!
Go all the way to SEX! Think out of the box, and JUST DO IT. Realize that the worst thing that can happen is pretty much nothing.
Man to woman. Man in her life frame. I am AWESOME frame.

I got a day two this Sunday with a nice good looking sexy girl. I love that!

LOVE IT!

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February 24 - Not so much action

(3 approaches)

I liked hearing this today "Stop approaching... GET THE GIRL". Interesting. I've actually had that same thought over and over again over the past months, it might be that I am leaving a long plateau. I MUST PUSH FORWARD TO SUCCESS!

Lately I've been a lot of a pussy. I don't why... I've been getting some limiting beliefs, success barriers, fear of failure, and perfectionism. What the FUCK is that shit? I MUST BREAK THROUGH THOSE.

3 interactions that stood out the most (the only 3 sets) and Lessons
1. I scared the woman lol. I went a bit half assed, or caring too much about my self-image... I guess. I felt like shit as well. Lesson: Fully commit. Punch through the fucking wall. FORCE THE FUN.
2. Half assed again. Shitty approach. Lesson: the same as above.
3. Ugly girls. I failed to pump up my own emotions. I guess I did for a while. I started to self arouse just when I was about to leave. And I was quite lazy as well to go through the whole courtship with that ugly girl... Lesson: PUMP YOUR OWN STATE. The only criteria for success should be POSITIVE EMOTIONS and FEMININE ENERGY.

What can I do February 24 in order to improve myself?
FORCE the fun. Let go of self-consciousness and have fun.
Just lose my ego. Approach a lot. Break through limiting beliefs, success barriers, the "chode". Take action. The sky is the limit. There is no limits. Just say "FUCK IT ALL" and DO IT!
Always be closing.
Reapproach.
Go ALL OUT! Infinite energy!
Go all the way to SEX! Think out of the box, and JUST DO IT. Realize that the worst thing that can happen is pretty much nothing.
Man to woman. Man in her life frame. I am AWESOME frame.

I got a day two today. Seems good. I'll have some fun, and maybe play some air hockey with the girl lol.

I love it all :)

I wanna get laid as well. I reaaaaaally want to.

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February 24 - Day Two - Sexy & Cool Girl - MAKEOUT and awesome connection :)

(0 approaches)

Well I didn't approach a single set today. But I did get a day two, and a makeout. And it was AWESOME!

Girl is probably the cutest girl I've ever made out with. I am really proud of myself. She is a very social, sexy latin girl.

Fourth Day Two EVER - Make Out!

I loved this day two. I met with the girl. We went for a long walk around the mall. Finally we sat on the floor at a place where there is very few people.

So, we talk and talk. I actually played the questions game haha

I tell her that I want to kiss her. She says it is too soon. Anyways, I keep talking with her about life and stuff.

Then I go for the makeout. If I would've gone for her mouth right away, I would've gotten it. BUT, I pussied out and kissed her on the cheek. Then, I went for the kiss and she said that it was too early, too soon. So, I keep talking to her for a while. Then I go for the makeout again. She says it is too soon again. I tell her that it is fine, that nobody is watching, that is it cool/okay. I go again for the makeout, she is like "I don't know". I tell her again it is all cool, fine. And I go again for the makeout and GLORY!!!!!! 

We make out for a while. I enjoy it, try to get in the emotions of it. Then we talk for a while. After that I make out with her again. Really nice making out.

Then I go with her to play some air hockey lol. 

After that we walk holding hands around the mall. I realize that it is the first time that I ever walk holding hands with a girl. THANKS LIFE! And also one of the first times that I am going through the whole "lover / relationship" thing with a girl. Like... I think we really looked like a couple in a relationship. And it was really cool. I loved it.

I also wanted to fart several times. It was kind of awkward lol... there were some awkward moments. I wonder if she smelled one of my farts...

Well, ANYWAYS, it was a really great date.

I said goodbye to her. I kissed her gently on the lips. It was a great kiss. It left me wanting for more, and she probably felt the same. She was happy as well :)

She told me to keep in contact by cellphone. Sounds good. Maybe I'll see her Satudary at Miraflores, where I have better logistics to make love to her :)


Women want you as bad as you want them

Yeah. It is like girls are on your team. They are waiting for that guy. I AM that guy. I provide that service to the world, along with much more guys. 

And well, I want to keep improving myself to be MORE AWESOME, VERY FUCKING AWESOME. I am the COOLEST BADASS MOTHERFUCKER that ever walked the earth, now it is about being MORE AND MORE BADASS... THE BEST EVER.

There is no reason why I am not enough 

There really is NO REASON WHY I AM NOT ENOUGH. And I keep getting reference experiences that reinforce this belief. With this girl, pretty much all I did was being HIGHLY AUTHENTIC and CONGRUENT. That was pretty much it. Almost no game. I was just being myself. And she actually told me that. She said she liked me because I am very original, and few people are like that.


Realizing what really is to live life

Today, after my date, I was in the bus feeling incredibly thankful for such an awesome day. I am very thankful because I am getting to live life. I am going to die someday. It really doesn't matter what I do. But I guess it is infinite times better to actually go for the things that you want in life and live the AWESOME life. And if I am going to die, then I better take advantage of this ONE SHOT, ONE OPPORTUNITY to give my BEST every single day and accomplish what I am REALLY capable of doing.

In the bus, I was in a peaceful, happy state. Then I wanted to cry because I remembered that I was MISSING OUT on this a long time in my life. How could it be possible that I MISSED OUT for so long on holding a girl's hand and walking around with her, or making out with her, or feeling those emotions and going through a courtship process that would seem like "falling in love"? I realized this and felt very thankful. 

And THEN, something happened. As I was really happy in my own positive reality, I saw around me, the people sitting in the bus. And I felt like telling everyone that we are missing out on A LOT of things. I felt like "helping" other people to live a bit of the awesome things that I lived so far, and to go out and GET WHAT WE WANT, LIVE THE LIFE OF OUR DREAMS!

MY LIFE SITUATION - LOVING IT


I LOVE my life situation right now. It is the best, most awesome life situation ever. There are so many promising things going on. I have awesome friends with whom I even talk at some conferences about self-development. And it is great that I am doing this at 17. Like really, I even have the Network Marketing thing going on, pickup, diet, meditation, exercise, self-actualization, and now I am starting to get some girls here and there. THERE IS SO MUCH TO LOVE RIGHT NOW!

I LOVE IT!

I LOVE TAKING ACTION!!!!! I LOVE IT!!!!!

THIS IS SOOOOOO GOOD!

And well, there is hard times as well. Right now I was worried in the morning. There is a lot of stuff to take care of. But I am actually loving it, and taking action too :)


In the way you do anything, you do EVERYTHING

I am really noticing this again. I've been going through a period of massive success barriers and limiting beliefs, as well as A LOT of approach anxiety and outcome dependence. And I also think that it is because in many things that I do, I am kind of not really pushing forward or being as intense as I should be. And the thing is, I MUST GO ALL OUT WITH FULL INTENSITY IN ALL THE THINGS THAT I DO. HIGH QUALITY DOING ALWAYS. LET'S FUCKING DO THIS. INFINITE ENERGY MOTHAFUCKAS!

Like Bruce Lee says, if you put limits in one single thing, it'll spread over your whole life. SO FUCK LIMITS. NO LIMITS. EVERYTHING IS POSSIBLE. LET'S FUCKING DO THIS!

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Get more girls! Go all out!
Man to woman. Man in her life frame. 
Force the fun!
Reapproach girls. Do whatever is necessary to GET THE GIRL.
Always be closing.
Go all the way to SEX! Think out of the box, and JUST DO IT. Realize that the worst thing that can happen is pretty much nothing.
LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. GET MORE GIRLS.

Today I could see a bit more of what Tyler talks about in the vblog part of the video below.



Fucking awesome.

:)

Peace
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Tropicman definetly would be a pimp

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You are not missing out now.. you have lot's of awesome years to come ;)
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Thanks a lot guys! I love it that it is not only me that's improving, but also my brother and other wings. It is like really... we are all getting to the next level and it just shows the power of self-improvement and pickup. WE ALL ARE PIMPS BROS! Such a helpful community here... love it!

February 25 - Vibrant Health - Going All Out - High Energy and enthusiasm in the field

(Like 7 approaches)

What a fun day!

It is quite cool to offer value to the world.

Offering Value - "The more value you give, the more you get back"

"Outflow maximizes inflow. You want more, give more. No way around this shit."

I am realizing more that this is really about offering TRUE value to the world... to girls. 

I am starting to really see myself as someone sent by God or the Universe to make girls happy and have crazy adventures that make their lives much more emotionally intense and cool.

Like even making a girl smile on the street, what a nice thing. And what an amazing girl to meet a girl on the street, and date her. I am impressed that I am able to do that. 

And now I think that the better that you get at this, the more value that you are giving to the world. It makes me think of Tyler, how he says that he loves to give the girls the best time of their lives, and also giving his students the best bootcamp experiences ever. 

I can't wait to see the day when I get to a level in which I can meet a girl in the streets, and then end up making sweet love to her. Like, that would be giving someone a really awesome experience. It would be really nice...

Vibrant Health

I am really happy that I got awesome HDL, LDL results. It's great. I was pretty fucked up in that matter in December. Now I am healthy again! 

3 interactions that stood out the most with Lessons

1. Cute girl walking fast. I talked to her for a while. She was in a hurry. She was super attracted to me as well. But at some point I did not know what to say or do next. So I actually told her that I did not know what to say lol. I haven't found her on facebook yet. Lesson: Talk about / do anything. What do I WANT to do next? When she says that she has to go, just tell her to wait a minute, or say "Before you go..."
2. Girl with face. A girl walked by with a not so happy face. She was cute though. So I decided to approach her and see what happens. She was nice, but she walked away smiling. Lesson: REAPPROACH!!!!!! Come on!! JUST DO IT! Also, sometimes you just can't tell if a girl will be nice or not. The best thing is to just approach her and see what happens. Get reference experiences.
3. Dutch woman. She was going back to her hotel. She was a bit old. I guess I could've just gone for going with her to her hotel, at least walk with her to the hotel door just to get the reference experience. Lesson: Go all the way to sex! JUST DO IT! I don't have to fuck unattractive women, but it is just to GET THE REFERENCE EXPERIENCE OF GETTING CLOSER TO PULLING AND SEX.

What can I do today February 26 in order to improve myself?
- Get more girls! Go all out!
- Man to woman. Man in her life frame.
- Force the fun!
- Reapproach girls. Do whatever is necessary to GET THE GIRL.
- Always be closing.
- Go all the way to sex! JUST DO IT! I don't have to fuck unattractive women, but it is just to GET THE REFERENCE EXPERIENCE OF GETTING CLOSER TO PULLING AND SEX..
- LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. GET MORE GIRLS.

Peace
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February 27 - Keeping it up with the process!

(3 approaches)

I went very late to the dojo. Well, I still did my best.

3 sets with Lessons
1. Lone girl. It went fine. I think she was attracted, but kinda stifled. I ended up leaving. Bad. Lesson: Assume that all attention is positive. 4 No's Rule. Stay in set.
2. 3 Set. I went straight to a very cute girl and then talked to the whole group. Again the girls were attracted but a bit stifled. My target was more stifled and in her head. I ended up leaving. I guess I could go more light on them too haha. Lesson: Calibrate back to making the girls feel comfortable talking to you. Some nice compliments that do not go the other way. Also, it is great to have those girls in react mode but it is not quite good because they are just in their heads and don't speak much at all. Also, STAY IN SET. ASSUME ALL ATTENTION IS POSITIVE. Bring the girls into my awesome reality where it is all cool :)
3. Woman walking by. This one didn't even talked, she just laughed. She ended up leaving and crossing the street. Lesson: Find a way to really CAPTURE her RAS.

What can I do today February 27 in order to improve myself?
Get more girls!
STAY IN SET. ASSUME ALL ATTENTION IS POSITIVE. Bring the girls into my awesome reality where it is all cool :)
Make the girls feel comfortable with me.
GO ALL OUT! POSITIVE EMOTIONS AND ENERGY FOREVER!

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awsome man,keep going better things are coming
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