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February 16 - Pushing into GREATNESS

(Like 22 approaches)



I arrived at the Dojo. I approached and approached, and nothing hooked.

I kept approaching and PUSHING. Eventually, sets started to hook, and got some closes.

YEAH!

3 Sets that Stood out the most w/ Lessons

1. Shitload of sets in which I did cold reads to the girl or talked about the girl. These sets were the best. The girls actually STAYED there and they wanted to talk about themselves. Lesson: Talk about the girls at first. MOSTLY about the girls. Assume things about them and express them. Cold reads. Flirting.ç

2. Dutch Girl: SO HOT. Yeah I loved this woman / girl. I mean... she was much older than me but most women I approach are much fucking older than me FUCK YES. She was SUPER ATTRACTED. I went really Sasha style to the set. I even found myself acting like the guy lol... I don't even know why (I guess it was just because I saw an infield video of him some days ago and it stayed there in my brain). Really great set. I guess she was a "hahaha yes but no". Lesson: I guess this kind of shows how when you go super man to woman from the start, it is much better to keep the sexual tension by keeping myself chill/centered, staring at her with fun sexual eyes, and talking with strong laser eye contact... but I guess that not talking that much.

3. Argentinian girl. A bit similar to the interaction with the dutch girl. I approached STRONG, and then kind of let it fizzle out. Lesson: Same as above.

February 17 - Early Sunday Approaches

(4 approaches)

Kind of a lame day... I don´t even know which 3 sets stood out the most because they were all really short interactions and I don't know about which lessons I could've learned there.

I went very early to the mall.

3 sets that stood out the most and lessons

1. Approach in which I did not put myself in front. Lesson: Put myself in front. Stop her and get her fucking RAS. Otherwise she thinks you are just fucking with her and her stupid life. Express the AWESOMENESS. Don't hold it back! JUST POUR IT OUT! The frame should be that I am having an AWESOME day in my AWESOME life, saw a girl, and BAM I went to talk to her and share my awesomeness or offer some nice high quality value.

2. Interaction in which I did not re-approached. I could have reapproached some sets. I guess it was just one. She was smiling. I could have put myself in front of her and tell her that I could not go away before meeting her a bit. Lesson: When you see some smiles or even slight signs of attraction, REAPPROACH! This also applies to girls that are massively attracted of course...

3. Other interaction in which I did not re-approached or unapolegetically express myself and my intentions. Lesson: BE UNAPOLOGETIC. I am enough. There is no reason why I am not enough. Also, same lesson as above.

Wow, I can't believe I actually took out some lesson from today haha.

NICE!

I also sent a text message to a girl that I tought had flaked me. I sent her "Silly :P". And she texted me back giving me her email, telling me to find her on facebook. She is pretty sexy latin girl. Older than me as well ;)


What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- MAN IN HER LIFE FRAME.
- Relax. Chill. STRONG LASER EYE CONTACT. Vocal Projection. Awesome body language. Let her talk. Friendly and Cool Breaking Rapport.
- Always ASSUME THE FRAME THAT I AM AWESOME, HAVING AN AWESOME DAY IN MY AWESOME LIFE, AND WANT TO SHARE THOSE POSITIVE EMOTIONS WITH A CUTE GIRL THAT I JUST SAW.
- STAY IN SET. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL. Have no filters. Express it all.
- You never really know what is going to happen. GET REFERENCE EXPERIENCES. FEED MY BRAIN WITH A SHIT LOAD OF EXPERIENCES SO I CAN DISCOVER/RECOGNIZE PATTERNS AND REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE.
- ALWAYS BE CLOSING. ABC. ALWAYS BE CLOSING! GET INTO THE HABIT OF CLOSING GIRLS AND SEE WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENS. JUST GET THOSE REFERENCE EXPERIENCES TO REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE. FEED MY BRAIN WITH MORE EXPERIENCES SO THAT I CAN RECOGNIZE/DISCOVER MORE AND MORE PATTERNS AND SEE MORE OF THE SOCIAL MATRIX.
- LEAD PHYSICALLY. Just do it. Especially when the situation demands it.
- REAPPROACH whenever I see any sign of attraction. Or I guess, just fucking reapproach and see what happens lol.

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i've seen your in-field videos

you and campos look young. Have you tried other ways to game chicks? such as social circle or college campuses? OR hell, you guys look young, shouldn't you guys be in college?

It's cool that you guys are going out and approaching but is that the thing you guys should be focusing on? 
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i have a degree in industrial engineering from LSU already :P graduated when i was 20 thats why i was a social retard lol
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
i've seen your in-field videos

you and campos look young. Have you tried other ways to game chicks? such as social circle or college campuses? OR hell, you guys look young, shouldn't you guys be in college?

It's cool that you guys are going out and approaching but is that the thing you guys should be focusing on? 
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dcampo3 wrote:
i have a degree in industrial engineering from LSU already :P graduated when i was 20 thats why i was a social retard lol
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
i've seen your in-field videos

you and campos look young. Have you tried other ways to game chicks? such as social circle or college campuses? OR hell, you guys look young, shouldn't you guys be in college?

It's cool that you guys are going out and approaching but is that the thing you guys should be focusing on? 

you have an engineering degree and finished it at the age of 20?

that's very impressive, since engineering is probably the hardest undergraduate major. You probably took a shitload of AP science/physics classes in HS. Shit aint easy

you say you went to LSU, why did you return to latin america? And how is the job hunt going for you?
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I declined two jobs and basically quit on my degree  to join a network marketing program. Ima make some motha fucking money boy.
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:

dcampo3 wrote:
i have a degree in industrial engineering from LSU already :P graduated when i was 20 thats why i was a social retard lol
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
i've seen your in-field videos

you and campos look young. Have you tried other ways to game chicks? such as social circle or college campuses? OR hell, you guys look young, shouldn't you guys be in college?

It's cool that you guys are going out and approaching but is that the thing you guys should be focusing on? 

you have an engineering degree and finished it at the age of 20?

that's very impressive, since engineering is probably the hardest undergraduate major. You probably took a shitload of AP science/physics classes in HS. Shit aint easy

you say you went to LSU, why did you return to latin america? And how is the job hunt going for you?





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haha good question.

I will start college in April and study Business Administration. I finished high school last June, and so far it's been probably the best vacations I've ever had lol.

I am pretty EXCITED about the college I am about to go to. Great ranking in Peru, and pretty hot girls. I guess all of these months of vacations have been to build some social skills and understand girls much better, which I hope helps in college :)
ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
i've seen your in-field videos

you and campos look young. Have you tried other ways to game chicks? such as social circle or college campuses? OR hell, you guys look young, shouldn't you guys be in college?

It's cool that you guys are going out and approaching but is that the thing you guys should be focusing on? 
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February 18 - Going ALL OUT!

(Like 15 approaches)

Great day of approaching.

Waking the fuck up - Being Highly Congruent - Calibrating after every approach

My first three approaches were a good, quick demostration of WAKING THE FUCK UP. First, I approached a girl at the bridge, I just told her she was cute and then let her go away, because I just did not know how to make her stay... I was very in my head lol.

Then I approached another girl, and didn't put myself in front, and my voice was kind of shitty.

Then I approached the third girl, and I did put myself in front, and spoke with a much more social and enthusiastic/passionate mood. It was awesome, except that I ran out of things to say... like I did not know what to say about her, and didn't wanted to enter in interview mode.

But, at all times I was HIGHLY CONGRUENT. I guess I was REALLY FUCKING congruent and authentic. And I did some nice calibration after every approach to eventually wake the fuck up.

Three interactions that stood out the most and Lessons

1. Cute latin girl. I got her number. Probably a date as well. I was actually impressed at how well she responded to me. Very receptive girl. And it looked like she actually wanted to meet me, and was quite attracted. I was impressed, and actually surprised lol. Lesson: Be highly congruent really increases your probabilities of getting the girl. Adopting the frame that approaching is a normal yet at the same time crazy thing, and also a very PURE and NOBLE thing to do always is GREAT.

2. Old 40 year old sexy woman. I went to her. I was feeling very aroused. It was like a 30 second interaction. She was attracted though. Lesson: REAPPROACH when you see a bit of signs of attraction. JUST DO IT!

3. Cute girl. I did not get her number. Here is why... Lesson: It does not really help to emphasize the point that approaching a stranger is not normal. At least, it is good to mention it once, but then completely BRING her into your reality where being social is completely fine, cool, and normal.

What can I do February 19 in order to improve myself?
- REAPPROACH when I see a bit of signs of attraction. JUST DO IT!
- Take a look at the girl. Be very present and in the moment. And verbalize what I can assume about her based on her looks, vibe, etc. In other words, cold reads... :)
- GET REFERENCE EXPERIENCES. FEED MY BRAIN WITH A SHIT LOAD OF EXPERIENCES SO I CAN DISCOVER/RECOGNIZE PATTERNS AND REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE.
- ALWAYS BE CLOSING. ABC. ALWAYS BE CLOSING! GET INTO THE HABIT OF CLOSING GIRLS AND SEE WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENS. JUST GET THOSE REFERENCE EXPERIENCES TO REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE. FEED MY BRAIN WITH MORE EXPERIENCES SO THAT I CAN RECOGNIZE/DISCOVER MORE AND MORE PATTERNS AND SEE MORE OF THE SOCIAL MATRIX.
- LEAD. DARE TO LEAD PHYSICALLY. Especially when the situation demands it.
- MAN IN HER LIFE FRAME.
- Relax. Chill. STRONG LASER EYE CONTACT. Vocal Projection. Awesome body language. Let her talk. Friendly and Cool Breaking Rapport.
- Always ASSUME THE FRAME THAT I AM AWESOME, HAVING AN AWESOME DAY IN MY AWESOME LIFE, AND WANT TO SHARE THOSE POSITIVE EMOTIONS WITH A CUTE GIRL THAT I JUST SAW.
- STAY IN SET. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL. Have no filters. Express it all.

Weekly Goals
Going for the kiss: 0/5
Going for the isolation in sex location: 0/5


Peace
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You are 17 and approached 40 yo woman? :D Dude.. she could be your MOM :D
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@Me-vs-Me: hahaha yeah I guess I want a taste of milfs... thinking they could be my mom is a complete turn off though! :]

February 19 - Making the same mistakes again... Making the same mistakes again ;)

(4 approaches)



The title is influenced by the awesome lyrics of the song above, but I guess it has some meaning too.

GREAT DAY. I love feeling the pain, and somehow being completely DELUSIONAL that it's all going to be fine. And guess what? Somehow things DO turn out quite well. It is AMAZING. And as these things in life happen over and over again, I just reinforce the belief that "This too will pass", and that there is a great place or moment ahead. Sometimes life does feel like a test, or some strange phenomenon that pushes you around so that you can become the best you can ever be. 

And then, remembering the phrase "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate but that we are powerful beyond measure", I see the big picture for a while and zoom in the situation to take action. How awesome it is to have family, friends, close people that will help you when times get tough. 

"When you want something, the whole universe conspires to help you achieve it" - Paulo Coehlo

I love it. And I love life and it's challenges, and how you become stronger and more awesome as long as you keep pushing forward and take the hits. The rewards in emotional intelligence is what really makes me see the bright side.

3 approaches that stood out the most with Lessons

1. My last approach. Pretty great approach. Cute girl. Great eye contact. She looked at me first. I ejected the set... because I am a and did not actually ease her into staying with me. I coud see in her body language that she was attracted but was kind of in a hurry. Lesson: Ease the girls into staying with me. Address their needs, and bring her into my reality where it is all cool and we can all be social and lighthearted for a while. Tell them something like "Oh I know you have to go, I just want to get to know you a bit for a minute, you seem very positive". Make it easy and comfortable for them! 

2. Approaching girl outside the mall. Rejection. Lesson: I think I did everything right here. I guess that there was just no chemistry... I don't really know. Maybe it was just a matter of luck. 

3. Approach at the bridge. Girl smiled and went away. First approach. I should've REAPPROACHED! Lesson: When you see some slight signs of attraction, REAPPROACH!

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
-  Ease the girls into staying with me. Address their needs, and bring her into my reality where it is all cool and we can all be social and lighthearted for a while. Tell them something like "Oh I know you have to go, I just want to get to know you a bit for a minute, you seem very positive". Make it easy and comfortable for them!
- REAPPROACH when I see a bit of signs of attraction. JUST DO IT!
- Take a look at the girl. Be very present and in the moment. And verbalize what I can assume about her based on her looks, vibe, etc. In other words, cold reads... :)
- GET REFERENCE EXPERIENCES. FEED MY BRAIN WITH A SHIT LOAD OF EXPERIENCES SO I CAN DISCOVER/RECOGNIZE PATTERNS AND REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE.
- ALWAYS BE CLOSING. ABC. ALWAYS BE CLOSING! GET INTO THE HABIT OF CLOSING GIRLS AND SEE WHAT THE FUCK HAPPENS. JUST GET THOSE REFERENCE EXPERIENCES TO REINFORCE THE BELIEFS THAT I WANT TO HAVE. FEED MY BRAIN WITH MORE EXPERIENCES SO THAT I CAN RECOGNIZE/DISCOVER MORE AND MORE PATTERNS AND SEE MORE OF THE SOCIAL MATRIX.
- LEAD. DARE TO LEAD PHYSICALLY. Especially when the situation demands it.
- MAN IN HER LIFE FRAME.
- Relax. Chill. STRONG LASER EYE CONTACT. Vocal Projection. Awesome body language. Let her talk. Friendly and Cool Breaking Rapport.
- Always ASSUME THE FRAME THAT I AM AWESOME, HAVING AN AWESOME DAY IN MY AWESOME LIFE, AND WANT TO SHARE THOSE POSITIVE EMOTIONS WITH A CUTE GIRL THAT I JUST SAW.
- STAY IN SET. POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL. Have no filters. Express it all.

Weekly Goals
Going for the kiss: 0/5
Going for the isolation in sex location: 0/5


Peace
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