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January 6 - More Dating Opportunites... with girls I had already approached before :)

(3 approaches)

I did like 3 approaches total but I also talked to 3 girls that I already knew and had number closed or facebook closed. It was funny lol. And they were pretty receptive lol. That shit was nice. It was like I didn't even had to approach for like one hour because I found this girl, talked to them, had some positive emotions and felt the energy. Quite nice haha

CZ #1: Approaching girls when I got out from the gym. I just throwed myself in there, and told the girl she was cute. I should've stayed there, give a false time constraint. But well, I did next time so that's cool.
CZ #2: Approaching girl I had my first instant date with, who was with her boyfriend. Funny that I thought this girl had "flaked" me. But she was super nice and attracted. Too bad she was with her boyfriend (who wasn't even paying attention so I guess it doesn't count), but she is also going to Guatemala tomorrow, so yeah fucked up logistics hehe
CZ #3: Approaching girl I facebook closed like a month ago. It looks like I might go on a date with this girl on Monday. 
CZ #4: Telling a girl with boyfriend/brother and mom that I thought her shoes were nice. lol
CZ #5: Approaching two girls at the street outside of a bar. Trying to hold her hand and lead her, it was a bit uncalibrated lol, plus I hadn't really landed the plane... although I was getting close. It was funny. This approach showed me how important it is to make eye contact, and also use the girl's name. Although, I used her name a lot haha, but I was just amusing myself :P

Girls that "flaked" or "rejected" you

Well it seems like I might just suck a bit at texting and calling girls, and I might put a bit too much pressure on them or something lol. And also the logistics were tough for some of the girls lol... I guess. But I found three of these girls at the mall today. And all of them were super attracted. First, I found the one I had an instant date with. It was a great interaction. Then like 30 seconds after that, I found the "cute black haired girl" that I number closed like more than a month ago and got all cherishy and shit and fucked it up lol. Well, I saw her this time but I wasn't really that attracted. This time I said hi to her parents and introduced myself. I also looked at this girl and I didn't even think she was that cute lol. She also got quite close to me when I was talking to her. It was nice. It looked like she was quite attracted. Yet, I don't know if I made her invest her ego in some way. I guess that her getting close might have been enough, or I don't really know. I could've said, "What is my name?". Anyways, I tried to set up a date there. It looks like I might have a date with her on Monday, although it is not for sure. That would be cool though. The third girl was one I had facebook closed some time ago. This time I did make her invest a bit right off the bat by asking her what my name was. Funny. I asked her what she was going to do on Monday. She suggested going for lunch before she went to work. I hope I can get that one. That'd be nice as well. So I gotta give my best and forget the rest. And also realize that I have NONE of these girls. Realize that right now I am pretty much in the same place I've always been. I don't have ANY of these girls, so there is NOTHING TO LOSE, AND A LOT TO WIN. 

Realization about Girls that "flaked" or "rejected" you

So the key realization here is that these girls were all pretty nice and that it didn't really matter that they turned down dates or didn't answer messages or anything. What truly matters is that I am a naturally attractive guy, and they are attracted to that, however they need to feel comfortable going out with you. And so, I guess that in that case in comes down to taking care of the "Michael", and also making her do some emotional or ego investment so that she actually WANTS to go on a date. Great. Oh yeah and I could also realize that thanks to some experiences I had the last couple of days, in which I talked to a blonde girl that had rejected my make out at a party like 3 weeks ago and ran away with her friend lol. And also another experience of saying happy birthday to the "Chode Days One itis girl" on her facebook wall, and her saying thank you and that kind of stuff. And... she didn't answered to the private messages I sent her some weeks ago lol. Funny. Interesting. And hammers the realization :)

I love getting reference experiences that reinforce the beliefs that I want to have... lol :)

The Habit of Breaking Through the Comfort Zone

The last couple of days, it's been much easier for me to break out of my comfort zone. It's like I am creating a habit out of it, and I might not need much willpower to do it. Seems awesome. I also think that my comfort zone might have expanded, because there are some stuff that I kind of think about doing that do make me quite afraid and I don't even really consider doing lol. Like for example: approaching a girl with her scary looking boyfriend, making out with a girl in front of her parents lol, etc. 

And well, I guess that the key thing about breaking through the comfort zone is to actually WANT to do it. Like, you truly want to do it deep down inside, and so you decide to do it. I guess... that might be. But maybe it is not. Whatever... hahaha

Maybe it is just me making some excuses that will lead me to just chill and do nothing. LAME!

So, for now I'll just focus on BREAKING THROUGH  MY COMFORT ZONE!

A New and Better Me

Today, I think I got to the "culmination" of finally believing that I don't suck, and that I am really fucking awesome. And not only that I am awesome, but that I am really worthy. Very worthy. And I am completely enough, just the way I am. I've stopped being hard on myself for "what is". I was resisiting "what is". Ridiculous. And well... looking at it, "what is" is actually not bad at all, and kinda good :)

The thing is, the last months, I've been getting crazy reference experiences where I create connections with girls that I just met in the middle of the street, or I have girls getting quite attracted to me, or I approach girls in the middle of the street and have a man to woman interaction with her and go for the makeout or carry and spin her around. And I think that I've gotten to a point where I am finally completely convinced that I've changed, and I don't really suck anymore. Also, when I compare myself with kids of my age... well I realize it even more hehe. But, letting alone comparison, the thing is that I've really improved myself, can really see it, and love it. And it just makes me love myself more.

<3

Thank you so much everybody that's helped me.

And well guess what?

Like Duck from the forums said: "WHEN YOU THINK YOU'VE DONE ENOUGH, YOU NEED TO DOUBLE THAT TO GET HALF THE SUCCESS!" 

FUCK YEAH. 

So I am putting a new goal here:

NEW GOAL: BECOMING AN ADULT
By March 13, 2013, the day in which I turn 18 years old, I must have dated (Day 2) five different girls, and isolated two girls in sex location (could be at different times or at the same time) :D

Plan to achieve that goal
Do as much CZ Breakers as I can throughout the whole day. Always be pushing myself to meet a girl anywhere. And always break through my comfort zone. And always aim to expand the comfort zone more and more, and peel away those layers of the Approaching Onion hehe. I think pretty much the same I've bee doing these last days, but let's try to make this much more conscious and one of my main aims in this.

What can I do after I wake up in 9 hours in order to improve myself?
CZ Breakers. Go deeper with it. Break through that comfort zone.
Set up date with "cute black haired girl" and the other girl I facebook closed like a month ago. Also, set up a date with the girl I facebook closed like 3 days ago.
Use the girl's name in the interaction :)



Peace
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 January 6 - Going for the dates... LET'S MAKE IT HAPPEN!!

(4 approaches)

CZ #1: Trying to set up a bunch of dates lol. I am still trying to make it happen though hehe.

CZ #2: Going to a girl in a mixed 3 set. I should've stayed in there, and told her that I wanted to meet her. I MUST DO THAT ALWAYS.

CZ #3: Going to a girl in another mixed 3 set. I also should've stayed in there, ask the guy if she was her girlfriend, and if she wasn't then tell her that I want to meet her.

Yep. I gotta aim to be more clear in my intent, and do what I actually want to do, and be who I want to be :)

Lesson

Well I've been learning a lot of lessons with the book "How to win friends and influence people" by Dale Carnegie. And I've been applying those concepts. It's quite awesome :)

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
CZ Breakers. Always. As much as I can. CZ Breaker Lifestyle.
Use the girl's name in the interaction :)
TWO MINUTE MARK!! :D

Peace.
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 January 7 - Got a date for tomorrow - Having fun - Removing Success Barriers in Financial Area of Life

(3 approaches)

CZ #1 and 2: Accusing a girl of picturing me naked. Then, after that, I sat with her. It was quite a funny interaction. I was amusing myself while stepping out of my comfort zone lol.

CZ #3: Approaching a girl in a mixed 3 set. I went half-assed and didn't stop her lol.

CZ #4: Approaching cute girl in a 3 set. She was quite cute and had an amazing ass. I put in front of her, she smiled, and kept moving. I stop her successfully. But then she moves again. And I let her go, oh no! I was so close to landing the plane in that interaction. I think all I needed to say was something like "Don't worry they are not going to leave without you", since I saw that she didn't really know what to do because her friends were still walking. And also capture all of her RAS by completely squaring up. 

Oh and it looks like I have my first day two ever tomorrow. Pretty great huh? I'll go have fun and try to turn off that part of my brain of "game theory" and stupid bullshit like that. 

Lessons / Concepts Reinforced
Think out of the box to take care of the "Michael" and the girl's preocupations
Today I also had the realization that I can be a millionaire. I always had success barriers here. I didn't really believe I could become a millionaire. But now I know that it is possible. I've slowly removed that success barriers. Today it all just clicked in my brain, and I told myself "I CAN!". So, I will take massive action to have awesome financial freedom :)

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
CZ Breakers!
Keep pushing. Land the plane!! Doesn't matter if the landing is rough or smooth, just land the plane!
Go to the date. Aim to just have fun and be lighthearted :)

Peace :)
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hey tropical man how do you daygame so consistently?? can u drive?
yo the reason i can't make a FR journal is cuz i go out like weekends when my mom just leaves me at the mall for 8 hours.... but weekdays is hard lol.
oh and PROPS to you for the paleo diet!! I love that shit...
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 @orangeohjay: Wat sup man? Here in Costa Rica I walk to a decent mall that is like 700 meters from my house. In Peru, I take a bus for like one hour to get to the mall lol. And when I do nightgame, my brother and I spend like two hours in public transport haha. It's a great time to listen to audiobooks haha. I understand your situation with the FR. Getting a wingman would help a lot. But what would also help is just going out whenever you can and make your best effort to approach. When I started doing daygame and approach anxiety was strong as fuck, something that helped me a lot was thinking that my only criteria for success was just stepping out of my house and going to the mall. And yeah the paleo diet is pretty awesome, love it too haha. Well, hit it hard, and good luck mate!

January 8 - FIRST DAY TWO EVER - Good People shouting things to me at the mall - Last Day in Costa Rica - PURA VIDA

(1 approach)

Well, being in Costa Rica was definitely an AWESOME experience.

Seriously, I had a FANTASTIC time. I had lots of fun with myself and my brother lol. I still remember those days when I went to the mall for 3 hours every day. Crazy. Awesome experiences!

First Day Two Ever - Thank you everybody

I had an awesome time going to this Day Two with a cute girl I met like a month ago. It was quite fun. I guess there was not much of a man to woman frame, which means I have to make that initial interaction as much man to woman as I can in order to have better day twos in the future. 

I met her at a Taco Bell. I told her to go to the mall that is near. Then I told myself "fuck it", and I told her I had a better idea which was drinking something at the pool of my condo and enjoy the sun. She came up with some objections. I handled some. Then she came with some more. And I just agreed to go to the mall with her lol.

I think in the end, I had a good connection with her. I really enjoyed her company. And it makes me think that if I enjoyed today's date, then I would really enjoy much more fucking a girl or having a strong man to woman relationship with a girl. And I could really imagine/feel the pleasure and pure positive emotions of that.

When I was walking her back to her day job, at one point, I had a moment of awareness. I saw the girl, heard her voice, felt her feminine energy, and the positive emotions in the air. And in that moment, I was completely thankful, and even shocked at seen that I've improved myself so much that I've gotten to a point where I can walk with a cute girl. When I approached girls at the mall, I always saw men walking or dating cute girls, and I asked myself how cool would it be to be with girls like that. I always told myself that. In my lower consciousness moments, I felt very jealous of these guys lol. BUT, most frequently, I felt inspired, and I knew that if they can date girls like that then I surely can too. So, I am very thankful, and feel very happy for myself.

Moreover, another realization that I had is how much I've improve myself. Really. The only reason I had this first date is because I was ready for it. Or at least, I was ready to break out of my comfort zone and do this. I think Tyler said "Everything happens for a reason. And the Game will give back to you when you are ready". And I thought about that and how true it is. Like really. The growth I've had in a year is huge. I can finally be with a girl. Geez. On the other hand, a year ago I was a complete chode. And now I can actually do things like this. It is so awesome. I love it.

And it is funny that this girl actually mentioned me approaching her and stuff, and also that she saw me on sunday talking to some American people. I lied. And I told her I already knew them, and made up a small and vague story. I think she just chose to believe that haha

Also, some hours ago, she posted on my wall wishing me a good trip to Peru, and used an inside joke haha. Nice :D

Good People Shouting Things to me at the mall

I approached a two set. I got the girl quite attracted to me. I think I had landed that plane lol. However, all of a sudden, a small boy comes to the set and whispers something to the girl on her ear. Then, I see a group of people walk by, calling me by my name. And I recognize them, they are the 7 set I approached three weeks ago! Anyways, they leave, and I tell the girl that the small boy probably told her about me talking to them or some crazy shit like that. Anyways, she was okay with everything, and didn't leave, which showed a lot of attraction. So I keep there. I just take her name and tell her I'll add her on facebook. I haven't found her yet lol. I am leaving tomorrow anyways.

Now, the funny part: After that approach, I walked upstairs, and passed by that group of people I had approached three weeks ago. When I walking away, I hear some of them shouting some stuff, and I know it wasn't really good stuff lol! I just smile and laugh it off haha

Pretty funny.

Good thing I am going to Peru tomorrow haha. It seems like I did my work pretty well at the mall here. The last days I've been meeting a lot of people I've approached before hahaha

Nice!

CZ #1: Going to the day two.
CZ #2: Telling the girl in day two to grab some drinks at the pool in my apartment and enjoy the day.
CZ #3: Approaching a two set. I kind of felt the chode but I still did it. And then I had to walk through the mall with the discomfort of having potential cockblockers around me.

Lesson / Concepts reinforced

Sometimes girls don't really give a fuck about you approaching people, girls, or anything. They just feel attracted, and choose to believe things in order to keep liking you :)

What can I do in January 9 in order to improve myself?
Approach in Jockey Plaza!!!! Yaaay!!
CZ Breakers! :D
Stay in set. Land the plane! Be lighthearted and persistent!
Use the girl's name in the interaction :)

LOVE IT!

THANKS YOU BRO, RSD, FAMILY, GOD, LIFE, EVERYTHING!

THANKS!

I love it!

GREAT SONG BELOW!

Peace!

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 January 9 -Back in Peru - Approaching at the Jockey Plaza again

(4 approaches)

So I am back in Lima, Peru. And I love this place. At various moments, I felt really thankful and awesome. I felt very comfortable as well. Awesome emotions. Or... emotions of awesomness.

Alright so I had some blowouts today a well, which is totally cool. And my selective memory is working awesome giving that I am focusing pretty much in the positive experiences, and I almost do not remember the bad ones. I think I've gotten quite good at this. Just learning the lesson from the blowouts, and forgetting about them.

I only kind of hooked one set. The last one. A 4 set of girls. I talk to one of them and tell her she is cute. I stay there. She doesn't talk that much really, looks shy or a bit in her head. Anyways, I am talking to her, and then one of her friends comes and I talk to her. She wasn't that cute. And well, that is pretty much it. I didn't really want to close, but I guess I should've done it in order to get the reference experience and another Day Two. Yeah, that would've been a good decision I guess.

All of my approaches were CZ Breakers lol. Yep.

Lesson: Focus on the MAGIC - Being Innocent

I think one of the things I was doing wrong today was going all hardcore balls and shit and just getting shit done. Now, it is great to get shit done; however, today I think I was doing it the wrong way in the sense that I forgot about the MAGIC in the emotions and vibe of the interaction. which means that I wasn't much of an innocent person. So, it is very important to focus on the magic, the emotions, the vibe, the subcommunication, my own emotions, and see this as a very pure thing to do. Because really, approaching an unknown girl that you like is a very pure thing to do. It is a magical thing. So, I think that I should focus more on that innocent side of myself, be a nice guy that spikes some negative emotions here and there, thus EXPAND MY PERSONALITY. And yeah, pretty much get immersed in the MAGIC of the mating dance :)

WOO + INTENT

I need to focus more on having fun. Just fucking dancing and jumping around, cracking some jokes with my brother or wings. And then, in that fun mood, approach the girl, be innocent, and have no filters. Tell her really what I think about her, or what goes through my mind, or that I want to meet her, etc. Have an alignment in my thoughts, words, and actions.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
CZ Breakers: Always break through any success barriers and that feeling in my stomach. ALWAYS. Go for it, and see what happens. Get the reference experiences.
Expand my personality: Be innocent and focus on the magic of the interaction.
Have fun, dance, laugh, and joke around. When interacting with women, have no filters, POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL!
Use the girl's name in the interaction.

Peace!
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 January 10 - Aiming to go back full circle to innocence... at a higher level
 
(7 approaches) 

Today was a much better day than yesterday, in the sense that I took more action, had more fun, focused on being less intimidating and more innocent, and pretty much tried to achieve the goals I set for today.

Pretty awesome day.

So my CZ Breakers were all approaches lol. I actually had to break through my comfort zone to just approach, which is fine.

I talked to some pretty fucking cute chicks as well. I am glad I did that. :D

Lesson: Honest, High Value, and Innocent Compliments

I saw one of my wings approaching so smoothly, and it pretty much showed what I had to do. He pretty much goes in there, stops the walking set, and offers a nice high value compliment.

I did this with one woman. My stop was still kinda strong, but I managed to tell her that I liked her style as she was walking away. And when I told her that, I saw the nicest, most authentic smile on her face. It was pretty awesome.

So I'll keep focusing on that tomorrow. Hopefully I'll do some nightgame yay! :D

What can I do after I wake up in 9 hours in order to improve myself?
- CZ Breakers: Always break through any success barriers and that feeling in my stomach. ALWAYS. Go for it, and see what happens. Get the reference experiences.
- Expand my personality: Be innocent and focus on the magic of the interaction.
- Give honest, high value, and innocent compliments. (NEW)
- Have fun, dance, laugh, and joke around. When interacting with women, have no filters, POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL!
- Use the girl's name in the interaction.

Alright!
 
I love this haha

I really love when I hit a plateau or something, and then I brainstorm ways to improve and break through the plateau. In a more extreme case, I also love when I am suffering because of some girl/results/frustration or something, and then I say to myself that "this too will pass", things will get much better, and that I must take massive and commited action in order to improve the situation. 

Pretty awesome.

Peace :)
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 January 11 - HITTING IT HARD INTO STATE AND AWESOMENESS - I FEEL GREAT

(Like 15 -20 approaches)




Getting the Reference Experiences: Getting back full circle at it

So the last couple days I've been kind of in terms of breaking out of my comfort zone. I've been outcome dependent, and did not really see the value of doing an approach. But then, the concepts of one of Julien's videos of references experiences started getting in my head, and I started repeating again and again to myself "Get the reference experiences". And the lesson that I've learned from this is that you never really know what is going to happen, and that you should ALWAYS go for those reference experiences. And, if you are really insecure about what the outcome might be, just approach to get the reference experience of breaking through your comfort zone.

And so, with this mindset, I did a shit ton of CZ Breakers. A SHIT TON. I was having so much fun. At a certain point, I reached STATE hard. I felt drunk and awesome. And right now while writing this, I find it awesome how I got really turned on by my actions. I went to some sets, got rejected or ignored, but I didn't really care. And I mostly cared that I broke through my comfort zone. Because I did some really fucking hard sets. A six set sitting at a table in Kentucky was one, I got ignored lol. Then there was a mixed three set. I am scared of mixed sets in Peru lol. But I went to the blonde girl in this mixed set, I told her that I really liked her style. And then I saw the guy and the other girl, and they were attracted to me lol. The blonde girl was SUPER ATTRACTED. I had a slight mind fuck. And then I left lol. SHIT! I must stay in those sets and tell them that I want to meet the girl for a little while.

AND AS I DID THOSE CZ BREAKERS OVER AND OVER AGAIN, I REALIZED THAT I WAS NOT GOING TO DIE! 

Brazilian Girl

There was a very cute woman sitting alone. I decided to approach her, even though I felt the chode inside and thought I was going to get rejected. To my surprise, she was really nice and talkative. And I found out she was from brazil. She was beautiful. And I was afraid of making moves because of fucking it up. Yeaah. Sucks a bit huh? But I still LOVE getting this reference experience. I LOVE IT. And it showed me how you never really know what is going to happen, so you must go and take action.

I talked to her for like 15 - 20 minutes. I think the frame wasn't really man to woman, but well... I gotta hone that skill!

French Girl

I see a girl walking by herself. I feel the chode. I still go and approach her. I find out she is french. I take her to buy some cigarettes. She said she had broken up with her boyfriend. Nice. I kept walking with her. She said she was at a bar with her friends. Her logistics were kinda bad too. I should've found out until when she is staying and then close. I MUST FIND OUT ABOUT LOGISTICS AND CLOSE!

And also, strenghten that man to woman frame with her, which I did from time to time giving her compliments that expressed my liking for her. But I should've also stopped her, look her in the eyes, and tell her something like "Je t'aime" while hugging her. That would've been funny lol.

Peruvian Girls!!

Yep! Getting some NICE reference experiences with Peruvian girls. What I am seeing about this girls is that when they are attracted to you, they really want to feel in comfort with you and trust you and know that you are not a rapist. And so they ask questions about who are you with to make sure you are not some random drug dealer walking by himself or something like that. And I found that amusing lol. AWESOME!!!!!!!!

I facebook closed a pretty cute Peruvian girl. IT WAS AN AWESOME APPROACH. Really great. I loved it. I think I was a fucking boss in that approach. But also, I think I could've improved the approach by making her invest emotionally a bit more. Like I could tell her "What is my name?" and that would've been enough. Also, I let her go before making the plans right THEN AND THERE!!! WOOPS! And while she was walking away, I tried to make those plans. But well... I already added her on facebook, I'll see if she accepts lol. 

Then, like at 2 AM, I stopped a two set. At this point of the night my goal was getting instant make outs lol. So I think my intent got strenghtened by this hahaha. It was so awesome!!! And I got really close to getting a makeout with one Peruvian girl. I said all kinds of things to get the makeout, and deal with her Michael. But... yeah, I was very close to get the instant makeout. She wanted to go dance with me to a club. But the club had entrance cost and I probably wouldn't get inside because I am 17. Anyways, that was SUPER COOL!!!! YEAAAAAAH! 

Giving Value/Love to People and Friends and Making them feel great

This is AWESOME. Thank you Dale Carnegie, for your awesome lessons!

Lesson / Concepts Reinforced
- Girls that really like you will find reasons to keep liking you and trust you, and feel more comfortable with you. I think this is where the power of being innocent and awesome comes in, and they start to calm down and feel more comfortable with you. Being innocent and loving is such an important thing. 
- Always go for the reference experiences because you will never know what will happen. Also because taking action is the top one criteria for success, breaking through comfort zone is a top criteria for success as well. And another reason to get the reference experiences is also that at least by taking action, you are getting the reference experience and habit of taking action and breaking through your comfort zone no matter what. 

:D 

I LOVE LIFE!!!!! YAY!

What can I do today in order to improve myself?
- Get as much reference experiences as I can. Make as much CZ Breakers as I can.
- CZ Breakers: Always break through any success barriers and that feeling in my stomach. ALWAYS. Go for it, and see what happens. Get the reference experiences.
- Expand my personality: Be innocent and focus on the magic of the interaction.
- Give honest, high value, and innocent compliments.
- Have fun, dance, laugh, and joke around. When interacting with women, have no filters, POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL!
- Use the girl's name in the interaction.

AWESOME!

I am going to a fantastic meeting with my awesome friends and wings right now, and have some fun and enjoy life :D

Thank you everyone <3

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Nice keep breaking your comfort zones gradually you will be rewarded for doing this
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 @Van wilder: thanks man, can't wait to get those rewards! Actually, I can already feel those rewards within myself as a sense of happiness and awesonemess that comes from being in this journey to mastery :)

January 12 – Beasting – Physicality – Presence – Awesomeness :D

(Like 40 approaches)



I did a shit ton of approaches lol. I approached for like 5 hours or something. Hardcore.

I did a bunch of CZ breakers as well. Pretty cool.

At a certain point of the night, I was completely present and grounded in my energy as a man. I also approached with a hard boner, and it was awesome.

I went for three kiss closes, pretty much insta-makeouts. I got close, but still didn't quite get them lol. So close... yet so far :)

The first one was super funny. I approach a girl outside the clubs. She is pretty cute, and has a nice dress showing her sexy body. I tell her “Can I ask you a question?” She laughs. And I say the following comment, I walk in closer towards her making eye contact, “Would it be stupid if I tell you that you are cute?” Then I give her the spin and hug. I hold her close to me. I give her a kiss on the cheek. And then I don’t know how to deal with her saying that she has to leave with her friends. And I let her leave, oh no!

I also had two quick interactions where I hugged the girl, and KIND OF went for the kiss. But I didn’t really go for the kiss. I guess I didn’t really went fully committed to it.

So, some notes to improve instant make-outs:
- STRONG eye contact.
- Allow myself to completely feel those strong emotions of attraction and arousal within me while I am making that strong eye contact.
- Aim right at her lips and move straight towards it.
- Have an authentic smile :) 
Also, the last couple of days I’ve had opportunities in which the girls I go for the makeout want me to go with them to a venue. Now, these girls are not really cute actually, and they kinda look like… well not that classy as I like girls to be. They are completely FINE though. But anyways I guess that what I’ll do next time is: GO WITH THEM TO THOSE VENUES AND THEN PULL THEM TO A NEARBY HOTEL.

Some notes on how to improve opening with physicality:
Put my arms around the girl's waist. Interact with her in that position, close to her, making strong eye contact and being as present as I can be. Sounds nice :)

I also went to a fatty older woman and told her that she was sexy, and kept telling things related to that, and touched her hair and that kind of stuff lol. But I failed to beat the test that she was waiting for her boyfriend. I even got scared of it lol. But I should actually use that to my advantage, say something like "Oh let's kiss fast then" haha.

Lesson / Concepts reinforced
Fun, presence, and a clear intent gives you a better chance to get the girl. BE THE PARTY! 
Oh and also having a lot of fun and being physical works AWESOME!!! It works reallly FUCKING GREAT lol. I am impressed by that haha

January 13 - Pushing it hard to get those reference experiences

(5 approaches)

I did some hard sets lol. I approached a girl at a store with her mom. I went all out. I was like "Fuck my ego. Let's do this". It was funny that the daughter got scared, while the mom smiled and laughed lol. I wasn't expecting that AT ALL. 

However, looking back at that approach, I should've gone more lighthearted, confident, and not asking for permission at all, while maintaining the nice and innocent frame.

The other approaches showed me that I should definitely stay in set and push with lighheartedness.

Lesson / Concepts reinforced
Sometimes sets can be quite unpredictable lol. So, get the reference experiences. Go and see what happens!

What can I do in January 14 in order to improve myself?
STAY IN SET and persist with lightheartedness. Lightheartedly apply the Four No's Rule :)
If the girl smiles and walks away, run and get in front of her again hehe

Be innocent!
Pour out the heart and soul.
Focus on the MAGIC and purity of meeting an interesting girl. Be in touch with those emotions of arousal. Allow myself to feel them completely.
Eye contact.
Use the girl's name in the interaction.

The first two are quite important to apply tomorrow.

Peace :D
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