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 December 30 - Some Daygame - New Year's Resolutions

(3 approaches)

So I went out today to the mall again. 

I felt anxiety at first.

I don't know what is going on with my approaches, maybe it is a lack of persistence, I could definitely be more persistent and truly apply the 4 No's rule. 

I guess there are lots of external factors as well... but also I must learn to deal with all of that and be successful.

Well anyways, it was a good day of approaches, following with the process, and trying to improve myself and get girls. 

In one approach I went to a 15 year old. She was pretty cute lol. But I think she might have gotten a bit uncomfortable by the fact that I look much older than her. Weird. I don't know what went on there. I guess I could've said something like "That's cool we can be friends"...

Whatever...

2012 : The Noble Hero Wakes Up

What an AWESOME YEAR!

MASSIVE ACTION. 

Probably one of the best years of my life. I got three make outs this year. Girls were okay... I guess. But the thing is that I started making out with girls whereas two years ago I had never make out with a girl. And this year was great thanks to pickup, RSD, and Eckhart Tolle :)

Yeah. In February, when I discovered Eckhart Tolle and learned about being present, I think that pretty much saved my life and helped me go through heavy academic times. I solidified my friendships. I finally had friends lol. Male friends, and female friends. Pretty awesome. That was something new lol. Then, in April I discovered RSD, which pretty much changed my life completely for the better. Now, I find myself doing the Paleo diet, going to the gym 3 times a week, doing meditation 20 minutes a day, and going out every day to approach girls. My life has changed A LOT. I am doing things that I would've never thought of. And it's been an awesome year full of crazy stories. It's also pretty cool that my brother got into this. That was PRETTY FUCKING GREAT actually. And the benefits I've gotten from that are... a lot lol. 

What a great fucking year. I even went to Peru for like 5 months and met great people, went to the mall to do daygame every day, bonded more with my family that I hadn't seen in years, I graduated from high school, I went to the best clubs in Lima, I also travelled to Cuzco and Puno within Peru and went to the nice clubs there filled with tourists. Yeah, it was so damn awesome. 

What a great year, seriously. I am getting kind of emotional here lol... just by remembering how great this year has been. There were some goals that I did not accomplish, but I am pretty glad that I gave it ALL, I did my BEST, and those goals set me in the right direction.

Seriously, what a GREAT FUCKING YEAR. And thanks to everybody that's supported to me really. I thank my brother especially, what a badass... that guy.

Crazy.

Anyways, here are the resolutions for next year....


2013 The Prelude of Glory: Beginnings of the Legend and his Legacy

Alright, 2013!!! YEAAAAH!

A new year, and a new set of goals. This year will be fucking glorious, you know why? Because the goals ARE FUCKING AWESOME AND GLORIOUS.

2013 Goals:
Build abundance of women. Have sex with 5 different girls.
Have a single digit body fat. Weigh 120 lbs in lean body mass.
Be a more polarizing and naturally attractive man with much more core confidence and self-love :)
Be a 4.0 GPA student in college
Live in an apartment in Miraflores near the club area.
Work in something that will give value to other people and in which I can share some lessons and experiences I've had in pickup so far.

How am I going to accomplish these goals?
Go out to cold approach minimun 4 days a week.
Go to the gym 3 days a week.
Paleo Diet.
Meditation.
Start thinking of ways to obtain money to get an apartment. 
And always think of ways in which I could improve the process of achieving these goals! :D

YEAAAAH! Those are my main goals!

So that's it!

Tomorrow I'll go to a beach town to party and have a lot of fun celebrating New Year's Eve!

YEAAAH PARTY!!

Hell yeah. 

Life is good. Can't complain ;)

Lessons / Concepts reinforced
Make the girl feel comfortable with you, and always aim to stay in set and LAND THE PLANE!!

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Follow the badass list! I'll just be able to read it in the morning though, which is fine :)
And pretty much just HAVE MASSIVE FUN!! YEAAH! MEET GIRLS, HAVE FUN, TALK TO EVERYBODY, SPREAD THE LOVE, BE SOCIAL, ASSUME ALL ATTENTION IS POSITIVE AND 4 NO'S RULE!
POUR OUT THE HEART AND SOUL! like Tim says lol

Because, in the end, all we are saying is GIVE PEACE A CHANCE!

So yeah, spread the love!!!

Peace! And thanks everybody, my life has changed :)

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January 1, 2013 - Let's get it started: BE THE ADVENTURER AND WANDER INTO THE UNKNOWN



I want the above title to be my theme for 2013. Really, I want this year to be all about massively expanding my comfort zone, developing my willpower, and always wander into the unknown. I want to be constantly breaking through that inner feeling in my chest of discomfort and TAKE ACTION. This year, I want to be the ADVENTURER. This year it is all about finding out things for myself and not fall for any kind of thought. It is about always keeping an open mind towards all sorts of possiblities and ideas.

The video below is amazing and I'll try to watch it as frequently as possible while constantly applying the concepts.



I am just realizing a lot now that pickup is ALL about the internal results, and that the external results will come when you are ready or you have enough of that natural attractiveness built up, which is why I am going to focus A LOT in my actions right now, and of my new goals now is to have three "Massive Breaking out of Comfort Zone" every day. This means that I'll do minimun three very scary things that is related to pickup and dating women every day. But these have to be very scary things that are pretty much to lose my fucking ego and develop myself as a man. It can be approaching girls, calling girls on the phone, telling her she is sexy while in set, doing the brush and lead, kissing her neck, whatever, I'll just do it. And then, I'll post what those things were in the field reports. The way to describe the "Massive Breaking out of Comfort Zone" is feeling that nice feeling inside that kind of prevents you to do something, and then BREAK OUT OF IT. And as always, "Positive reference experiences are experiences in which you do not die". So let's fucking do this. Oh, and this CZ BREAKERS must also be done FULLY COMMITTED, as if I were to PUNCH THROUGH A WALL.

So this is FOCUSING HARD ON THE PROCESS, which I am sure that it will eventually lead me to 

Awesome. So, now let's go into the highlights of the awesome New Year's Eve.

December 30 and January 1st - New Year's Eve at Tamarindo, Costa Rica!!

(30 approaches)

Yeaah it was so cool!

We got in the resort. I did like one approach to a blonde girl, then a guy started talking to her. 

Then we went out into the town to party hard. I did a shit ton of approaches.

I took action so hard, SO FUCKING HARD!

I lifted girls up, I did the claw on the arm, I shouted "HEY!" in breaking rapport, I got physical right off the bat and shit, and I went for the makeout a shit load of times!

AWESOME NIGHT! SO MUCH REFERENCE EXPERIENCES!

Going for the makeout as the opener

At the "scag hour" I started going for the makeout as the opener. And this shit was fucking GOLD.

I did this like 3 times. I just went to the girl, said "Hi", grabbed her neck and went for the makeout. 

MASSIVE INTENT: I noticed that when I did this my intent suddenly went UP TO THE ROOF. I think I had the perfect intent. Before that, I had gotten blown out like a hundred times, but as soon as I started doing that fully committed, girls would stop and smile lol. I think the first one I approached like this even had some anime eyes. And then, I was about to approach one last girl like this, as I was going to approach her, I saw her making eye contact and smile. But then, I kind of recognized her face, I think she was the friend of a friend, and then I got the NTPS!!! WHAT THE FUCK? And I didn't do it. Seriously?! That's fucking lame. And that is the reason why I am starting the Massive Breaking Out of Comfort Zone thing.

Anyways, I didn't get a makeout like this. And I think that what happened was that at the LAST second, I would flinch. I would literally grab the girl's head and pull her into mine, and then just about when I am about to kiss her, I move my head a bit to the side and end up kissing her cheek. Yeaah. So, I gotta PUNCH THROUGH THE FUCKING WALL, and do the CZ BREAKERS!!

This is a completely new thing that I've done though, and that's pretty awesome. Love it :)

TODAY AT THE MALL


I did some NICEEE approaches at the mall today, and I loved that I expanded my comfort zone.

I did a girl in like a mixed 7 set. She was sitting in a location that it was easy for me to approach though. And then I realized that I had approached her before so I used that as an opener lol.

Then I approached a girl with her mom. I should've probably gone further with it. Yeah, I MUST DO THAT. Always push as far as I can! It is funny how sometimes I chat a bit with the mom when I should actually be talking to the girl lol.

And then I approached a girl with her mom and dad.

It was cool hehe, and it is a POSITIVE REFERENCE as soon as I am alive! I think that is my new criteria for success lol :D

Alright so that is it.

I've already done some CZ BREAKERS a couple minutes ago by trying to set up Day Twos with girls via facebook. Nothing yet hahaha

Oh and I also approached two blonde girls today at the resort. It was funny haha

That's cool. 

CZ BREAKERS AND INTERNAL RESULTS = CRITERIA FOR SUCCESS.

LET'S FOCUS ON THE PROCESS AND ALWAYS IMPROVING MYSELF AS A MAN!




Peace!
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 Here are the achievements and challenges to unlock in 2013!

APPROACHING CYBORG: Do 5000 approaches.
THE DATING REAPER: 20 instant dates and/or Day Twos (with different girls of course).
THE TONGUE SHOW: Make out with 50 different girls.
DON JUAN IS BACK AGAIN: Isolating 25 different girls in sex locations.
THE SKIRT CHASER: Having sex with 10 different girls
THE RABBIT IN HEAT: 15 Sex sessions. It can be with same girls or different girls :D


It was fun to think of those names lol :)

****THE TITLES OF THE ACHIEVEMENTS AND CHALLENGES MAY SOUND POLITICALLY INCORRECT OR "WRONG". IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, I AM SORRY. THIS IS WHAT MEN DO****

And yeah, those are just achievements/challenges to unlock, inspired by my Call of Duty days :)

Also, the main goal of the year in regards to pickup is to fuck 5 different girls, that goal is for serious lol.

But anyways, I love the direction that these goals give, but for now I'll just forget about them and focus on the PROCESS, which is doing the CZ BREAKERS!!

And I'll work in ways to perfect those CZ BREAKERS!! and improve the process :)

I'll check out how I am going with those challenges like every 3 months, or 6 months... I'll see lol

And yeah that is it!

But the most important thing now is the PROCESS and the "CZ BREAKERS!!" hehe

Peace
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you should have like badges.. and a prestige system lol :D
TropicalMan wrote:
 Here are the achievements and challenges to unlock in 2013!

APPROACHING CYBORG: Do 5000 approaches.
THE DATING REAPER: 20 instant dates and/or Day Twos (with different girls of course).
THE TONGUE SHOW: Make out with 50 different girls.
DON JUAN IS BACK AGAIN: Isolating 25 different girls in sex locations.
THE SKIRT CHASER: Having sex with 10 different girls
THE RABBIT IN HEAT: 15 Sex sessions. It can be with same girls or different girls :D


It was fun to think of those names lol :)

****THE TITLES OF THE ACHIEVEMENTS AND CHALLENGES MAY SOUND POLITICALLY INCORRECT OR "WRONG". IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, I AM SORRY. THIS IS WHAT MEN DO****

And yeah, those are just achievements/challenges to unlock, inspired by my Call of Duty days :)

Also, the main goal of the year in regards to pickup is to fuck 5 different girls, that goal is for serious lol.

But anyways, I love the direction that these goals give, but for now I'll just forget about them and focus on the PROCESS, which is doing the CZ BREAKERS!!

And I'll work in ways to perfect those CZ BREAKERS!! and improve the process :)

I'll check out how I am going with those challenges like every 3 months, or 6 months... I'll see lol

And yeah that is it!

But the most important thing now is the PROCESS and the "CZ BREAKERS!!" hehe

Peace
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 OMG I just realized that I just achieved a 30 day challenge... NICE!
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dcampo3 wrote:
you should have like badges.. and a prestige system lol :D
TropicalMan wrote:
 Here are the achievements and challenges to unlock in 2013!

APPROACHING CYBORG: Do 5000 approaches.
THE DATING REAPER: 20 instant dates and/or Day Twos (with different girls of course).
THE TONGUE SHOW: Make out with 50 different girls.
DON JUAN IS BACK AGAIN: Isolating 25 different girls in sex locations.
THE SKIRT CHASER: Having sex with 10 different girls
THE RABBIT IN HEAT: 15 Sex sessions. It can be with same girls or different girls :D


It was fun to think of those names lol :)

****THE TITLES OF THE ACHIEVEMENTS AND CHALLENGES MAY SOUND POLITICALLY INCORRECT OR "WRONG". IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT, I AM SORRY. THIS IS WHAT MEN DO****

And yeah, those are just achievements/challenges to unlock, inspired by my Call of Duty days :)

Also, the main goal of the year in regards to pickup is to fuck 5 different girls, that goal is for serious lol.

But anyways, I love the direction that these goals give, but for now I'll just forget about them and focus on the PROCESS, which is doing the CZ BREAKERS!!

And I'll work in ways to perfect those CZ BREAKERS!! and improve the process :)

I'll check out how I am going with those challenges like every 3 months, or 6 months... I'll see lol

And yeah that is it!

But the most important thing now is the PROCESS and the "CZ BREAKERS!!" hehe

Peace

Wow, sounds great haha
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 January 2 - Going HARD at it - Making myself stronger

(5 approaches)



I did my CZ Breakers today. I am also changing a bit the rule for this. The new goal for every day is to don't stop at three CZ Breakers and go all the way with it until I collapse. Simple as that. The goal is to always be pushing myself as far as I can, just shutting the fuck up, and getting shit done, building that willpower muscle.

I am determined to make myself as strong as I can. I wanna fucking grow in this. I want to be fucking strong in this. I want to be strong as fuck. I want to be so strong that I can help others to get strong like me, and they can help others, and then we all help each other and we all rise to the top. This is what all of this is about. Life is our only opportunity to live in heaven. So we better push ourselves, each and everyone of us, to become the best that we can be and create a heaven on earth.

I want to rise up to the top. I want to be at the peak of the mountain, and see the whole trail that I went through, and then look at the higher peak, and start climbing that one up.

Let's do this motherfuckers. 

Killing the Chode: Whenever you feel the chode, beat the shit out of it. Because the self that is beating the shit out of the chode is the ALPHA MAN. And that fucking alpha must rule every second. That alpha must be at the front at all times. And you have to fucking push it hard bro. It is really hard. I think that the best trait of the Alpha man is probably "Do whatever the fuck you want". And you know what? I am about to do something quite crazy right now. I don't know if it's silly or not. But I do know that at least it will remove the stupid idiots from my life, and it will show me who the good persons are. I am about to put Attending to an event of "Seduction" that I am actually a host of. I don't even know why I make such a big deal out of this. But really, LIFE SHOULD BE A COMMITMENT TO DO WHAT THE FUCK YOU REALLY WANT TO DO, AND FUCK WHAT EVERYBODY ELSE THINKS. IF SOMEONE DISAGREES WITH YOU OR THINKS THAT WHAT YOU DO IS "WRONG", THEN THE BETTER BECAUSE YOU'VE JUST DISCOVERED WHAT PERSON YOU DON'T WANT IN YOUR LIFE. 

Well, but after all, the chode is a good guy right? So it is not really killing him, but just putting boundaries on him I guess :)

CZ #1: 4 Set. In this set I went up to the girl. As I was talking to her, I felt like I'd known her for ages lol. That was pretty cool. It was like when I saw even the slightest bit of a negative reaction, my mind was like "WTF", and I assumed 100% the positive reaction, and I think this kind of transfered onto the girl. Now, I did not know how to make it comfortable for all of the other girls staring at us and listening to the conversation. And I think this is where you have to calibrate to the whole group, and address the group. I don't know, maybe I could've said something like "Are you guys fine?", or directly address the fact that I notice that they could be a bit uncomfortable... I don't know hehe. I guess I'll keep calibrating after the fact and find a better answer.

CZ #2: Girl with her parents looking at the carte at the entrance of a restaurant. I told her she was cute lol. And I said Happy New Year to the parents. I guess I could've given a false time constraint, "Oh I just want to talk to her for two minutes, and know her a bit".

CZ #3: Girl inside of store. I went inside, said hi to the employee, and went directly to the girl, and told her a bit softly, that I thought she was cute. It was fun lol. In this one I should've kept pushing. Again, a false time constraint would've been great. Wow. So false time constraints huh? Nice... haha

CZ #4: Blonde girl in like a 5 set or something, with her whole family, waiting in line at an ice cream store. I went fully committed, touched her shoulder, did my opener. Her reactions were not exactly postive... in the sense that she wasn't sucking my dick lol. But I guess that is okay. I mean, after all, that is a normal reaction, and you have to let the girl know that it is okay, and it is completely fine. This reminds me of one of Alex's videos where he says that you don't suck but you are intimidating. But now, I resonate with it more haha. Awesome. So what he says in the video is that you have to be relaxed, and then bring her to that state of calmness. And also imagine that you are the man in her life, and that she is like a little sister or small girl :) So I guess that, another false time constraint would have been great there hahahaha wow

CZ #5: Girl with parents. I went half-assed lol. The dad AMOGGed me fast lol. I couldn't even stop the walking set hahahaha. Funny. It teaches you how you have to go strong and fully committed, and coming from a HIGH VALUE FRAME.

And that was it haha.

It was an awesome day.

Also, yesterday I realized something, and it is a lesson about...

SURRENDER

Exactly. Surrender to the pain, to the ego, and the most important one for me: the sexual frustration. Just surrender mate. Feel it completely. Accept it fully. And then start taking action. This was tough for me since I could not exactly reach my main 2012 year goal. But I am also happy as fuck that I gave it all. Yeah. Really. I gave 101%. This year I hope that I can give 110% though, that would be ideal haha :)

But yeah, what I mean with this is basically to surrender to the fact that I am a virgin. And I realize, that a few days ago, I was resisting hard "what is", and that bringed some unhappiness to my life. But now, I've decided to fully surrender to it. And take action from that state of surrender and acceptance. It is quite awesome :) Love it!

And also I want to express my love to everyone.

There is so much love in my heart right now. I like that :)

Lessons
Pretty much everything that is in bold.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Do minimum three CZ Breakers, and once I am done with that, keep pushing myself endlessly :)
Do as much CZ Breakers as I can :D
I guess I can also watch some of Julien's videos on the practical false time constraints lol, I don't remember what those were, I guess I can look for them. But I can just do what I know right now, and then improve it!

Peace :]
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January 3 - New Opportunities for Dates

Yep. Finally after some time not having new opportunities, now I have two new girls I could go out with if I give my best :)

CZ #1: Talking to blonde girl I went for the makeout at a party 3 weeks ago, also a blonde girl that I carried and spinned her around like a month ago. I ended up getting her number. I hope I can get on a date with her. Why did I keep getting cherishy over these girls?!?!?! Damn... it's like I end up harming myself lol, and could this be the reason that I haven't got any dates yet. I remember that part in the Blueprint Decoded in which Tyler says that Right Action is not acting out of neediness. And you know what? I think I really need to control myself when I am in a state of neediness, and get myself to preferably do nothing other than going out and getting more girls. 

CZ #2 and #3: Approaching girl in the street. First one was not even really cute, and was actually a bit old. The second one, the girl was very busy, I gave some time constraints, but then I let her go, I should've KEPT PERSISTING! I know for sure that I would've ended up having a long interaction with her if I had persisted.

CZ # 4: Shaking a girl's hand and taking her a bit farther and her back facing her friend so that I could talk to her more 101.

CZ # 5: Telling a girl sitting at a table at the food court that I think she is cute. I re-approached her later. I got her facebook. I hope I can get on a date with her too. Now, I feel a sense of repulsion towards getting cherishy with this girl, it is like I don't want to be in that vulnerable position again lol. I guess it is part of the process. I also did a CZ while I was in set. My bro was winging me with the fatty friend, so I walk in between them and go to the cute girl, and I tell her that I want to know more about her. I loved doing that. And it certainly improved my intent hehe. I think I also managed to get the girl to invest nicely in this set. It was like... I think she did invest some of her ego there. It seemed like that. I did a lot of Julien's techniques to get the girl to invest. It was quite nice haha :) Proud of myself! Oh and I also followed Julien's advice of setting up the date right there. It was quite cool. And I passed her test of having a boyfriend. I told her to just be friends lol. And then she gave me her email. Nice :)

Realization[/b]
Well I am realizing that the CZ Breakers are not only about approaching hard sets, but it is also about [b]breaking out of your comfort zone while you are in set. It is about breaking out of your comfort zone in order to have a clear intent, lead, and give the girl those "hits".
Yeah. Pretty important. I think this is actually what Julien calls "densifying" your game. CZ Breakers is about breaking out of that anxiety or weird feeling inside, and actually take action. And it also is about creating the habit of breaking out of the comfort zone, look for adventure, getting lots of references experiences, and improve myself as a man. I love it.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?[/u][u]
Do those CZ Breakers. Go to a deeper level of breaking out of comfort zone (approaching onion concept hehe). Sounds cool :)
Take right action because it is what is relevant to my path as a man. Do not take action simply because RSD told me to, or out of neediness.

Today I also managed to eat no sugar in any form. It feels nice. Right now I feel like I don't even want anything sweet. Nice.

I decided to eat no sugar or fructose because yesterday's night, I looked myself at the mirror, and I saw how fucking sexy I was. Really, I am in the best shape of my life. I looked at my lean muscle and shiny pecs. I also looked how much belly fat I've dropped, and now I can see some of my abs. I looked at my shiny forehead, face skin, and the sexy tan. And then, right when I was about to think that this was "enough", I said "No. Fuck that. When I think it is enough, I must double my efforts to achieve true success". So I did that today. And I am proud that I am creating a new habit of giving, and maximizing my output and efforts :)

This article inspired me to take that decision lol www.rsdnation.com/node/258606/forum

A month ago I was gettiing some success with women, and then I got a bit lazy and got flaked on a date by a girl and ended up pretty much with nothing haha. But right after that I decided that I had slept in my laurels, and so I decided to take massive action. I still remember those days. I approached for 3 hours and did one hour of meditation every day. I decided to shift my whole RAS to the Game and how I could improve it and eventually get girls. I did that for a week, I think maybe two, and I got two instant dates that week. One of those instant dates was with a pretty fucking cute brunette girl who was like 20. I did such an awesome job with getting that girl in that instant date. I ploughed, I persisted. It was awesome. Too bad she had a boyfriend and I got needy and cherishy as fuck lol!

Ah! Awesome experiences of the journey.

And how good it is to remember those stories with this song:



That song reminds me of myself in July 2011. Damn, I kind of want to cry lol. I am so glad I've raised myself up to the point where I am right now. And I am quite thankful and proud for that. And I also hope I can raise other people, and we all can form a nice harmonious union of happy people :) 

What's funny is that the story above happened like a month ago lol!

Life is good. Can't complain :)

The song  below is awesome too. It reminds me of the first girl I made out with, and how I got a strong one itis with her for months. And I listened to this song and thought about her hahaha. What is funny is that even my first make out was from a cold approach. And I did not know anything about pickup at the time. I just happened to be really really drunk, and the girl was in the mood for making out since she made out with like other 2 guys that night as well haha. Oh and she was American. But that is irrelevant right? ;)



Life is really good. I love it! And I love everything. I'm so glad :D

Peace.
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I've made like 45 approaches this year so far.

I have a new goal :)

Aim to have approaches that last at least more than 2 minutes. Always reach that mark. Look at 10 second interactions like a fucking waste of time and energy. AT LEAST 2 MINUTES ALWAYS! So, I could give some false time constraints when I need them, that could really help get to that mark, and reduce those stupid 10 second interactions :)

Peace!
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January 5 - Cool Daygame & Cool Nightgame

(10 approaches)

It's always a good time hehe :)

CZ #1 and #2: Telling girls at the street that they are sexy. I should've stayed in set. They were attracted. I should've told them that I wanted to meet them, or just talk to them for 2 minutes or something, and start talking to them. It was quite funny lol.

CZ #3: Approaching a 6 set of Americans sitting at a table in the food court. I approached one of the girls. I struggled for a long time in order to go, I had NTPs that they guys in the set were going to out alpha me or something... But I approached the girl, and everyone was super nice. They were so nice that I was like "How the hell did I even had those NTPs?!"

And yeah. It was super cool. I am going to do some nightgame right now, and I'll be back in like 3 hours to post my awesome adventures. So I'll just go to have fun and relax with some feminine energy and good emotions :)


Approaching at the club and outside the clubs/bars

Hey there, I just got back. I had to initially push myself a bit in order to go out. But then somehow I reframed it as just having fun, feeling the female energy, good emotions, and I was quite okay to go out :)

It was quite a cool night. I went for the makeout as an opener once, and I am having fun hahaha

I feel like I am starting to be more free. Like... I shout if I want, or dance if I want, approach girls if I want, and go for the makeout with them if I want. The only time where I don't approach girls if I want is when they are with guys that look scary lol. I guess this will go away as I keep taking action and improving myself over time :)

Oh and I didn't get the makeout lol. But it was cool going for it lol. 

Lesson
Girls are cool with you telling them they are sexy, and they actually like it. But I guess this is also true as long as you are having fun, and you do it from a place of authenticity and vulnerability :)
The Devil in the Details: In the micro perspective of going for the makeout and getting it, I am starting to see how there are a lot of subtleties that will actually get you that makeout. A LOT of subtleties lol. For example: eye contact, doing it as an expression of yourself, clear intent, self-arousal, how you place your hands behind her neck, the way you smile, your vibe, the Michaels, full commitment to your actions, etc. And I am starting to see that the easiest and most simple way for me to get that makeout right now, is to get the girl in isolation haha. Yep. Nice. And well in that manner I'll get more reference experiences of making out with girls, and improve myself as a person, and this will improve a lot of details too so then I can get much more success getting insta-makeouts :D

Oh and a pat on the back for me because I accomplished my goals for today, especially the one that was "going a deeper layer into breaking through my comfort zone". Yep, that's nice.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
The CZ Breakers :)
Using the girls name in the interaction. Actually, remembering her name, and using it when I speak, or am about to tell her something like... "Hey look, Jane". Sounds like a good "fundamental" thing to employ lol. I saw it in Jeffy's video "The Devil in the Details" hehe.

That's it. Love it mate!

Peace.
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