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December 20 - Applying concepts of Intent and having fun - Going for makeout in the daytime

(3 approaches)

So I went out today and forced the fun, and tried as much as I could to have my intent aligned.

I was pretty aroused today. I was pretty horny.

"Game is WOO + Intent". I tried to apply this principle as much as possible by forcing the fun and focusing on having my thoughts, words, and actions aligned.

I did my first approach. I recognized how my intent was misaligned in some ways, and tried to correct it right there, so I did more eye contact, etc. And then I ejected. It looked like for moments I would suck the girl into my reality though.

My last approach was a blonde girl with a sexy body. She was with her friend. I went direct and sexual. I actually told her that the government should pay us to have babies and make beautiful people lol. Some minutes later I told her that I wanted to kiss her but I didn't dare to do it. She stayed and kept talking. But I just went for it lol. I wanted to pull her home though. And well, at the end, no makeout and I leave haha.

Yet, the thing is: why do I wanted a makeout? I want to fuck the girl, how is the makeout going to help me get there? I think I should probably lead a lot more, change more venues, pull her home, and then makeout with her once I am in isolation. That sounds like a much better idea. 

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- FORCE THE FUN. FOCUS ON HAVING A CLEAR INTENT (read the post above for more information on this).
- Think: "How is this action going to affect the end result of the interaction?". Interesting. My goal should always be to fuck the girl immediately. Yet, now that I think about it, going for the makeout today did not really affect the end result of the interaction. I could've ploughed through that and tell the girl that I am sorry, that sometimes I get controlled by my emotions and that she is very pretty and makes me lose control. Yep. So, whatever I do, it doesn't really affect that end result. All that really matters is that I stay in set, because as I spend more time with the girl, the MORE ATTRACTED she will be to me. And the more I move her around, the MORE ATTRACTED she will be to me. So yeah. Interesting. I'll apply this tomorrow. The goal: FUCKING THE GIRL.

This is the plan I am adopting in order to GET LAID RIGHT NOW. Yep. And I hope that my actions will lead me there. I am running out of time. So I better start moving and keep it up hard with being in my path. I better start moving, analyzing my actions and their effects, and brainstorming ways to improve my actions and mindsets. I better get moving. Let's do this.

Peace <3

Year approach goal: 1044/1000 DONE!
Day two and insta-dates goal: 3/5 :D
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1

COME ON!! LET'S FUCKING DO THIS!!
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 December 22 - Massive fun

Today I had some massive fun. And that is great. But, I missed it with the Intent!!!!

Game is WOO plus intent!!

I did like 2 approaches. Both of them were quite nice.

But in both of them I was in socializing mode, which is cool, but if I want to get laid, then I should go with the "GET THE GIRL" intent.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- Get the fucking girls. WOO + INTENT!
- FORCE THE FUN. FOCUS ON HAVING A CLEAR INTENT 
- Think: "How is this action going to affect the end result of the interaction?". Interesting. My goal should always be to fuck the girl immediately. Yet, now that I think about it, going for the makeout today did not really affect the end result of the interaction. I could've ploughed through that and tell the girl that I am sorry, that sometimes I get controlled by my emotions and that she is very pretty and makes me lose control. Yep. So, whatever I do, it doesn't really affect that end result. All that really matters is that I stay in set, because as I spend more time with the girl, the MORE ATTRACTED she will be to me. And the more I move her around, the MORE ATTRACTED she will be to me. So yeah. Interesting. I'll apply this tomorrow. The goal: FUCKING THE GIRL.
- To develop a clearer intent: I will always try to fuck the girl right there no matter what. So I'll go strong in every set. I'll say everything that comes to my mind. I'll look inside of me, and express everything that I feel. I'll do what I want to do, always aiming to do it fully commited and with 100% conviction in it. I'll spit out everything that I think, and I will try to express everything, without hiding a single thing. That means that if I have naughty thoughts, I will share them with her. Or, whatever I am feeling, I'll express it to her. If I feel aroused, I'll tell her that she arouses me. There will be no more holding back. My goal is to express it all, all of my wishes, feelings, and thoughts through my actions and words. So that everything is ALIGNED: WORDS, THOUGHTS, AND ACTIONS.
- Whenever I come up with the thought of saying or doing something that is out of my comfort zone, think "GO! DO IT! GO! JUST DO IT! GOOOO!"

Peace!

Year approach goal: 1046/1000 DONE!
Day two and insta-dates goal: 3/5 :D
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
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December 22 - Commitment to this journey - Brainstorming ways to continue with never ending improvement

(3 approaches)

Not the best day in pickup. 

I did not find much girls.

When I finally got into a nice state, I couldn't find any girl lol.

For that reason, I am going to massively lower my standards starting tomorrow. Plus, I want to get laid and I think I could easily do that by lowering my fucking standards and not being too picky.

I am starting to think that it is really our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Kinda scary huh? "Our biggest fear is not that we are inadequate, but that we are powerful beyond measure". This quote has been making much more sense in the last month. Wow.

I am so thankful at life! THANKS LIFE! I LOVE YOU! :')

I look at the people I know, and the ones that I respect the most are those ones that listen to their hearts and follow their ambitions unapologetically. I don't know how we do this. I think we are probably crazy. But I am really thankful that I have this heart inside of me that will literally start screaming like a maniac if I don't listen to what it has to say. And I see this people around me, this fucking admirable people that create shit, that take action, and do despite people telling them they cannot do it. And when I see this people, it kind of makes me want to cry. Not because of sadness, but because of pride, admiration, and empathy. Because I know that I am struggling as well to do this and I've struggled so far to get where I am right now, and I know what it feels like for those persons that defy people's opinions and do what they know is right. And whenever I hear of one of those persons getting success, or being close to it, it just makes me really happy. We are all in this together.

So my first approach I just chased a girl out of the mall and into the streets. Turns out she is kinda old lol. But I still tell her she is cute just for the hell of it.

Damn, I think I forgot the other approaches, but it was pretty much the same thing. Yeah... sucks a bit. I think that in daygame, you actually have to TRY and always PUSH PUSH PUSH. There is really no small chunking due to the scarcity of girls. Yet, I think that one can actually small chunk in set, and get in a nice state while talking and talking in set, and staying in set, and getting more intimate with the girl while in set. Nice.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?

- I should go TRY in the daytime. TRY to get the girl. Always. Fuck that socializing thing. Always go for the girl. If she is worth approaching then she is worth fucking. No lame conversations. Fuck or walk. Go strong and direct. Express it all! INTENT! And force the FUN!
- Massively lower standards. Talk to girls that look like they are at least 14. Yeah I know pretty young but whatever. Talk to fattys, and average looking girls. Approach 4's and 5's. If she is a 3, I don't approach. If she is at least a 4, I GO THERE! And if I am talking to one of those fattys or below than average looking girls and I see a cuter girl walk by, then I approach the cuter girl right there lol. I just say bye, and then I say hello to the cute girl. Yep. That's how things are.
- When I am in set, and I come up with the thought of saying or doing something that is out of my comfort zone, think "GO! DO IT! GO! JUST DO IT! GOOOO!", and actually DO IT. Also realize that what I do does not really affect the end result of the interaction, and that I can actually get away with anything by scrambling her RAS, like Julien says :)
-I'll design a plan of MASSIVE ACTION tomorrow. Let's do this.

Peace!
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December 23 - GOING STRAIGHT INTO THE UNKNOWN AND FUCKING LOVING THE THRILL OF THE ADVENTURE!

(6 approaches)



Yeah Party!! That mix above is probably one of my favorite ones. It reminds me of the awesome times of August, when I used to get home from the mall in Peru and write my field reports, listening to awesome music and having a great time. 

AWESOME!!!

And I am here right now, having a fantastic time, and appreciating what I do have, and of course, taking committed action to get what I wish to have. 

Today, I had some niceee fun. Man this SHIT IS GREAAAT! It is so awesome when you have all of that social pressure on you, but at the same time you feel that confidence deeply entrenched in your CORE, and you know that you got it. And I think that you can only gain that precious treasure from doing scary shit every day. And not just scary shit, but VERY scary shit lol. It is awesome. I remember I felt like this like a month and a half ago when I was in Cuzco. I would do a ton of approaches in a night, and I would just fucking go there, take the social pressure, and feel like a BOSS. And do you know how that happened? IT HAPPENED BECAUSE OF DOING SOME PRETTY FUCKING SCARY SHIT AND NOW IT IS HAPPENING AGAIN, I AM FEELING THAT CONFIDENCE DEEPLY ROOTED IN ME, AND I LOVE IT, I LOVE THAT FUCKING SHIT, YEAH, I FUCKING LOVE IT. THIS FEELING OF "I GOT THIS!" IS WORTH ALL OF THOSE SCARY APPROACHES.

And here is a video by Julien on this topic (I love it too btw)


THE INTERNAL RESULTS ARE SO FUCKING AWESOME!

I approached a very tall girl. It went alright. She really had to go though! I gotta plough through that shit and put my intentions with full honesty. I also went to a cute blonde girl with her mom. I ended up ejecting the set because I did not know how to go on. WHAT THE FUCK MAN?! That's not acceptable. I am realizing that all of the answers of what to do in an interaction is in our hearts. THE ANSWERS ARE IN OUR HEARTS. I should've told the girl that she could tell her mom that I was like a high school friend and then change topic and KEEP TALKING! But I did not do that last bit. I really have to burn those sets to the ground!!

The last two approaches were pretty funny.

My brother and I walked past a bar. He sees two cute girls sitting. And I am like "Dude, come on man! Let's go there! Adventure! Seduction!". And well, he decides not to go. I am about to go home, but then I realize that I cannot miss an opportunity to get a reference experience and have fun. So I just go in there and tell the girl that I think she is really cute. Then, I look at my side, and there's a waiter looking at me with a MAD FACE lol. And I literally found it so damn amusing. Wow. Funny. The girl says thank you and I end up leaving lol. I should've told the waiter that they were my friends and then I should've grabbed some chair and sit with them lol. That would've been nice!

The last approach it's a mixed set. Two guys and a pretty cute girl. This happened in the condo. My brother and I are walking home, and then we see the set. I first check to see if the girl is cute, once I see how damn cute she is I just go for it. I tell her she is cute. Then, I think one of the guys told me she was his girlfriend. But he was probably kidding. Yeaah, definitely kidding. I should've ploughed through that, and say something like "Oh well she can have one more boyfriend". That would've worked. If it didn't or in the case the guy got a bit reactive or something (lol) then just throw something like "What? Oh come on man let her talk! She can make her own decisions. What you serious? She can make her own decisions. No man. That's wrong. She can make her own decisions". LOL!

Anyways, GREAT DAY OF ACTION.

I love these days when I push myself to do crazy shit and have fun!

Lessons

There is so much crazy adventure out there that we miss just because we are afraid to get out of our comfort zones! I say FUCK THAT SHIT! Break out of that comfort zone and start living life!! Hell yeah!

I mean... you are going to die anyways right? So at least die while trying to experience something new, improving yourself, and stepping into the unknown! :D

So, what I love about doing this scary sets is that it starts the habit of breaking out of your comfort zone, and it feels great overall :)

Oh and I've also learned that the best thing of doing scary things is CALIBRATING AFTER THE FACT. Many times, you can just approach a girl in whatever situation, but you FORGET TO CALIBRATE AFTERWARDS, so you end up wasting your whole time. After you are done with the crazy set or whatever, brainstorm ways that you could've improved that interaction and get that girl! CALIBRATE AFTER THE FACT. I know that I fell into that trap. I am glad I am aware of it now.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- I should go TRY in the daytime. TRY to get the girl. Always. Fuck that socializing thing. Always go for the girl. If she is worth approaching then she is worth fucking. No lame conversations. Fuck or walk. Go strong and direct. Express it all! INTENT! And force the FUN!
- When I am in set, and I come up with the thought of saying or doing something that is out of my comfort zone, think "GO! DO IT! GO! JUST DO IT! GOOOO!", and actually DO IT. Also realize that what I do does not really affect the end result of the interaction, and that I can actually get away with anything by scrambling her RAS, like Julien says :)
- Express it all! No hiding anything or holding back anything! BE FREE! EXPRESS IT ALL! FULL EXPRESSION!
- Spend minimun 3 hours in the field every day until Friday! :D And I am counting as infield time as any given time that I am not at my home. This includes the time when I am at the gym, walking to the gym, or to the mall, or out with my parents or friends or whatever! So if I am out and I see a girl anywhere, I MUST BREAK OUT OF MY COMFORT ZONE, AND MEET HER!!!!! THIS IS A LIFESTYLE MOTHERFUCKERS! LET'S GO GET THOSE GIRLS!
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 December 24 - Merry Christmas! More social pressure for me! :D

(3 approaches)

So I went out today to the mall and there was no people damn!

However, I had some awesome reference experiences, that I know will keep building up that naturally attractive man inside of me, and will teach me how to deal with the social pressure.

Yeah, more social pressure!

I threw myself at the cold pool in my first approach. I went to a girl that was with her dad and little sister. The father was looking at me the whole fucking time lol. Yet, I still tried to push it as far as I could. And yeaah, I pushed hard hahaha. I am noticing that, now, in these hard sets, I am getting farther than I used to get like a month ago. Much farther. And that is pretty awesome. Because it means that I am calibrating after the fact, which is awesome. In that approach, I guess I should've just sat with the girl and tell her that it is okay and her father probably doesn't give a fuck or at least thinks that it is cool that a guy did something like that. Yeah... that's calibrating after the fact hehehe.

Second approach was to a mixed set, two girls and one guy. When I arrived I saw that the girl was crying, it got kind of awkward lol. I should've gone strong though, I went kind of half-assed.

In my third set I went to another mixed set, a guy and a girl. The guy AMOGed me lol. Yeah, I reacted. Bad. I should've stay unreactive like "Oh cool", and keep talking to the girl. And actually let them know that I want to talk to the girl and that it is completely fine for her to talk to someone and shouldn't have a guy who is overprotecting her from friendly people. Yeah! So I should express that next time!

And that was my dose of social pressure for today! It was pretty cool. I am loving it.

Oh I failed today's goal of being 3 hours in field. It was hard because there was very few people.

I have to think of a more achievable goal and hit that "Flow". 

I am thinking of how to set that goal. Tomorrow I'll put another goal and I'll think until then and just enjoy this Christmas :)

Lessons
I think the lesson for today is to put achievable goals that are also hard. This principle has been reinforced at least. As well as calibrating after the fact :D
Oh and I also learned or reinforced the principle that being totally unreactive is the way to go, as well as assuming that all attention is positive and not taking anything personal! 

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Think of a better plan of massive action that I can achieve in these days where people go to their holiday places or whatever... yeah maybe that is not quite true for everybody.
Express everything that I feel, think. Aim to act with a clear intent :) Full expression without social conditioning barriers, just full authenticity! It feels so good to be truly authentic haha, or to at least remove layers of social conditioning and get closer to being who you truly are. I can actually feel that awesome sensation of authenticity right now as I write this :)
Push hard in set. Go the distance! Stay in there! Burn the set to the ground!!! Time is my ally!!

Let's do this!

Merry Christmas!
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 December 26 - Zoom Out: Let's make a plan of action to achieve my goals RIGHT NOW

(2 approaches)

First approach was to a girl in a 3 set. She didn't look that receptive, I would've had to plough through that a lot. And I didn't... so I don't even know... whatever.

Second approach was to a pretty young girl, I didn't realize she was young until I was already close and talking to her. She didn't even want to talk, which is fine hehe

Anyways, let's make a plan of action to achieve my fucking goals and do this shit.

Now, I am going to ask me one question: What could I do RIGHT NOW in order to get a girl in a sex location where I could potentially fuck her?

And the answer is NOTHING. I am really doing nothing right now that, if I decided to keep on doing this, would lead me directly to sex. At one point or another, I would have to say "Fuck it" and eventually go for it, so I am doing that right now. 

Look, the internal results are fucking awesome and I love them. But come on. Look here, I am a fucking man, I am fucking awesome, and I am pretty much a kind of superior man in the sense that I am constantly taking action in order to improve myself and this is something that almost nobody does. So, why the fuck am I not getting laid? Because I am not going for it. Because I am not doing something that would DIRECTLY lead me to it. All I am doing is building myself as a naturally attractive man, going through high and lows, facing my fears, building courage, and pretty much putting that alpha self in front so that I actually become the best I can ever be. And that is really great. That is awesome! And I think that is pretty fucking great because it builds my foundations or "roots" as a man of value, and that is great. Now, I've been proactively nurturing those roots for months, yet I don't feel like I am actually proactively growing the fruits of the tree. Get it? I feel like I've builded those roots, they are there. And all that I fucking need is to proactively let those branches grow beyong the limits! I feel like I am not really letting the odds play in favor of me so that those branches grow far into the skies! So, right now, I am going to develop a plan that will lead me to stack the odds in my favor and let me achieve my goals as I already should've.

And it pretty much goes back to the fundamentals, I will apply the following list of action until January 1 and I will PUSH IT AS HARD AS I CAN. I WILL LITERALLY GIVE IT ALL NOW! Here it goes:
- Approach a ton of sets. Get into a social mode as fast as possible. Get out of my fucking head. If I am still in my head and I see a HOT girl walk by, CUT THE TIME OF REACTION AND APPROACH HER THEN AND THERE. Never use the "social mode" or "being in my head" as an excuse to not approach. I see the opportunity, and I fucking go and take it and see what the fuck happens. The purpose of this is to increase my chances of getting a girl that is horny and DTF or at least that I can push far and hard and eventually get her. As soon as I step in the mall, I'll play the 30 seconds game with myself until I've done 5 sets.
- Have fun: DANCE.
- SET THE FRAME RIGHT AT THE FUCKING START. Man to woman. Direct opener. Every girl should know that she is in danger of being fucked. Go fully authentic and vulnerable. SET THE FUCKING FRAME. BREAKING RAPPORT. Be the buyer. EYE CONTACT. 
- PERSIST! 4 NO'S RULE! GET THAT LANDING, DOESN'T MATTER IF IT'S ROUGH OR SMOOTH. LAND THE FUCKING PLANE.
- BE THE CAUSE. ALWAYS. ACTION, ACTION, ACTION. Get her to react.
- If I close, MAKE THE PLANS RIGHT THEN AND THERE. Find out about logistics, always ask the following questions: 1. Who are you with? 2. What are you doing tomorrow? 3. Where do you live?
- Remember to GET THEM TO INVEST when making the plans. Say: "What is my name?". Or, when I've already HOOKED the set, tell her "You can go now if you want to". 
- INTENT: EXPRESS EVERYTHING THAT I THINK, JUST SPIT IT OUT, VOMIT EVERYTHING THAT IS INSIDE OF ME. NO FILTERS. BE A DIRECT MOTHERFUCKER. STATE MY INTENTIONS CLEARLY. NO FILTERS. NO HOLDING ANYTHING BACK. EXPRESS IT ALL!!!!
- ALWAYS BE ESCALATING. Lead the interaction forwards and into getting more and more intimate with the girl. Take initiative.
- ALWAYS BE CLOSING. DO WHATEVER IS NECESSARY TO SEE THE GIRL AGAIN WITH BETTER LOGISTICS (GIVEN THAT LOGISTICS ARE NOT IN MY FAVOR). EVEN IF I KNOW SHE MIGHT FLAKE, GO FOR THE FUCKING NUMBER OR FACEBOOK OR WHATEVER. JUST DO IT AND GET THE REFERENCE.
- YEAAAAH LETS' FUCKING DO THIS! LET'S GOOOOO!
- READ THIS BADASS LIST EVERY MORNING AFTER WAKING UP, BEFORE GOING OUT, AFTER APPROACHING SESSION, AND BEFORE GOING TO SLEEP.
- FOLLOW THIS BADASS LIST LIKE A RELIGION. PUSH HARD.

I think that is it. This is it motherfuckers. I am achieving my goals RIGHT NOW!

Lessons:
Pretty much everything I said about the roots and branches kind of stuff. I really feel like it is time now, I just have to fucking PROACTIVELY LOOK FOR THE ACHIEVEMENT OF MY GOALS. Pretty much the thing here is to isolate girls into a private sex location. So, I want to make sure I follow the above list because it contains lots of fundamentals that will help me make SOLID interactions in which I can experiment with getting girls to a private sex location. I've taken it all the way to an instant date. But I've never taken it into a day two or having the girl in a private sex location. So, I'll focus on having a solid interaction until the point of the Instant Date, and then, from there, I'll FUCKING PUSH INTO THE DAY TWOS OR ISOLATION IN A PRIVATE SEX LOCATION RIGHT THEN AND THERE.

So, I am putting another goal right now!

Year approach goal: 1060/1000 DONE!
Day two and insta-dates goal: 3/5 :D
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
NEW ONE AND TOP PRIORITY GOAL:
[/u] Isolating girls into a private sex location: 0/5

As a matter of fact, I'll forget about all of the other goals, I'll just focus on that last one. That'll be the ONLY goal right now. I'll forget about the other ones, they are still alive, but I am deciding to forget about them and just focus on this ONE FUCKING GOAL:

Isolating girl into a private sex location: 0/5

THAT IS ALL THAT MATTERS RIGHT NOW. 

I DESERVE THE ACHIEVEMENT OF THOSE GOALS. THIS IS JUST ME GOING FOR WHAT I TRULY DESERVE RIGHT NOW.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
- FOLLOW THE BADASS LIST LIKE A RELIGION.

FUCK YEAAAAH MOTHERFUCKERS, LETS' FUCKING DO THIS!

Peace!
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 December 27 - More approaching - Realizing once again that I need to focus on the most basic/fundamental things to get girls

(4 approaches)

I tried to set up a day two for tomorrow. There's nothing solid yet.

I went to do some shopping with my family to the mall, after that I started approaching.

I think I really need to get clear with those fundamentals. And hammer them over and over again.

Yeah, they are pretty important.

My first approach was to a quite old woman. I actually got scared of closing her, but it was going fine. Yeah... not very good right? I am adding another item to the badass list and that is: ALWAYS BE CLOSING, and get the girl.

Then, I got some blowouts, which are not really blowouts but they actually could be called UNFULFILLED POTENTIAL, like Alex says.

Yeah, pretty awesome day.

Lessons:
Fundamentals are very fucking important. Eye contact, tonality, etc. Very fucking important. And once again, I learn this.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Follow the badass list, and focus on the part of it that mentions the fundamentals.

When I came back to Costa Rica, the first month I got awesome results, and now looking back, I realize that it was because I had a good handle of the fundamentals, I was always escalating, breaking out of my comfort zone, approaching, diminishing my filters, etc. That's what got me those good results, and I am willing to act the same way I did, and actually improve that, to get even better results :)

Peace
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 December 27 - Following the badass list - Some girls don't hate players

(2 approaches)

So I went out to the mall again today, and when I got there I immediately started the 30 seconds game until I had 5 approaches. It was funny. I just talked to random people, asking them for directions lol.

But it was enough to get me in a talkative, social, fun state of not giving a fuck. So it was great. 

I did 2 direct approaches though. I am just counting those I guess...

The first one was a cute girl. She was alone hehe, finally a set like this. I went for the instant date, didn't work, number, didn't work, got the facebook haha

While I was talking to her I saw a girl with which I tried to set up a Day Two today. When I was trying to set that up, the girl told me that she might go to the mall and might see me there. I texted her that I actually wanted to just see her on a kind of a non-date date. And she said no. So, whatever, I still went to the mall and did my approaches. 

But, it was funny that I saw that girl at the mall with her friends, while I was talking to a girl I had just approached lol. I introduced them both haha.

Then I saw the flakey girl around, she looked kinda pissed haha. I texted her "You look cute :)". And then I saw her walk by laughing. Funny. I hope I can get on a Day Two with her next week or something. 

Then I did another approach. A pretty cute girl. A two set of girls. 

I failed to follow the 4 no's rule there. I was having a great interaction. But she told me that she had to go twice. I guess I should've switched to the moment of realness hehe

I am also noticing that, in my attempt to talk in breaking rapport, I am also talking pretty fast. Not good. I am going to focus on talking with breaking rapport tonality and also in a paused, clear manner.

Lessons
Some girls don't hate players. They actually like them. At least the flakey girl today. She saw my brother approaching a girl. She saw me with a girl I had just approached. Girls just like the emotions huh?
So I am deciding to maintain as a belief that girls actually like players. I don't know if that will help me with blindspots or anything, but at least it could help me be unapolegetic in all of this as well as help to me keep approaching and getting more girls no matter what... after all... they like players hehe. Whatever... some like that trait, some don't. That's fine.

What could I do tomorrow in order to improve?
Follow the badass list unapologetically. Push it. Do more approaches. Approach more! Get more girls!
Talk in breaking rapport, but do so while talking paused and clear, not fast :)

That's it.

Peace!
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 December 28 - A bit of nightgame and fun

(4 approaches)

I think I am not really appreciating the small victories. Maybe I am setting the standards too high, and also I am getting quite impatient with not getting laid. I mean... I just can't stand living like this... I want to get laid! It's like I want it so BAD. I may even want it as bad as I want to breathe! 

But hell yeah there were small victories, like doing some approaches here and there and feeling awesome. 

That's a small victory I guess.

I didn't do enough approaches to truly get in a completely fun/social/physical state though. But that's cool. It was only a small time.

I am psyched about the New Year's party. I hope it is in a nice beach where there's hundred of girls from different countries.

I WANNA GET LAID!!!!!!!!!

Damn. I really want it lol. I just want to get DONE with that. GET SHIT DONE. 

So you know what? TIME TO ROCK MOTHERFUCKERS

I approached 4 sets today. First set was okay. Second too. Very chill sets. I pretty much went with the intent of socializing and having fun. I was trying to small chunk my way into a fun night. But I didn't really take into account that I would be such a short time there. Well anyways, that is cool, because the reference experiences teach me how to go and have fun and just socialize. Also, I saw myself on a video of my first approach and I think I should've closed the distance between the girls and myself. But well... I guess I could've corrected  that by approaching her and getting close and them backing off, and then getting close again.

Well, that's fine.

Lessons
If you drink beer, you get sleepy. True story.
Small chunk when you know you will stay there for a long time? Yeah I don't really know about that one. Wtf lol. I don't really know if I learned some lessons today. At least I had several concepts hammered into my head, that for sure lol.

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Follow the badass list.
Talk in breaking rapport and paused.
Believe that impossible is NOTHING, and TAKE ALL OPPORTUNITIES. WANDER INTO THE UNKNOWN. NO LIMITS. CATCH THEM ALL! IT IS POSSIBLE!

Peace!
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 December 29 - Pushing it FUCKING HARD - Awesome wingmanship

(4 approaches)

Today it was one of those days in which anxiety is a fucking bitch, and you feel it really strong that it paralyzes you completely, and you feel like you are enclosed in a fucking cage with the chains of anxiety.

I actually felt like that. But eventually, I ended up breaking the fucking cage and chains, took action, and everything "clicked", and I ended up having a great fun action day.

The best approach was probably the last one, in which I talked to a very cute girl. I think she could've invested more. It was time for me to give her less "heroin hits" lol. And let it all flesh out. 

She gave me her name to add her on facebook. But I haven't found her. I need to calibrate with the "Michael". She was with two female friends and a male friend lol. And I think that at a point it got kind of awkward. Or, when I saw her worrying about her friends, I could've immediately addressed the problem with something like "Don't worry they are not going to leave without you", or something like that lol.

Wingmanship

Well today was a good day of wingmanship between my brother and I. We pushed each other quite hard. And that is pretty fucking awesome. I even pushed him to approach a lol! And when we were feeling a lot of approach anxiety, we actually walked holding our hands and approaches. That shit was like a last resource for joining our strenght and taking action lol. Before that I was having probably one of the worst days ever in terms of anxiety... it was tough haha

But it was funny as fuck. And also because we sang the epic songs and shit like "You're the best" by Joe Esposito and those kind of epic songs of success. That shit was pretty fucking sweet.

And it reminded me of this vid, and how we should strive to cultivate a wingmanship in which there is A LOT of pushing out of comfort zones and THERE IS NO SUCCESS BARRIERS, OR SHIT.



That shit was great. NO SHIT BRO! LET'S DO THIS.

Lessons / Concepts reinforced
Lean towards your pain. Fully accept it. Take action, and HAVE FUN.
Trust that by taking action, everything will "click" at a certain point.
A wing is important to help you get up in those times where you would otherwise not get back up by yourself.

I would say it was kind of mind blowing what happened to day. I think it was the greatest comeback I've had in this year so far, in regards to pickup lol.

That shit was pretty fucking awesome lol.

Review of my game
Oh, my eye contact was pretty solid today. As well as some breaking rapport here and there. I think I hooked the girl quite well. For a moment, I think she had the anime eyes, and was staring at my eyes with her whole attention. Awesome. I landed the plane lol. However, I kind of missed on letting her invest, taking more time between giving her "hits", letting the interaction flesh out, and switching to the moment of realness. I'll improve that. Oh, and taking care of the "Michael" and her concerns of course. At some points, the group moved or something, and I saw some discomfort in her eyes. RIGHT AT THAT TIME, I should've addressed that and say something like "Hey that's cool, they are not going anywhere", or something to address her concern of her friends leaving her or even judging her (could be a possibility). I am also realizing how important it is to fully drop the game and just fucking BE YOURSELF WITH NO FILTERS WHATSOEVER. Pretty important. And I'll practice that more and more. I could do MUCH BETTER in that area lol.

What can I do in the next approaching session in order to improve myself?
Follow the badass list!!
Be aware of the "Michael" and address any concern that I think the girl might have in regards to the "Michael".
Approach the girl, PUMMEL PUMMEL PUMMEL, and then spread those "hits" so that the girl does not overdose lol, which means to chill back and let her invest more emotionally and talk more :)
Switch to the moment of realness, and have that moment of authentic communication between the girl and I, where I can truly feel an increased connection or sense of intimacy with the girl.

I love it all.

Pretty awesome day. I finally start to feel like I am going somewhere haha. The last days I was a bit concerned whether if I was truly improving, but now it seems like I am getting a better picture of what to do in order to improve :D

We'll see how that goes... hehe

Peace.
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