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 December 5 - Sand&Sun&Sea, "Scary" sets, Enduring Shit Tests, Being a Man, Cultivating Admiration for myself

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(4 approaches)

I approached some french people at the island, spoke some french. I also talked to a cute russian woman who looked quite young (mindfuck).

Then, when I got home and was tired as fuck, I made some excuses to not go to the mall. But then I realized that this is my life and it is ending one minute at a time (fight club quote). And then I also remembered that one day I am going to day, and really... what I do doesn't matter, so I could at least take advantage of time to become a better person and give a contribution to the world. So, I ended up going to the mall and had some crazy approaches and stories.

First girl was talking on the phone. I just told her she was cute. Next time I MUST say the following "Is it important or can you call back later?". The girl was nice.

The second approach was to a girl with her whole family. It was like an 7 set lol. So she is kinda alone because her family walks away. And I talk to her. I tell her she is cute. Then her mother comes in, and I start socializing with her. I tell her that I think her daughter is cute lol. And then her father comes. And I socialize with him. And then... her sister comes lol. It was so funny. After talking for a while I end up leaving. I should've said something like "Hey is it okay if I talk to her (my target) for a minute?". Next time I MUST say that.

The third approach was a 6 set. They were all sitting in rocking chairs, forming a row. I go to my target, who is at one end of the row. I just go in there, tell her she is cute. She is American. I speak in English. I pass tests, I endure the tests of her friend as well. I endure a lot of tests. I manage situations. Actually, in the last set of the family I had to manage the situation a lot too lol, it was cool. 

I talk to her for like 10 minutes lol. And then, she has to go to the cinema. Her brother was there. She had the pressure of her brother. Shit... she gave me her name so I could add her on facebook, but I could just sense that she had the pressure of the probability that her brother is judging her. So, for next time, I MUST take responsibility for the situation and say something to the brother/guy/friend: "Hey whats up buddy? What's your name? Cool. Hey man, it is cool if I take your sister's number?". And I keep pushing there until he eventually says yes.

So that is it for today. Awesome day.

I guess what I learned today, or the concepts that I had reinforced in my head were: 1. Take care of the "Michael" (as Julien would say). Take responsibility of the situation, and make it easy for the girl so she can be sure that she won't be judged and it is okay for her to be with you. 2. GO OUT CONSISTENTLY. I almost did not go out today. What the fuck? I would've missed all of the awesome adventures. So yeah, GO OUT CONSISTENTLY. I'll only get some time to live life, so I better start living NOW and for the rest of life. NO EXCUSES.

For tomorrow:
Daygame. Cold approaching girls.
Call the two girls I've previously called this week. In the case of the girl I called yesterday, go for the date. With the cute black haired girl, just chat with her a bit I guess, and enjoy talking to her and listening her sweet voice :D

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December 6 - FIGHTING THE INNER MONSTER - SMALL CHUNKING MY WAY FROM LOGICAL/LOWER CONSCIOUSNESS TO PLAYFUL/EMOTIONAL/STATE/HIGHER CONSCIOUSNESS

(5 approaches)


Today I had to fight my inner MONSTER.

I literally see it like that. I was at home... full of approach anxiety only to think of going out and approaching. I was dying, rotting away in my frustration, pain, and anxiety; sitting in the sofa, watching talks of my inspirational daygame mentors.

Yet, there was a strong feeling inside me. 

"Listen to your heart", I was told.

And my heart was screaming in pain. My heart was yelling in frustration me "DUDE! What the fuck is this? We have no results man! What the fuck? What are we doing? Or better yet, let's stick to the one girl we have dude."

So I do a recap of the things that I have to do for today, so my frustration goes way. Yet, my PAIN and FEAR are still alive.

And I am there, lying in pain... until I see this video:


Suddenly, I wanted to approach. I wanted to... but I still felt the monster inside me... I felt the FEAR. And I lied there for 5 more minutes in pain. I kept repeating to myself "Not having the healthy sex life that I want... the sex life that any young man should have... that's PATHETIC!". And I was in pain. I felt it in my chest. I was suffering. But I decide that not taking action towards having the sex life that I want and just sitting there in mental masturbation like an idiot was FUCKING PATHETIC as well. So I stand up. I go to the bathroom. I look myself in the mirror in pain. I stare deep inside my eyes... and the pain grows in intensity that almost makes me want to cry. And then... I start laughing my ass off at my pain. So masochistic. I just laugh my ass off, feeling that anxiety in me. I put my clothes, and I am gone to the mall.

Approaching session

I went to the mall in this bad, bad state. I was determined as fuck, but I was like completely socially turned off. 

I approach a girl talking in the phone, my opener is "Is it important or can you call back later?". It was important... lol. Next time I should tell her she is pretty first and then throw that line haha

Second approach are two cute girls. I had to grab my balls to do this one. Oh yeah. I PUSHED MYSELF HARD TODAY. I exercised my intent in this one. I had the negative beliefs of having guards near me, etc. But then I said "Fuck it! What is it that I want? Those girls... that is it. So fuck the guards". So I draw a straight line and walk towards those girls with the objective in mind. I have a good time with them. Until their boyfriends, that were standing 4 meters away come in and do some kino with them. I guess that sucks... I just socialize with them for a while, and then I go away haha

By that time, I am more warmed up, and feeling much better.

In my third approach I also had to grab my balls to do it, and PUSH myself. I just tell two girls that they are cute. They were probably much more older than me lol.

Then I approach another girl in the phone. I just tell her she is cute and then talk to her friend. She was right about to hang up and talk to me when I walked away lol. She wasn't that cute anyways, but she was kinda cute still... yeah whatever. I guess I'll just have to push myself harder next time.

The last approach were two girls. One of them was kindaaa cute. But at least she is white and has blue eyes so whatever...

Pretty great approach. And by this time, I am in state already lol. So I talk to them for a long time. And then, we leave and exchange names to find us on facebook. They liked me. However, now I can't find the girl. But, since she was pretty attracted and shit and investing and everything, I am pretty sure that it is because she has like some privacy settings or something. And she is in a high school in which some of its students go to the parties of my ex high school. So, yeah I could find them there. Or, I could also find them at the mall other day and say hi. Yeah, it's all good!

Then as I am texting with the cute black haired girl, I decide to just call her for the hell of it and get some reference experiences of phone game.

So I just call her and talk to her for a while. I probably didn't do my best lol. But I hope that at least she caught the vibe that I don't really give a fuck anymore hahaha

And... well if I lose her... then who cares??

There's more women out there and THERE IS A LOT OF ACTION TO TAKE. Yeah. You know what I used to think these last days? I thought that I would get this girl and I would just cherish her and stay with her forever. What a silly stupid shit. Fuck that. THERE IS A LOT OF FUCKING ACTION TO TAKE. THERE IS A WHOLE JOURNEY TO GO THROUGH.

So yeah... I better keep taking action and getting those fucking GIRLS.

NOT HAVING THE HEALTHY SEX LIFE THAT I WANT AND THAT ANY YOUNG MAN SHOULD HAVE... IT'S PATHETIC! FUCK GAME, FUCK SOCIAL SKILLS, FUCK DEATH. I AM GOING TO DIE SOMEDAY. IF NOT, THEN LIFE WILL PASS ME BY, AND THAT WILL BE EVEN WORSE THAN DEATH. I'D RATHER DIE WHILE WORKING FOR THE THINGS THAT I BELIEVE IN. LET'S DO THIS MOTHERFUCKERS. LET'S TAKE OVER.

For tomorrow:
APPROACH MOTHERFUCKER. APPROACH WHEREVER. If possible go to the mall early, before playing guitar with my friends. Otherwise, I'll have to approach at the restaurant that we are going with my hands full of barbeque sauce of hot wings. Call the other girl. It is too FUCKING LATE to do it now. Tomorrow morning I should text her something. I'll say something like "The beach was super awesome, it always relaxes me". Yeah something like that. 



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December 8 - Success is my only option... I AM NEVER GIVING UP

(1 approach)



Sometimes your friends can have bad success barriers right? Yeah... I guess.

Well, I went out today with some friends to eat and shit.

I guess I am never talking about pickup ever again hahaha, or even drinking alcohol... or listening to how much the government sucks (I guess I can just ignore that last one haha).

But yeah, it was a bit shocking lol. Like... now I can really resonate more deeply with that video. It is amazing. And certainly, you can't judge them.

Yet, all of those kinds of comments regarding success barriers kinda make me think of "What if I am wrong and they are right?", and well... who cares if I am wrong?

The only thing that truly matters is what I feel inside, and what I really want for myself. I certainly want a healthy sex life, that for sure, and in order to do that I gotta make myself strong and transform myself into an alpha male, which will of course take time.

I am committed to this journey. And I will never quit. I AM A CHAMPION.

It is funny how my only approach of the day didn't go quite well. Like, the women just did not really talk back lol. But that is fine. I guess I had a lot of shit in my head, and coming up with a fucked up intent. I am glad I approached though, and did not fuck up my 30 day challenge haha

GET THE GIRL. TAKE THE OPPORTUNITY. APPROACH. DO IT. GO. DO IT. GET THE FUCKING GIRL. THERE ARE NO LIMITS. IT IS ALL POSSIBLE. DO IT MOTHERFUCKER.

For tomorrow:
Do some approaches.
Try texting the cute black haired girl and telling her about our date tomorrow. She may flake... who the fuck cares... I'll push this motherfucking shit. Hell... I can't lose any opportunities, I gotta take advantage of them.

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 December 9 - Being a fucking man and keeping it up HARD with consistency

(1 approach)

I almost did not go out today.

I was busy pretty much all morning, then took a nap, watched some videos of pickup, and all of a sudden it was 7 pm and I had to help clean the house because we were going to have some visits. 

Shit. I don't know how... but I managed to go out at 10 pm. And I admire myself for doing that and keeping it up with the 30 day challenge. I am glad I ended up ignoring excuses and buts and just fucking did it.

I went outside the bar, and decided to get in the parking area. I had to really push myself hard to do that. I just see some women. They are not good looking. But I am like "whatever... let's do this". And I tell them they are cute. I owned the line lol. I just feel like I owned it. And well... that was it. 

So, a lesson to learn from today is that I must do pickup first thing. Stop procrastinating it. Go to the streets early and when I can. So, tomorrow I am going to the mall at 3 pm. 

My goal for tomorrow is to do minimum 10 approaches. 

I just counted all of my approaches so far since I started doing daygame in Peru and I have 927 approaches. That is great.

I have one more goal as well. I will have done 1000 approaches by the end of December 14. 

Moreover, I am going to implement a approach/close count goal for the year, like some people in the forum do.

So let's set it up:

Year approach goal: 927/1000
Day two and insta-dates goal: 0/5
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1


I have less than a month to do this so I am going to TAKE MASSIVE ACTION. The goals may look a bit ridiculous. But they also look cool and motivating as fuck, and I will not only try to achieve them, but I will try to accomplish the double of that.

So how am I going to accomplish those goals?
- Be highly analytical about my game (both inner and outer game). Be highly analytical about cause and effect relationships. Always brainstorm things that I could've said or done to keep moving the interaction forwards. Always think out of the box, both in set and when analyzing my game.
- Burn each and every set to the ground. 4 No's rule. Stay until they leave. If I get thrown out of a venue, then that is a strong indicator that I've pushed really far in the set and really burnt it. So, being thrown out or having problems with security/police/boyfriends should not be feared, but hold as an indicator that I am willing to FAIL BIG in order to live the life that I want.
- BE WILLING TO FAIL BIG, IN HUGE, INSANE WAYS.
- Take massive action. Spend 3 hours in the field every day until December 14 and make the commitment to do minimum 10 approaches. If I have 3 hours in the field and have not met the approaches goal, I will stay there until I meet it.
- FUCK THE RESULTS. FOCUS JUST ON MY ACTIONS / THE CAUSE. BE THE CAUSE. This means that I must strive to get the girl in every set and not just wait for her to magically start making out with me or take off her pants and fuck with me. FUCK THAT SHIT. This means that if I want to get an instant date, I MUST ALWAYS ASK FOR THAT INSTANT DATE. This means that if I want to fuck, I must take my dick out. This means that if I want to get the girl, I will move past any obstacle to get her. So, if I can't get the instant date, then go for the number. ALWAYS GO FOR THE INSTANT DATE FIRST. THEN THE NUMBER OR FIND ANY OTHER MEANS TO SEE THE GIRL AGAIN AND EVENTUALLY FUCK HER. 
- BE HIGHLY CONGRUENT / RADICALLY HONEST. Go with my intentions fully clear. I want the girl. I have sexual interest in her. I want to get very intimate with her and know her on a deep level. SHOW IT ALL. Recovering sex addict game can work nicely here.
- EITHER WE FUCK OR THEY GO FUCK THEMSELVES. This means that I either burn the set to the ground, making it very clear that there are no more opportunities left, or I fucking close and lead it all the way to sex in my room. I persist instead of insist. Persistance: playful and fun, keeping it up. Insistance: aggressive, a no-no.
- TALK TO TONS OF PEOPLE. MASSIVELY LOWER STANDARDS. ONLY FOCUS ON GIVING VALUE, HAVING A GOOD TIME, GOOD EMOTIONS, AND SENSING AT LEAST A BIT OF FEMALE ENERGY. Also, if I am talking to a not so attractive girl, and then I see a very attractive one pass by, I MUST PUSH myself hard to approach the attractive girl right there. NO EXCUSES.
- FUCK IDENTITY AND SELF-IMAGE. I AM A CLOWN. I HAVE FUN. I MUST BREAK OUT OF SELF-CONSCIOUSNESS. BE FULLY AUTHENTIC. BE VULNERABLE. "Be who you want and do what you want and nobody can say shit!" - Tyler. "Personality begins where comparison ends" - Karl Lagerfeld.
- GO FULLY COMMITTED. Half-stepper gets half-stepper results. If I want to really find out what can happen and accomplish my goals, I MUST ALWAYS GO FULLY COMMITTED. "Assume attraction. Assume that they are going to talk to you, have those positive assumptions. DON'T GO AROUND SEEKING REACTIONS. DON'T GO AROUND LOOKING FOR PERMISSION TO BE WHO YOU WANT TO BE" - Julien.
- BREAK OUT OF COMFORT ZONE. WANDER INTO THE UNKNOWN. ADVENTURE! DO IT! SEDUCTION!

- Go out at 3:30 - 4:30 pm every day. Finish session at 6:30 - 7:30 pm. 3 hours infield. Minimun 10 approaches.
- 1 hour of meditation everyday until December 14 (including Dec 14).
- Arrange my day as: waking up, reading this awesome list and goals, exercise, breakfast, meditation 1 hour, read or watch pickup/self-actualization stuff, read this awesome list and goals, go out at 3:30 pm - 4:30 pm, get home like at 6:30 - 8:00 pm, write field report, analyze/scrutinize game and ways to improve, chill out, go to sleep at 11:30 pm. THIS IS A LIFESTYLE. 
- Keep it up with the fantastic Paleo Diet :D
- THIS LIST MUST BE FOLLOWED STRICTLY, WITH A BIT OF FLEXIBILITY HERE AND THERE IF IT LEADS TO THE ACHIEVEMENT OF THIS YEAR GOALS. 
- SEE NOT FOLLOWING THE PROCESS MENTIONED IN THIS LIST AS THE MOST PATHETIC SHIT EVER AND SOMETHING THAT WILL LEAD ME TO BE A COMPLETE CHRONIC MASTURBATOR CHODE WHO LIVES IN A FUCKING BASEMENT PLAYING VIDEO GAMES ALL DAY. 
- REWARD FOLLOWING THE PROCESS MENTIONED IN THIS LIST BY SEEING MYSELF IN THE FUTURE SURROUNDED BY GORGEOUS GIRLS WHO LONG TO HAVE SEX WITH ME.
- THERE IS LITTLE TIME. TIME IS RUNNING OUT AND KEEPS RUNNING OUT. I BETTER MOVE MY ASS RIGHT NOW BECAUSE IF I WAIT IT MIGHT BE TOO LATE.


This year is about to end so I better move my fucking ass off. I BETTER MOVE MY FUCKING ASS OFF. THERE IS NO RETREAT MOTHERFUCKER. LET'S FUCKING DO THIS. THIS WILL BE AN AWESOME WEEK. I CAN ALREADY SENSE IT. MASSIVE ACTION MOTHERFUCKERS. FUCK YEAH. LET'S GO TAKE CARE OF BUSINESS.

For tomorrow:
- Burn sets to the ground, or always be closing. Get the girl and do whatever it takes to get her.
- Well I think that everything I need to do is on the awesome list above, so that is it for today!

Peace everybody!

Let's do this!
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 December 9 - STARTING WITH THE MASSIVE ACTION

18 approaches.

3 hours infield.

Solo.

Approaching girls with moms, families, girls with chode boyfriends, large mixed sets, everything.

SOLO.

Oh hell yeah.

I also did meditation for an hour in the morning. I did it by the pool in the sunlight though... tomorrow I am doing it in my room, staring at a white wall.

I had some good interactions. I PUSHED MYSELF SO FUCKING HARD.

I facebook closed a girl with her chode male friend. I took care of the Michael by telling the guy friend, "Hey is it cool if I take her email to add her on facebook?". So, he said yes. And now, the girl can be happy giving me her facebook. GREAT.

Then, I also talked to another girl, who might facebook close me. But I started to go into "cherish mode", and scarce and shit right in her face. Letting my scarcity emotions come to the surface. I went for the instant date with she and her friend. But she had to go and looked me up in her phone. Sadly, she didn't find me by my name, so I told her to write down my email. I hope she adds me later. Otherwise, that's cool. I was a complete chode at the end of that interaction and I probably deserve it. I think I also lacked some attraction, I may have switched too fast into a light moment of realness, which kind of puts me in the friend zone...

But that's cool. Awesome day.

Oh I love it when girls ask me in what high school I studied. And then... I get to DHV in a very casual manner, just answering the question, and inside they are like "Oh wow!". Oh fuck yeah.

A LOT OF ACTION WAS TAKEN. I had all kind of interactions: girls cockblocking me.

I did like 2 approach while playing the 30 second game lol. And I also just have to love the self-talk I employ while approaching, it is just awesome. Like really, when I am approaching solo, I will say say the most motivational things to myself to approach. At other times, I will make fun jokes of things that I notice in people or the environment. It's pretty fun haha. I even say stuff like "DO IT! SEDUCTIOOON!", and I end up approaching. I think it is really cool to develop that willpower and capacity to push yourself by approaching solo. It's greaaaat! Love it!

At certain moments I felt a lot of arousal and intent.

At other moments, I kept telling myself "Why I am awesome?", as Brad Branson says. And for a moment, I felt a lot of self-love. I could feel it in my body. I really LOVED myself for a moment and was narcissistic in a level that I have never quite experienced before. It was super cool. I'll keep asking that question to myself while cutting NTP's. That shit works haha.

FUCK YEAAAAH. I LOVE LIFE! I LOVE IT ALL!

How can I improve?
Review some daygame attraction techniques and concepts; then implement this tomorrow.

For tomorrow:
Do what I just mentioned above, and as always, follow the awesome list.

FUCK YES! This shit is great. I am liking this process more... maybe because it is more challenging haha. Love it! So I'll keep it up with the process!

Peace!

Year approach goal: 945/1000
Day two and insta-dates goal: 0/5
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
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December 10 - MASSIVE ACTION CONTINUEEES! OH FUCK YES! STARTING TO GET SOME FUCKING GIRLS!

1 hour of meditation, staring at a white wall. Done. Fuck yeah.

3 hours approaching infield. Done. Fuck yeaah.

11 approaches. Can't complain.

1 number close with pretty cute girl that I fucking like and I should start approaching more girls immediately if I want to avoide going into cherish mode. Life is good...

A possible facebook close of girl I talked to in the dark Costa Rican streets. Nice.

2 new pretty fucking cute girls I've met of cold approach in my facebook. FUCK YEAAAAAAH!

FUCK YEAAAAH LIFE IS SO FUCKING GOOD!!!! YEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH! YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!!!!!!!!!!!! 

HOLY SHIT! I AM SUPER TURBO CHARGED IN A FASCINATING SURGE OF POWERFUL EMOTIONS! 

I am kinda proud of myself haha.

There is another thing... when I think of all the girls I've closed in a certain way... I kind of feel a bit of one itis or cherishing for them. Weird...

This is the same that used to happen to me when I got good reactions of girls in my first days of daygame. I used to get small, weird one itises with girls that had only smiled at me or talked to me for a while. And now... I am kinda getting that with girls that I am closing in a way.

WOW!

Also, my connection and rapport skills are getting SICK. Dude... I am suprised at myself. I don't know how the fuck... I make connection with girls I don't know at streets and the mall. That shit sounds a bit crazy. I like that. I am proud of myself for being able to do that. That's pretty awesome.

On the other hand, I think I am going through some kind of low in the attraction phase of the interaction. So, I think that puts me in risk of getting into the friendzone. Yeaaaah.... I have to improve my INTENT of getting the girl as an intimate partner and work on sharpening some attraction techniques.

Today, I worked on future adventure projections with the girl. But there is a lot more to improve... doing some push/pulls, challenging them a bit, teasing them, that is all good. I gotta work on that. 

I had a 15 minute interaction with a pretty cute girl on the street. It went fine. I loved it. It went well. I saw her getting attracted and feeling those emotions. I got aroused as well. Here, I could improve the interaction by sitting with her. She was sitting the whole time and I was standing. Now... I was feeling like I was enough the whole time... but... sitting would've been a good idea I guess. Plus, by doing that I escalate the interaction, and she only gets more aroused.

Then, I had a 10 minute interaction with another girl in the mall. She was pretty cute as well. And she was with her friends. She was sitting. There was no place for me to sit lol. I number closed. I just texted her the nice to meet you text. She answered with nice to meet you too and a smiley face.

It's all good guys.

I also approached a mixed set, where there was a chode boyfriend that got all butthurt and reactive like a lol. Yeah... sad hahaha

The "I am awesome" mindset is BOMB as well.

I am so proud and happy for myself. I feel like I wanna cry a bit.

This is so good. :')

Thanks everybody. And... THE SHOW MUST GO ON! :D 

YEAAAH

What can I do tomorrow in order to improve myself?
Talk to the girls I have on facebook or have their numbers. Set up Day twos.
Keep reviewing attraction concepts and practicing them infield.
Follow the awesome list.

I love it all.



Peace!

Year approach goal: 956/1000
Day two and insta-dates goal: 0/5
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
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 December 11 - Keeping it up with process - Setting up Day Twos is becoming something quite hard to achieve - I WILL PUSH THROUGH THIS PLATEAU

(11 approaches)

I went out today again for 3 hours. 

I number closed in my second interaction. It was in the middle of the street. Kind of a weird interaction lol. Flake haha

Then, at the mall, I approached two sisters. I told one of them that she was pretty cute. I ended up getting her email. She said she did not have a phone because she was assaulted. Her sister told me that it was awesome how instead of just looking at girls at thinking they were cute... I actually went up to them and told them nice things. That was pretty cool haha. And it reinforced in my mind how pickup is a very natural, pure thing.

Then, I waited for a friend at the mall, and I just wanted to get to my approaching mark, so I just told girls that they were cute. I did some hard sets though, mother and daughters and that kind.

But I just did the opener... which clearly violates my rule of burning the set to the ground and getting the girl!

So, fuck that shit. No more openers and going away. PUSH IT. BURN THE FUCKING SET TO THE FUCKING GROUND.

Right now I consider myself privileged to be texting with girls. 

I've been texting and talking to girls for the last weeks. It is pretty awesome. And I love to have the opportunity to practice my skills in that area. Also, I am pretty fucking thankful that I have kind of developed my skills in this.

Today I've felt some frustration at the fact that I am failing in setting up Day Twos. 

How could I set up the Day two? I think that my texting is okay. So, I think I need to make some corrections in the initial interaction. I should go in there AUTHENTIC as fuck and still mantaining the balance with practicing outer game techniques. Another big thing is that I MUST PROTECT THE GIRL'S SOCIAL VALUE. Seriously, I think I am just going to tell them: "That's okay. If someone asks about how we know each other, you can say we met in college..." Dude... I don't know... I'll just throw that in there and see what the fuck happens. Shit... Anything could help right now. 

Also, in today's interaction with the sisters, I told the sister first "Is it okay if I see her again?". I should've said first to my target "Hey I have to go but I really want to see you again?". Then take her number. And then, tell very casually to the sister "Hey this is all cool with you right? Great!". Just assuming the positive reactions. ASSUMING THE POSITIVE REACTIONS AND NOT SEEKING REACTIONS OR PERMISSION TO BE WHO I WANT TO BE. I was kind of a permission boy in that set when I got the girl's email.

I got the cute black haired girl's facebook. It is funny how I keep persisting on this one. BUT I REALLY WANT SUCCESS. I REAAAAAAAAAAALLY WANT SUCCESS NOW!


What can I do tomorrow to improve myself?
Some more of attraction techniques. Today I implemented some challenging. It went a bit well. Keep reviewing those fucking concepts. HAMMER THEM INTO MY HEAD AND THEN GO OUT AND PRACTICE THEM. FAKE IT TILL YOU MAKE IT. After doing that tomorrow and thursday, I am DROPPING THE FUCKING GAME, and going into the AUTHENTIC ZONE of the game. And then, I'll calibrate somewhere in between. Sounds like a cool idea :D
FOLLOW THE MOTHERFUCKING AWESOME LIST. THAT LIST IS GOLD. THAT LIST SHOULD BE FOLLOWED AT ALL COSTS. THAT AWESOME LIST... FOLLOW THE FUCKING AWESOME LIST!!!

Let's keep taking hard action.

Peace.

Year approach goal: 967/1000
Day two and insta-dates goal: 0/5
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
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"In the cosmos of time, your greatest decision is no more than a fart in the wind"

 
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dcampo3

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damn dude you are commited haha keep it up!
Peace
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 @dcampo3: Oh yeah haha I am glad you noticed. It's cool how my commitment is giving me some positive feedback. It is like the world is saying "Yes Alvaro, commit, commit!". I am having some awesome times, and this too will pass, so I am really enjoying this while it lasts. And when this passes, I will increase my effort and hit it HARDER. Yep. Life is good. Can't complain.

December 12 - First instant date ever! And some numbers!

(10 approaches)

Yeah mates! First instant date ever. I was so happy when it was happening. And the girl was pretty cute too. I am texting with her right now. She hasn't answered my last text for a while. Maybe I lost her?? Well, as Jeffy would say "GET MORE GIRLS". Yeah. And I guess I will do that. But I am pretty happy that I had my first instant date, which brings me closer to achieve my year goals. AWESOME :D

So, I had massive approach anxiety today. I spent like one hour without approaching, just wandering around the streets. I did one approach. On my second approach I had an instant date

Pretty cute girl. Kind of blonde. Red jacket. Very cute. 

I approach her. She is like she kind of wants to go but still smiles. I keep pushing it forwards. Suddenly, she is laughing, I am having a great time and am in the moment. I had an awesome humour in this interaction. I also did an over the top compliment, I told her she looked like a squirrel, very small, furry, and cute. I also did some cold reads about her red jacket. Pretty good. Then I asked some light rapport questions. It was all great! Then, I noticed that her buying temperature was kind of going down so I decided to escalate and take her to the starbucks that was right in front of us. So we go in there and stand in the line. She tells me about how her boyfriend always makes her wait and gets late, and how she broke up with him but now they are back again. I just change the topic lol. And ask her "what 3 words could you use to describe yourself?"

And then we talk about that, and life, and a bit about philosophy.

Awesome. 

I guess I should've let her invest some more. Like, maybe just shut up and let her talk if she has to, or be comfortable with the silence and my own awesomeness.

Then she had to go while we were standing on the line. I told her I wanted to see her again, and take a coffee. She gave me her number.



To get solid at setting up Day Twos I must: "SUGGEST THE PLANS IN FRONT OF THEM WHILE IN PERSON AND DON'T WAIT TO SUGGEST IT ON THE PHONE. LET HER KNOW THEN AND THERE THAT YOU WANNA HANG OUT. ASK FOR THE NUMBER. TEXT HER YOUR NAME WHILE YOU ARE THERE IN PERSON. AND THEN START KIND OF GOING FOR THE DETAILS OF WHEN AND WHERE YOU GUYS ARE GOING TO HANG OUT WHILE YOU ARE STILL THERE DURING THE INITIAL INTERACTION. Like "What are you doing tomorrow? Are you free tomorrow? What are you doing the next day? What are you doing for work? When are we actually making this happen?"

Awesome. I guess I'd send the text with my name to the girl if we got on an instant date or something. Otherwise, if it was a 10 minute interaction, I'd do the same as texting her later "nice to meet you, etc and my name".

I like having a clearer idea of this day two topic. Finally haha 

I also had a number close of a tall girl from Venezuela.

And that was it. Awesome day.

What can I do tomorrow to improve myself?
"SUGGEST THE PLANS IN FRONT OF THEM WHILE IN PERSON AND DON'T WAIT TO SUGGEST IT ON THE PHONE. LET HER KNOW THEN AND THERE THAT YOU WANNA HANG OUT. ASK FOR THE NUMBER. TEXT HER YOUR NAME WHILE YOU ARE THERE IN PERSON. AND THEN START KIND OF GOING FOR THE DETAILS OF WHEN AND WHERE YOU GUYS ARE GOING TO HANG OUT WHILE YOU ARE STILL THERE DURING THE INITIAL INTERACTION. Like "What are you doing tomorrow? Are you free tomorrow? What are you doing the next day? What are you doing for work? When are we actually making this happen?"
Last day of reviewing and applying attraction concepts consciously. FUCK YEAH.
FOLLOW THE AWESOME LIST!!!!!

I LOVE IT ALL. 

I currently have 6 girls with which to practice setting up day twos. However, I will focus on making the interaction as SOLID as possible, so... I'll follow Julien's advice! :D

PEACE!!!!

Year approach goal: 977/1000 :) !
Day two and insta-dates goal: 1/5 :D !!!!!!
Kiss close goal: 0/5
Fuck close goal: 0/1
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