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November 12 - Some Realizations, The Little Wants Redemption, & Problems with Guards

(6 approaches)

Today I realized some stuff.

First, THE SKY IS THE LIMIT. Hell yeah. There are no fucking limits in this. There are only plateaus. And, if I put limits on myself, then I should rather just DIE than having the habit of putting limits on myself spread all over my life. You know what? I'd DIE to fucking achieve my dreams and not be that fucking little stagnating I once was. 

Bruce Lee put it perfectly:
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Hell yeah. I saw that in a thread in the forum. That shit is GOLD. NO FUCKING LIMITS. THE SKY IS THE LIMIT.

The second thing is: approaching girls is the most PURE, NATURAL thing a man can do. It is a true expression of yourself and what you want. It is a celebration of your existence as a man. It is honoring your role as a man in this world. It is PURE. IT IS BEAUTIFUL. Now that I see it like that, cold approach pickup seems like pure ART. And you can really FEEL the art when you approach and you fully express from the core. It is a truly beautiful feeling when you act through your own intentions and each and everyone of your words, thoughts, and actions are aligned and truly put you out there. I love how this is about putting yourself out there, about being truly vulnerable. And when you are vulnerable, you grow strong. It is a really beautiful thing, a glorified manifestation of your masculine polarity. Suddenly, enjoyment flows into my approaches. Graceful. When I am in touch with my emotions and have a clear intent, that is a moment to celebrate and to really enjoy while it lasts, until the next limiting belief or bullshit story creeps in the back of your head lol (there I realized that the sky is the limit, the story is below).

Pickup is like going back to being a child again. It is a celebration of your true inner self. It feels like removing layers of strong social conditioning that hold you back, and burning those limiting beliefs one by one, gradually growing as a person, as a MAN OF VALUE. I think that approaching with intent and expressing from the core means that you have removed several layers of social conditioning. What usually happens at the first interactions of the day is that you are concerned with what people think, and more of society's bullshit. But as you keep approaching and pushing it, you are able to show your intent more clearly and actually go for what you want, you go centered and acting through your own intentions of getting the girl, not with the "what if she rejects me?" kind of bullshit.

That is why I love this.

It looks like the ability of approaching, showing intent, and expressing from the core comes as a result of peeling away layers of social conditioning. Today, after successfully meeting these three criteria for a while, I reached a point in the interaction that I did not know about, and I got fucking scared. I got scared by success. Shit. In this successful interaction (successful both because of my actions and the reactions from the girl), it seemed like I reached a point where I could see all of the hindering social conditioning, and that got me in my head. So, I have to push things forward inset and peel away those remaining layers of social conditioning. 


I am saying this because I let go of an excellent opportunity to get a very cute girl, who happened to be an actress. There was a group of people filming a scene at the mall. When they finished, I approached this pretty cute girl. I went with intent, expressing myself from the core. It felt so good to act like this. You feel like you are being true to yourself. Wonderful feeling. Yet, I got some nice attraction from her, and only that got me in my head lol. It was like I wasn't expecting such nice, honest reactions. All of a sudden, I started thinking that she was older than me, that I am about to leave the country, that I am not dressed nicely for a girl like that, ALL SORTS OF STUPID BULLSHIT LITTLE FUCKING STORIES. BUNCH OF BULLSHIT LITTLE SHIT. And now, the thought that I could have gotten that girl, take her out, make out with her, fuck her gently and passionately, will haunt me for the rest of my approaching journey. FUCK! Dudeeeee, that shit was not nice. Then I said "FUCK THIS SHIT. As of now, NO MORE LIMITS ON MYSELF. THE SKY IS THE FUCKING LIMIT. And I will work so that I do not put ANY LIMIT, NO FUCKING LIMITS, in any area of my life. I will work to be LIMITLESS in all the aspects of my life. LIMITLESS MOTHERFUCKER."

As of now, the SKY IS THE LIMIT. It always was. But now I am conscious of it. Now I can see much clearer how the only limits are an illusion in my head. They are just a PIECE OF SHIT. PIECES OF SHIT. SHIT!!!!

It was a really gay thing to do to all of a sudden act like a and let the girl go. That was some bad shit. NOT ACCEPTABLE.

So yeah, I will try to live by the belief that the sky is the limit.

I guess I can do this:
1. Recognize when I put a limit on myself.
2. Accept it (non-resistance).
3. TAKE RIGHT ACTION. PUSH IT.

I did some sets of girls with their moms today as well. Funny approaches. I wasted another good opportunity with a girl by putting limits on myself lol. That was before I realized that the sky is the limit. So I'll really push it forward till the bitter fucking end now.

Funny Guard & Police Story

When my brother and I were getting out of the mall, a guard stopped us and called the police lol.

He said there were complains from the girls working at the mall doing interviews for credit cards.

Funny stuff actually lol.

When I see this guys I am like "Whaaat? Not these guys again! Oh come on man!". It triggers some kind of impatience in me lol. Yet I still try to be as present as possible.

After a bit of drama, we end up leaving as if nothing happened. The cops even said that the guards were idiots lol. They were nice, I guess...

So yeah, nothing happened. But those guards are watching us now. Fuck that shit. 

This explains it nicely:

"Lifes a game but its not fair
I break the rules so I dont care
So I keep doing my own thing
Walking tall against the rain
Victorys within the mile
Almost there, dont give up now
Only thing thats on my mind
Is who gon run this town tonight"




I am loving this. GOTTA KEEP IT UP STRONG!

Love and peace.
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 November 13 - One Approach

I just did one approach.

I was happy, or maybe just present.

She was very cute, blonde, white, green eyes. She was with her mom and dad.

I showed my intent. I expressed myself from the core.

Then, my standards were pretty high. I was set only to approach girls so hot or cute that men check her out. There was none.

Too bad I ejected almost right after my opener while her whole family was smiling. BE UNAPOLOGETIC. I gotta strengthen that.

Tomorrow, I am lowering my standards. I gotta get myself in the habit of approaching lots and lots of people. Just pretty much talk to everybody, socialize and give value if there are no attractive girls. I find that doing this is much fun at nightgame. But who cares? I will do it in the daytime still. That's cool.

I also found it was easier to show my intent to the girl I approached today because she was pretty cute. That is great! But I should be able to go with an intent of just socializing, thus talking to everybody, and EMBRACING WASTING TIME WITH GIRLS.


That is it.

Peace <3
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 November 15 - Self-doubt 

So yesterday I approached like 7 sets.

The last few days I've been carrying this self-doubt with me as to what to do to increase my success with women. 

If I keep doing the same thing over and over again, I will get the same results.

So I must change the HOW here.

Anyways, yesterday I approached some sets and exercised on showing my intent, which I did quite good ;) Pat on the back for that! Gotta keep it up there.

Daygame is so beautiful.

Yet, something that has been happening to me a lot on the last days is the fact that I ran out of things to say haha

I don't know how this problem came back. I HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE! It just came back. It is here. And there is that self-doubt.

I am also checking out some high quality resources on daygame. And basically what it says is that when first meeting a woman, she really does not care about your life, and would really prefer to talk about herself. After hearing that, I was like... "Yeaaah. That is so fucking true". It was one of those things that you think you knew before but you never really payed attention to it.

Today I am working on COLD READING. Yes. COLD READING. 

I also find this to be great because you are interacting as the BUYER, not the seller.

So, to cold read, instead of getting inside my head trying to come up with and filtering things to say, I will look around, I will focus my attention on the girl and see what I can guess of her. I will try to get in the moment, see the girl's features, and see what I can deduce/say/compliment/comment on the girl.

If I really ran out of things to say badly. I will be honest about and tell her, "I don't know what to say". I could even blame it on her, "Why do you do this to me?" 

So, in a NUTSHELL:
1. Do cold reads.
2. Focus ON THE GIRL. Guess about herself. Turn questions into statements! Assume things about herself and tell her!
3. Focus on the environment and say ANYTHING about ANYTHING that I see around.
4. If I really get in my head badly and don't know what to say, I'll just be honest and say "I don't know what to say", and even blame it on her.
5. TURN QUESTIONS INTO COLD READS.

So yeah that is it. I don't know why the "Turn questions into statements" things has always sounded kinda cheesy/gamey/gimmicky or something to me. So, to put in a perspective that I can resonate with, I like to see this as just assuming certain things of the girl and then expressing your own opinions to know more about herself, her world, and be that BUYER in the interaction.

To put everything together, I will cold read with the intent of either socializing or getting the girl. I will aim to express fully from the core and be as vulnerable and authentic as I can be. Since there might still be some self-doubt remainings in me, after  I am done with cold reads, I will go into the usual comfort kind of shit with the girl. I guess I'll talk a bit about myself, commonalities, etc. And to push it further into the unknown (if I reach this point in the interaction), I will take her on an instant-date or get her number (or make out with her in the dark corner :D). So yeah that is it. Oh, also, I WILL NOT EJECT THE SET! ONLY STAYING IN SET TODAY! STAY, STAY, STAY, STAY, STAY, STAY! 4 No's rule applies here :D

I will go out now and apply this.

Wish me luck,
Love
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 November 16 - Reviving my liking/love for daygame

First, I must really thank everybody that has helped me to get to the point where I am today. A year ago, I was a complete chode who could only talk to girls drunk. Today, I stopped hot girls, talked to them, kissed them on the cheek, let them go (woops haha), but I still fucking appreciate all of this.

I fucking appreciate it. I think it is a blessing. And, I am really thankful for life, and the fact that I've come this far. 

Seriously, I would've never seen myself doing what I do today. But things changed, for the better. I'm really really really thankful for that, and for this amazing opportunity to keep living.

And I think this even inspires me more to keep going and improving myself. Awesome journey. Love it a lot.

I did like 5 approaches. Four of them were on the streets. They were cool. I liked the one where there was two fucking cute/sexy girls my age. Come on guys! I would've NEVER seen myself talking to one of those sexy girls with such a strong femenine polarity. I don't know what happened at the end of that interaction, she got a text message and really had to go, she was kind of in a rush the whole time. I MUST buy time though. Buy small chunks of time and keep LEADING the interaction to make it solid so that I can see her again and FUCK her. 

Only the thinking of passionately fucking that girl sends shivers down my spine. Special thanks to my brother also who did some pretty great winging there. The guy has improved a lot his winging skills.

Or I can also go with her for a while wherever she has to go. Although, in this case, it seemed like buying some time "Just one minute, one minute" would have been enough to get the number close.

Then, I tried to wing my brother, and failed haha. I gotta sharpen those winging skills! Mainly, I have to take a bit of initiative and be proactive, yet not so much that I would turn all of the attention on me... or I don't know. I guess I will just calibrate that hehe

Inside the mall, I did a mixed approx. 12 set. It was fun. I went straight to the girl of my interest. Her initial response was a smile, however, then she turned away lol. I think I put on her all of the pressure of her friends, or the "Michaels" as Julien would say. 

It was cool though.

So, yeah, I really enjoyed this day, being the last day of daygame at the Jockey Plaza this year. What a great place, and it gave me so much experiences and memories. I guess this is really a stage in my life that I will never forget and will always remember as the stage in which I manned the fuck up to attain my dreams, goals, and visions.

I succeeded with the cold reading thing. It worked nice :D

Tomorrow I am applying it again.

I love it all. Really great times her in Peru. I am going to Costa Rica on Sunday btw.

That, and I also found that now I just like approaching hot girls in daygame. It kind of helps me with my intent and expressing from the core. In nightgame though, the goal is to small chunk and talk to EVERYBODY lol.

So yeah, I am loving it, and I am glad that I do. I hope everyone is loving it too. There is a very nice, pleasant feeling in my brain now. Is it the clean diet? Maybe :D

But maybe it is because I got some pleasing external results today (even if you consider them lame), I liked to be in that interaction with the hot girl and FEEL her feminine polarity. It just felt so GOOD!

So that is it now. 

Much love RSD Nation!
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 November 17 - Last Day in Peru - Karaoke - Nightgame - Claw on the arm

(25 approaches)

Yesterday was my last day in Lima - Peru so I went on an approaching rampage with my friends.

We did some daygame.

It was super cool.

We did some karaoke, pumped up our state, and went out to do some street game and go to the club.

Inside the club, I went to socialize.

I did the claw on the arm and finally got some nice response out of that. Although, the girl's friends always took her away from me. 

I remember going really strong with a tall HB 8. This happened after doing this move half-assed like 5 times. I shouted to this girl "HEY!" really loud, grabbed her arm, she smiles, I pull her in, talk in her ear. But then she starts to move my hand away from her, I see that her friend is taking her away, she leaves. That was still pretty great lol.

I had another one of those where the girl just smiled and said "Who are you?", but her friends again, pulled her away. It was pretty fun doing those physical openers. I also opened from behind using that move, gently pulling the girl's arm from the back. I did it once, and it worked. Yet, the girl was hurried or some shit like that, looking for someone with her friend, and her friend again pulled her away. 

So I guess I have to learn to deal with friends. Maybe I could do the "Just 2 seconds" thing. Yeah.

It was pretty damn fun.

Pretty much I learned more of that move. Now that I did the claw on the arm good, I reached a new problem, which is pulling the girl in. Most of the times, I would pull her in half-assed, because I wasn't even expecting the nice initial reactions that resulted from a committed action. Or... I expected those reactions, but getting them was out of my comfort zone haha

I also learned that going strong, fully committed, gives off good results! As long as you are not using schtick and you are acting through your own intentions!

That is it.

Peru

I had 4 intense months because of pickup lol.

It was pretty fucking great.

A lot of thanks to my brother, and to the guys in the crew. Their commitment to this journey is really admirable.

I learned so much things in these last 4 months. I guess I calibrated a lot of my social skills / game, and also developed my own self, becoming a better person. I guess I am more of an alpha male now, or at least more centered or confident. Who knows? I can't really see that lol. All I see is where I am right now, and it is a pretty good place. A year ago I couldn't talk on the phone, so I guess I've become better in these last four months hehe

THANKS PERU! AWESOME PLACE!

Peace out!
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November 18 - New Project Arises Out of Necessity - SWEET COSTA RICA

Today I arrived to Costa Rica. What a beautiful place, with its sky, dusk, palm trees, fresh wind, cloudless nights. It is a fucking awesome place. I love its beauty.

What I Want To Do Here:

I want to build a fucking empire, in less than a month. I want success with women NOW. 

I recognize that having success with women will take hard work, but I am willing to make that effort.

If I want to live my dream life here, I have to make it happen.

For that reason, I've devised a brand new plan. It is not really a plan, but an UNBREAKABLE LAW. No matter what happens, this law will keep in place, COME HELL OR HIGHWATER.

Welcome to the LET'S MAKE IT HAPPEN PROJECT.

LMIH PROJECT

The LMIH Project is all about living my dreams now, right now. This is about working really hard and diligently. This is about pushing myself WAAAY beyond my pain threshold. And of course, saying "FUCK IT. I AM LIVING A SWEET LIFE NOW, RIGHT NOW. I WANT TO LIVE A SWEET LIFE, AND A SWEET LIFE I WILL LIVE, NO MATTER WHAT IT TAKES."

This the plan:
- Approach minimun one set everyday (if logistic are shit). If I have free time and space, I will spend 3 hours in the field. The base of this, however, is to approach one set a day and try to show my intent and express from the core.
- Diligently worK on my daygame and seeing ways in which I can improve it to get the BEST RESULTS.
- Build that fucking social circle. Start talking to my dear Costa Rican male/female friends and start a nice, healthy, social life. Expand that circle as well. COMMUNICATE WITH EVERYBODY ASAP.
- Go to parties every week (if there are parties, if not... then more daygame).
- THERE ARE NO LIMITS. THERE ARE NO EXCUSES.
- Have a lot fun. It is really important to HAVE FUN, and be relaxed.
- Paleo Diet. I am only allowed to eat LIGHT indulgences when I am faced with a dinners with guests or some stupid shit like that where I know that it is impolite to not eat. And only LIGHT, SMALL INDULGENCES. Lately, I've been going far with these indulgences. FUCK THAT SHIT. NO MORE. LIVING A LIFE FULL OF INDULGENCES THAT IS UNHEALTHY IN THE LONG TERM IS FUCKING PATHETIC. INDULGING IN UNHEALTHY FOODS DAY AFTER DAY WITH THE SAME RATIONALIZATION THAT "I WILL ONLY DO IT TODAY AND THEN NO MORE" IS THE MOST PATHETIC SHIT EVER AND I WILL NOT FALL INTO THAT PATTERN. 
- Keep healthy habits like reading good books, meditation, exercise, etc.


SWEET COSTA RICA

If I want to make the most out of this time in Costa Rica and really make it SWEET, I have to make it happen. It is not going to happen by itself. I have to put the effort, the work, and MAKE IT HAPPEN.

Things will not fall on my lap. I HAVE TO CHASE THEM. I MUST CHASE THEM!

I MUST LIVE THE LIFE THAT I WANT. AND I WILL CHASE THAT SWEET LIFE LIKE A MOTHERFUCKER.

If I don't move and take action, I will end up closed at home like a FUCKING LOSER, WORSE THAN A CHODE. I will not fall back into that loser kinda shit. That loser life is hell.

It is up to me to turn Costa Rica into SWEET COSTA RICA, into a heaven. 

I will follow the plan come hell or highwater, because I know that if I fail once, that is enough to fuck it all up and lead me to end up living a hell, closed at home without receiving sunlight and isolated from the world like a fucking chode. 

I will WORK HARD. I AM PUTTING IT HERE RIGHT NOW. I AM WORKING REALLY DAMN HARD. EACH TIME I FEEL THE PAIN, I WILL ENJOY THAT SHIT. PAIN IS MY FRIEND AGAIN.

APPROACH EVERY FUCKING DAY. PUSH SETS TO THE LIMIT. LOVE FOR DAYGAME AND THE GAME ITSELF. DILIGENTLY WORK ON MY DAYGAME AND IMPROVE IT.

It is my time motherfuckers. I am coming hard now. THIS IS MY FUCKING TIME. I AM MAKING SHIT HAPPEN RIGHT NOW.

I'LL READ THIS POST EVERY MORNING AND FIGURE OUT WAYS TO REFINE THE PROCESS SO THAT IT YIELDS THE BEST RESULTS.

Peace.

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 November 19 - TropicalMan Adapting Again In Tropical Land

(2 approaches? Ok let's count those lol or not better not. Let's count the real shit, direct approaches only, nopussy shit!!!!! (this kind of approaches include ("hey I think you are cute" and the simple "Hello") so no approaches today haha tomorrow there WILL BE APPROACHES THOUGH!)

I woke up today feeling great. Yeah. Life is good.

I read yesterday's FR post, I got all pumped up, fuck yeah. I did with the Paleo today! Fuck yeah, very healthy eating for my sexy body.

As the day went by, I got worried about the approaching thing, and I got more and more anxiety to only THINK about approaching. Damn!

So, like at 8:00 PM I leave home and take a walk to the mall, walking tall against the rain! (literally lol)

As I walk, I start to lose that anxiety, and it begins to transform into a strong excitement! I am all pumped up as I walk to the mall,

I get in the mall, and I see hot Costa Rican girls! Yeaaah. Back in Costa Ricaaaaa yay!

Yet, I see them with boyfriends, family, or some other scary situations, and I don't approach. What a I was.

I see one by herself, but I don't know why the fuck I don't approach. I am in my head, for some reason I think that the guards are watching me (WTF?!), and have some NTPs.

Unfortunately, I didn't approach direct once. All I did was 2 "where is the starbucks?" openers.

Then I got approached by a guy selling me his religion stuff. So I chatted with him for a while about happiness coming from within and etc, etc lol.

After that I was in a much better state and my NTP's about approaching were pretty weak. So I was in the mood for approaching, as I was already talkative and stuff. Yet, I didn't see any hot girl anymore, it was kinda late. It sucked a bit.

But I learned that as long as you do something that you love and believe it is completly worth doing, then it is all JUST FINE. If you come from a place where you have shame of what you are doing, then there is something wrong there and you need to change that, you must love what you are doing. Daygame was so damn fun!

Being on my purpose

And I also noticed how, when I wasn't approaching through the whole day and I was sitting in front of a computer reading pickup theory, I was all anxious and uncomfortable. Even if I tried to focus all my attention in the Now, I felt anxiety/pain deep inside. It was pretty bad. And I link this to the fact that I wasn't taking action and killing that alpha self in me that got up in front after so much hard work. When I was walking to the mall, I suddenly started to feel pretty good and confident again. So, now I see more clearly how this cold approach pickup thing is still part of my outer purpose. They say that when you walk your path, you feel good. Well... as I was walking to the mall, metaphorically walking the path in the pickup journey, I felt good. I felt as if a part of me was quite happy and satisfied. It was pretty amazing! 

Fear of Failure

I was thinking throughout the day: "What if she rejects me?" or "What about this?"

Then, I read The Alchemist, and in the introduction found this quote:
"Well, necessary or not, they happen. When we first begin fighting for our dream, we have no experience and make many mistakes. The secret of life, though, is to fall seven times and to get up eight times.

So, why is it so important to live our personal calling if we are only going to suffer more than other people?

Because, once we have overcome the defeats – and we always do – we are filled by a greater sense of euphoria and confidence. In the silence of our hearts, we know that we are proving ourselves worthy of the miracle of life. Each day, each hour, is part of the good fight. We start to live with enthusiasm and pleasure. Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives." (Coehlo, ix)


After today's experience, this makes much more sense. I will repeat it again "Intense, unexpected suffering passes more quickly than suffering that is apparently bearable; the latter goes on for years and, without our noticing, eats away at our soul, until, one day, we are no longer able to free ourselves from the bitterness and it stays with us for the rest of our lives." (Coehlo) DAMN! That part! After today's experience that makes so much more sense and it makes me realize that I MUST GO THROUGH THAT INTENSE, UNEXPECTED SUFFERING AND EMBRACE IT.

Some months ago, I did that hardcore. I went for the hardest sets ever, and pushed myself really FUCKING HARD. The results were mostly internal. And I got a little frustrated that I did not get much external results, but guess what? IT DOESN'T FUCKING MATTER. THE WAY TO TRULY MEASURE SUCCESS WITH WOMEN IS WITH THE INTERNAL RESULTS, THE INTERNAL CHANGES.

For that reason, tomorrow, I am going back to the old "USE FEAR AS FUEL" motto. LET'S TAKE THIS SHIT TO THE NEXT FUCKING LEVEL. 

Tomorrow, I will approach all kind of scary sets and just LET THE CHIPS FALL WHERE THEY FUCKING MAY AND DEAL WITH THAT SHIT LIKE A FUCKING MAN!

IT'S TIME TO PUT THE ALPHA SELF IN FRONT!

IT IS TIME TO FUEL THAT INNER GROWTH LIKE I DID A WHILE BACK! LET'S FUCKING DO THIS!!!!

FUCK YEAAAH


So, for tomorrow:
Fear as fuel.
Approach all kinds of sets, and a LOT! IF I FAIL, THEN I BETTER FAIL BIG! 


I am reading this tomorrow in the morning and also before approaching.

Let's do this.

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November 20 - Direct Approach in Costa Rica... Finally

(4 approaches)

I went to the mall. 

I asked for the starbucks once.

And then I said "Fuck it", I went to a pretty girl and told her she was cute. Then I left quick lol.

After that, I approached a pretty cute girl at the food court. This time I made some conversation, and then I left like a pussy...

Then my friend arrived.

While we were waiting in line in Starbucks, I saw a blonde girl pass by, so I am like "Shit! I gotta approach this one", so I tell my friend to wait for me for a second, and then I approach her lol.

She is quite attracted to me and stops right there even when her friends leave her all alone lol. So I talk to her there. I made some conversation, cold reading, and then I don't know what the fuck to do or how to proceed with the interaction, so I leave.

Then, I see some hot girls, really pretty. My friend tells me to go talk to them if I want... I wasn't really expecting that lol. So, having his support, I go talk to them. One of them was pretty hot and attracted to me. While the other girl showed body language of wanting me to leave lol! But I just stayed there and made some conversation, some cold reading. This time I saw how with cold reading, the girl's attraction grew kinda stronger. She was like 22 probably lol. Anyways, I leave because, again, I am not sure how to proceed or get the number or other shit like that. I am planning to check out material on daygame tomorrow in order to get better at staying in set, getting those numbers, and Day 2s.

Afterwards, I see those pretty girls with their boyfriends at the food court lol.

So yeah, that was it.

I learned that an important attitude here is saying "Fuck it! I'll FORCE myself to approach even if I don't feel like it, and we'll see what happens".

Ozzie's post on failing big and a lot also motivated me a lot.

That is it.

Now, I will go celebrate the fact that I approached.

Peace!
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dcampo3

dcampo3

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Join Date: 05/01/2012 | Posts: 1988

HAHAH I REMEMBER THIS USED TO HAPPEN TO ME!!!
I find out that the reason why nothign happened was because i felt that i had invested so much.. and she hadnt invested yet. (I had talked.. but she hadnt talked)
Tell her: So!.. arent you going to ask about me? Something like that.
Another thing.. you know what you have to do?. GET THE GIRL.
Means.. if you are in that situation... get her logistics.. and take her on an insta date.. if possible
Peace!
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She is quite attracted to me and stops right there even when her friends leave her all alone lol. So I talk to her there. I made some conversation, cold reading, and then I don't know what the fuck to do or how to proceed with the interaction, so I leave.
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dcampo3 wrote:
HAHAH I REMEMBER THIS USED TO HAPPEN TO ME!!!
I find out that the reason why nothign happened was because i felt that i had invested so much.. and she hadnt invested yet. (I had talked.. but she hadnt talked)
Tell her: So!.. arent you going to ask about me? Something like that.
Another thing.. you know what you have to do?. GET THE GIRL.
Means.. if you are in that situation... get her logistics.. and take her on an insta date.. if possible
Peace!
TropicalMan wrote:

She is quite attracted to me and stops right there even when her friends leave her all alone lol. So I talk to her there. I made some conversation, cold reading, and then I don't know what the fuck to do or how to proceed with the interaction, so I leave.
Hmmm what actually happens is that they are investing in the interaction, making comments, laughing, staying there, adding stuff to the cold reads I do, but I reach a point where I am like... soooo how do I build a connection with her? How can I make love to her? And then, deep down inside, the chode is putting the limits and is afraid of rejection, but mostly, the chode is probably scared to death of success.
True story ;)
I am gonna fix that
I also think that I should tell her "so aren't you going to ask about me?" a bit later afte finding out about her passions and her world.
You just gave me a nice idea actually, when I reach the point I just mentioned above, I CAN ask for her logistics and move her somewhere, that would actually strenghten the connection and I would also take advantage of the fact that she is attracted to me and immersed in her emotions. Thank you for that awesome suggestion mate! I've just realized that... "If you are not finding the right answers, you are not asking the right questions". When I consciously asked myself the questions above, I found the answer in what you just commented and Brad Branson's concept of the "Spinning plates". Thank you bro!
I am going to practice that stuff tomorrow ;)
People here are pretty niceeee!! (this is what I've experienced so far lol, there's probably bitchy girls around here too) :D
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"In the cosmos of time, your greatest decision is no more than a fart in the wind"

 
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