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 @dcampo3: FUCK YEAH BRO! FUCK YEAH! I roll all the motherfucking time. The difference is I am rolling high speed right now. High speed here. Fucking haters trying to catch me riding dirty. Fuck them! I FUCKING ROLL BRO! FUCKING ROLLING! FUCK YEAH! GET MONEY GET BITCHES! MAKE IT RAIN FUCK YEAH.

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Just drop the line: Whats your number?
If she says no.. you plough. OH! Just to text you know.. i like you... blah blah blah
Congrats for looking pretty damn solid... ill never forget this day
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 October 13 - Another great and fun day

I did like 14 approaches.

Highlights

Cute girl outside the bathrooms: I tell her she is cute. She is pretty cool lol. Then, I find out she has a boyfriend. So, I talk a bit more for a while, and then I eject all nice haha

I am hugging lots of girls lol. It is pretty cool! It is good for the loveeee

Lol I am thinking maybe I can pick them up and spin them around hahaha. That would be so cool :)

Cute girl: pretty quick interaction. She is in a rush. More hugs lol. She gives me her name to search her in facebook. I just found her. I think.... she might be really young, like 13 or 14. Holy shit, I don't know what I am doing. I am just  trying to get more girls here. But a moral part of myself tells me: "NO NO. SHE MIGHT BE REALLY YOUNG! THAT'S WROOOOOOONG, WROOOOOOOOOONG". I guess I'll just chat her up on facebook then... kinda to keep a small abundance going on there. Heck... I don't know what I am doing here. The good thing is that I am 17 and this is legal lol.

Cute blonde german girl: Oh my gosh, I committed a little suicide here, and one that hurts lol. It was a pretty tough set, pretty fucking tough. It was a six set of young girls, like 15 or 16 years old. I start chasing the set, with a fucking crowd in my way, and I can feel how as time goes by, I gradually get approach anxiety lol. It was like... approach anxiety started to creep in, and I was just rushing to the approach anyways. So, they walk into an ice-cream store and wait in line. I am like "Fuck! Whatever let's get into the ice-cream store", but I had some really high adrenaline by then lol. I still did it. I approached. She only spoke English. Good for me. I talked to the friends for a while. But it was somehow uncomfortable gaming her alone in front of all her friends, staring at me lol. And then... I decided to LEAVEEE FUUUUCK! WHAT PART OF JEFFY'S WISE WORDS "GET MORE GIRLS" DIDN'T I UNDERSTAND?

But well... next time I have to make sure that I at least go for a facebook close. I mean... damn it wasn't that hard lol!

It just felt a lot of pressure hahaha

I need to deal with that.

So, gotta work in my FB-closing, number-closing, just closing overall. 

Still, pretty awesome day. And pat on the back to myself for doing that approach as well.

Aitte, everything's going fucking awesome here. Doing my classy paleo diet. Doing free-running sleep as well to enhance my beautiful looks, my awesome face, god I love that face! Pretty sexy, no homo. Laughing at blowouts. Actually, guess what? My bro and I have another name for blowouts. Our word for blowout is "Non-Realization Of A Glorious Interaction", or NOAGI. Actually it was something else lol. But the way we apply it is "DUDE I JUST GOT NOAGI'ed!! YOU SAW THAT SHIT?!". And all is so much self-amusement, fun, and play. GOD I FUCKING LOVE THIS. This is pretty fucking awesome. Just having a lot of fun at the mall. We have really developed the "I don't give a fuck what people thinks of me" mentality. We do some of the most stupid, ridiculous shit just to amuse ourselves. It is so fucking awesome. We should fucking record that shit lol. 

We make so much fucking fun that approaching is probably our peak of the day. Well... I think it is my peak at least. And this goes back to a month ago. Just approaching to self-amuse, saying stuff for myself, and doing crazy shit at the mall. It seems like... I make approaching my play time lol.

Alright that is it.

Much love! 

Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH AT STREETS, BUS STOPS, BRIDGE... EVERYWHERE BUT THE MALL.
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October 14 - Super Chill

So keeping it up with the taking action today.

I did like 8 approaches.

Some nice blowoutssss.

I realize I wasn't speaking up too much. I was going really low. Some people were freaked out by me telling them they were cute lol.

But that is awesome. That is really fucking great. Life is so fucking GOOD. FUCK YEAH.

FUCK YEAAAAAH!!!!

I feel spectacular because I just realized how far I've come in this journey. I am loving taking action. Some minutes ago, I remembered myself as being that fat, short, Native American looking boy who would stutter all the time and couldn't even talk to girls. And I see that boy, and I respect that boy, because that boy, was a brave boy. He was a boy who wanted to be great. That boy is now this grown boy writing this right now. And this boy right here right now feels really grateful to everyone that has helped him. Really, who could have asked for more? This is so fucking SWEET.

Approaching Highlights

I hooked the set. I notice that a difference between the blowouts and this set was that in this one I actually went fully committed. So, there goes the lesson, GO FULLY COMMITTED TO THE APPROACH. Be vulnerable. Act through your own intentions with freedom from outcome.

Two cute brazilian girls. I had a pretty great interaction. Girls were in their last year of college. There was a nice opportunity to facebook or number close them. But then, I felt like I was not enough, damn! I think it is a lack of entitlement or something. And then, I pictured them not adding me on facebook or flakind, or being the kind of girls who only date big muscular tall guys. Damn! FUCK ALL OF THOSE LIMITING BELIEFS! STUPID BELIEFS! MY PENIS HATES YOU BASTARD LIMITING BELIEFS! So, I need to push through that. I need to shut the fuck up and do it. That is it. Take action! I have to LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. Who cares if the girls flaked, all that matters is that I TAKE ACTION AND LOSE MY FUCKING EGO.

This is already the second time in the last days that I let go of an opportunity to close = NOT GOOD!! GOING FOR THE CLOSE = MUY GOOD!

So yeah, I have to go there and BAM! LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. JUST SHUT THE FUCK UP AND TAKE ACTION.

Peace out!

Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH AT STREETS, BUS STOPS, BRIDGE... EVERYWHERE BUT THE MALL.

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO KEEP LEADING THE INTERACTION FORWARDS!

FUCK MY EGO. LET'S DO THIS!
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October 15 - Very Low-Energy Approaches

So I got into the mall. 

I start hitting it up solo. Bunch of blowouts here and there. It's all cool.

My brother comes. 

I keep approaching with him. We have our own party.

Then my energy starts to drop drastically lol.

Suddenly, I become very low energy.

I did like 8 approaches total.

Only my last approach hooked. Cute girl. Very low-energy approach. Like reaaaaally low-energy and chill. Idk why I am so low in energy. I think I am sleeping too much that I am becoming lethargic. So, I have a pretty good interaction. I ask for her name to add her on facebook. She says she doesn't know me and that she isn't supposed to do that. I try to empathize a bit. She gives me her name. I guess I could have asked for her number, say something like "But what if I don't find you, what is your number?", or some stupid shit like that. I am not finding her on facebook. I think I've seen someone that may look like her, but I am not sure so yeaah, number next time. I'll ask for facebook as a way to get compliance and then move things forward with the number. Anyways, I hug her, say goodbye, and leave.

Today I pussied out from some pretty hardcore tough approaches. Doing those approaches are in my best interest. The only reason that I am approaching well today is because I really fucking pushed myself into doing the scariest approaches I could think of a month ago. 

While I work on densifying certain personality traits, I need to definitely work a bit more on that surface layer of wandering into the unknown with some of the scariest sets ever. I CHOOSE to do this because I BELIEVE that it will pay off generously. 

So, tomorrow, I am going with the "using fear as fuel" mindset again. HIGH-INTENSITY TRAINING AGAIN!! FUCK YES.

Only this time, I am going with FEAR AS FUEL but I am also adding the LYE Project rules to it. 

So basically, this is about using FEAR AS FUEL keeping in mind at all times that the sole purpose of this is too approach A LOT and JUST LOSE MY FUCKING EGO. This means I am approaching really fucking scary sets and I will say "Fuck it. Fuck reactions. Fuck it if she is nice to me or not. I'll LOSE MY EGO." And BAM! I approach those scary sets. 

Also, I can see some deeper implications to the FEAR AS FUEL style of approaching. FEAR AS FUEL is about taking action regardless of any NTP or limiting belief. I feel like it is about being the observer of the mind, and just taking action while observing all of those thoughts. Interesting. I'll do this and think of better ways to put my thoughts into words at the same time.

That's it!

Peace!

Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH AT STREETS, BUS STOPS, BRIDGE... EVERYWHERE BUT THE MALL.

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO KEEP LEADING THE INTERACTION FORWARDS!

FEAR AS FUEL. FUCK MY EGO. LET'S DO THIS!
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October 16 - "Unfulfilled potential" approaches and a hook

I went out today, keeping it solid with the process.

I made like 8 approaches.

I had a bunch of rejections, some of them people might say "brutal" lol. 

I got a bit down for a while, then I saw this:



And I felt so much better and turbo-charged with the UNLIMITED POWER!

So, I also got a hook with a cute girl. I hugged her. I didn't close... COME ON! I AM CHOOSING TO FUCKING GO FOR THE CLOSE FROM NOW ON! 

Then I got girls looking at me as if I was a freak lol. Or girls condescendently rejecting me lol. Wow. But yeah, I can't take such things personally, there is so much out of my control, it is futile to focus on that external stuff. 

The Game is all about focusing on the internal changes and maintaining a positive attitude and FAITH in the process.

I broke out of my comfort zone today in some approaches. Pretty tough lol. It is pretty great that I am getting in that habit of breaking out of my comfort zone. The good thing is that the habit is getting more and more ingrained so it is become "easier" to break out of it in a certain way. However, there are some sets that DO cause more "excitement" to approach, and these are the sets that I need to work on, and approach, striving for a 2 minute mark.

Much love RSD! 

Oh I am adding another goal, it is "using fear as fuel". I find this necessary to approach those really tough sets that I do not want to approach and then I make some silly excuse. FEAR AS FUEEEEEL!


Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).
- FEAR AS FUEL. Talk to everybody, all kinds of sets. And yes, these include the famous "girls with their moms" sets :D


Hell yeah, it is time to step it up a bit. So many times I've lost the opportunity to meet a really cute girl just because she is with her mom. It is silly, and a waste of an opportunity. So, I am approaching these girls and calibrating after the fact. It doesn't matter that I don't know what to say or what to do, I'll just fucking GO lol! It doesn't matter any NTP's that I get as well. I will BREAK through that and create that habit. I think Ozzie said this, "ANYTHING WORTHY OF DOING IS WORTH DOING POORLY". So, fuck perfectionism, fuck my ego. I am gonna put myself on the line and I am gonna approach these tough sets. I am going to gradually build some nice character there while just losing my ego.

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH ANYWHERE WHEN I AM NOT WITH MY WING!

FEAR AS FUEL. FUCK MY EGO. LET'S DO THIS!
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 I just had a MARVELOUS and simple idea today!

After seeing a post by Tyler that game is about trying, I found out that... woops!! I am not even trying to go for the numbers.

For that reason, starting today until October 24, I will ask for the number of all girls that I approach. I will just throw out the "What's your number?". And that's it :D

Sure I might get some flakes here and there, but I am also pretty sure that some girls will answer and then I'll go for the D2's.

So I'll be doing that for a week to hundreds and hundreds of girls!! :D

:D !!
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 October 17 - Asking for numbers & Lots of fun :D

So yeah I started asking for the number. It had some pretty funny responses. It was pure self-amusement.

But... I did it with sets that I didn't hook. I just hooked like one set today, pretty damn well lol, but I didn't find the chicks quite attractive, which is pretty stupid because I should have just asked for the number ANYWAYS!!!!!!!

The best choice would be to ask for the number with all sets, ESPECIALLY with the sets that hook! :D

Anywho...

I found the two gorgeous hot English girls I talked to like two months ago when I had one of my first big moments in daygame cold-approach pickup.

The blonde one was pretty talkative, and hot as well lol. 

We had fun there. My brother came. One girl was married and the blonde one had a boyfriend, so it was pretty much just talking and having fun lol.

Then, my brother and I found the guys from the pickup lair. 

They do seem much more experienced than us lol. So, we are going out with them on Saturday to learn some shit.

When I am with them, I see two girls' backs, so I think they are pretty and approach. Turns out they aren't that pretty. I give high-fives, group hug lol. And then I walk away. BUT... I had to ask for the FUCKING NUMBER, lower my fucking standards and JUST GO FOR THE FUCKING NUMBER!! lol

So that is it!

Much much love! I had a lot of fun today which is great. I think the number one thing in this is to really have fun, or as Alex says "Your criteria for success should be to be 100% relax 100% of the time". I think he said something like that. Makes a lot of sense lol. 

Much love!

Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).
- FEAR AS FUEL. Talk to everybody, all kinds of sets. And yes, these include the famous "girls with their moms" sets :D

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH ANYWHERE WHEN I AM NOT WITH MY WING!

FEAR AS FUEL. FUCK MY EGO. LET'S DO THIS!
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October 18 - The CHAMP vs the chump - Putting the CHAMP in front! 

10 approaches


Today I arrived at the mall and started approaching solo. I went out to the dark streets and started doing some street game there lol. I thought I would enjoy the challenge and learn some stuff by calibrating after the fact.

Funny how my warm-ups were at the streets. I did like 4 approaches. I didn't hook a set, so I decided to go inside the mall again.

There I do some sets to keep warming up. It's funny how when I am solo I reaaaally need some warm up sets to check the loudness of my voice, and get all of the psychological components of pickup in place lol. It kinda seems like the takeoff of an airplane and its pilots checking out the gauges and stuff, and pushing some buttons and shit.

I approach a three set, just keep talking even though they seem kinda uninterested or they at least don't know what to say lol. These ones are funny haha

So I talk some shit to kinda get my waffle on (which is pretty off lol). And then as I am about to eject, I see one of the girls who do interviews at the mall that knows me. She is kinda cool with me so she is like "Oh you again? What are you doing now?" in a playful tone lol. But then her friend comes, and I think she hates me, as well as my brother lol, and she tells the girls I approached that I go around stalking girls.

For some reason, the event was pretty amusing. It's even funnier that I decided to re-approach that set. I said "Wasn't that weird?", and the fatty in the set responds in some hostile tone, then I get a phone call by my brother that he is in there so I eject, find him, and we start hitting up.

It is also funny how after that I did some pretty good approaches in front of the girl that told me I stalk girls. Take that bitch! lol

Nah, it's all good. Love.

What I did a lot today was breaking out of my comfort zone. As soon as I saw a hard set, I would feel the chode in me trying to hold me back, I would acknowledge it, and then just go approach to get into the habit of breaking out of the chump self and putting THE CHAMP in front. Fuck yeaah ;)

I say Hi! to a girl walking towards me who was in a mixed 6 set. She kept staring at me, all weirded out lol! I went for the handshake. And she kept standing there staring at me all freaked out. Then the guys in set told them to leave lol

AWESOME!

Pretty scary shit: This is something that I've been wanting to do for a long time. I went to a girl that's sitting alone at a table outside the Starbucks. I pointed at a chair and said "Is it busy?". She says no. So, I boldly sat on the chair lol. Pretty scary shit for me! After that point I wasn't sure what to do, I was in the unknown lol. So I said "Hey there. My name is TropicalMan". She was like "Yeaah I don't want to talk right now". That shit was hilarious. I just left. I could've ploughed lol. I guess I'll do that every now and then to self-amuse or go for a hot girl lol.

NICE!

Oh, I didn't ask for any numbers today. FUCK!

I think the thing is to ask for the number right in the first approach to set the rhythm. I don't really know if this asking for the number thing will be healthy or work. But I guess I should try it out anyways and see what happens.

That is it.

Peace out!

Goals:
- Approach TONS of girls. Just TONS and TONS of girls.
- When I see a girl that I like, I will approach her.
- Talk to EVERYBODY wherever I go to (includes girls I am not attracted to, guys, old people at the bus, who the fuck cares; the thing is to keep the nice rhythm and macro momentum going).
- Just focus on the process and in ways to refine that process (fuck results).
- FEAR AS FUEL. Talk to everybody, all kinds of sets. And yes, these include the famous "girls with their moms" sets :D

USE ALL OF MY WILLPOWER TO APPROACH ANYWHERE WHEN I AM NOT WITH MY WING!

FEAR AS FUEL. FUCK MY EGO. LET'S DO THIS!
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I guess I'll add to my last post that the approaching session was a good execution of "just shutting the fuck up and getting on with it". Although, I can also object with the fact that at time I would really be pushed into the unknown and took the easy way of leaving set lol. I am still pretty proud of those scary approaches lol. NICEEEEE! 

Now here is the new topic:

APPROACHES COUNT!


hehe

I just counted my approaches since August 24, and the number of approaches is...

339!

So, counting all of the approaches I've done in Peru so far I have...

542 approaches!!

Yay!!!!!

Fuck yeaaah!

Yep! Sounds pretty great! Pat on the back for me! I kinda thought I was going to get like 600, but then, thinking about it, 542 is a lot haha

And, if you count all of the 2 sets, 3 sets, 4 sets, etc, then and estimate for the people I've talked to in the last months would be like 800-1000. That's definitely more people than I have talked to in my WHOLE LIFE!!

Pretty excited about this lol. So fucking awesome. Sooooo awesome. 

I am very grateful as well. I wanna thank everybody that has helped me so far, especially my brother Chode Campos, thank you man, your unique wingmanship is truly appreciated.

So I'll just keep approaching and having fun.

I guess the main thing is: approach a LOT, but also try to always learn something from every day in the game, and question yourself, proactively look for areas to improve on!

I just noticed that the last days I have forgotten to ask myself "What did I learn today?". Lucky me, I just remembered and I reflected on what I learned today. I will keep asking myself the question :D !!

That is it. I am going out tomorrow again, just take action, approaching, and kind of forgetting about this approaching count for the purpose of just having fun and not seeing girls as a number. Bye! :D
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