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June 18th, 2013
How do women view sex????? How do they think????
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o2high

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I used to have female friends and would occassionally witness them talking about sex or how they wanted to hook up but it was almost always in a very discreet secret code. I would tried to listen and decode what they were really saying but they only gave vague implicit hints instead of being explicit and obvious about what they were really thinking like guys are. At the time it left me flustered because I was living in a socially condtioned fog, did not understand girl talk, and was not observant enough to read between the lines that everything they said or did either directly or indirectly involved sex.

It seem most women would rather drop suble hints that they are interested or maybe even deny that they are attracted instread of being honest/direct and actually letting the dude know they are interested?

It seems some women view sex as not a big deal and casually sportfuck whoever while being in complete denial about being a whore, while others treat it like it is a big deal and rarely get laid.

Do most girls fuck because they are horny or simply to get validation/status, and feed their egos?

Do women think about sex constantly but suppress it in fear of being seen as slutty while others do not give a fuck about being viewed as slutty and fuck despite being labled as a whore.

Do they have it offered it to them so often that they pick and choose who and when they fuck or only fuck when they are really horny/drunk/desperate/heartbroken? 

Do girls fuck to chase status among their peer social circle or fuck who



I am curious as to what u guys think about this, if there are any females on the forum please give input on this.

I have a younger sister who I am pretty close with and protective of, and she just came home last weekend from college. I barely saw her all weekend and found out the main reason she came home was so she could fuck a dude who lives up the street. I know for a fact that my sister barely knows this dude and hasnt seen him in years, she messaged him on facebook. apparently this dude has some type of status; he just got back from studying abroad in europe and has a cool facebook page and has female friends. I asked my sister about it and she said he's really nice. It made me realize that I really dont understand women at all and even tho I have known my sister my whole life I still truly do not feel like I fully know or understand her because she is a women and I do not understand how women at all. 
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NotSoAverageJoe

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 Bitches be crazy brah
Every girls is different
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MastahDeft

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They cant see shit when they be on doggystylo.

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Thorzen

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 Guys or girls don't view sex in any way, their biology just wants to have sex, doens't matter what woman it is, she might be resisting it or suppressing it, but she wants sex. Whether you want sex or not has nothing to do with your personality, it's involuntary, it's biology, nature. It has nothing to do with identity or personality. 
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Zer0.Point

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I think the more important question is, how do women view men? Which also, when boiled down is another way to resort to stereotypes. No stereotype has helped me in the game as much as remaining present and engaged in the moment. Everything else is irrelevant. If you're not awake to what's going on, the question is, where's your mind at and why?

My best pickups have been full spontaneous and non premeditated. I can't hang out with a bunch of value suckers that treat every night out as a "mission" or as "something that has to get done." So instead of wondering how women view sex, engage with the moment itself and roll with it. =)
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Thorzen

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Zer0.Point wrote:
My best pickups have been full spontaneous and non premeditated. I can't hang out with a bunch of value suckers that treat every night out as a "mission" or as "something that has to get done." So instead of wondering how women view sex, engage with the moment itself and roll with it. =)
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bigjew629

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Guys or girls don't view sex in any way, their biology just wants to have sex, doens't matter what woman it is, she might be resisting it or suppressing it, but she wants sex. Whether you want sex or not has nothing to do with your personality, it's involuntary, it's biology, nature. It has nothing to do with identity or personality.
True enough. But do not forget also that were are also unconsiously wired to avoid pain and survive. Which means if anyone, man or woman, sees sex as painful they will do whatever they can to avoid it at all costs. I have been struggling with this for years, there are many women who also struggle with it as well.

Simply put women view sex the same way that guys view it. If it gives em lots of pleasure, they will like it. If it gives them pain they will avoid it. Only difference is that (usually) its the woman who gives the consent, and they use that to their advantage. Thus we have women who use men and don't have sex with em and so on and so forth. Another reason why women aren't as straightforward about sex until they can fully trust a guy and give em consent is cuz which one gets preggo after sex? Its the woman so they need to know that the guy they are having sex with is good enough to carry on their genes and whatever. Women also get bored way easier than guys to cuz they pretty much all have attention deficit disorder so they play hard to get and stuff to avoid boredom.
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Well I've fucked around 200 girls and my best guess from what I can infer is that their internal dialogue regarding sex is basically something like this:

"DUURRRR! ME WANT COCK! DURR!"
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The Driver

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Girls are sexually receptive. guys are sexually aggressive.
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Thorzen

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The Driver wrote:
Girls are sexually receptive. guys are sexually aggressive.
nailed. With the occasional exception when a girl pulls you home. 
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