THE FORUMS
I don't really consider myself in a "rut in terms of game" but if you want to look at it just in terms of game/girls, I did like 11 in 2012 thru end of Miami Bootcamp (so like 2 months). Then 1 since (almost 4 months).
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
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RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Hey man, appreciate the thought out response.
I feel like I'm in a rut for a few reasons. Firstly because the QUALITY of girls I've been getting is "poor" as compared to my norm. Both in the looks and personality department. Right now I've been semi-quasi seeing this girl (but still hooking up with other girls) for a few months now since about late Feb, and while shes for the most part nice, shes not my ideal personality wise and shes just your average normal "cute" girl, nothing special (though she's multi-orgasmic + squirts so maybe that's why I've kept her around this long compounded with the fact every other girl I've hooked up with has been a nutbag or toxic in some way...)
I also have had a lot of "drama" situations, more specifically negative nonsense and "bullshit" from girls - you're in the field, I'm sure you know what I mean when I say BULLSHIT. Moreso than usual.
I've also had my "archenemy" although more of an acquantance swoop on 2 genuine hotties (think petite, super hot, the both of them, both seriously my type) I was seriously going after which were def. into me is annoying, hurts less when it's a random guy versus a guy you know...
I've been LJBF'd like a handful of times recently.
And just not having things so solid, lots of flakes, not a lot of success on followup as I used to have.
I think it's either bad luck or I've just been off. I have periods or even nights where things click, and then nights and periods (even right after a good night) where it's shit.
I tried my hand at day game seriously, and had really poor results - which was NOT what I was expecting.
I feel like I'm in a rut for a few reasons. Firstly because the QUALITY of girls I've been getting is "poor" as compared to my norm. Both in the looks and personality department. Right now I've been semi-quasi seeing this girl (but still hooking up with other girls) for a few months now since about late Feb, and while shes for the most part nice, shes not my ideal personality wise and shes just your average normal "cute" girl, nothing special (though she's multi-orgasmic + squirts so maybe that's why I've kept her around this long compounded with the fact every other girl I've hooked up with has been a nutbag or toxic in some way...)
I also have had a lot of "drama" situations, more specifically negative nonsense and "bullshit" from girls - you're in the field, I'm sure you know what I mean when I say BULLSHIT. Moreso than usual.
I've also had my "archenemy" although more of an acquantance swoop on 2 genuine hotties (think petite, super hot, the both of them, both seriously my type) I was seriously going after which were def. into me is annoying, hurts less when it's a random guy versus a guy you know...
I've been LJBF'd like a handful of times recently.
And just not having things so solid, lots of flakes, not a lot of success on followup as I used to have.
I think it's either bad luck or I've just been off. I have periods or even nights where things click, and then nights and periods (even right after a good night) where it's shit.
I tried my hand at day game seriously, and had really poor results - which was NOT what I was expecting.
I don't really consider myself in a "rut in terms of game" but if you want to look at it just in terms of game/girls, I did like 11 in 2012 thru end of Miami Bootcamp (so like 2 months). Then 1 since (almost 4 months).
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
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Read my review of Get Laid or Die Trying
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
Hrm, well, clearly its only us who have experienced ruts. (Or maybe its just the "after success" part lol.)
Honestly not going out much lately, but yes I can still understand what you mean by BULLSHIT.
What it sounds like to me is that having hit some good successes you started trying out some new things rather than hanging out in your comfort zone of "success." Which to me is a good thing.
Like the "trying daygame" -- what's the big deal that your results didn't work out so well?
To answer my question, I think the "big deal" is that you had some image of reality in your head (that you are the ultimate pimp in all situations) which because it was somewhat false gave you some confidence or swagger or sense of entitlement, and then you discovered your view of reality was not quite as true, and since you're "needing that reality" you hence feel not so good or confident and so forth.
Ironically, I'm maybe not talking about you, but instead about myself.
BTW yeah my last girlfriend was a squrter. That shit is addictive in a fucked up way. Made me overlook how fuckin crazy she was heh.
But yeah it sounds like you're just messin around with new stuff in your game. Heck, when I stop acting like a phaggot *puffs out chest* I plan to more have chick friends, e.g. GET LJBF'ed (or more likely LJBF the girls heh) cuz that is, in the long run, more valuable than just another night of bangin. Of course, at the point at which you have a lot of female friends, who knows if you can turn into the guy who bangs the different female friends when appropriate. (Something for me to go n figure out.)
Honestly not going out much lately, but yes I can still understand what you mean by BULLSHIT.
What it sounds like to me is that having hit some good successes you started trying out some new things rather than hanging out in your comfort zone of "success." Which to me is a good thing.
Like the "trying daygame" -- what's the big deal that your results didn't work out so well?
To answer my question, I think the "big deal" is that you had some image of reality in your head (that you are the ultimate pimp in all situations) which because it was somewhat false gave you some confidence or swagger or sense of entitlement, and then you discovered your view of reality was not quite as true, and since you're "needing that reality" you hence feel not so good or confident and so forth.
Ironically, I'm maybe not talking about you, but instead about myself.
BTW yeah my last girlfriend was a squrter. That shit is addictive in a fucked up way. Made me overlook how fuckin crazy she was heh.
But yeah it sounds like you're just messin around with new stuff in your game. Heck, when I stop acting like a phaggot *puffs out chest* I plan to more have chick friends, e.g. GET LJBF'ed (or more likely LJBF the girls heh) cuz that is, in the long run, more valuable than just another night of bangin. Of course, at the point at which you have a lot of female friends, who knows if you can turn into the guy who bangs the different female friends when appropriate. (Something for me to go n figure out.)
Hey man, appreciate the thought out response.
I feel like I'm in a rut for a few reasons. Firstly because the QUALITY of girls I've been getting is "poor" as compared to my norm. Both in the looks and personality department. Right now I've been semi-quasi seeing this girl (but still hooking up with other girls) for a few months now since about late Feb, and while shes for the most part nice, shes not my ideal personality wise and shes just your average normal "cute" girl, nothing special (though she's multi-orgasmic + squirts so maybe that's why I've kept her around this long compounded with the fact every other girl I've hooked up with has been a nutbag or toxic in some way...)
I also have had a lot of "drama" situations, more specifically negative nonsense and "bullshit" from girls - you're in the field, I'm sure you know what I mean when I say BULLSHIT. Moreso than usual.
I've also had my "archenemy" although more of an acquantance swoop on 2 genuine hotties (think petite, super hot, the both of them, both seriously my type) I was seriously going after which were def. into me is annoying, hurts less when it's a random guy versus a guy you know...
I've been LJBF'd like a handful of times recently.
And just not having things so solid, lots of flakes, not a lot of success on followup as I used to have.
I think it's either bad luck or I've just been off. I have periods or even nights where things click, and then nights and periods (even right after a good night) where it's shit.
I tried my hand at day game seriously, and had really poor results - which was NOT what I was expecting.
I feel like I'm in a rut for a few reasons. Firstly because the QUALITY of girls I've been getting is "poor" as compared to my norm. Both in the looks and personality department. Right now I've been semi-quasi seeing this girl (but still hooking up with other girls) for a few months now since about late Feb, and while shes for the most part nice, shes not my ideal personality wise and shes just your average normal "cute" girl, nothing special (though she's multi-orgasmic + squirts so maybe that's why I've kept her around this long compounded with the fact every other girl I've hooked up with has been a nutbag or toxic in some way...)
I also have had a lot of "drama" situations, more specifically negative nonsense and "bullshit" from girls - you're in the field, I'm sure you know what I mean when I say BULLSHIT. Moreso than usual.
I've also had my "archenemy" although more of an acquantance swoop on 2 genuine hotties (think petite, super hot, the both of them, both seriously my type) I was seriously going after which were def. into me is annoying, hurts less when it's a random guy versus a guy you know...
I've been LJBF'd like a handful of times recently.
And just not having things so solid, lots of flakes, not a lot of success on followup as I used to have.
I think it's either bad luck or I've just been off. I have periods or even nights where things click, and then nights and periods (even right after a good night) where it's shit.
I tried my hand at day game seriously, and had really poor results - which was NOT what I was expecting.
I don't really consider myself in a "rut in terms of game" but if you want to look at it just in terms of game/girls, I did like 11 in 2012 thru end of Miami Bootcamp (so like 2 months). Then 1 since (almost 4 months).
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
Its more of a "life rut" I would say. I can "run the program" if I want to and "hit the zone" if I want to go out a few days in a row, but I basically just feel like I have a ton of mental noise going on. I'm still "doing stuff" but it just feels like I'm trying to listen to something more in the foreground yet I have a billion people yapping in the background, 24/7.
But now I fully see...that if I have situations where I'm "thrown off" because of "bat shit crazy hood rats" or "psychotic geenies" or whatever the fuck, its that *I myself* and not solid/centered/certain/clearheaded. Like I fully see that "outside of *this*" where *this* is just *my current experience of life/reality* girls is no issue. Its kind of troubling being "so uncertain" for "so damn long" but that's where I seem to be at, right now.
Why are you asking this? Why do you think you are in "a rut" or whatever?
__________________
RSD Misinterpreted: A Series of Posts on Popular RSD Ideas and How I Used to Misunderstand Them
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
Coming to you every Sunday...
►Part I -- What Tyler means by "Drop the Self-Image Paradigm"
►Part II -- [What Do You Want to Hear About On a Coming Sunday?]
"dat bomb poontang"
lol I'm using that
lol I'm using that
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Hey gsaad, in your next video, can you give me a "looking into camera" shout out? You can either call me "alien ant farm" or "bojack" I'd prefer the second one. Hopefully tie it into "dat bomb poontang". But yeah, bojack would be awesome. PS, did you smash that girl in the glutes and boobs video?
"dat bomb poontang"
lol I'm using that
lol I'm using that
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Read my review of Get Laid or Die Trying
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
Got in a year long relationship and got out. Been all kinds of fucked up now. Haven't felt entitled for months been in close calls with cute girls and haven't closed the deal. Sometimes I'm like wtf what's wrong with me thought I was over this years ago.
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Seattle Bootcamp Alumni June 14-16 2012 Tyler / Jeffy
Im in kinda of a rut.I was in a relationship for like four months.It seems for some reason it kinda fucked with my confidence or something.Ever since then it seems i have trouble even getting a meet up when i get a phone number and the quality of girls has def gone done.I got one fuck buddy right now and she is def nothing to write home about.Honestly i think im about to cut her off cause i feel i should be aiming higher.
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14 months
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plz give details abercrombie.
14 months
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Read my review of Get Laid or Die Trying
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."
I challenge anyone on here to find a longer rut. I've been running a dry spell for five and a half years. Wish I had the motivation to break the spell but after getting flaked out by so many chicks it just made me give up for a while. Now I really don't care if I have sex ever again but out of sheer curiosity I still get out there. I simply don't want it enough.
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I got mad knowledge of self. -Us3
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
Even though they all say that they're real I know that most aren't. -Eminem
Lament not your vanquished fantasy; its only destiny. -Bad Religion
People are either objects, tolerable objects, or subjects depending on how they treat you.
Stop trying to impress chicks. Stop trying to impress guys. Impress yourself for a change.
Be Greedy, not Needy.
Make it a win for both you and her.
I, Hardcase: Advice and analysis for anyone who considers themself a Hardcase Newbie:
Part 1 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/291325/forum
Part 2 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/292242/forum
Part 3 = http://www.rsdnation.com/node/293113/forum
alienantfarm
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Join Date: 01/21/2011 | Posts: 1353
My games been off for like 6 months...even though in that time I've slept with about 10~ girls, they've just been "meh", 7's, and an ugo or two and a lot of BS drama nonsense. Whereas during Summer & Fall 2011 I was racking it up with HOTTIES, cherishing cool girls in the night. Now it's like, these hoodrats be all over the fuckin' place and I'm the guy who gets to fuck these perfectly psychotic geenies. Though a few had some nice phat asses which is good and all and dat bomb poontang. But still, they be fuckin' bat shit crazy yo.
My personal philosophy: You need to step to every single girl like a fucking bomb. You need to have presence. You need to stand out, and not in a surface level way such as what you're wearing, but as who you are and the way in which you communicate. You need to be unforgettable. You need to create a sense of urgency, that you are now or never. You need to push and at the same time be completely willing to walk away. It is essential to disidentify with the ego, otherwise the inherent rejection associated with pickup will destroy you.
"You need to let them know what kind of man you are, so they know what kind of woman to be."
"Fear is always a constant, but accepting it...makes you stronger."
"Once you done slayed 20-30 of them hoodrats, now you ready to go up to the upper echelon type ho."
"I've got no game. And every face looks the same. They've got no name. So I don't need game to play. I just say whatever I want to whoever I want. Whenever I want, wherever I want, however I want."