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Examples bro
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Me: Hi Alyse!!!
Her: Hey
Me.: life is great: hope your good too.
Her: how you doing:
me: "I have to tell you something"
Her: What:?
me: Feel like I can open open with you.
Her: you can
Me: Feel like I we have this connection, Like I ve never experienced before
Her: really? like how?
Me: maybe I shouldn’t t be this honest
Her: no its ok, like it
Her: gave you my number because I noticed something about you that I liked plus you re tall.
the exchange goes on, one girl wanted to meet her in on weds eve. if you have any questions about the drama follow Julian's advice in the video. I m was little worried about comming off like a needy pussy, too invested or committed but I look at it like this, if I do appear too committed and it doesn’t t take then what have I lost??.
Conversely, if the drama "connection fantasy pushes the right switches in the girl I ve realized an accomplishment with a girl that I like and will take it from there.
Her: Hey
Me.: life is great: hope your good too.
Her: how you doing:
me: "I have to tell you something"
Her: What:?
me: Feel like I can open open with you.
Her: you can
Me: Feel like I we have this connection, Like I ve never experienced before
Her: really? like how?
Me: maybe I shouldn’t t be this honest
Her: no its ok, like it
Her: gave you my number because I noticed something about you that I liked plus you re tall.
the exchange goes on, one girl wanted to meet her in on weds eve. if you have any questions about the drama follow Julian's advice in the video. I m was little worried about comming off like a needy pussy, too invested or committed but I look at it like this, if I do appear too committed and it doesn’t t take then what have I lost??.
Conversely, if the drama "connection fantasy pushes the right switches in the girl I ve realized an accomplishment with a girl that I like and will take it from there.
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I think this over active concern with "appearing needy" often fucks guys up. Yes it's good to be aware of this when you are a complete newb slash pussy, to eliminate those tendencies within yourself, but after that, concern with "appearing" this way or that way to the girl is counterproductive as you are now trying to micromanage her perception of you... and we all know by now how well THAT works, don't we.
So you are on the right track. Who gives a fuck if it might "appear needy" we're talking about an interaction that was already essentially dead so you've got nothin to lose and everything to gain.
So you are on the right track. Who gives a fuck if it might "appear needy" we're talking about an interaction that was already essentially dead so you've got nothin to lose and everything to gain.
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Awesome stuff, post more examples if you can. I have some flakes that I want to use this on lol Definitely gotta watch that Julien vid too.
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"First you have to give up, first you have to *know*... not fear... *know*... that someday you're gonna die."- Tyler Durden(Fight Club)
Hit me up by PM if you want to game in NYC. Don't care about your skill level just need the balls to approach and have a good time. Always looking for new people to game with.
Hit me up by PM if you want to game in NYC. Don't care about your skill level just need the balls to approach and have a good time. Always looking for new people to game with.
I think this over active concern with "appearing needy" often fucks guys up. Yes it's good to be aware of this when you are a complete newb slash pussy, to eliminate those tendencies within yourself, but after that, concern with "appearing" this way or that way to the girl is counterproductive as you are now trying to micromanage her perception of you... and we all know by now how well THAT works, don't we.
So you are on the right track. Who gives a fuck if it might "appear needy" we're talking about an interaction that was already essentially dead so you've got nothin to lose and everything to gain.
Highest value post by jlaix of all time. Of all time. So you are on the right track. Who gives a fuck if it might "appear needy" we're talking about an interaction that was already essentially dead so you've got nothin to lose and everything to gain.
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"Those who dare to fail miserably can achieve greatly." -John F. Kennedy
"My intention a bullet, my body a trigger finger."
Most of them just look like silly retards having a fun time -- which strangely, is ultimately what girls are attracted to.
Tyler
"Those who dare to fail miserably can achieve greatly." -John F. Kennedy
"My intention a bullet, my body a trigger finger."
Most of them just look like silly retards having a fun time -- which strangely, is ultimately what girls are attracted to.
Tyler
High value thread overall, imo.
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Havnt done this stuff on text but Im getting really dramatic in interactions launching into old school roleplay stuff but really dramatic. Tonight I just launched into this 10 hottest girl in the party, guys drooling all over her and she was blowing out every guy left and right.
I was straight in with "how could you cheat on me you fucking bitch, I gave you everything you were nothing before me, I found you in that trailer park sucking off hobos for a meal and I gave you a life!! kids, money, a fucking swimming pool even your coke ass friends..etc etc"
some people might think this is a bit extreme for most people as an opener but its tame by my current standards...I had fucked about an hour before so I was in total dont give a shit mode anyway, bringing the drama fucking rocks!!!!
The only thing I think about when Im out is.
1. I am the shit
2. Shove my drama coke up her nose
I was straight in with "how could you cheat on me you fucking bitch, I gave you everything you were nothing before me, I found you in that trailer park sucking off hobos for a meal and I gave you a life!! kids, money, a fucking swimming pool even your coke ass friends..etc etc"
some people might think this is a bit extreme for most people as an opener but its tame by my current standards...I had fucked about an hour before so I was in total dont give a shit mode anyway, bringing the drama fucking rocks!!!!
The only thing I think about when Im out is.
1. I am the shit
2. Shove my drama coke up her nose
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"Woman begins by resisting a man's advances and ends by blocking his retreat." - Oscar Wilde
I'm sure everyone is tired of me saying the same shit all over and spamming the forums with it, but if you are authentically needy, then it will work. If you are not authentic, you're off in your head trying to fake some kind of attitude or personality, which just turns people off from you, they can feel you're disconnected, dead inside. If neediness is where you're at, that's what you use, that's what you are.
It might not have been the feeling you would have picked for yourself, but if that's what you feel, that's what you feel.
And guess what happens when you are total in your neediness, and express it? It disappears, just like any other emotion that you don't try to fight. Neediness accepted becomes having a crush + being independent on outcome. Which is a very good (and romantic) place to be.
It might not have been the feeling you would have picked for yourself, but if that's what you feel, that's what you feel.
And guess what happens when you are total in your neediness, and express it? It disappears, just like any other emotion that you don't try to fight. Neediness accepted becomes having a crush + being independent on outcome. Which is a very good (and romantic) place to be.
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Authenticity / Congruency is attraction.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
Value does not exist. There is no such thing as high or low status behavior.
LOL, I did not even see that part.
I liked plus you re tall.
looks matter i think thats the lesson to be learned here. /thread__________________
I'm sure everyone is tired of me saying the same shit all over and spamming the forums with it, but if you are authentically needy, then it will work.
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Brucefast
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Thanks Julian.
Bruce