THE FORUMS
Escalating a Relationship
Sit down with her and ask her were does she see the realtionship going. You go first and explain your emotions to her. Dont talk from a needy background as in: If im not with you my life is over type of deal. From experience I told my GF along the lines: There is a conection between us that I havent had with a girl before, I want to discover how deep this connection is so I want you to be my GF. I would rather spend time with you than wondering what would had happen if I had actually told you how I felt. This is were I stand right now, if you agree then be preperaed to be in the most amazing experience of your life. If you say no, I respect your decision and in my heart I told how i felt andnow that I know your answer I can move with my life know.
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The Journey
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Tell her honestly about how you feel and think, and invite her to tell you her feelings and thoughts too, because you care. If she is not ready yet, you might want to give her the time or space that she needs, so that it would not become counterproductive. Sometimes we need to be patient :) Good luck!
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Thanks guys, we ended up breaking up, but it was definitely for the best.
Oh, I was about to give an advice. That sucks, man. But I guess you've seen it coming. Now, this is the great part of a relationship that ended, Strip Clubs. :D
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Strip Clubs. :D
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Thanks guys, we ended up breaking up, but it was definitely for the best.
All the best in future James! __________________
James!
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Join Date: 05/09/2008 | Posts: 350
I want to move the relationship forward, and become more committed but I can feel her pulling away as I try and take things further.
Is there a way to move things forward without falling into the female role?